I Need Advice Please: I Have Some Kind Of Feelings

Good Morning Madam,
Hope u are doing great today.

I have a problem that I would love to publish on your blog because I want to see if people have the same problems with me and I would love advice from your readers.


I am a lady and I think I 'love'

women as well. I am 25yrs and  I have never had anything to do with a woman but I keep fantasizing about making love to a woman and how wonderful it will feel.

 I only watch lesbian porn as that is the only thing that turns me on in porn but I have a fiance whom I love and we always make love and I love it, but I can't help fantasizing about other women. Though I don't have the courage to do anything about it.

 I would really love to make love to a woman before I marry so I can get it off my mind.
I want to know if other girls have this kind of fantasies or not and if this feelings will eventually pass away....
WC's I know U can like to insult me, but I don't care. Genuine advices and opinions are needed here pls.
Thanks Eya.
I trust U will publish this story without giving any detail about me.

Comments

  1. Its not normal O! Cos I'm a woman n I've neva tot of makin luv 2 a woman. Pray against it.

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  2. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Ungodly feeling. Don't try it if you believe in God

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  3. Evil invention and intention.

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  4. Anonymous5/17/2013

    very soon eya you will take this post down too and start whining and complaining about stuff,you kno such related post has caused some kata kata and ur still carrying and posting it then you would now come and say youre not an hypocrite ..you could have just politely told this poster you would be declining this mail but you still went ahead and posted it..mtsheww..

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  5. I dey come pour you cele water. Pls erase such thoughts," uru adighi na isi azu"( no gain in the head of a fish)

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  6. I dey come pour you cele water. Pls erase such thoughts," uru adighi na isi azu"( no gain in the head of a fish)

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    1. Creamberry5/17/2013

      isi azu is my best part abeg. especially the eyes.lol

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  7. teerex5/17/2013

    Hello poster, my candid advice is to go on a 3 day fast and pray intensively as well. Also, desist from watching porn. Whether lesbian or heterosexual porn, it's all the same. What u continually watch will invade your thoughts and also u would dream about it. It's wrong, forget what the world trend is. Nnkan ti o da, o da (what is wrong is wrong) . I went to a single sex school and the practice was common but everyone knew it was wrong. Please desist from even doing it. May God reveal the truth to you and preserve you. Remain blessed

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  8. Anonymous5/17/2013

    May d lord help u,watch ur back for storm

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  9. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Liberation is causing so much problem these days. The fact that you feel like doing something does not mean you should take steps to actualise it. You don't go about stealing or killing people just because you feel like it. You put those thoughts away as soon as they come and don't go about reading books or watching films that would further enhance your thoughts on these things. Lesbianism is sin, before God and before human culture or norm. Do not partake in such, destroy those films, destroy those thoughts too, Haba! Anything done in secret is bad oh, don't engage in such act. It is immoral, just like fornication, stealing, killing, adultery.

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  10. Poster5/17/2013

    Ok..Thanks

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    1. Anonymous5/17/2013

      you are welcome. do you understand! hope you understand! i need u to understand it is WRONG. DESIST FROM WATCHING PORN and get ur act together. It is wrong and am telling u this bcos i Love u as a fellow person and dont want u to go destructive paths.

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  11. Anonymous5/17/2013

    I also ve same feelings, I managed to tell my ex bf about it and he was disgusted. Then I entered a new relatnshp, a year ltr I told him how I usually fantasize having sex wit a female. Surprisingly he understood me perfectly well he helped me overcome it. I rememba a day I tried 2 finally enjoy d pleasure of making luv 2 my friend back in d university, I told him abt my intent and he treatened to xpose me 2 my other friends. Ever since I've tried 2 stop. My sista u re not alone, I've worked thru dat stage and sumtimes still find myself in d stage.

    Mine is even worse dat during my service year and if I'm ovulating my body shakes weneva I see a my fellow girl naked. I'll start imagining nasty things. My dear let me not bore u wit details. It happens but how u handle d tots matters.

    I'll advice u tell ur fiance abt it & see how he feels abt lesbiansim. U might start by lying 2 him dat a friend of urs is in d situation and see his reaction.

    Finally, lesbianism is addictive, ones u re in, u re in. Trust me

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  12. Anonymous5/17/2013

    And wen ppl like dissappointed reader come here 2 bash u Eya, you will cry foul. Hope you don't end up deleting this post soon Eya wen the heat rises. You have posted a lesbian story again and let's hope you can stand d heat. Eya you shudnt post every single email sent to you. You r free 2 choose and post d ones you seem fit.

