To The Christians, Muslims And All WC Readers

Hi Aunty and fellow WC members, hope we all enjoyed the Democracy Day? I made a few observations and please I will like us to all correct
our mistakes and move on. The use of insulting words and  profane language is really becoming too much on the blog. I won't want to call names or accuse anyone so I will try to be as diplomatic as I can be. 

Colossians 4:6 says "let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt so that you may know how to answer everyone."  Please before you insult anyone, no matter how angry you get, even if a word was said against you, ask yourself must I insult this person to state my point? 

Many times we can easily look away without replying or we can type our comments without insulting anyone, so why then do we take delight in insulting people? Psalm 19:14 says May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight oh lord. Remember that we will give account of every idle word that we utter. Matthew 5:22 says....."anyone who says you fool will be in danger of the fire of hell". Many times we have used words that are worse than a fool on ourselves, even to the extent of insulting generations and parents. Please let us all decide to 
Make this blog a peace loving place, remember a well chosen word can speak volumes and touch lives.

Morning ma, please I will like you to add the following Islamic verses for the purpose of the Muslims on the blog: "and when the foolish address them( with bad words) they reply back with salamaa ( peaceful words of gentleness) (Qur'an 25: 63) If they pass by some vain speech or play they pass by with dignity( Qur'an25:72) And be moderate in your pace and lower your voice indeed the most disagreeable of sounds is the voice of a donkey...( Qur'an 31:19). 

The believer does not curse( al tirmidhi) the believer does not defame abuse disparage nor vilify( al tirmidhi, sahih) Men  accustomed to cursing will not be intercessors or witnesses on the day of resurrection (Muslim) Him that did not safeguard his tongue did not understand his religion ( al Hasan (Ra))
Thank You All.
Deborah Bala


  1. *sigh* We have gone down this road several times. Nice post Deborah. I hope our hearts will open and we'll learn....

    1. Anonymous5/30/2013

      Don't mind debora with all her peace talk,so we will accept sister back as if nothing happened ahdaisy u of all people should know its not fair

  2. Really nice of you to want to ensure peace reigns. but that's almost impossible. this is a blog where different people with different upbringing,backgrounds,opinions,way of life etc come to. u cnt expect sanity here. i'm not saying what those people do is right. but we should jst understand that there are good people in this world and there are bad people. and this is a public blog,u cant stop them from visiting. Whenever they open their mouths to blab, the few reasonables ones here should learn to ignore. not ignoring unreasonable people is the reason why this has escalated. they have come to stay, learn to act like they arent here. Peace!

  3. Anonymous5/30/2013

    Thanks 4d1s and a big hug 2u.I posted on dis blog 4d first tym_I NEED ADVICE AND HELP ON MAY FIRST,2013,all bcos i was carried away with the positive and matured comments from all and sundry,but I don't like the way some people are now commenting negatively on the blog.Whether the stories here are true or false,I still learn one thing or the other to the extent that am now addicted to it.please,lets return to the gud old tyms and i pray God will continue to uphold Eya and her family IJN-AMEN!!!!!!!! he who has ear,let him hear! SHIKENA

  4. Anonymous5/30/2013

    Y are u sighing Ahdaisy aka Mrs jideonwo pls let reign abeg that is how it starts pls sister aka una mama and other anon pls let's embrace pls thanks

    1. Mrs Anonymous Anonymousity, you are claiming you want peace, yet u cudnt help but attack me. As the name I use here did not do you, you want to add others. Oya add my house address join. Rubbish!

      I am sure you are mistaking 'sighing' for 'sucking of teeth(mscheeuw)'. Go and research what it means to 'sigh' then come back and explain to me how my 'sigh' in itself can start trouble. Abeg dnt annoy me dis lovely evening... I just can't catch a break with u guys...

    2. Anonymous5/30/2013

      Ada pls let's chase sister away from this long as she is I won't be happy or ve u forgotten d things she said about u

    3. Anonymous5/30/2013

      @ahda no mind am jor sister don cool down she wan scatter blog again but oo who is this foolish anon wey no go happy if sister no comot for blog abi u know d sister

    4. gloexcel5/30/2013

      Hmmmmm wonders shall never end! Anywayz i fink u guyz shuld slow down on ur hyperactive temper. Y would sister or whoever leave d blog wen u r nt d originator of ds blog? Anywayz i fink no matured mind will fink dat since ther is wat we kw as freedom of speech. Let tak it easy. Plz no insult attached

    5. Anonymous5/30/2013

      Na wa for u o, Ahdaisy, must u reply every perceived attacker or hater, if this anonymous anonymousity decides to reply u now, everything will blow out of proportion again, why can't u just read and ignore? That's surely a sign of maturity. Hmmm,Its well o.- dessy

  5. sister5/30/2013

    Blessed are d peace makers for they inherit d kingdom of God

  6. Anonymous5/30/2013

    U this useless sister so know God eh I won't forgive u so will other blog readers

    1. Cyndrella5/30/2013

      I believe strongly that all this pre-matures using abusive words are other blog owners probably envious of eya.

      They are only using this sacastical words to chase away people from coming to use this blog,since thay are frustrated that pple seldomly check on there blog.

      but we should all forgive them.

      @ Deborah pointing out those vases in the holy books will not change such pple since it is a delibrate act.

      It is better we observe the Law of silence.

  7. God bless you Deborah and may you experience peace in every aspect of your life. God bless you sister for that comment!


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