How Do I clear dark Spots between My Thighs?

Aunty Eya, a big thanks  to you and other bloggers for their advice in my last post. Have indeed learnt a lot here. Can't believe the rate at which I visit this  blog every day. Continue the good work darlyn.

Please I have a little problem, my husband

ejaculates in less than a min. At d end of the day,i am left not satisfied,unless he uses his finger which am tired of. I just wanna try a new method. He had never given me a blow job no matter how much i beg for it. i give him and i give him  real good...he wl
always gv d excuse dt he s nt used to it(he has seen me that is born a penis sucker). 


Anyway, between my thighs are so black due to the fact that I didn't start  putting on tights earlier in my childhood. So there was always friction there cos i was plump then. so i dont really know if dts wat irritates him. 


Is there any cream that can clear the black spots without
bleaching there?

 How do i get him to go down there cos I've heard how
sweet it is. *Don't tell me to stop sucking him cos he wouldn't mind.

Secondly, my house girl just started seeing her menstrual cycle. what and what  sex advice do I give her.? what do i really tell her?

sorry for the  so
long a letter..thanks for your advice


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  1. Anonymous4/16/2013

    1st to comment for d 1st time in my life! Yaaaaay! *dancing azonto + etighi and back flipping @ same time! Wow!

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    1. Jazmyn4/16/2013

      AHDAISY OOOOOOO, where are you sister, I am still waiting for your comment. Please do not slack o. I learn a lot from your informative cum educative comments.

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    2. @ Jazzy I'm here o..hope you're cool?

      ... For black thighs, try what other readers suggested. Also use body scrubs there. Make sure you wear tights after that. For those like me who are in trousers all the time, it helps.

      About ur hub going down on you, my dear, dnt force him. Just remove your mind from it and look for other ways. It's a matter of mind over matter. Some sex acts can be really overrated.

      But if you insist, make sure you shave very well, keep the region squeaky clean and smelling nice ALWAYS...cos even if you wash before sex, his nostrils might still hold on to the smell from previous encounters. So, before the deed, make him aware that you have washed and he should satisfy you before he goes in.

      Maintain all round good hygiene. For those who have problems with dark bumpy armpit, buy an epilator. I bought mine from Amazon. It's brand is Emjoi. It does a good job of plucking your hairs out. And they wnt grow for a long time. Warning: it can be so so painful. So read up on how to make it less painful. You can also use it for the down below regions if you can stand pain there. It keeps the area clean of hair. Exfoliate with body scrubs immediately after.

      Aunty Eya has given us more than enough info. I am so glad we have someone like her! :-D *ting*

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    3. Anonymous4/17/2013

      I just googled 'epilator' and I am cringing already... Haa...#covers face.

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  2. Anonymous4/16/2013

    Clap for ur self! Oya come and take okpa! Oniranu!!!

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    1. Anonymous4/16/2013

      U r very madttt oh! I'm 1st to comment! Cry! Keep ur okpa to urself! Mschewwww

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  3. Anonymous4/16/2013

    Luks around,so I'm still d 2nd to comment! I'm hot hot hot! Chaiii ,ok bck to business,sorry dear abt d spots,der r creams u cld use to help,try sebamed cream for dark patches and spots,it helps a lot! Kisses!

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    1. Anonymous3/07/2014

      Is it the sebamed sunscreen cream?

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    2. Anonymous3/16/2015

      Is it sebamed cream or which one. Cos they've gat so many sebamed products

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  4. So una don carry this una first to comment craze from Lib to this place? U guys should stop already

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  5. After washing, try rubbing shea butter twice daily. When the color improves, he will change. Incase he doesn't, send a shout out and we'll look for plan B. When the color of your thighs improve,avoid pressurising him, look for ways to make it visible, ensure that he sees the bright color without you saying a word.

    For your house help, teach her sex education and hygiene during menstruation. For how to teach Sex Education with Ease. Follow this Link:

    For hygiene during menstrual periods, Let her watch you demonstrate with a doll or just a picture, an under pant and a sanitary pad. Show her how to stick the pad on a pant, turn it over and wear.

    Drop water on another pad, show her how to wrap used pads in old newspaper or cellophane bags before throwing in the dustbin outside the house. Let her know that she is not to dispose used pads in the bathroom or kitchen dustbins. You can also show her how to peel off the soaked cotton/ woolen part and flush before disposing the dry cellophane like part.

    Tell her that she can make do with good tissue paper like Rose and others whenever she gets soaked where she can't get sanitary pads or when it appears suddenly where there is no pad. Show her how to place it in her pant the way she does pads and let her know that it gets soaked faster and can lead to stains on her pant and dress.

    Tell her to monitor her menstrual flow so she knows if it's heavy or not. That the type of pad she wears depends on the flow.

    She should change her pad at leat every three hours, frequent changing saves her the embarrassment of menstrual odour.

    She should have her bath twice, at morning and night, missing an evening bath will produce unpleasant odour in the bathromm when she uses it the next day.

    Provide her with deodorants and some mild anti-perspirant like sure roll-on and teach her how to apply and when to repeat.(Some people say kids should not be exposed to chemicals but I don't think it's mild ones like roll on cos even my five year old I taught her to use rollon, my seven year old keeps rollon in her school bag which she uses after sports). Every child that is of primary school age, that has started playing and sweating, deserves a bottle of rollon in their school bag. They should be taught how to apply too)

    If you can, give her odour control napkins to prevent period smell.

