Showing posts with label women matters. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women matters. Show all posts

Giving Used Clothes To A Broke Friend. Can You?

Male and female clothes in lilac
Male and female clothes in lilac. Neat used clothings like these, can you give to a friend or you'd rather take to an orphanage?
Last night I read this post @ Femme Lounge. I do give but only when asked o, and even at that I make sure old ones are selected out of the pack. Kids outgrow their clothings very ast and sometimes do not even get to wear some before they are taken off the wardrobe. If a friend asks, I make sure the items are all brought out and properly inspected before giving cos it would be very embarrassing to give out and later discover that your items were never used or to get a NO THANK YOU reply.

I remember times when I gave even without asking and that is because I was sure this friend trusted me and w'd appreciate my effort and truth is the items were used like the very next day. 
For me, it's a yes and no answer: I know my friends and know the ones that won't appreciate that type of giving so I won't dare. I know the ones that would collect and jokingly ask me to bring some more, these ones I give without asking.

Collecting used clothes from friends when in need? There are friends I can take

What Your Fingernails Are Telling You Now

What are these fingernails saying?
A lot of people, especially women do not listen to their nails. Nature has made it possible and easy to look at the nils and tell when your system is truly healthy or giving you warning signs. Before the body finally breaks down, there are warning signs but we just ignore and carry on.

The ladies are the most affected. If we pay attention to our nails, most health issues can be nipped in the bud. For pregnant women, paying attention to your nails will let you know when you are anaemic even before the Packed Cell Volume (PCV) Test.  Most times we just keep polishing and

Re: Wash All Undergarments Before Wearing, UPDATE

When I saw this comment on the blog yesterday, I had to go read up on Myasis and would like those of us who doubted that post, those who said it's fake to please take our personal hygiene more seriously cos we have only one life and Health we all know is wealth. Not only the washing pleases ladies, let us ensure that they are dry and not damp before taking them in cos you never know what might be hiding in the damp corner of that dress or under garment. 

The free online Dictionary defines myasis as: Myiasis is an infestation of human tissue by the larval stage of flies of the order Diptera.

Here is the

Check Your Weaves: Worm Infested Hair In The Market

I just saw this at SDK  blog and had to share with ladies here who might not have seen it. Irene Myangoh, a personal assistant working at a law firm in Nairobi went to an upmarket hair salon along Kenyatta Avenue, and spent more than N5,500 on a human hair weave.
Two weeks later she started suffering from severe headache that would not go away. She would wake up with severe headache at night.

She went to a private

What Items Do Women Love As Birthday Presents?

Hi Eya,
My wife's birthday is coming up on the 14th of October and she's been
singing it to my ears on a daily basis. Really I want to sweep her off
her feet with unimaginable surprises but

Excessive Farting After Giving Birth To Baby

Good day Aunty Eya. 
Pls I have a little  problem. Ever since i gave birth,i v been having ds farting problem. I pass smelly gas every 10min or less. I thought it was as a result of d after delivery constipation i had. Even after  visiting d white house, I will still start passing smelly gas almost immediately. 

I guess my

The Black Woman, Our Hair Isn't Good Enough?

San grandaughter, Botswana
San grandaughter, Botswana (Photo credit: Wikipedia). Anything wrong with our hair?
Good evening Aunty Eya, how is your family and WC doing? I am a reader of your blog who leaves comments anonymously. I can't give out my ID because of the type of job I do. There is an issue I have kept inside me for so long but would want to table on this platform. There is something about hair weaves; Brazilian hair, Indian Hair, Moroccan Hair and so on. They are easy to style and maintain. They give  a posh kind of look to any woman that wears them. Women look good on them.

I have done everything I

How Do I Make Them Speak My Language?

Hello Aunty Eya, pls I need a little help from you and other wives connection readers. I have three kids between the ages of 13 and 6 who cannot speak my language. When they were younger, I tried my best to make them speak my language cos even I can't speak their Father's language. I succeeded in making them learn some greetings and their responses but speaking the language didn't work out. It was difficult because Hubby and I always spoke English since that is the only medium we can communicate effectively with.

Now they are big and I feel so guilty that my kids can't speak my language whereas they are pros in English Language. I

Am I Right Or Wrong?

My name is ................. & my number is ................. Pls hide my details.
My closest girlfriend went behind me to ask my husband for money. My husband just told me & I got really angry because I feel she should have come through me first. Please I would like to know if am right or wrong?

