Is It Ungodly To Use A Toy?

Hello Eya and fellow blog addicts and readers,
My wife and I read the story of the woman whose husband caught using a toy.

 I then suggested to her that we include toy play in our marriage but
she vehemently refused that it's Unodly and dirty. I would have loved to but since wifey sees it as a sin, I'd like to know what other readers feel about the use of toys by a married couple. Please help post it on your blog. I need their advice. 
Thank you all.
Jones.

Comments

  1. Anonymous5/20/2013

    No body wan talk? Abi una dey fear. haaaaa, I don see post wey pass Wc Commentators.Today na today!!!

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  2. Anonymous5/20/2013

    Its a Monday morning darling ....some people need to work ...don't you?

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  3. Anonymous5/20/2013

    This one pass waec question

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  4. E pass NECO Question sef

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  5. For me, this one pass Cambridge question.

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  6. Anonymous5/20/2013

    This one pass School of Theology Question.

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  7. Anonymous5/20/2013

    Nothing wrong with toys. Its mostly used by married ppl. Wen a man travels 4 months, his wife wud need company. Its better dan cheating. That's wat I know.

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    1. You say that's what you know. The question says is is UNGODLY??

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    2. Anonymous5/20/2013

      Anonymous 11:36 did u say is better than cheating?a married person who uses toy is a cheat and is also a SIN.

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    3. Anonymous5/20/2013

      @Anon 11:52, why didn't you answer the question directly? You were waiting for someone to say something so that you attack abi? Na wa for una o!
      Anyway Jones, I think it's ungodly to use toy to stimulate oneself sexually. It's like masturbation, God hates those vices. Be in control of your emotions in the absence of your spouse, because toy will not give you that complete satisfaction and you may be tempted to achieve it from any one around, even your own daughter or sibling. This is one of the reasons you find teenagers sleeping with their relatives after reading sexual magazines like hints.
      Me

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    4. Anonymous5/20/2013

      u talk well dear.

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    5. Anonymous5/20/2013

      well i dnt see it as anything bad.trying new things in your relationship isn't a bad idea it's actually fun

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    6. Anonymous5/20/2013

      What if ur hubby has erectile dysfunction like mine? Av been suffering fo 5months nw what m I supposed to do in this situation and I have a high libido

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    7. Anonymous5/20/2013

      Mr jones,
      Dere's nuffin wrong wit it if U use it on ur wifey
      Bt her using it on her self?
      D@ would be masturbation
      Nd its a sin.......

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    8. Anonymous5/20/2013

      Nigerian pple n holy holy if na money now una go use pen steal am, clean mouth come lie on top, Dat one no be sin abi? Nothing is wrong with it I ve being using it with my hubby tay tay n we don't feel any bit guity about it. Some of u preachers fit no even reach heaven gate not to talk of entering. Mr jones teach ur wife if she is receptible na she go enjoy am at the end of the day.

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  8. Amanda5/20/2013

    This one pass JAMB Exam Question.

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  9. TRUE-VINE5/20/2013

    Mr Jones is a Sin!Hooaha!U want to include toy play in ur marriage abi?can't u perform well?what is ur reason for asking ur wife to use a toy?U wan imitate white pple.#smh#

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    1. 1. Computer and internet wey you dey use no be white people you imi tate abi?
      2. School wey you dey go no be white people you imitate abi?
      3. Tea wey you dey drink for morning no be white people you imitate abi?
      4. Car wey you dey ride plus airplane no be white people you imitate abi?issorait.

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    2. Anonymous5/20/2013

      Abi o. Help me tell am.

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  10. The question Is for the married... Not for ppl like us!

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  11. Anonymous5/20/2013

    This one pass TOEFL Exam question oooo.

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  12. You people! Haba nao! Wetin be all these " this one pass jamb, pass toefl...?"

    I'm sorry but I've got no comment to drop. Can two "work" together except they agree?

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  13. Anonymous5/20/2013

    Post ume question. I no fit shout. But i think is not a sin wen used by married couples especially wen one is away. My fiance is getting one for me after marriage before leaving for the states cos he resides abroad and am here becos of work(although we r making everything possible to be after abt 6months cos if e no be panadol,e no go fit be like panadol). Lol

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    1. Anonymous5/20/2013

      If he's getting you one, what will he be using when he gets there. Hmmmm. Think about it. This is why self control may be the answer for you guys.

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    2. Anonymous5/20/2013

      Don't worry dia is a sex toy for men too. So he can use dat wen he's away too. Sex toys re not only designed for women. Datzall

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  14. Baby Oku5/20/2013

    As for me, If will bring fun and excitement to your marriage, and both parties agree, then go ahead. It's better and safer than cheating. Please WC let's be honest in our answers biko.
    *can't wait to get married so I can try crazy sexy things with my future hubby*

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  16. It is UNGODLY o... It is simply called MASTURBATION...and I can not categorically say where in the Bible masturbation is encouraged, rather Apostle Paul said "let every man have a wife".

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  17. Anonymous5/20/2013

    U guys are wicked oo. I'm sure this man refreshes every other minute to read better comments but always disappointed each time. Oga poster, i neva marry o, i no too know verses to quote from d bible to support any answer too. So I'd leave d answer for our chaplain o.

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  18. In the event that a man suddenly becomes too ill to perform or loses the ability to, shouldn't he at least use a toy on his craving wife?

