How To Chop Tomatoes By Rubynnia

How To Chop Tomatoes And Other Ingredients Into Tiny Bits For Easy Consumption

A plate of tomatoes chopped into tiny bits for easy consumption.

Hello Aunty Eya,

I've seen children and sometimes adults remove chopped tomatoes and onions in cooked foods, which are usually big and noticeable. Some say they can't


eat or don't like them.

We all know tomatoes and onions add flavour and aroma to our foods apart from the nutrients they supply our bodies.

I also don't like seeing either in foods esp when chopped big! I love it tiny such that I won't notice it while eating. The procedure:

Step 1: I wash my

tomatoes and onion(s), cut the top to remove the stalk point and other blemishes on the skin; same also for onion(s).

Step 2: I wash my chopping board and cutting knife.

Step 3: I cut tomato/onion into half; take 1 half and cut it into tiny slices. When I'm done, I carefully arrange the slices and cut them into tiny pieces.

Step 4: I check to see if there are some not properly cut and place the chopped tomatoes in a plate, ready for use.
Chopping fresh tomatoes
Chopping tomatoes with a sharp knife
Onion chopped into tiny bits for easy consumption
Well chopped tomatoes and onion
Enjoy cooking with well chopped tomatoes and onion.
TIP FOR CHOPPING ONION:
Chew gum while chopping onion or pretend like you are chewing gum and do the chewing with mouth open breathing in and out through the mouth, you'll  see the difference.
Thank me later!


Comments

  1. Thanks a lot Rubby. I'll surely try out the tip coz my eyes tear a lot each time I slice those red onions.

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  2. Anonymous6/01/2013

    I've tried the chewing gum tip, tried sticking my tongue out, even tried wearing sunglasses. (lol) while cutting onions. Nothing worked to reduce the effect. I still cry like somebody died. I've gotten used to it anyway. Thanks for the tip though, it might work for someone else.

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    1. Hi.Try soaking the peeled onion in salty water for a while prior to chopping it.

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    2. Anonymous6/01/2013

      Lol at sunglasses

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    3. Anonymous6/01/2013

      Lol at sunglasses

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    4. So lol(ing) at the sunglasses. Try the salty water tip by mj, coz I remember watching Style network tips and they advised sprinkling salt on the Onions while you dice(wonder why I forgot to try that).

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    5. Sprinkling salt on galic,that's for it not to stick to ur knife,b4 u slice ur onions,put it in the refrigerator for a min before u slice.

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  3. @Rubynnia, what can I say! I just feel like praising you but seem not to get the right words right now! I pray that your man respects and recognizes your capabilities.

    Thanks for this, I sure like my tomatoes like this not like those ones that look like meat inside your food.


    One love...

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    1. Lol @ "not like those ones that look like meat inside your
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      Ace, you got that right. I tend to remove "such meats" when I sight them in food at times. The ones I hate seeing are those parts of tomatoes with the stalk point/blemishes, gush!

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    2. @Ace lol@ "Meat" in your food I cant even stand seeing any stuff onions in my food if I cant blend it and cook from scratch then i just forget If I need onions I blend everything I just cannot stand seeing Onions in my food..

      @Rubynnia I see you channeling your Inner "Chefness" lol at the way your dicing them stuff good one..

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    3. @Rubynnia, you rock, @Shallie, I love seeing live onions in ma food ooo but what I don't like is when the size is confusing me! Lolz, you know what I mean.

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    4. @Ace lol@confusing I get what you mean jare..but for me dont wanna see nuffin thats why i hardly eat fried rice too..

      http://aomosale.blogspot.co.uk/

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  4. @Rubynnia, what can I say! I just feel like praising you but seem not to get the right words right now! I pray that your man respects and recognizes your capabilities.

    Thanks for this, I sure like my tomatoes like this not like those ones that look like meat inside your food.


    One love...

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  5. I'm always scared when chopping small pepper (Ata Rodo) cos my hands are very sensitive, but when I discovered a trick, which is "holding the small pepper down with a fork on my left hand and chop with a sharp knife on my right hand". The fork and knife do the cutting while my hands do the holding *winks*

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    1. Anonymous6/01/2013

      Seriously? U actually hold d pepper with ur bare hands? Every1 knows u shud use a fork. Na wa

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    2. Not everyone knows o... Me and my friends and my family members dnt. Thanks ebony. I like visible fresh pepper in my food. Although I usually use that plastic manual blender.

