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Everyone Pray For Me, Injections Without My Husband's Knowledge


AnonymousMarch 19, 2013 at 12:28 PM
I claim my baby too, everyone pray for me. I personally took a 3month Depo injection without my Husband's knowledge because i was not ready to have a child then, we were not engaged then and i
dont want a case where i would get pregnant and he would tell me he was not ready since i once aborted.
Now, my Mens. seized for month after the 3month Injection, i have started seeing it again but i have been having unprotected sex for Month now and i am not getting pregnant. I met a Doctor, explained everything to him and he said it was the result of the Injection that i might not be Ovulating and that there is no drug for it until it takes it due course and it varies from individuals that some last for 5years.. I dont want to regret my actions. Can anyone advise me on a method i could apply?? My Husband is on my neck, we have been having unprotected sex for over 1year now.

Please people, if you want to have a Family planning, dont try the Injection method if you have not had a baby or if you still want a baby, the 3month or 6month can turn out longer than they say, Copper T still better from what i heard.
Zaynab

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  1. Wow, this one is difficult. I am not too knowledgeable when it comes to contraceptives. I know a little about emergency contraceptives (the morning after pill). The only one I am an expert in is the withdrawal method...lolz

    Did the doctor not tell you about the side effect of the injection before you took it? Pls everyone reading, DO NOT GO TO A DOCTOR WITHOUT DOING A LITTLE RESEARCH ON YOUR OWN. Thank God for Oyibo People and Google, you can at least get some information about whatever illness you have or procedure you want to undergo. Doctors are humans and sometimes you have to remind them of stuffs.

    My dear first of all, in all fairness, you might have to come clean about what you did so that your husband will not start imagining that all kinds of things are wrong with both of you. After all, you did it before you got married and you were only trying to protect yourself (and ur relationship cos unwanted pregnancies can spoil everything). So tell him cos you guys need to work together both physically nd spiritually.

    2. Seek a second and third opinion. Not that your doctor is not good, sometimes, these doctors hold on to old school information when there are a lot of advancements in the medical field. It might surprise you to find out that there are other drugs or injections like hormones that will nullify the effect of that drug (dats my assumption anyways, me na art course I read)

    3. Try normal things that improve your chances of conception. Healthy foods, fertility supplements, predict exact ovulation day (basal body temperature charting, cervical mucus test and ovulation test kits), BP control, and make sure you are at your ideal weight (bmi)

    4. Avoid unhealthy habits, drinking, smoking, junk food. Reduce you caffeine intake, stay away from coffee, fizzy drinks and too much tea. 1 cup a day is ok.

    5. Pray like never before and avoid negative confessions. Always think and speak positive. Hold on to God's word and let your faith work for you. Children of God have defied both medical and babalawo science for thousands of years so your case will not be different.

    Finally, relax....give yourself peace. Always operate from a place of rest. Try and not be moved by what you see nd hear, ok?

    God bless you and we will be here to receive your testimony before the year runs out in Jesus' Name, Amen!!!!

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    1. Thou hast said it all!

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    2. Anonymous3/19/2013

      I agree wit everything but no 1. Don't tell ur hubby now or d matter will escalate into something else.

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    3. Pls don't tell ur hubby 4 now, keep trying. Men don't understand o. Pls women stay away from injection it works wit hormones, u don't know how ur body will react to it. I've used copper T thrice, immediately i remove i get pregnant.

      i ve 3 beautiful children now. A friend that we had our 1st child together went 4 d injection, she's still trying to conceive 4 her 2nd child 4 over 5 yrs now.

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    4. My dear depo is not the cause of your problem, and their is definitely no cause for alarm . Go and see a doctor for proper check up and you might be amazed it is a very small issue. Relax belle go soon come. Enjoy.

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  2. Anonymous3/19/2013

    http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex-and-relationships/medicines/depo-provera.html

    check out the above link.
    since it has been a year now, hopefully you will get pregnant soon as this method of contraception takes between 10-15months to wear off.

