It Will Only Take The Grace Of God For Him Not To Cheat On Me, Help

Hello anty Eya,
 Pls don't publish my email address cos I want to remain anonymous, thank you
This is my story, I met my fiancée years ago and we

are planning our marriage already which will be taken place by November this year, me and my fiancee are very compatible we are both extrovert, 

we love each other deeply but there is one little difference between us and that is in the area of &@#, my fiancee is a *#@ addict he love it a lot and not just ordinary but wildaction, but am not a #@& type of person but I still do try my best  but and also a shy person also, we both decided we are going to work on this but this do give me sleepless nights cos I think it will only take the grace of God for him not to cheat on me after our marriage, at this stage am so confuse and don't know what to do, pls I need advice from people here. Thank you so much anty Eya.
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  1. Anonymous5/08/2013

    Dear poster, since you already know he will cheat, why r u here asking for advice again? Na wa o

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  2. Dear poster,

    You just have to gear up, search google for counter-wildaction libido enhancer!

    Have you asked ur self why you don't like it as much as ur hubby to be, cos there are loads of women who love it more than ur hubby. I hate to assume that ur hubby doesn't take his time and the whole tin ends up painful to you.

    #FutureCheat, why not get to that river before you start to imagine if you'll jump or use a canoe? Like I always say, 95% of men (married or dating) cheat even the very godly ones.


    Plz, don't bother urself!

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    1. Anonymous5/08/2013

      my fiancee also likes it but i dont like it. I am always scared anytime he comes to my bed or touches me. i only tell him and allow him freely after my period.because i know i am free. i dont know if, how and when i can change.

      On the godly ones; they are the professionals.hehehehe. my boss can stand in as a Bishop cos we pray before we start work on a daily basis. but you wont believe he sleeps around. He can shake mountains as he pray but that thing?

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    2. Heheheheheheee!

      Sex can turn any man into a wolf, i dont want to bring back the David and Betsheba argument.

      My sister, give him your best ooo, a mans biggest problem after money is SEX!

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  3. Anonymous5/08/2013

    waz d problem gangan?

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  4. Anonymous5/08/2013

    Abeg what's the meaning of &@# , *@# , #@&?
    Why write something one can't comprehend and yet expect advice, I believe evry person commenting here is above 18, so y dis symbolic style of writing?
    Abeg poster make ursef clearer, not everybody understands this symbolic style of writing

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  5. To me, a man who will cheat, will cheat! Whether you can twist you body in ways only boneless creatures can, or you offer him more holes in your body than the average lady can, HE WILL STILL CHEAT.

    So my dear, what you should be concerned about is the kind of man you are marrying. Does he respect you? Does he have self control? Does he fear God?

    What is beginning to annoy me about most of these posts is that, you see women asking for solutions to problems so that their man doesnt get hurt...but men carry on as if they were forced into marriage. I guess all I am trying to say is we women are suffering. The role of wooing has been left to the woman. We have little or no room to do 'shakara' for the men cos we are the ones looking for ways to make them stay and keep them sane.... Too bad.

    To me, being a sex addict and not being into sex at all, are the same thing. They both need to be addressed. So poster, pls he also has to look for a way to curb his appetite too cos in a few years time, your libido might reduce even more due to age and childbirth and all. What happens then?

    Just pray and make sure you are doing the right thing.

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  6. Anonymous5/08/2013

    Na wa o.lol,pls u pple make an issue of every tiny lil thing.mayb bcos of d stories u read here,u avent entered marriage u re already 'knowing' ur man will cheat?wat advice do u now need pls?mind u ahdaisy me I doubt ders a cure 4 high libido,I seriously doubt it.except he's a nympho n has sex every min,whic I doubt.madam poster brace urself 2mit up 2d needs of ur man,no man is perfect.we women have 2learn 2how pick simple things we can compromise on.*phew* wild things were pple dey find 4dem marriage,lol!well pple re different sha

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    1. My dear, I did not mean cure o... Dat one no get cure. hehehe. But I believe that sex has a lot to do with one's mental state. Since it's a psychological issue, he can condition his body to not go out when he has the urge or even to suppress his desire when he sees that the wife is suffering from it.