      @ Rubynnia, thanks. Tho I already dice my vegetables and fruits like this. It's actually fun for me. I pretend I am a professional chef. I dice onions, pepper, tomatoes, cucumber, carrots, potatoes, apples and so on... But that Onions ish, I tired everything but it doesnt work. Some onions dnt emit as much gas(is it gas?) As others. Those fresh big almost completely purple ones are mean!

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    3. Nice tip ebony. Thanks 4 d fork tin......wil try it. I hate fryin egg bcos of dis

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    4. @anonymous, I just thot I should let everyone know that ther's another method of chopping pepper and I'm so happy a whole Ahdiasy Jayde will thank me and try it out. *dancing* Uloma has to hear this *winks*

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    5. Hehehehe. Anon 7:03, I've known of the fork thing too, but I hold the pepper with my bare hands. It doesn't hurt my fingers. Dunno why.

      @Ahdaisy, you're so right! Those very purple onions are sooooooooo mean and evil. But salty water always does the trick.

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  6. Loolz Ruby I can't remember the last time I used the chopping board,hmmm as an African man I prefer to make use of my God-given chopping palm,love how the tomatoe feels in my palm like ehm ehm.
    Hmmm that chewing gum ish,I would prefer singing or humming Nzogbu Nzogbu Enyimba to myself,atleast my kinsmen will pardon me if they should find me in the kitchen.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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    1. Anonymous6/01/2013

      Bonario? U neva cease to wonder mi sha! Loll

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  7. Thanks guys but the tip isn't mine, it's Aunty Eyas. I gotta give honour to whom honour is due.

    Aunty Eya, thanks for this avenue to pass out cooking tips and "shortcuts".

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  8. Good tips Ruby.
    I use kitchen scissors to cut up fresh pepper to avoid burning fingers. From a young age I was the only one in family that was always called upon to dice or slice onion coz its never affected my eyes.

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  9. Anonymous6/01/2013

    Oga Bona, I bia wo? Wch one kinsmen? U never seize to make me laff!!

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  10. Bona!!!!, pls don't start,U got me laughing all to myself in a fully loaded bus,which one is nzogbu nzogbu enyimba, for inside kitchen, I'm seriously loving your sense of humour.

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  11. Lol at bona! Rubby nice tip, most times am rushing to cook and when chopping tomato I just do it in a haste as no time to start dicing them like u did. Will try and do dis once in a blue moon!

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  12. Anonymous6/01/2013

    BONARIO! U are good! You and Ahdaisy Jayde are some of the main Commenters that got me hooked to this Blog. I always laugh out Loud and hard at most of your comments. Really wish we were Friends, but we are far apart. We think alike too. You are a brother man. Much Love...

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    BONARIO! U are good! You and Ahdaisy Jayde are some of the main Commenters that got me hooked to this Blog. I always laugh out Loud and hard at most of your comments. Really wish we were Friends, but we are far apart. We think alike too. You are a brother man. Much Love...

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    BONARIO! U are good! You and Ahdaisy Jayde are some of the main Commenters that got me hooked to this Blog. I always laugh out Loud and hard at most of your comments. Really wish we were Friends, but we are far apart. We think alike too. You are a brother man. Much Love...

    VALENTINE.

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    BONARIO! U are good! You and Ahdaisy Jayde are some of the main Commenters that got me hooked to this Blog. I always laugh out Loud and hard at most of your comments. Really wish we were Friends, but we are far apart. We think alike too. You are a brother man. Much Love...

    VALENTINE.

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    1. Anonymous6/01/2013

      Hi Shallie, your blog is a gossip and entertainment blog like LIB, Stella, Ladun's.....the list is endless. i really dont know why i should keep going there when it's the same stories i see everywhere. nothing different to keep me hooked like aunty Eya's. perhaps, u should carve a nitch for urself, stand-out, be different then u'll actually be able to attract and keep ur followers. all da best in the blogging business....

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    2. Jeeeeez, do you have to insult? May God help you!

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    3. sister6/01/2013

      @shallie abeg forgive am her bf no drop chop moni b4 he commot from their face I face u shack 4 ajegunle.mabel pls forgive her for she knows not what she does btw me I hope u haff heard I ve repented so cool temper so make I no backslide ooooooo according to ace nuff'' said

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      @me take heart u hear ahda wait for me I dey ya back oooooo

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    7. Oh Shallie, don't let anything get to you. You recall how people used to insult Aunt Eya at LIB when she does exactly what you are doing now, but where is her blog now? And what is the 2nd most popular source of traffic? LIB.

      I have visited your blog and I was a bit impressed cos you posts certain news before the popular blogs do. Just follow your passion. You will get your own blog visitors. It doesn't have to be everyone on WC. All the best...