    Let her know that she must wash her hands with soap and water after every change.

    Teach her that bad hygiene during periods could lead to vaginal and urinary tract.
    infections.
    To make or that little blood loss, let her eat lots of fruits and vegetables and also drink lots of water.
    Once you teach her proper usage of sanitary pads, disposal, cleanliness and a good diet, she is good to go!
    For us adults, please go on sabatical(u no wat I mean,*wink*) during periods cos it can be messy and maybe unhygienic.

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    1. Eya, this is a fantastic comprehensive explanation. Even I learnt a few things from it. Could you please shed more light on odour control napkins. What are they and what do they do? Thanks.

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    2. Wow, aunty Eya, you sabi a lot. :-) I am going to copy ur points so I can teach my daughter when she get's to that stage...

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    3. @Adele, those are the breathable ones that have some good material under to control humidity.
      Like all other pads but the part that sticks to pant is not just unbreathable cellophane.

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  6. Bleach it off dear...

    BTW, getting him to go down there is getting ur buccal cavity off his manhood...
    If he needs ur buccal you should make him give!

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  7. For how to teach her sex Education: http://www.wivestownhallconnection.com/2013/02/how-to-teach-sex-education-with-ease-2.html

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  8. Anonymous4/16/2013

    get a neutrogena wash,it has salyctylic acid as an active.Use everyday for one week,it help peel dead skin off,then apply sheabutter afterwards.
    By the way,not every man subscribes to cunnilingus.so don't force him,enjoy your sex whil it lasts.

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    1. Anonymous4/16/2013

      please where can one get a neutrogena wash from and how is it used? can it be used for the face too n describe bottle and pack. thank you.

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  9. Anonymous4/16/2013

    U cld also apply skineal. It helps clear black patches even in underarms!

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  10. Hawtness4/16/2013

    Please what about Stretch Marks too???

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  11. Anonymous4/16/2013

    This post got me codedly looking between my thighs at the office.. Lol

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  12. Anonymous4/16/2013

    Aunty Eya, pls where can get local made shea butter in Abuja. Pls it is very important . Thanks. Ola

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    1. @Ola buy from village markets outside the city: karimo, dei dei, zuba, madalla. Suleja, Etc.

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  13. Pls does anyone know whether a well packaged form of Shea butter exists, other than the raw form?

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  14. Anonymous4/16/2013

    Aunty eya dis ur blog is a life saver. I also hv d black thigh issue bt mine was caused due to change of cream and I hv an additional problm 2 d black thigh,due 2 d fact dat my thighs re in close contact I gt painful bums daily which leave black spot wen dey eventually go nd dis cn be very discomfortn. Plsssss cn d sheabutter also stop d bums 4rm comn or sud I visit a pharmacist 2 prescribe a cream. Thank u

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  15. Anonymous4/16/2013

    Aunty eya dis ur blog is a life saver. I also hv d black thigh issue bt mine was caused due to change of cream and I hv an additional problm 2 d black thigh,due 2 d fact dat my thighs re in close contact I gt painful bums daily which leave black spot wen dey eventually go nd dis cn be very discomfortn. Plsssss cn d sheabutter also stop d bums 4rm comn or sud I visit a pharmacist 2 prescribe a cream. Thank u

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    1. Pls see a Doctor and wear tights daily.

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  16. shea butter(ori oyo)has been known to darken the skin, so you might want to be sure before applying it on your skin. it is wonderful for the hair, and skin but the only hiccup is the darkening effect.
    www.thatssewnaija.blogspot.com

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    1. Shayor4/17/2013

      Yes! I wanted to say that too, ori (shea butter) is gives a darkening effect since its enriched with vitamin E, altho its a very good moisturizer but it darkens...so I don't know oo!

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    2. Anonymous4/17/2013

      U are right. Shea butter would nourish d skin and heal it,but won't lighthen it.

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  17. U can also rub powder in between ur thighs to prevent friction.. Any powder except dusting powder. Dusting powder wud make it darker.

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  18. Anonymous4/18/2013

    Yhh I knw ori darkens bt I'm a living testimony. Used 2 hv dark thighs wit spots too,started using ori bt nt cos of my dark thighs,dint notice dey had cleared until a frnd pointed it out 2 me n dat was wen I saw d changes. Ori wil do d magic,u jst need patience.

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  19. Anonymous4/18/2013

    My dear for ur black thighs use shirley. Super rose. It's just 200 naira. It realy helpd me. People don't know cuz it's cheap and only " local girls" use it! But trust me it helps remove black heads on d face and dark spots on any part of d body.so give it a try and thank me latter. Tokoni.

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  20. Anonymous5/03/2013

    If you want to use shea butter and don't want it to darken your skin, add osun to it. Osun (as d Yorubas call it) is a dark red powdery substance and its mostly sold by those women that sell native stuff.It prevents d darkening effect of shea butter. All d best.

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  21. Anonymous7/23/2013

    I am a dark skinned girl with black spots on my from my childhood. Is their absolutely any thing that can get these off my legs in about a month?

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  22. I have a 6 year old girl with dark spots all overher legs. Please how do I get rid of these spots.
    Thank you for your insightful advice.

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