      But as a wife, you have to up your game o...cos one year alone is enough to make everything become boring...

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  7. Anonymous5/08/2013

    Me dat I'm begging my hubby to be wild in bed, finger me, suck my boobs and sucking his dick which takes lots of convincing. I wish my man can b so wild cos ryt now its just enter, pound and finish. I hav talked and I'm tired of talking. If only we cud exchange men.

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    1. Hahahahaha.this woman won kill me ooo with her gist.

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  8. Anonymous5/08/2013

    My sister Abeg invest ur Energy n emotion in something productive Biko, like Ahdaisy sald if U like be a pornstar in ur bedroom a man that ll cheat is already making appointment with his next fuck, N u all won't belive this, in my kind of business we deal mainly on MALe stuff so I see n interact a lot with men married n single. it ll break ur heart that most married men around here cheat sad but true even d so cald responsible guys n dey don't see it as anitin cos d girls dey re sleeping with ll alwaz give it to them cos they need their money, just make sure u do ur own part don't just lie down n say u re not into it, try to meet him half way n d rest is up to him. Oyin

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  9. Anonymous5/08/2013

    Wt is d meanin of @#*. If u wnt to commmunicate, do it well. Mtcheew

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  10. Johnson5/08/2013

    @Poster ... follow your heart, even though the heart is not so smart!
    Men will generally want to show that they are super stars when it comes to love making... Tell your man say im don win - that will enhance his ego. But I tell you, love making is a woman's game! The real man is more interested on getting his wife to that point when she begins to speak in tongues. It is vain to work so long & so hard and the woman is not satisfied – that is zero work done!
    Like someone said, brace up to the challenge and I bet you, he will not be able to compete ‘cos s thing go drop. What goes up must come down: and when it is down, it takes plenty effort (time) to get it up. No man can compete with a willing woman; he will run out of steam faster than he thinks.
    That said, the more you give in before marriage, the more he losses respect (and desire) for you. Don't allow yourself to be used like 12/13 spanner before your November date!

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    1. Anonymous5/08/2013

      Taaaaah carry ur mouth n go.lol,whic yeye respect is he losing.btwn am a highly willing woman n my man mits up allllll d tym.4 almost 2yrs,we make luv every oda day n I cum every single time.d 2months he was away,I so cried.lol it was like punishment 4us,n NO,we aren't jobless.he's a banker,n I'm a very busy business woman.we jus happen 2av very high libidos,no1 satisfied me b4 I met him,d fact dat he satisfies me mkes him sooo happy.n no we aren't married,wedding is in november too!BITE ME,lol.mind u even with dis any1 dat wants 2cheat will still find his way around it.sad but true

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    2. Anonymous5/08/2013

      Rme... Which kain every day for 2 years. And u aint even married, and u r both busy so where and how do u do it everyday for 2 yrs. Orishirishi.

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    3. Anonymous5/08/2013

      Rme... Which kain every day for 2 years. And u aint even married, and u r both busy so where and how do u do it everyday for 2 yrs. Orishirishi.

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    4. Anonymous5/09/2013

      Every other day is different 4rm everyday!lol,our case is peculiar.I can't start explaining,all am telling d poster is dat dat ur man has high libido doesn't min he'll cheat.esp if he gets all he's wanting in u.n den again,sum men are so wicked dat even if u give it2him like pornstar if e wan look out e go look.

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  11. Anonymous5/08/2013

    Na wa for you o! In ur courtship has he cheated? I dunno. but You should be thinking of ways to increase your libido so when u get married u n only u will satisfy him. Haba! Women take an interest in football cos dier husbands like football. What's stopping you from becoming more interested in sex? Hian! Abegi, go do some research on sex positions n ways to spice things up on the marriage bed jare.

    By the way,pls ladies try to keep yourselves till you get married. Our Lord does not support fornication.

    Wishing you a happy married life.

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    1. Anonymous5/09/2013

      Thank u anonymous @10.01. Well said

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