    Also use an ovulation calculator so that you will know when you're most fertile to ensure you have intercourse then.
    Good luck dear, the medication will soon wear off. take it easy and dont stress yourself.

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    1. Anonymous3/19/2013

      From your link it seems the drug is very strong. Her doctor should have told her the pros and cons before she took. Anyhow sha, God dey.

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    2. Anonymous3/19/2013

      I concluded the same when I visited the link.

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  3. young awesome mum3/19/2013

    Awww! This's why i neva used contraceptives, withdrawal method nd unrination after sex saw me through till i got married. I really think its important u tell ur hubby what u did in the past and also prayer is the key. Fast and pray without ceasing God will definitely see u through

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    1. Anonymous3/19/2013

      U mean urination is a prevention method?
      Pls tell me more. I am avoiding pregnancy till my wedding is done and dusted. Right now, we r on d withdrawal method cos I hav given up on postinor 2. But mistake can happen even with d withdrawal. I wud like 2 know if der r oda methods besides urination and pills.tanx

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    2. Anonymous3/19/2013

      The hole you urinate out of is a TOTALLY DIFFERENT HOLE from the one the penis goes in. The hole you urinate out of is called the URETHRA (which is too small for a penis to enter anyway) and the one the penis goes in is called the VAGINA (also where your period comes out from). Therefore, urination CANNOT in any way prevent pregnancy. BE WARNED: urination as a form of contraception is a MYTH. "Young awesome mum" was just lucky.

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    3. Withdrawal method is also not 100%. My hubby feels like i ve killed him when he withdraws & also he feels since he's married condom is now a no no, so he happily supported d idea of Copper T. Whenever we r ready to ve a kid we remove it & bam!! we pregnant. Thank God o!

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    4. young awesome mum3/20/2013

      Anon 9:25 twas my cousin dat told me abt it, i wondered how dat would be possible but i always did it nd it worked for me

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    5. Young Awesome Mum,

      Please expantiate further; how did you do it? After the DO, you urinate straightaway? Or use urine to rinse your vagina? Please talk nao. No knowledge is lost, thanks!

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    6. When using the withdrawal method, the guy should urinate after ejaculation as it flushes out all the sperm in the passage way, be4 goin fr a 2nd round, I guess that's what she means, as they r nt using condoms, cos if he withdraws and cleans up and comes bk fr round 2, there wld definitely be semen in the penis dt wld drop out cos as they say there r millions of sperms in 1 drop and am sure there wld still be millions in the passage way...

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    7. Anonymous5/10/2013

      Urination method?!! Abeg, let's not mislead young girls who might be reading this o! If such a method actually was fool proof I doubt that we would have any unwanted pregnancies in this world.

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  4. Anonymous3/19/2013

    Please o, nobody SHOULD EVER BELIEVE that urination is a contraceptive method, once a man ejaculates in you, the sperm moves on, even if U pass out two liters if urine, it has gone to its target zone, those guys have a mind of their own.

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    1. sexyboocalher3/31/2013

      Lmfao...gizzzz

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  5. Dnt worry,just pray,relax,look after ursef nd believe al is well...
    Being over anxious is nt good for ur body nd state of mind..God wil suprise u speedilyy and u wil soon rejoice.al d best.God made u and he wil repair al that nids to in ur system..kip prayin nd praising...

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  6. Please see a gynecologist. If you are in Lagos, i advise you either visit Island maternity or Navy hospital PWD Ikeja. There are specialists there.Pray too, God answers prayers.