In fact I told my husband not to give her, hoping

Am I A Heartless Wife?

Hello Eya, and wives connection readers. I just realized that my husband doesn't like to see me save money. Everytime he knows I have money, he won't rest until that money is finished kpata kpata. He either borrows never to pay back or becomes very stingy and makes it almost impossible for me to see his money, that way I have no choice than spend the little I have on the house.

Recently, I told myself that things can't continue this way. I took drastic steps to make sure I have a little savings for myself. How can a woman be married for good

Anything To Stop This Excessive Saliva Please?

Hello Aunty Eya and wives connection, please I need help from women here. I just found out am pregnant and it's good news to my family except for what am going through. The saliva in my mouth these days is something else. My Doctor says it's not my fault, that there is nothing wrong with me. I searched online and even baby center does not see anything wrong with this excessive saliva.

I am so uncomfortable at work. Every one I have met just suspects that am pregnant and it's too early. This saliva is giving me

Foul Odour From My Private Part, I need Advice

Hi Eya, Please I need you post this on your blog for me, Mty name is ............, I live in ..............,I'm a student in my final year. Just got married this year but there is something strange about me.
 I have a weird odour from my private part. My husband hasn't complained tho but I know it's there. I started feeling this way in my first year at Uni, saw a Doctor who treated me and I think it worked for a while but the smell returned.

I can't go out without panty liners (Can't even let anyone help me with

Dear Ladies, Can I Wear This?

Because of my body size ( Not fat o) I am just not slim and not very big. Just that full African body. I don't buy full or big jewellery for myself and when I get them as gifts, they wait for when I will wear, sometimes for years and when it becomes obvious

RE: How To Tighten A Loose Vagina

Ever since we shared our thoughts on how to tighten a loose vagina, there has been a daily flow of traffic to wives connection blog. Searchers online looking for solutions to lose vaginas. Even if I check my traffic sources by the hour, there is constant traffic for how to tighten a loose vagina. I always ignored but today I'm thinking that we need to talk more on this. It is a real problem that still needs answers.

With the traffic that goes to that post from different search engines, I am now convinced that many women have this problem and I really wonder how so many women know when their vagina is

How To Lose And Maintain A Good Shape By Miss N

Health And Fitness For Wives Connection                                                                                 

There has always been a misconception of the secrets to looking good. Some say its skipping meals or going on a strict diet,others say it is only strenuous exercise. But thinking about these secrets, how long can one skip meals for? how long can one be on a strict diet for? What happens when one is unable to exercise?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Losing/gaining weight is about

Breast Tumor Test: Self Help 2 By Ace Bentley

What is a tumor? An abnormal growth of cells in body organs.

It could be:
(1) MALIGNANT (cancerous),
(2) PRE-MALIGNANT (Non-cancerous but could be cancerous later) or
(3) BENIGN (Non-Cancerous)

The four cardinal signs of

If He Develops A Fault, Talk To Me

This letter to us is what we all need to read and reflect on. I read it before Here, so when I got it in my mail this morning. I read again and said OK, it will be posted with a link back to Nairaland.

**Dear Daughter  I have sent you to a man’s house to be a blessing to him and ‘help’ him achieve the goals I gave him. He’s not like you at all. He’s burly,quite insensitive. You’d be surprised he might not even realize you’ve come to help! So,to help your task and protect you from being on the receiving end of his imperfections here are some vital instructions.

1. Don’t ever try to fix him, if he ever develops a fault, I’m

3 Things Every Lady Should Know

1. What should a woman do if she finds herself alone in the company of a strange male as she prepares to enter a lift in a high-rise apartment late at night?

*Experts Say: Enter the lift. If you need to reach the 13th floor, press all the buttons up to

Help: Body Exercise And Hair Care

Hello Eya, please help me post this to wives connection readers. I know a lot of women these days are exercising at least thrice a week just like me. I love  I go to the gym three times a week and it has become a habit now because I love it. 

I realize that each time I exercise, my body sweats a lot including my head.  I have no problem with body sweating cos after gyming, I head straight for a clean wash.

I would love to know what other ladies do when they exercise and their head sweats. We can't

Any Herbal Remedy For Herpes?

Aunt Eya, please I need you and your readers To help me out. I want to know if there's a local remedy for herpes, cos I don't think there's any remedy. 

My boyfriend cheated last
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