What if he stops me after we are married? What if i begin to resent him later on?Hello...i stumbled on this blog through the internet and i decided to go thru it and i must say that i am pleased with it. I need advice because i am somewhat confused...i have been dating this wonderful man for a couple of years now,i knw his family members and they are wonderful people,my dilemma is this...
i have always dreamed of goin for my Phd and presently i am on my masters,i am pretty young. My boyfriend is nt too comfortable with me doing my Phd after my masters, he feels we shuld get married first in lyk 2 years time and after a kid or 2, i can start my Phd but i really wanna start before marriage then i can get married while on it (this is because i know we are both not ready for marriage until like 2 or 3 years time so i am like, why shouldn't I?) he feels family should come first, i agree but i am not married yet and would like to pursue my dreams
...i am afraid because if i don't start and i get married, what if things
don't go as planned and I can't do it?
what if he stops me after we are married? What if i begin to resent him later on?
I am young, he is young, there is no rush,i am 22 & he is 24. Because we aint in the same country cos i left for