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  13. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Sister Eya... seems you engaged some persons to do these postings for you without giving them specific guidelines?
    The past few weeks have made you thought of moderating comments cos of issues like this and with your own hand you decided to post this - but why?
    @Poster - you'll need to go for deliverance. Try MFM. God created Adam & Eve - not Adam & Steve. This feeling is devilish and not to be desired. Can you justify someone feeling like having s*x with an animal?

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  14. Anonymous5/17/2013

    My dear befor I got married I had dis feelings for ladies,I had dis roomate dat normally touches my breast weneva she sees it open and each time she does so,I always get wet and wish she cud do more,I always wished I cud,kiss a lady passionately,romance her and make luv to a lady sumday,but neva had d courage to do it cos dere was sumtin inside of me always telling me not to indulge in such. I made up my mind one day,fasted and prayed about it bcos I knew it was a very bad thot. once u get involved it gets addicted to u. I kept prayin over it and d feelings died off. I also noticed dat wen I'm watchin a movie and 2ladies get to kiss I get turned on,I had to stop watchin such erotic movies. It takes d grace of God,determination and prayers to overcome it.cos its a very very bad spirit.

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  15. Like u said u fantasise -it's fantasy, not all fantasies or desires must me acted on, that's why self-control is key, so be strong and resist the urge, and u will overcome.
    Eya, thanks for posting this, its a real life struggle, several people are struggling with it and it has consumed several others. It needs some genuine guidance without being judgemental so please ignore those critisising you for posting it. They are the real HYPOCRITES!

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  16. Sister... You are as a result of what you think! The bible instructed... Guard your heart with all diligence, cos out of it flows the issues of life (Proverbs 4:23). You see, you haven't guarded your heart and ur mind have been infiltrated with unwholesome rubbish.

    1) Stop watching that evil lesbian porn cos that's ur no 1 problem.

    2) Stop thinking of the crazy act, as long as you do you will be trapped by this evil.

    By the way it ended, Your post was not intended to ask for help, it was intended to search for accomplice. I pray you don't find one.

    In my whole life, I've never seen 2 female cow's, she goats or 2 hens having sex together it's only humans that I've been infested by evil who try this.


    Nuff'Said...

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    1. Anonymous5/17/2013

      abi o

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    2. Anonymous5/17/2013

      Sister... U need to watch Nageo wild. Gay animals exist.

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    3. Anonymous5/17/2013

      Sister... U need to watch Nageo wild. Gay animals exist.

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    4. Anonymous5/17/2013

      Sister... U need to watch Nageo wild. Gay animals exist.

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  17. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Y are all of u talkin abt aunty eya postin dis? Is dis post meant to encourage d act? D poster in question needs help&advice and all I expect u to do is give her a positive advice by telling her to flee. Aunty eya has done notin wrong by posting dis,pls let's let her be its her blog.

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  18. Anonymous5/17/2013

    I understand your feelings. I'm married and still practicing d act althought I'm trying to stop. Pls discuss it wit ur man. But if u want to try it b4 u get married just 2 satisfy ur urge, I'll advice u not to try it if u don't wish to continue in d act.

    L&B is so much fun yet addictive.
    End it as just a fantasy.
    Believe me, u won't enjoy the touch of ur fiance wen u finally get married if u try it.

    PLEASE DONT DO IT. I'm trying to stop but I'm already addicted.

    Mrs. Kate

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  19. Jazmyn5/17/2013

    @POSTER, if there is anything to be learnt I think this few comments have said it. Aunty Eya, please take it down before bad people will come and stt trying to use this opportunity and advertise their evil acts. From the few comments here, she should know that it is not to be carried out.

    There are so many bad things we feel like doing becaue we are humans, but God has given us something called-self control. use it with prayers. God is our helper.

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  20. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Aunty Eya, u re just a confused woman

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  21. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Madam Eya. Iv noticed that some ppl on your blog believe they have d RIGHT to boss u abt.
    Telling u wat to post and wat not..
    I mean who does dat??
    Control ur blog proffessionally and ignore rants.
    Post wateva u want to post and move on wif it..
    Stop concentrating all ur energy and time on one post...
    Keep it moving honey...
    Y stop comments and den continue it...
    Eya if anyone is trying 2 bully u, kindly hola at Billie jean and ill fuck dem up..
    *rme*
    Billie jean

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    1. Ewo! Ur here we r in trouble! Lol

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    2. Anonymous5/17/2013

      Lmao. She's always been here.