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    1. sexyboocalher3/31/2013

      Its nt navy hospital, its airforce's... Sam ethnan nigerian airforce base pwd

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  7. Anonymous3/19/2013

    Kk. I am in support of what Adaeze has said. U need to see a gynecologist ASAP. I am a doctor and I knw people who have taken the depo without any problems so I don't think the Depo is what is causing ur infertility. Again, why are you assuming it is all ur fault,hello, ur husband needs to be checked as well and as soon as you make this problem a collective problem between problem between you and your husband and not just you alone, I see you living a misearable life and going thru this problem all alone.
    There are so many sophisticated methods these days to check if u re ovulating, the least being an ultrasound. Don't waste your money on ovulation kits. Just see a good gynecologist and let him put you through on what you need to do. Go with ur huBby as well cos those little soldiers need to be checked as well. All in all, don't worry so much, engage in activities that makes you happy and hope for the best.

    Again, the internet is your friend. You need not wait for your doctor to spoon feed you with info. Do read up around what's going on in your life and be better informed. Take care. Creative Mom

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    1. Anonymous3/20/2013

      Yay, creative mom is back. How was ur trip?

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    2. Anonymous3/20/2013

      My dear o, my trip went well. I've started work so no more maternity leave*sobs*. How re u? I hope u and ur family are all doing well.

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  8. Anonymous3/19/2013

    Go see traditional people.

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  9. Anonymous3/19/2013

    The hole you urinate out of is a TOTALLY DIFFERENT HOLE from the one the penis goes in. The hole you urinate out of is called the URETHRA (which is too small for a penis to enter anyway) and the one the penis goes in is called the VAGINA (also where your period comes out from). Therefore, urination CANNOT in any way prevent pregnancy. BE WARNED: urination as a form of contraception is a MYTH. The lady who said that was just lucky.

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  10. Anonymous3/20/2013

    At anony 8.09,as a doctor u should obviously think depo is d problem b4 other causes.I will first blame the bad doc or nurse who gave u depo,depo shuldnt b giving to someone without a living,healthy child.In a beta country d provider shuld get sued.wat u need along with prayers is to consult an experienced gyanecologist and b ready to spend good cash incase you will get help reversing the course of d hormone,and other causes will b inv too.truth b told some people neva get their fertility back after using depo,but this is not ur portion IJN.If u are runing the natural course of depo then you can give ursef 3 more months b4 u conclud u need help.frm a doctor

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  11. Anonymous3/20/2013

    I guess what u ment to say is douching after sex and not urinating,douching works for sum people,esp if done imm after the man ejacultes,its not a method of contraceptive so u just got lucky,but don't forget it has its side effects,so pls get a method.frm a doctor.

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  12. The effect of artificial contraceptives differ from woman to woman. Even the IUD you were recommending, I have seen women who had issues with it.

    If your health officer or even doctor had done some minor tests on you like hormonal levels and past history even BMI, lenght of cycle he/she would have recommended something suited for your body. But in Nigeria, we hardly do that. Though BMI is easily ascertained and those on the high side are usually asked to stay away from fat-inducing contraceptives.

    Some would call me archaic but I always tell women who are yet to give birth or not done with childbearing to abstain or use natural family planning. Why? Because some of us are marginally infertile.

    From the knowledge of your body, do you think you are ovulating?

    For now, see a obs/gyn. The most important question is to determine your hormonal levels. If anyone is low, he/she will give you drugs. If they are okay, then other options will be explored - weight, food etc. And then you might have to take a conception assistance supplement such as Pregnacare Conception. Which will just enhance the level of vitamins/minerals needed for conception. Infact, you can take them before even heading to that doctor.


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    1. Anonymous3/20/2013

      No, you are not archaic Luchi. Like your comment very much.

      condoms and having sex on your safe periods are the best to me.

      I used copper T after my 3rd child and got pregenant the next month after I removed it and had my 4th child.

      4years later I removed it and have been using my safe periods and condom for a year now.

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  13. my friend used this injections for 3 months and she took in the 4th month.....maybe you had pcos or ovulation issues prior to the injections......i am just saying the injections and the lack of pregnancy may not be correlated

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  14. Hello guys, I would like some information on where the best place is to get a Depo Provera shot administered to me please. Preferably a hospital or clinic where I can discuss different birth control options without going through the hassle of having to register there. Thanks...

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