Nigerian Beef Sauce Recipe For Rice Plus More To Cook This Weekend

 Delicious beef sauce to be served with boiled rice or pasta.
 We have many beef, fish, chicken sauce recipes on the blog already and I wasn't planning on posting this but changed my mind when one of the two guests (gentlemen) served asked me for a written recipe. I was

How To Wear Skinny Jeans, My Look Today

How to wear skinny jeans.
I love skinny jeans, they just have a way of making one look slimmer especially the darker
shades.The name skinny jeans does not mean that they are meant for only skinny people, no. These are called skinny jeans because they are, and look skinny, tiny compared to flared and other types of jeans. With appropriate shoes, tops and other accessories, even Plus size women can comfortably wear skinny jeans. The word skinny refers to the cut of the leg which is tiny and skinny..

How to wear Skinny Jeans And Look Fabulous:

  • Choose the right size of skinny jeans, the size that won't look too tight and bumpy on the knees.
  • Pick a size that fits properly, that's just reasonably tight and allows you bend and squat comfortably.
  • If you are a plus size, I'll recommend the high rise jeans so you don't show off everything at the backside each time you bend to sit.
  • If you want to draw attention to your long legs, then go with brighter colors on heels but do not forget that darker shades make you appear skinny.
  • If it's too long, get a tailor to alter by, cutting off some inches and sewing back the end part to your jeans. Cropped skinny jeans look good on every woman.
  • With proper accessorizing, you can wear skinny jeans even to work, yes, to the office.
  • Skinny jeans should be worn on high heels to create a dressy look and on flats to look casual and smart.
  • Wear fabric that's stretchy, with a combination of spandex and denim.
  • Finally, you know your body and what colors and shapes flatter your figure, be creative when styling your skinny jeans, make it go with your body type whether petite or plus size.

Looking at myself here, some full neck with white pearls would have been magical, that's all that is needed for the wow effect.Now without them I look too simple and just about.

This is  What goes on behind the scenes each time mummy wants to take her pics for the fashion blog, thank God for holidays, his sisters are around to cajole and take him off the "set"
 he just threw his shoe and the keys away, throwing real tantrums to be picked up because someone is facing mom with a camera.
 Skinny jeans shouldn't be too loose or too tight, just enough to help you move around and bend comfortably.
 With my hair rolled up there, they look good but as I look at this pics now and type, it feels like letting these braids down would have given me a more feminine fuller look, anyway, there is always a next time.
 I am even more convinced here that wearing my braids down with chunky white pearls would have created a lovely look.
 What to wear with skinny jeans, block heels etal. Don't mind the nail polish o, I polish finger nails more often, for toe nails, it's like once in two weeks if not more, they last longer even though without the initial shine and gloss.

  • Wear skinny jeans with g string panties, tights or no panties at all ( If you chose "no panties" then please wash after wear, lol). However , thinking again, I think they can be worn with any under wear because they are very thick, enough to cover well. Like other pants,thinking that your lines might be showing at the back could reduce your self confidence. You are more confident as the wearer when you know that no shape is lined out on your bum bum.
  • Skinny jeans go well with any shoe, provided it's not bulky at the feet area. High, heels, flats, strapped sandals, and even  boots. The only no go area is shoes like trainers. With the upper leg looking skinny, there's no need to make the feet look over sized in those kinds of shoes else you look disproportionate and that's not fashionable. Lolz, see me talking like fashion police.
  • Fitted tops are a great accompaniment. For my today's look, I actually wore a short fitted top and it looked good but for some reason, I just didn't feel very comfortable and had to go change into this black top, then suddenly my confidence returned and we zoomed out immediately.
  • Wear tops that are not very baggy and shapeless. This chiffon top I'm wearing is not tight but kinda a bit hugging and, I like the way it reveals my flat tommy, and makes me look taller.
  • A fitted blazer or jacket can be worn with your skinny jeans.
  • A belt too can be worn on your top/shirt to help it cinch on the waist and show off that hour glass figure of yours that will make hubby stay home all weekend.

  • While skinny jeans are made of real denim and spandex, and are stretchy because of the spandex, Jeggings are not denims. Jeggings are heavier and thicker than leggings but not as thick as skinny jeans. Skinny jeans can be worn with short or cropped tops but jeggings will not look good in those. Jeggings are worn with long tops to cover the bum areas and prevent panty lines showing behind. Jeggings are made to look like denim but have fake pockets that look like drawings.
 Looking serious to pose, e nor easy.

Have fun, have a fabulous weekend ahead.
Stay safe and blessed.


 Eya Ayambem featured on
Nigerian, Food, Lifestyle, Relationship and currently Fashion Blogger Eya Ayambem granted interview to famous news website She talked about her personal life and blogging; where she hails from, why she started blogging, how she is going on about it and her plans for the future:

"The Internet enables us to keep developing and never stop improving. It provides us with great information, tips and life changing creative ideas. All of these you can find on one of the best blogs

Fresh Fish Stew By SeyiFunmi Meg Ricketts

Fresh fish stew for Rice, yam, plantain and even swallow.

Fresh Croaker Fish stew.

Black, White, Blue And Red Outfit

Black and white fashion.

