Should I Tell My Mother?

Aunty Eya,hope u r good? I am personally affected by this issue o. There is this lady my dad dated last year, I managed to know about it but I couldn't confront her or my dad because I was scared, I couldn't tell my mum too because she is hypertensive instead I spoke to God about it. 

When my dad was transfered from
that state to another,they had a misunderstanding and since then this lady has been doing everything within her power to get back with my dad. There was dis other woman he wanted to marry some years back but didn't succeed,d woman has now been transfered to the same state with this desperate lady and she is going diabolical because she doesn't want the woman to ever talk to my dad,because she wants him to marry her at all cost.

 I honestly don't know why ladies of nowadays are desperate. Aunty Eya and every married woman on this blog pls shine your eye well o, this lady even knows my mum and you need to see how nice she is to my mum,that nice lady might be looking for your husband's heart o.

I blame my dad too for being promiscuous.I dnt knw what he wants again after 5 children and yes there is a boy.Pls my fellow bloggers I don't know what to do again o because have really prayed about this issue.thanks. Please, I need Advice.

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  1. Anonymous5/16/2013

    Please don't tell your mother. She cannot change him, so what's d point?

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    1. Anonymous5/16/2013

      Thank you, I don't subscribe to telling her sick mother.

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  2. Why won't she tell her mother? She's not telling her mother so she can change the husband but it will help her know what she has to deal with, especially now that we know that there's a diabolic and desperate woman involved (look this is not a case of a woman just sleeping with him for money). Tell your mum for all it's worth. My dad was cheating on my mum and we (children) found out and told my mother. My mum is still married to my dad but she has evaluated her life and she took a decisive step to grow her business and become a more powerful and prayerful woman. Because, finally, she woke up from her slumber and denial. Tell me, if you were in her shoes, wouldn't want to know?

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  3. Anonymous5/16/2013

    Pls tell ur mum cos she needs 2 know for her own good. My husband used 2 cheat on me wit a lady dat was so nice 2 me & even buys things 4 my kids. When i found out, i was mad. What if she had poisoned my kids or harmed me. She actually wanted my husband 2 send me & d kids away so she could move in. I was very relaxed b4 but ever since i found out, my prayer mode has been activated. God is really punishing her 4 me now & wit divine protection from above, even she goes diabolical it will surely backfire. No married woman shld feel relaxed. Their r lots of desperate young women out there who can go 2 any length 2 break ur home. Pls let ur mum know.

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    1. Anonymous5/16/2013

      Yours is a different case madam, her mom is hypertensive.

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  4. Anonymous5/16/2013

    Please don't leave yout mother in ignorance, BUT you said she is hypertensive. Maybe letting things be the way they are is the best for her health.

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    1. Anonymous5/16/2013

      Ace, you are such a yeye boy eh?

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  6. Anonymous5/16/2013

    Pls I suggest you tell your mum in a calm and calculative manner, she may get more hyper if you allow circumstances tell her, cos right now you don't even know the evil altar her name has been sent to.God will see ur family thru, just be strong and pray seriously for ur dad, avoid d temptation to hate him at ds time.

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  7. You don't know what to do any more bcos even u, were not sincere in yr prayers. The time u wud have spent for quality and answered prayer, you were using it to make enquiries about other women's intentions, now u ar exhausted and confused. Daniel and Joseph changed a nation not multitude, if u ar a Christian you shud be able to make changes as well. The issue of telling yr moda is solely yr business and decision, bcos if she is hypertensive, i don't know wat to tell u. They ar saying now tell her, tell her. You ar d one involved. They ar not going to be wit u after telling yr moda. And i want to believe dat u must have spent close to 3 yrs investigating dis women, 3 yrs is enough to make continued, fervent, ernest and heartfelt prayers and God wud av shown Himself strong on yr behalf and make yr fada never to be attractive to dem now and 4ever. But u chose to do things yr way

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  8. Anonymous5/16/2013

    If u tell your mother and she collapses, how would you feel?

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  9. Anonymous5/16/2013

    Better tell your mum. A woman with 5 kids is stronger than you think.
    What if the woman jazzes her up or makes ur dad throw ur mum out?
    Tell your mum in a cool calculative way.
    She needs to know. The first rule of war is know thy enemy and this is war.
    Pls tell her, wat if she finds out u knew all along? She wld be hurt.

    Karen

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  10. Anonymous5/16/2013

    Better tell your mum. A woman with 5 kids is stronger than you think.
    What if the woman jazzes her up or makes ur dad throw ur mum out?
    Tell your mum in a cool calculative way.
    She needs to know. The first rule of war is know thy enemy and this is war.
    Pls tell her, wat if she finds out u knew all along? She wld be hurt.

    Karen

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  11. BEKEES5/16/2013

    Is better you tell her,but before telling her pray and ask God to go ahead of you in order for her to take d news.U said d evil woman is ur mother's friend abi?that means ur mum is free with her,what if she pioson ur mum?or attack her hmmm be wise cos if ur mum finds out later that u are aware of everything she will hate u for life.Years back I chase my father's girl friend will koboko and after running more faster than Morris Green ........the rest nah story for another day.

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  12. kendra5/16/2013

    I think you should tell your mom but you have to be cautious when u are doing it.. tell her in a very calm way so that her bp doesnt rise... she needs to know what is going on.. What if the one who is diabolical does something against her? cos whateva that one does now will affect her since her guards are down.... she needs to know her enemies please so she can eat with them with a very long spoon

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  13. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Don't tell your mum. But you need to have heart to heart talk with your father. If he is Osama nin laden, he is still your father. Let him know you are aware of the kurukere runzzz but decided not to tell your mum. Let him know the matter will be top secret if your dad decide to stop. That can be your starting point

    Good Luck.

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