What Should I Do About Pregnancy And My Husband's Attitude

My marriage is just eight months and I'm still trying to conceive.some doctors
say I've had two miscarriages,others say there was never pregnancy,just hormonal imbalance.

Hubby has been in lagos for six months and we saw once in two months.he is fully back now but problem is in less than two weeks,I've caught him gisting with strange girls on phone,I come in and he quickly deletes the call.first one he said it was an ex girl friend who wasn't yet aware of his new status and he wanted to tell her in a conducive way so as not to allow us have more enemies since we are still waiting on God for kids.I be mumu? Told him I wasn't dumb o,we had a hot quarrel,he begged and promised to change.STORY!caught him last night,am so devastated but keeping my cool,few words and keeping to myself.


If I wasn't a christian I would have divorced because like I told him b4 now,I find it hard to forgive infidelity,may remain in the relationship but my mind won't be in it.problem now is how do I do same in marriage?I'm so confused,angry and depressed

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  1. My sister, u have to let him know how u feel n forgive him, then move on. Ur life is very important don't let any man kill u. the most important thing in marriage is PRAYERS. The song says"I don't know how, but thers's power when am on my knees". there's nothing God cannot do. He'll change. I've been married 9yrs and hubby still does same. I've spoken to him and I've moved on. I act like I don't know and I claim peace of mind for myself. Good luck. Nesquared

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  2. Anonymous4/13/2013

    Ʊ have to forgive him. And make up ur mind t̲̣̣̥O̶̲̥̅̊ save ur marriage. Belive me anger a̶̲̥̅̊ñ̷̊D̶̲̥̅̊ bitterness also hinders Ʊ conceiving. Talk to your hubby and if he is sorry and willing t̲̣̣̥O̶̲̥̅̊ make amends. Pls forgive him,make peace a̶̲̥̅̊ñ̷̊D̶̲̥̅̊ move on. Dnt worry urself abt Ƌ̲̣̣̣ baby. A̶̲̥̅♏ Ƌ̲̣̣̣ testimony. Worry takes away our faith I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ God. Trust God and in his tym ђǝ̥̥ W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊ƪƪ make Ȋ̊†̥ all beautiful. Focus on making ur home all God wants Ȋ̊†̥ t̲̣̣̥O̶̲̥̅̊ ßξ. Dnt forget also the power of Ƌ̲̣̣̣ praying wife. Bless Ʊ.
    Vicky

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  3. Anonymous4/13/2013

    Its in d nature for men to cheat,dat wat my dad told me. Don't act as if its hurts u,look gud,pray always and make urself happy.I knw hw u feel,am married too. Forgive him and live ur life to d fullest.

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    1. Anonymous4/13/2013

      I don't believe its in the nature of men to cheat, I feel the men involved do not have the fear of God in them.

      That is what keeps some good men and women in check.

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  4. Anonymous4/13/2013

    Gosh! Just 8 months, my dear you need serious intervention from God. Pray for him.

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    1. Anonymous4/13/2013

      Prayer yes bt u shudnt be slow too,mayb cos am single o so my case might b different bt jus dis nyt I had sum drama.2weeks ago I checked my man's 4ne(no1 shud judge me,am 1of does curious 1s,I can't help it,esp wen i sense ders sum1 else,I try2find evidence so as 2nip it in d bud asap)I saw series of text msgs 4rm dis particular no.obviously a girl,d girl was begging 4sex like my fiance was d best guy 2av slept with her.I don't wanna go gross bt d girl used obscene words n said he doesn't respond 2her like b4 again,she's avoiding her calls n all n dat she's horny she needs him!MY HEAD exploded,I was mad!1st thing I did was reply her cos he didn't reply ny of d msgs n yes it was obvious he had used her n was done!so yes I sent her a nasty msg.den wen oga came bck I attacked him,he said it was a long tym ago he had her(our relationship is 1yr n 5months)so I gave him benefit of d doubt or mayb I jus choose 2give him dat bonus,even if he did her while we were dating,he had d sense 2wanna end it bt stupid girl dat has tasted d cookie jar was hung up!he promised she won't call again,dat ders nothing!bt ofcos she didn't,unfortunately 4him dis nyt she called,severally bt he didn't pick den she now sent a msg.I pretended nt2c her no,den I contacted my bestie(a guy)he told me 2tell him2call her bck n put on speaker so I cud no d truth of d whole thing.wen I told him he was shocked,said y would I command him!so I told him 2 4get me den,he shud liv my house n I packed his lil belongings @d door step n went in2 my room!I thot he wud go bt he came bck almost immediately(break up threat worked),calmly n dialed her no.he shouted on her,asking y she kips calling sending text msgs,she said nothing dat she jus wanted2talk2him!lol,I also warned her if she loved herself she wud stop!we women re our own enemies!fine men who re meant 2b faithful n responsible disappoint bt wat is wrong in a girl saying no 2a married man(like case of d reader) or an almost married man(like mycase)bcos dis girl wrote in her msg dat she knows he's getting married soon!so y bother with him? :s.my dear,u might not av power 4dis type of my drama bt u av2b FIRM.sit him down n tell him dese things cause u hrtache,dey make u sad!my fiance must av bin afraid cos he knows if it gets out dat we broke up n dey ask y,he wud b too ashamed 2say why.n yes I support anon 1pm,u av2 4give.I 4gave my man even though till now he can bet his life dat he didn't cheat on me(a guy dat respects u will neva admit anyway except u caught him pants down,which I didnt),bt pls try n mke sure its ENDED with whoeva it is!n BE STRONG(u'll nid ur strength)

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    2. Anonymous4/16/2013

      Keep deceiving yourself. A guy that respects you will not cheat in the first place and if he did, will be man enough to admit his mistake, rather than denying it and you believing him. Just be prepared cos he will continue to do it after you get married. Good luck.

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