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    8. Shallie, Oya start wearing the thick skin now cos Eya is not the only one that needs it. I saw that useless comment calling your blog Asswipe and wanted to delete immediately but something told me to leave it and watch your reaction.

      I'm quite sure you read LIB so, I don't need to repeat all those insults. I was only interested in letting people know about my new blog. When people leave such comments, the best reaction should be to do more of what they are getting irritated about. Now I know how it affects you and will start deleting them. Sorry Shallie.

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    9. @ Shallie, normally, this is the point I wudav apologized to you but you see, when we look at things in retrospect, we tend to forget how cruel we mustav been. Now u make it sound like all you did to me was point out a fault and I reacted badly. Sweetheart, you were mean! I remember asking u if we had met before or if I had fought with you before. After that, I kept seeing you take sides with different attackers, even when other commenters wud say the person's words are uncalled for, you wud stand by the person and add more. I remember honey cos you were the only non-anonymous who did that. Isn't it funny?

      Na me you do and na me know. Just bcos I ignored you then doesnt mean I did not take note. One day, I decided to visit ur blog and get to know you a little better cos when I visited ur friend's blog, I regretted answering her since she is known to be a fighter and she kept creating numerous posts about me ( which was kinda flattering I might add..heheheh) On getting to ur blog, I saw where you were telling her to come here and see how people are 'calling her name'. If you did not want more fights, why did you do that?

      You then went on to tell her that you are happy someone exposed me to be a whore and adulterer. Meanwhile, every other person told the attacker (sister) that she was lying and being wicked.

      So you see dear, ur actions were not as innocent as you want to paint them now. You dnt kick a man when he is down and expect the man to forget..or remember differently like you are doing. I might have faulted in the way my comments were constructed since some of you insisted I was condescending but like I always said then, that has never been my intention. And I apologized severally for it. I even reduced my comments at some point cos it's like when I write so much people start finding the one tht will hurt them. But you my dear, you acted with a mob mentality. Find the witch, kill her and let her burn! Just bcos ur friend decided to make me her headache.

      Aunty Eya, I'm sorry if I am causing trouble. Pls forgive me o.I know you hate this kain thing but I just wanted to say this now. I was hurt by her actions before that's y I kept quiet, now that it doesn't hurt anymore, I can talk about it without insulting. Pls dnt delete my comment, let her defend herself if I am lying.

      Shallie dear, but dnt you have faith that ur blog will get hits? Pls do. Anything is possible. And dnt mind me o jare, like ur new bff, 'I am just having fun!'

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    10. Just to show you how much I remember, the first time you attacked me was when I told a single lady that she had a choice then but the moment she gets married, she has no choice. Bam! You came at me that you have been watching me and seeing how I try to make married women feel like their lives are over, that why shud I say that? that Sting really did this and dat and bla bla bla... Pls I want to also know, are you married? If not, when you get married, ur mentality wil change. It's not as easy as you think for a married woman to just pack up and leave her husband bcs he is a douche. Even if she does, 'married or divorced' is already on her relationship CV. Dats y singles have a lot of choice but once married, hmmm... Anyway, my point is, U did nt come at me as calmly as you claim. You did not disagree with me, you were against ME. It ws a full fledged attack like you had planned and ambushed me. That was why I kept asking if wee had fought before. I also suspect you for pasting the sting post here that she claimed she did not post.

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    13. I never said I can only advise married people, I said, I am better at it cos to me before marriage you have a choice not to put up with any rubbish. I have explained myself thoroughly over and over so lemme not go there. As for the dishing dirt statement, hope U knw that when you tell someone that dirt has been dished on another person, you invariably agree with the 'dirt'? Sister called herself, not me, a whore who sleeps with pastors. I am married so that spells adulterer to me.

      How do u expect me to react when someone responds to you and warns you not to reply? As who you be na? That was why I was ready for you. And since then you have supported every single attack against me. Even citing ur 'observations' #rme The posts are there but I cnt remember them.

      My dear, when you get married, follow ur dreams irrespective of ur husband's opinion and instructions. Dnt mind what he has to say. Do whatever you like.

      Anyway, let's just agree to disagree. No hard feeling, no offence taken....PEACE #I'm out!

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    15. Ahdaisy and Shallie plz make up. Forget d past and move on. U both hurt each other with things said and words used.
      Enough of this already. Biko, please, doooh, jor. All forgotten and forgiven now?

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      na wa oh! una no dey sleep!

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  17. Aunty Eya and everybody in the house, pardon me cos am off topic pls. I have a fish pond in ph and i have large qty of smoked cat fish for sale @ affordable prices. I need buyers plssssssss. Lots of love.