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  22. Anonymous5/17/2013

    How can u say Aunty Eya is confused she is only trying 2help a confused gal who just need our advice.n she is free 2post aany write up.she is gradually saving a lot people.@d poster pls take ur mind of it

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  23. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Please no try am, you will become addicted. Tell your fiance about it.

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  24. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Eya u r having fun playing ten ten with our head, take your time o.. Ehen poster when u feel like drinking rat poison, go ahead eh

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  25. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Man do man, woman do woman is called Sodomy.

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  26. Aunty Eya abeg be 9c *rme*... No dey play dis kain rough play wit us jor...

    @Poster, na evil spirit dey do u so o. Resist d devil and it will flee from u *movement*

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  27. Anonymous5/17/2013

    Suit yourself

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  28. MissDee5/17/2013

    The day any woman will mistakenly or even accidentally touch my nipple or areola or full breast will be the day the whole wide world will hear I cut somebody's hand with a chain saw.

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    1. Anonymous5/17/2013

      GBAM, GBAMER, GBAMEST

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  29. These days when I see young people especially teenagers using the internet I automatically suspect they are watching porn.
    It's too rampant and all these bad feelings start from watching a woman kiss another woman. #Sigh

    Any woman who does that shouldn't shake my hand ever cos that's damn disgusting.

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    1. Anonymous5/17/2013

      Do you think they don't wash their hands?

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    2. Anonymous5/17/2013

      Anon ur so funny

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  30. I don't like to comment on blogs but can't hold this in.Just waiting for the day any girl will tell me that rubbish... she has feelings for another girl. Anyway, there will be no problem as that will be the end of that DOOMED relationship.

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    1. Dave when you shared your problem here, I don't recall any woman using harsh words on you and telling your fiancee to end the relationship. Instead they advised that she help you deal with it sef and people shared ways on how.

      I don't support LB, but now that it's a woman that is having issues and asking questions, you want to call down thunder and fire.
      Meanwhile, how are you? :)

      Poster, you see all those porn that you have downloaded and stored on your hard drive, google drive, mobiles, PC, booked marked links etc? Help yourself out and delete them all. It's not a normal thing.

      Resist the devil and he will flee. Seek the face of God, renew your mind, pray fervently, don't listen to the enemy, listen only to what God is saying and has said concerning it.

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  31. Poster5/17/2013

    Thank u all so much 4 d advises so far. I was actually expecting more bashing. And all those critisizing Anty Eya, U don't know how letting this out has helped me.
    Now,I just pray I can fight off this evil spirit. God help us all.

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  32. Anonymous5/17/2013

    I just feel for some people who don't have respect for their fellow humans,AUNTY Eya created this blog so she can help people wit issue and she is being insulted for that,am not saying she is Jesus Christ but trust me a lot of people will still kill Jesus if they see him physical by their side.

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  33. Anonymous5/17/2013

    physically *

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  34. Anonymous5/17/2013

    @Poster, just remember that one of the sins for which Sodom and Gomorrah in the bible was destroyed was tge sin of homosexuality, God destroyed them with brimstone and fire and said further in Jude 1:7 that he is setting the pple of that city forth as an example of those who would go through such punishment of eternal fire.

    Also about lesbians, homosexuals, the bible says in Romans 1:21
    -end :

    21For even though they knew God, they did not [a]honor Him as God or give thanks, but they became futile in their speculations, and their foolish heart was darkened.

    22Professing to be wise, they became fools,

    23and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and [a]crawling creatures.

    24Therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, so that their bodies would be dishonored among them.

    25For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.

    26For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural,

    27and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.

    28And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper,

    29being filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, evil; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malice; they are gossips,
    30slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, 31without understanding, untrustworthy, unloving, unmerciful; 32and although they know the ordinance of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, they not only do the same, but also give hearty approval to those who practice them.

    My dear, you need Jesus, lesbianism is a sin, an unnatural sin sef. God regards those who practice it as those who dishonor him. Exchange that spirit of immorality for the holy spirit and it shall be well with you. Remember, by strength shall no man prevail but you can do everything through Christ...
    V

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  35. Anonymous5/18/2013

    welcome Adhaisy bible scholar using anon after them don yab am finish..

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  36. Pornography is the source of all those bad feelings. Stop porn and the feelings will die naturally.

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