Black, white and blue here. 
 Dressed in black and white with a sprinkle of blue and red. So used to taking pics without a clutch that today I'm just learning how to handle it properly jor. This Italian purse came in with a pair of red shoe, I posted it here on the blog when I wore orange and red in my initial blog posts. I was going to just dress in three colors, black, white and red for today but dressing up in a dark closet,I didn't know I picked blue sandals, it was after a few pics have been taken that I saw the color on my
feet and I actually like it but just had to take them off to do what I initially planned on wearing. When you see the black shoe on my legs just know that mistakes can turn into fashion, lolz. I uploaded only the pics with black sandals but then said  to myself  'what the funch?' I'll just upload everything and let's see how they look on the blog.
 This black denim is actually a pair of jeggings so it's not tight on me. very stretchy
 posting for pics, this is how we do it at forty and above

 I wore the blue sandals in a dark room because I was very careful not to wake my light sleeper baby, after taking a few shots, I realized it's  blue sandals on my feet and had to then change to black, here is the black.

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 My blue high heeled sandals that sometimes look purplish but they are not ogbanje

White jacket on a black outfit.
Have fun, enjoy your day and trust in the lord with all your heart. Never lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he'll surely direct your path.

Ladies, Please Help A Bikini Hair Sister

Hello Eya, my name is Becky, am 27 years old. i have been reading your blog for sometimes now. please i want know the best product or cream to use for bikini area, i know it sounds awkward.but i am not really comfortable with the cream am using, i use veet hair removal cream for sensitive skin, and before

Short Wrap Dress

Eya and her brown braids in a wrap dress

Sunday In a short wrap dress, getting ready for church . 
I love this dress, the way it smartly sits on my body is not bad at all.Wearing a wrap dress wouldn't have looked this way if I was still carrying my baby weight, but come on, after one year of having baby, is enough time for the calories to drop off and lie somewhere else. I do not want to praise
myself o, but I think I'm trying. Only mothers who have ever struggled to lose baby weight after four, five kids will tell us how difficult it is to reverse the expanded woman's body after giving birth.

I am one woman who does not like to look bigger than my hubby and with the way he gyms, if I take any chances, I'll definitely look fat while he looks slim like my son. I like it when other couples prefer that size but on me? no...  I want to just lose 3 kg more and then rest and focus on Pilates and toning my arm and thigh muscles.
Don't worry about the make up dear, if you look at earlier posts on this blog, you'll know I'm getting better. For this look, I started with my tiny sized  Avon primer, moved on to  Mary Kay foundation, then, realised that for some reason, it looked lighter than my skin. Don't know if weeding grass in my garden under the sun made me darker over the weekend. There was no time to wipe it off, I quickly coated it with Mac studio fix fluid and that gave me the smoothness I wanted. Next, I added Jordana compressed powder, liked the look, moved to Jordana eyeliner, Jordana lipstick and Jordana foundation as borders for the eyeliner. I said it on this blog before that Jordana needs to pay me for the way I patronize and make use of their products. My cosmetic box is full of Jordana products especially nail polishes and various shades of lipstick that I may not even use in years because I don't think pink lipsticks suit my skin shade. I want to fix my lashes, I know how to do this myself at home but time and my attention seeking baby chairman. For my natural lashes, I used Jordana volumizing mascara.
See my life? Loving this selfie. My mobile phone taking clearer pictures than a camera. Maybe this phone should start doing the point and shoot snapping and let that digital camera sleep and snore for a while. The camera acts funny, sometimes great pictures by my assessment o. Other times I struggle to recognise myself. Anyway

I got the dress from collectibles here in Abuja.
The neck pearls are old stuff, from my box.
My Shoes are from Ron White (Beige)
I don try small today to mention what I wear.
See you later.
 Eya Ayambem your momma in action. The wind is not helping at all. My  home made photographer daughter chopped off my legs, no wahala, she is trying her best

 Nigerian fashion blog on the move, let's go there

 Your momma posing for pishures

 Eya losing baby weight and feeling healthier. Pregnant moms can comfortably wear this dress.
Have fun, enjoy your day, be healthy and fashionable at any age.

A Man Can Truly Love More Than One Woman At A Time? FALSE

So, I read Etcetera's thoughts on "infidelity by Most Nigerian men" and nearly started to think that since he is a man speaking from a man's point of view, then this must be true. But then I thought to myself ...These end times? it's best to encourage yourself in the Lord, to minister to yourself so you are not blown about by every wind and speech,  like dry corn chaf blown by harmattan wind.

Little wonder it went viral on blogs. For me, the word of God is my standard. Nothing is new and if Jesus came down here in the form of man, lived all his years without falling for any woman, then a man can be honestly faithful to one woman, Social media or not, Internet or not.

The Weakness of the flesh can be manifested in different ways by different people. To some it's women, to some alcohol and drinking while to some others it could be insatiable greed for money. I would say it is best for people to recognise their individual areas of weakness if any and to prayerfully work on those rather than try to sweet talkingly justify wrong.

See what he wrote below,  and my thoughts too.

When you heard the news that Toke Makinwa’s husband impregnated his girlfriend, you all took to social media to rain insults on Nigerian men. Why men cheat on women they love became a topic for all female radio presenters in the country. Aren’t you all tired of asking the same

Meet Nigerian Blogger Eya Ayambem At Typearls

 Eya Ayambem giving interview at Typearls. 
The interview with Christina TY of Typearls lifestyle reveals much more about the Nigerian lady behind

Easy Efo Riro Recipe For This Weekend

Efo Rico is one delicious Nigerian meal that originated

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