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    1. Don't worry Shade. I'm very sure PH peeps r seeing this comment. You will sell all.

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    2. One problem, though. No contact

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    3. One problem, though. No contact

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  18. Anonymous6/01/2013

    @me...must u insult.
    Cnt u see how d oda anon expressed him/her self in a lovely manner.

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  19. Shallie baby please forgive. It's all my fault for wanting to see your reaction. I should have deleted that as soon as I saw it. I'm not complaining, so you shouldn't bother. After all, me sef harrass LIB readers until some felt like hitting with sticks. Forget that comment. It could even be from the "Sibling" you welcomed to your blog thinking her comments are funny. PLs forgive us all.

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    1. Awwww Aunty Eya never mind not your fault any way Ma..Congratulations once again on our Blog Anniversary GOD bless you lots ma..

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  20. MissSawyerr6/02/2013

    Okay, so permit mi if I do not feel sorry for Shaile. I always read this blog and I have introduce more than 10 peeps to this blog. The first time I commented was yesterday, in which I adviced Celise looking for aa frnd in the US. Obviously someone pointed out she was not looking for any advice... And sister came with her own long story as too how na "over sabi" dey worry me. I was surprise to see Shallie, Rubynnia and LNC all cheered sister up, even claimin she's too muuch, that's the words of Shallie. So aunty Eya, tell me what's the diff with that situation and this? Oh becos Shallie always comments? So u deleted the comments of me. But u left the indirect comment of abuse, calling me oversabi? And Shallie, Ruby, and LNC all nodded in agreement? So I guess Its fair on ur own side for pple to nicely abuse/insult someone.. And others agreeing. Niwaz, that's all I have to say. Thank you.

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    1. Thank you my sister. I see someone who gets my point. I was shocked that sister, SISTER of all people was getting that kind of support. As in, she has said some of the most hateful, spiteful, wicked and insensitive things I have ever read on ANY blog... And I read blogs a lot so that says much. Not just to me but even to Aunty Eya and Bonario, people who everybody loves. Yet when she comes with her 'dry' jokes, people be laughing, saying she is having fun.

      Now some people want to get offended. Why can't you enjoy the food you serve to others...?

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    2. @Miss Sawyer you dont have to feel sorry for me ok nuffin to be sorry about them no dey collect Award for here there are times when other people have issues and she deletes some comments I was even still saying some days back that Aunty Eya should delete all hate comments on both sides so its not like she's taking sides with anyone so nuffn against you ok?...Sister said something funny,yes it was cos it was totally out of subject to what you posted I laughed and commented not to spite you in any way so please do not feel sorry for me I replied the person who commented already.. Not a big deal..

      @Adhaisy I still dont know what you on about really..

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    3. SISTER6/02/2013

      Ahdaisy,u are a troublemaker,u lack peace in ur life what is ur problem yes I was having fun on eya's blog bcos u made it dry with ur over righteous advice so I brought in something diffrent and people were laughing and feeling d blog buy u didn't like it cos u where no longer d center of attraction .ada I say this with love now u need something solid to occupy ur time with,u know debora,shallie,rubby,gladdenned heart,ace,mrs b they make me feel ashamed with their comments when I run amok as sister but u keep coming back even to d point of commenting as anon and I gave it to u not my proud moments anyway,even if I take a swipe @ Bonario he will abuse me ooo but check out his comment in d post he will talk about sister and una mama in a funny way but u on d other hand can hold on to things.what happened since between u and sting funny enough I didn't comment then cos I was ur greatest supporter funny huh?yea but sting unmasked u and then u did d greatest damage to ur self.d bibles teaches us patience.tolerance,turning ur cheek d other way and u 4 one like quoting d bible y then won't u do allthat is there in I might ve agreed to ve given peace a chance but if u drag sister into ur nonsense trust me u won't like it.Aunty Eya I know u don't like sister cos all this talk of shallie welcoming a new sibling into her fold lol where is it coming from cos I thought bygone was bygone abi na d grandma story still dey vex u

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    4. @ Shallie, I am not in any malicious zone with you. I promise you, it's over. To enforce that point, Shallie, I am sorry for whatever it is I have done to you. Even though you still believe you did nothing wrong, I forgive you. That's it. Have a lovely Sunday.

      @ As for you sister, even though I have forgiven you before, and I still do. No matter how you want to justify ur actions, it will never go down well with me. Even if the whole world begins to kiss you and lick ur feet, I will never do that. And mind you, I never reply you as anonymous, I dnt swear but that is the gospel truth. You know why? U no reach! Not in this world or the next will I go as anonymous to reply you or anything. You are not a factor. I mean, who are you and who are you about to be, that I'll fear you?

