It Is Possible To Love Two Women At The Same Time?

Hello Eya,
I am a male reader of your blog who just found the blog and am so addicted. I can't leave comments, don't know if it's because I browse with a phone.

There was a topic you posted where someone wanted to know if it's possible for a man to love two women at the same time. My answer is yes It's possible! I am
a man. There was a point in my life before I got married when it became almost impossible for me to make up my mind cos I had two babes who actually didn't know and never met each other. I had suffered heartbreaks in the past and wanted to safeguard my heart. My dating two wasn't for any but to help me too. I also wanted to compare kind of before taking a final decision. You can judge me if you like.

At a point, I fell in love with both. It wasn't a case of liking one for something and wanting the other for her good cooking skills or anything. It was a matter of the heart. I fell deeply in love with both women. Had feelings for those and couldn't bear to let any go. The story sure ended with one and I'm happily married.

I want to let you women know that as humans, we try as much as possible to be disciplined, God fearing and to abide by Societal norms. That is not to say it's impossible for a man to be in love with two women.
It is very possible. Take that from me.


Comments

  1. You said you had suffered some heartbreaks. Were the 2 ladies you were two timing responsible for your heartbreak?
    Why punish them for something someone else did to you?
    I've noticed that people make up all sorts of excuses for this but the point is you wanted to eat your cake and have it cause you knew that you couldn't lose. One go sha marry you and that's exactly what happened.
    Sorry but I still stand by what I said. You can't love more than one person at a time. Maybe what you feel for the other is some form of likeness, lust, attraction, desire etc. But love? Love as in a commited relationship kind of love for 2 people? I beg to differ

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    1. candid diva5/24/2013

      Thanks mrs B. That's why you see so many sick marriages ds days. Pple don't even understand d meaning of words they carelessly throw around. Love indeed!smh

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    2. BEKEES5/24/2013

      If you claim to love both women,you would hve married them both.So like Mrs B said,you can only love one person and the other will be jst lust/infatuation

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    3. BEKEES5/24/2013

      If you claim to love both women,you would hve married them both.So like Mrs B said,you can only love one person and the other will be jst lust/infatuation

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  2. Anonymous5/24/2013

    OMG....,u just broke my heart a little..*sob*. I hope that isn't my case.

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  3. Nna forgetu that thinu! *in an Nna bros voice* hapu ife ahu! It is notu possible.

    Why did you end up marrying one? If you were that head over hills in love with the two, by now, you wud have still be doing 'torobom torobom'. This is because the thought of leaving one for the other wudav killed you. It wud av been impossible for you to bear walking down the aisle with one and leaving the other. The thought of another man taking the other would have literally made you sick emotionally and physically. That is love!

    The fact that you chose one means, you did not love them both equally...in fact, you did not love any of them...cos if you even really loved one, you wudnt have double dated, PERIOD!

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    1. Anonymous5/24/2013

      Thanks Ada for this response. You are really wise.

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    2. Exactly what I wanted to say Ahdaisy but was constrained by poor network.looolz.
      If I may add to me,falling in love with two women at the same time is selfishness,which comes as a result of insecurity. Doubt if the love for any of them is with sincerety of purpose.

      ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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    3. Anonymous5/24/2013

      U bonario is just too jobless.... Must you be on every blog... Lawd#

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    4. Anonymous5/24/2013

      You,What were u doin in every blog??

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  4. Anonymous5/24/2013

    What happened to the other lady you didn't marry? You left her heart broken abi.
    Sad much.....just hope she didn't strip to curse u in the middle of the night.

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    1. Anonymous5/24/2013

      No, she left me.
      Poster.

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    2. Buhahaha. So you married the one you were stuck with eh?

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  5. I won't be surprised if you end up having and keeping an illicit affair with the second lady. Is this not one of the reasons why you people justify your cheating?

    "I love her too just as much as I love my wife, so therefore, I can't just bear to let her go and be with another man just like that and I also think about her feelings too. I'm just trying to make it up to her". Blah blah blah.

    Then you keep chatting with her and calling her and she keeps calling you too and come to think of it, are you sure you are not that poster's hubby? The one that said her hubby has a close friend he says "I love you to"? Because I'm sure you'll still be telling her that. And that other yeye thing you people say "You'll always hold a portion of my heart even though my wife has one part". Story that touches. O yare!

    Poster, fear God oh! Stop justifying what you did. Like MrsB said, those women weren't responsible for your heartbreak. So, you now decided to break another lady's heart so as to safeguard yours?
    O yare!

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  6. Anonymous5/24/2013

    Dont get it twisted. U were attracted 2 both of them & u married d one u were more attracted 2. I wont be surprised if u tell us 2morrow u r in love wit ur wife & one other chick u just met.
    Yucee.

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  7. @Poster & others who can't leave comment(s) on blogs... Blogger widgets impedes. Normal phone browser. If you notice (for those who use blackberry browser) your pages disappear most times.

    Here's a solution!

    Download the "Opera Mini for blackberry" browser it's the best browser that supports blogger. It's free and works with your BIS.

    For iPhone users you can find the Opera Moni for IPhone in the apple app store, it's also a freeware.

    For andriod user it's also free in the google andriod store.
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    1. Sorry for typos, my iPhone dey do auto-madness

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    2. Good one Ace. I've never used my phone browser successfully, thank God for Opera mini. It's really ogwonnoria(healer of all) for all phones, plus I open up to 10 different pages same time as tho am using a tablet or laptop.

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    3. Anonymous5/24/2013

      Wat of Nokia and sagem users.looolz

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  8. Ahdaisy pls I .need to speak with u. I sent my email to Eya. Thanks. Peace


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    1. Hi Peace, I didn't receive your mail. Please resend

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  9. Cyndrella5/24/2013

    madam eya i will not be suprised that peace sent u a mail and u did not respond.because i sent u a mail on my birthday to inform the whole house which u ignored with the airtime i attached as my token of love.

    you denied my people of the benefit.

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    1. Sorry Cyndrella, I never saw that mail. Try and send again cos of the airtime.
      We can still send our belated birthday wishes. But come, Cyndrella are you serious or joking?

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  10. Eya good day. Network has bn shitty. I couldn't send anoda mail. Will keep trying.
    Meanwhile thanks for this good work: this forum: this parlor: this blog.

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  11. Yes, what about we Sagem users? I mean that fat, handfull and volumptous sagem, the sexy segem with figure 8?

    @Poster: I tell u for free, that u didn't love either of the women. U are were just greedy and insatiable period!if ure keeping more than one woman just know that there is a possiboility that u were not the only man either of these women were keeping. As u were playing Mini Manny Mini More with them that's how they were playing Tombo Tombo with u. U feel say na only u dey cunning abi? Look, the man I pity is the one who underestimates women. Those of us who stay true is because of God and his words o!, not because we don't know what to o!

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  12. Nife, i support u one million per.
    Na bcos of God and His word. No b say dem get sense pass us.

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  13. Anonymous5/27/2013

    Abi oooo@ nife

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