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    1. Anonymous5/20/2013

      Man shall not leave by bread alone(sex).lol

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  19. Oh! *still passing*

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  20. Anonymous5/20/2013

    Jones, I think its a grey area for most pple.
    Some pple feel contraception, fellatio are sins. D list is endless.
    I feel in marriage it is permissible to spice thing's up once in a while. After all some of us play gd music to get us in d mood so why not a sex toy.
    I feel its wrong wen it becomes an addiction.
    If u really want it soooo bad u can lovenly ask her to try it for u just once nd c how it is.
    Its safer and better than a man or woman going outside to seek sexual gratification cos u think ur spouse is boring.

    To me there is nothing wrong if u use d toy together.

    Karen

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  21. To me, it's ungodly when you use it without your husband. I dunno sha. I still dnt know the use. If a man and his wife use it together, then MAYBE it's acceptable cos it's still a sexual act between husband and wife. But when one spouse is not around, that's masturbation.

    But like I always say, if you are born again and your mind tells you it's wrong, then pls stay away.

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  22. Der r a wide range of sexual toys. Not jst dildos. Wen a man n his wife use dem 4 der mutual pleasure, den ders nufin wrong wit dt...

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  23. Anonymous5/20/2013

    In as much as they are married couples, anything done behind closed door, sexually, there's no sin in it.
    EIS

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  24. Whatever couples decide to use for their sexual pleasure cannot (should not) be sin. Someone said masturbation is sin – I agree 100%. The difference here is that while Masturbation is the sexual stimulation of one's own genitals, usually to the point of orgasm; a toy could be used, in agreement, by the couple. If you, however, decide to use the toy alone – dat one na SIN. But sha, make toy no replace the real thing!
    Wo(men) have introduced various external components to the act of sex – for e.g. jelly, honey, some people dey slice tomatoes put sef!
    @Poster, if your wifey is not agreeing with it, then it should not be done. However, I do not see any issues using it as a couple. For some persons, anything wey pass the conventional mama & papa style na sin...

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  25. Mummy Amanda5/20/2013

    Personally,its ungodly cos its also an act of masturbation,weather hub is there or not.
    I v neva seen one buh wl lv to,out of curiosity.
    My hub have neva satisfied me(i hv neva reached orgasm al my lyf)buh dt wl b d reason y i sld go fr a toy.
    Lyk some1 said,man shal not live by bread alone.so long he is satisfied,am okay

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    1. Mummy Amanda5/20/2013

      *Dt wl not b reason*

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    2. Anonymous5/20/2013

      My sister u are not alone,am not married,but no man I have been with has ever satisfied me sexually,I thought there was something wrong with me until I read on the internet,I only cum through masturbation,I really wish it can all end n I will have that satisfaction.

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    3. Anonymous5/20/2013

      @ anonymous 9:13 try me and u will never be d same again lol...

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    4. Anonymous5/21/2013

      @anonymous 9:13 let's meet,find a way.

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  26. Anonymous5/20/2013

    @BJ u r very funny. Conventional mama n papa style indeed. How u take know wetin mama n papa dey do? Sex toys are not new inventions they've been around for generations (abi na una generation write karma sutra?) I don't see it as a sin (the marriage bed is undefiled). Different people have diff things dat work for them.

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  27. Anonymous5/20/2013

    Hehehe question time.... Me I have my own quest. A man can only orgasm if he rapes.... So he marries and d only way he can achieve orgasm is by enacting a rape scene with his wife (with her consent). Is it a sin?

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    1. Nope Its nt a sin.

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    2. Anonymous5/20/2013

      That man must have serious deep seated issues maybe he was a rapist before or still is.
      Its not normal.
      The man shld pls see a shrink b4 he rapes someone cls to u.
      Sme pple use rape scenes for role play but thats once In a while.

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  28. I dunno if its a sin but I believe if used as a married couple to spice up their sex life then its fine. For people that think 'why does a woman need a sex toy When she has a man' don't 4get that there are lots of different sex toys out there and not just a dildo. It can b a handcuff, whip, leather dress up, feathers,rubber vag,....d list in endless.
    Poster if ur wife does not not feel comfy with d idea then let sleeping dogs be. If u really want to give it a try then have another 'talk' with her to perhaps try it once and see how it goes. (U might not even like it as its not every1's cuppa tea)

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  29. Anonymous5/20/2013

    Can someone please let us know what part of d bible says dat masturbation is a sin. Even pastor Chris has said it is not a sin! It is d thought dat accompanies it dat is a sin. For example, if u r married & masturbating with d thoughts of another man/woman.

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  30. Anonymous5/20/2013

    Can someone please let us know what part of d bible says dat masturbation is a sin. Even pastor Chris has said it is not a sin! It is d thought dat accompanies it dat is a sin. For example, if u r married & masturbating with d thoughts of another man/woman.

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  31. Anonymous5/20/2013

    Adhaisy and ivy brown's comments are the most realistic and most honest. Not every toy is a dildo by the way. Your hubby can still do his thing. Toys are used for foreplay.

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  32. Hia! What has yoghurt recipe got to do with this question. Nawah o

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  33. Anonymous5/21/2013

    Dis one hard o!

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  34. Anonymous5/22/2013

    I don't see it as a sin,wen I was courtin my hubby,he bought one for me as a present,last year July bfr our wedding we went to an adult shop@Jburg n he bought sexy lingerie,nurse costume n toys 4me .we don't use it all d time,but its fun 2use it once inawhyl

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