      U say I lack peace in my life. Lolz....you who often sounds like a lunatic. Seriously, I mean it. Not trying to insult you. Sometimes you go on and on and I wonder if you are ok psychologically. In fact, this ur sermon up there is the sanest I have seen you be and I am shocked you can even type like this even though it still has elements of ur abnormal self in it. So you know what the bible teaches? Are you now the accuser of the brethren who tests people only so that he can go and tell God how His people are not doing His Word? I can turn the other cheek for you but my point is, no matter how many cheeks are turned for you, what you are doing is terrible and inhumane! Blog or not, you dnt insult people like it's going out of season and expect me to hug you with open arms...

      You are the trouble maker cos after I first told you I forgive you, I just left you to God and ignored you, but whenever anonymouses attack you, you still go ahead to bring me into ur mess. So check urself first before u wreck urself!

      This is the last thing I will EVER say to you. I have given you enuff credit by typing this long speech cos ur type never change. Get over ur obsession with me and enjoy the rest of ur life Ahdaisy free.

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    5. Anonymous6/02/2013

      This sister haff crase finish oo lol.AHDA nwanyi oma allow her find Jesus on Eya's Blog I beg u .but this sister hai abeg.sister abeg u too much hehehe

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    6. Aaaaaaah, where have I been? All these went behind my back, oh no was busy making money while some being is calling my names..........mi o raye oooooooh.
      And yes I still find sisters write up funny and it's got nuffin to do with any body, even in my busy schedules I visit this blog with joy. So pls keep me out of this crap. Madam & Co

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    7. Aaaaaaah, where have I been? All these went behind my back, oh no was busy making money while some being is calling my names..........mi o raye oooooooh.
      And yes I still find sisters write up funny and it's got nuffin to do with any body, even in my busy schedules I visit this blog with joy. So pls keep me out of this crap. Madam & Co

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  21. MissSawyerr,
    I apologise if you felt slighted by the comment I made regarding sister's joke. I pictured the scenario (and not the commenter) she gave and it was funny to me.

    One thing I've come to realise in life is this: you can't expect everyone to like or agree with your thinking. Some will express nice words and others will utter insults and rude comments.

    When it comes to that I reply nicely, say thank you to the insults or simple ignore and move along. My spirit cannot dwell in the place of brouhaha, insults, severe arguments and strife. I love and cherish peace.

    Even if sister was to make offensive remark about me, I won't bother. The more we expend more energy on insults, the more we aggravate the issue.

    I apologise.

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    1. SISTER6/02/2013

      @Rubby u are an inspiration I ve followed ur comments on sdk blog u too much abeg.this ur reply eh GBAMEST

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  22. Ahdaisy I like you, but babes calm down for Jesus oh. If everyone is alwz saying dat ur comments r alwz attacking n self righteous or Itk, then there mst b an element of truth. Tink abt that. Just cos u r married doesn't give u d bragging rightz to know more abt marriage dan a single person. U do advice women dt have bn in marriage way b4 u, so calm down. I remember u n Shallie's argument. Babes, don't b advising people using ur own life. Maybe wealthy parents n hubby and u don't need to work. Then u tell people "Must u work", "u had a choice b4 u gt married but now u don't". The woman was worried 4 her future. Go d 4bid d man dies, wot will u advise her to do? Babes think wide oh? Dnt just sit in ur comfort zone n assume everybdy has it perfect lyk u. Dis na naija. Tinz dey happen. Widows r being victimised but u came across 2 her lyk she dey on her own. I wonder wot u will say wen her fears come tru. All our celebs are pursuing their dreams even in marriage. D main tin is to marry someone dat will help u chase urs, not tell u NO. I assume u pt dat in mind wen choosing ur husband if not y all d "u have no choice".. Speak 4 urself only. Just cos u r 50yrs in marriage or 2yrs doesn't make u marriage scholar ok. So calm dwn. Everyone doesn't av to agree wit u. And u too, try and learn, not argue blindly. U argue blindly n myopically a lot. I love u babes. No homo.

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    1. Sweetheart, I thot the essence of coming to a blog for advice is to get diverse opinions on an issue? I cannot use another person as an example when I am married too. I say what I think, another person says theirs and it's left for the reader to choose which. We cannot all have a harmonized opinion on an issue. So I dnt see why people shud come after me. If you check my comments well 1. I never reply any one I disagree with on their opinion, I just state my own and move on. 2. I dnt become defensive with everyone who disagrees with me. I have had healthy arguments with Jay and some others that did not degenerate into insults. I only get defensive when someone refuses my opinion and goes ahead to start telling me, 'you always do this...you think you are that...., you act as though...., you believe this... Or outrightly insults me.

