Should I Continue?

I don't know where to start from. Am in a relationship with this great guy for 18months and am in my early 20s and final year.I started dating this guy because I was lonely and needed someone around although I later tried to love him and he love me so much but I found out he wasn't
what I wanted. 

Firstly he has mouth odor, he doesn't dress to my taste, he is not tush @ all, he get angry easily,too playful,always tell me things he has done for me like gifts and money and when I try to fight him for his mistakes he will say God will judge me. 

He paid some of my bills when things were tight for me. The worst part is i met his mom last year and she doesn't really like me and since then his sisters don't even chat with me on bbm or call me again. 

His mom told him that we are not compatible that she went to check although I don't believe such but presently they think we are not dating again but he kept saying it's him I want to marry not his mom. 

He rarely tells his mom things about him..he got a car and land and others things but he kept it secret from his family and am always the one begging him to call his mom and sisters. He doesn't av tight relationship with his family and I think that's why he feels he can marry me even if they don't consent. 
Am a yoruba girl and I know the effect of in-laws in marriage. This january I dated another guy and it didn't work out. my question now should I break up with this guy? I just need your candid advice because this guy kept telling me he loves me.
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  1. Sorry if I sound rude... But I feel you are asking a very rhetorical question. Or what do you want to hear?

    I mean, come on! Seriously? You shud have been done with this guy 20 years ago!

    Ladies pls stop wasting your time. I dnt support Kim K, but when she realized Kris wasnt for her, she was done. 72 days and it was over. I dnt support divorce but I said that to say that we women, while dating shud know when to Z snap their fingers at a guy and point to the left!

    1. ​This must be just about the only time Kim K's 'bad issue' has been used to drive home a 'good point'. Kim will be really proud. ​

      Poster, I hope you got the point?

    2. Lol@ Jay, so true!

  2. Anonymous5/17/2013

    *claps 2ce.....mtweeeee next biko

  3. Anonymous5/17/2013

    These kind of posts r starting 2 do my head in..
    Billie jean

    1. Loooolz Billie I know u've tried,but u can still do more,just keep holding it back dear,plz don't loose it.
      Good girl.hehehehehehe

      ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  4. Anonymous5/17/2013

    When u dey chop the money, you no know say him mouth dey smell abi?

  5. Johnson5/17/2013

    What are you doing with a man that you do not adore? U are trying to ‘love’ him - His mum did not need to check with everyone to know this…
    Go get yourself someone that u would adore and can be subject to willingly.

  6. sexyeyes5/17/2013

    tuch him up my dear. for the mouth odor you can advice him to brush 2ce and also chew gum often,use mouth wash etc.

  7. Anonymous5/17/2013

    @Sexyeyes... na wa o! so it's only the mouth odor issue you saw?

  8. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Hmmmm U are a big ole la, keep choose ok. Time is on ur side

  9. @Ahdaisy: please leave Kim K out of this, u shouild know by now that most of the things on reality shows are staged (many things made for the sake of entertainment are staged). Just stick to the koko of the matter (ur words of advice)

    1. Anonymous5/20/2013

      so where z ur own advice??**confused face** u can do better Mrs....

  10. Anonymous5/19/2013

    My dear you can't tush anybody oh! Whatever he is now, he'll become worse after marriage oh... I'm a victim of this o, be wise o while u still have ur head intact, or u will loose in no time, and be miserable. A man that will worth all the marital troubles is better oo. Go for a man you adour oh

  11. My dear fogerrit. DON'T MANAGE ANY MAN, HE'S EITHER IT OR NOT.forget the money and feelings of appreciation and move on.

  12. My dear fogerrit. DON'T MANAGE ANY MAN, HE'S EITHER IT OR NOT.forget the money and feelings of appreciation and move on.


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