      I'm like what have I dne to this person that she leaves my comment and starts attacking my person? If you remember my issue with Shallie, I did not start off vexing even though she already assumed the fighting stance by first warning me not to reply or whareva..and was also citing issues on other posts that have been forgotten. I still tried to follow the path of peace, even wished her a great week and all thinking that she will leave me alone, omo the babe no gree o...

      Anyway, like I said, no body is under compulsion to take my advice. I have apologized severally for sounding condescending, or 'self-righteous' and all but another day, people will still forget the apology and start diggin up forgotten issues just to paint me in a bad light.

      As for the married women, I challenge you and any one who might read this. go and study the bible clearly about the role of a wife and how she should regard her husband. Study it with an open mind and you wud realize why I warn married women to be careful about disobeying their husbands especially when what he is telling them to do is not a sin. When you study carefully, you'd be shocked at how many women are going against the bible in the marriages. That is why I still tell singles to shine their eyes wella before getting married. You cant marry a man who is less than ideal hoping he will change and then when he gives you an instruction, you want to disobey, no it doesn't work that way.

      But whatever the case, whatever I say here is strictly my view and no one is mandated to take it. I only advise people on what I feel is right not what my experiences are. I cant tell a woman to disobey her husband just bcos I have done it before. In fact the last time I did, I so regretted it even without him knowing, till today I am still not free from the repercussions of my action. What I think you guys perceive as ITK is bcos I am sound like I am sure of mysef and what I am saying. I have no apologies for that. Everyone is supposed to be confident in themselves and advise people to do things that you know you can do.

      Thank you Meme for ur advice. I have cooled down for Jesus...lolz...i hope you dnt see my reply as being defensive. We are just gisting. :-) . I f you have more to add or address, I am all ears...sorry, all eyes.... :-D Love you too...

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    2. MissSawyerr6/02/2013

      @Ahda.. Just Ignore this peeps. You keep replying and they keep coming with more ish. If you want to take their advice, take it. You give them attention writin really long notes for them. I understand you just want to clear the air. But seems to me no matter how you reply them, they will always have something else to say.
      Me I'm done replying. Jst wanted to state a point, that was why I cited the over sabi ish not becos I wanted any sorry from anybody. I do understand we are all entitle to our opinions. Oh well my own letter sef don dey long..
      Happy Sunday You All. Make all of una cook sunday rice and salad oo.. I dey come chop.. Lolz..

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    3. sister6/02/2013

      @miss sawyerr I dey wait for u ooo plenty chopping dey house ooo

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    4. MissSawyerr6/02/2013

      Oya na.. Choppin tinz... Na one lungu for abj mi I dey... Oo.. Sister hope say u no go put anytin extra oo.. Insdie d food wey u cook na... U knw mi na.. Miss oversabi.. Lolz..

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    5. Ahdaisy Lol. No, it's not defensive @ all. We r gisting jare. I understand where u r cming from on d disagreement wit insult. I recall it was Shallie's warning dat made u spark. Lolz. I'm sure everyone else sparked n wz awaiting ur response. Lolz.
      I also agree with d disobeying d husband part. U r very correct. One can only bt hope n pray that one's spouse is supportive cos even men too fall in dat regard, mostly wen married 2 a smart woman. Some men disobey or disagree wt their wives advice too n end up regretting. That's y me I respect men dat seek their wives opinions cos u don't knw where wisdom will come 4rm. So, women aren't alone on dat matter. We just pray for God's wisdom @ all times.
      So, it's true both ways. Thank u 2. Love ya loads back back.

      @MissSawyerr: How is Sawyer from series, Lost. Say hi 2 him 4 me. Happy sunday.

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    6. @ Miss Sawyer, I wudav invited you to my house but me I dey look for where to go.. :-) About the replying thing, my dear, you are so right. I dnt know when I will learn my lesson regarding the fact that no matter what I type anyone who wants to have an issue with me will always do. Thanks jare...

      @ Meme, my dear, you are so right about Men regretting. But bcos of their ego, many of them will never admit. And we women sense danger faster than men. And about praying for a supportive spouse, mehn... It's God o... The truth is, you never know what you will get until you get there. What if the person has been pretending to be supportive only to marry you first?. That's why women are also advised to not ignore signs while courting no matter how little....and always listen to God.

      Happy Sunday y'all.

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    7. MissSawyerr6/02/2013

      Lolz.. Haha.. My own Sawyerr na the Naija one en en .. Nt the Sawyer wey dey lost.. U notice one of them ave double r nd the other one r..
      Happi Sunday to u dear.

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    8. MissSawyerr6/02/2013

      @Ahdy.. U dey look for where to go? Place to go plenty na. At the same tym e no mean say u no fit invite me come chop na. From dere we go walka go everywhere..lol

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  23. All this talkativity on Ruby's how to chop tomatoe post.lol
    Hmmm oya Shallie, Ahdaisy, Sister,Miss Sawyerr, Ruby and Aunty Eya biko let's drop it and not dig it out in future. Na God I take beg una.
    Let's bear in mind to consider other peoples feelings when we make comments even if we disagree with their opinion or the point they are making. We can disagree without being rude, mean or disrespectful. Ruby and Jay are very good at giving constructive criticism please this helps a lot when we go in that direction.
    We are all different and can't always agree but let's disagree wisely.
    Free your mind and have a spirit filled sunday fam.

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  24. Anonymous6/02/2013

    Orisirisi,I can't even imagine giving myself this kind of stress over people I have never met and probably will never meet. I escape to blogs to have stressfree time,I wake up everyday by 4am to. Prepare lunch packs for four kids 8yrs to 9months. Hubby bathe and dress them and we all leave the house by 6.30am.I still get to work late(we stay in festac and I work in VGC) close by 5pm pick up my youngest from daycare,get home around 8pm and start preparing dinner for oga who is a picky eater and getting the kids ready for bed by the time I finish cooking eating cleaning and setting uniforms for the next day, it will be 11.30pm. Wonder where I will get strenght for wahala. Pls it haff do, am sorry on every one`s behalf. Ada,Shallie,sister,Me, aunty eya pls fogive and forgo for my sake o, cos if you put wahala here and add to the stress am facing outside wc will lose a family member n am sure you people will not like that. Bikonu,pele, ozugo.

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    1. Nostalgia!! I stayed in Festac and worked at the Island too. Waking up at an ungodly hour just to make sure I get to NITEL to join Lagbus before 5:30 so as to beat Orile traffic.

      Looking back now I miss sleeping in the bus. i sleep to the extent of dreaming lol

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  25. sistet6/02/2013

    @miss sawyerr,lol nothing extraordinary inside ooooo.I don bow for Jesus

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    1. MissSawyerr6/02/2013

      Lolz.. Haha.. Well God dey na..

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  26. Lmao. Drama on this blog. Some funny, some inspiring and some very very ANNOYING!

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  27. Tried ur tip for choppin onion n it worked. Tnk kio@rubynnia

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    1. A M Y, thank you too! :D

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  28. Anonymous6/02/2013

    Well the best way not cry when cutting onions is to put the onions in the the fridge before cutting. I use onions a lot so I keep like 4 in d fridge, its like magic! Tear free!

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  29. sister6/02/2013

    Hmmm,who is this person spewing poison now btw its not me ooooo am for Jesus now

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  30. I'm back from Church!!! The spamming machine just arrived at the Airport. Where do we start?? From UP to DOWN.

    Why forget that today of all days is not a day to spew venom?

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    1. Pls can you kindly start spamming like yesterday. Thanks

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  31. @MissSawyer, sorry your comment disappeared with spam comments. I don't have any power over that. I'm so sorry. It happens to even my own comments. I'm sorry pls.

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  32. Nawa ooooo all diz for Ahdasy, my dear Ada, there is sumtin special abt u jare. If nobody talks abt u den u r nobody. My dear, kip movin nd alwaz put on d whole armour of God.

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  33. But ahdaisy u started this fresh trouble today pls let's have peace biko

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  34. What an achievement for u!
    U must really b good at this ur 'profession'
    Clap for urself! Her marriage has come to stay.
    Atleast he chose her over u. Get used to it.

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    1. Mrs Dayo6/02/2013

      Forgerrit. That person searched Ahdaisy's profile online. I bet she does not even know Port Harcourt. Ahdaisy is a blogger. Everything about her is public. That hater didn't have to live in PH to know her husband's name.
      That is someone trying to cage Ahdaisy so her star stops shining.

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  35. Mrs morgan@warr6/02/2013

    @anonymums 2.22pm,wats ur pride abt dat?u sabi do well well na I'm d man no marry u as his legal wife.u ar only doing urself more harm dan good nd dats if its tru sef cos I knw haters lik u.go get a life in jesus please

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  36. Aunty Eya this spamming aint working o. See this anons comment on her sleeping with someone on this blog's hubby all bcoz of blog fight with some1 u don't kno, not seen or could b a ghost.
    I fear women gidi gan ni o. This is way below the belt. All the men on this blog go just dey laff una. I'm outta here until sanity returns.

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    1. Mrs Dayo6/02/2013

      No Lizzy. The bad comments I saw here in the morning have disappeared. It's not advisable for Eya to wipe off everything. The ones left here do make meaning. One can see how it all started between Ahda and Shallie and follow uptil when they settle the matter. If she deletes any part of that conversation. The remaining will become meaningless and incoherent.

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  37. Anonymous6/02/2013

    Na wa for this pple oo. For the record, @adha I always love ur coment, each time you speak my mind, don't let anybody tell you otherwise.. Like the comment on the post of the aldutrer who fucked in the toilet! What nonsense! When I saw adha's coment, I didn't bother commenting, cos u spoke my mind.. And a lot of others! If there is any comment I look out in this blog is adha, johnson, Ace, Bonario, MrsB, rubynia-hope I spelt it right, na night school I go. And some other anons.
    But seriously enh, I nor fit tag my self here oo, like puting a name after my coment. Each time I try, e nor dey work oo, so I just use anon instead, that's what works for me.

    But kudos to you all, taking out time to give advice to others is ingredible!
    Love you guys!

    Patsy.

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    1. Monique6/02/2013

      @Patsy, there is no husband fucker. It's an Ahdaisy hater going thru her profile and coming to write. Trying to scare Ahdaisy. You toothless dog. Ahdaisy's profile is Online. She is a public person unlike you backyard fellow.

      Continue to search. Go to her Facebook, Linkedin, Twitter and everywhere. Look for anything you like. Continue to type but be informed that no member of this fam believes YOU.
      Continue to hate on Ahdaisy and make her more popular while you remain more hidden adding no value to life.

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    2. Patsy, tnx for the compliment. Regarding putting your name to your comment:
      Under "Reply as", choose "Name/URL". Enter your name, click ok then publish button.
      Or you could open a google account(google+, blogger). With that, you don't need to keep entering your name after you drop your comment.

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  38. Anonymous6/02/2013

    Who is that husband's fucker! You shall reap what you sow! Nemeses will before you! You think it's a pride enh... Go ahead dear, your day of reckonning is near, and you will not escape judgement! Ahdaisy baby, count your blessings and name them one by one.

    Patsy

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  39. Mrs Dayo6/02/2013

    Hahahaha, Guys don't be deceived that is someone who hates AHDAISY'S POPULARITY ON THE BLOG TRYING TO RUN HER DOWN AND CHASE HER AWAY.
    We are not fools. Continue to search Google for all her family names and come spew more rubbish.
    Sorry you don't even know Ahdaisy.
    Google and Yahoo are your helpers.
    You have never seen her husband anywhere. He is too handsome to look at you sef.

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    1. Awww... Thank you Mrs Dayo, and every other person who stood up for me. I am so humbled and touched. May you all always receive help before you ask! Amen!!

      Intially, it was funny but now, it's just plain ridiculous. I finally ignored cos the person is just revealing info that everyone and their dog knows. Until the person can tell me real details that only he and I can knw. Even at that, i wnt believe cos that's how much I trust my hub. Arguing with the creep will only mean I am about to believe.

      But funny enough it has made me appreciate myself and my husband better. For someone to go to such lengths, then I must be SOMEBODY.

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  40. Monique6/02/2013

    Madam Ahdaisy hater. Seriously, you have cracked your head so much thinking of how to embarrass Ahdaisy before coming up with that. Continue to search her profile.

    Good thing you can't find mine, I bet you'd have written that my husband took you to Paris for a vacation.

    #Dirty fighter

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  41. Jazmyn6/02/2013

    CONGRATULATIONS AHDAISY, HATERS HAVE MADE YOU FAMOUS AND POPULAR. YOU MAY NOT KNOW IT BUT YOU ARE ALREADY AN ONLINE CELEBRITY. IT STARTS HERE BEFORE GOING TO THE OUTSIDE WORLD.

    HATERS!!! FYI, YOU MADE ME SEARCH Ahdaisy online thereby stumbling on a mention of her on PUNCH ONLINE. THEY FEATURED HER COMMENT ON A BLOG. SO KUDOS CONTINUE TO MAKE HER SHINE.

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  42. Anonymous6/02/2013

    You Ppl must have time, Aunty Eya, I suggest you delete that Anon's comment.

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  43. Just checking out the name tag thing. But seriously enh, adhaisy, u bi star oo! I throw way salute!

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  44. Blood of Jesu. How did I miss all this?
    People, people, please let's remember that we will ALL account for every idle word spoken. Please don't think this doesn't count cause its a blog. Let's be wise in all we do abeg.
    O daaro

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