Showing posts with label relationship tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationship tips. Show all posts
Tuesday, March 28, 2017

See Major reasons why Side-chicks are Winning & some wives are Losing

Relationship expert and blogger, Joro Olumofin, has outlined the Major reasons why Mistresses / Side-chicks are Winning & some wives are Losing. 
Read the 8 reasons after the cut...
Tuesday, January 31, 2017

What it means when YOU are being taken for granted

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When you are taken for granted, it means your value is being underestimated. You are expected to always be available, to serve without needing a 'thank you', an appreciation. In short you are being taken for granted when people or someone expects you to serve without needing recognition/acknowledgement. When try as you may, give until you have nothing more to give yet, you are seen as ''after-all you are doing what you should be doing" You go all out of your way to render some services yet that recognition is not given you and you are wondering why? Just know that YOU ARE BEING TAKEN FOR GRANTED.  Your value is not appreciated or, you are not even valued by whoever it is you are serving.

To be honest, so many people feel they are being taken for granted but are not really sure. Now, here are signs to prove that you are truly not valued either by an individual; husband, wife, In-laws, friends, family and the list goes on.

Saturday, December 24, 2016

My roommate's boyfriend finds it hard to trust after she cheated on him, should she end this relationship or wait for his trust to return?

Honestly I'm happy to be in the wives connection family, may God bless
everyone that has contributed in one way or the other to this blog
especially you aunt Eya. I'm seeking advice for a good friend of mine,
she and her boyfriend had issues when he found out she cheated on him
but after everything he forgave her and they are together again. The
problem now is my friend's boyfriend still believes that she still
communicates with the other guy but i swear that's not true because my
girlfriend and i live together and we're very close like sisters, i
know what she is capable of. 

Truly after she cheated, she turned a new
leaf in a way that even surprised me. She changed all her sim cards,
even her Facebook account just to prove to her boyfriend that she will
never do anything to hurt him again. Its true the trust he has for her
has diminished and it's truly hurting her. Some days ago she told me
she is scared he will never truly forgive her and forget what happened
 even after they get married( they actually plan on getting married
soon) ,she wants to know if she should end the relationship since she
Wednesday, September 28, 2016


Each time I see divorced women or those coming out from a broken relationship live carelessly all in a bid to prove a point to their ex, I shake my head because the end of such women isn't always praiseworthy.
When that relationship ends and all you can think of is get involved with frustrated and nasty women, instead of decent and godly ladies who will help you out of the pit you suddenly found yourself in, you are on your way to a bigger frustration. Don't get carried away by their social life, a good number of them weep in their closet. I know it hurts; yes, it hurts very bad. I know how you feel because I have been there. I know the punches are coming from left, right, and center. I know you must fight back. Yeah, I know all that.
Saturday, July 02, 2016


I am 36yrs in a relationship with a girl of 24yrs old, we having been dating for 3yrs now she is very

nice and she helped me become the man i am today. Anytime i feel like breaking up with her she

always endS up begging me to stay with her. Her problem is she's insultive and proud. Since 2014,

she borrowed me 500,000 to start a business, she feels she owns me and she is very jealous. We had a
Monday, June 27, 2016


Good evening WIVES CONNECTION. it really feels like a family on this blog I must Confess. I just discovered something really surprising about my bf, OK he gave me his phone to use for now cos mine is bad.  I didn't mean to but somehow I stumbled on his Facebook messages and wat!!!!  I couldn't believe my eyes.  He had sex chat with so many white girls, some girls re from African countries.  

My bf travelled since last year August to Sweden, those Facebook messages I saw is dated Dec 2015 to June 22nd 2016. I was surprised wen I saw the messages cos I never suspect him, I mean I literally see him as a saint wen it comes to things about women.  I messed up once when we quarreled last
Wednesday, June 08, 2016

My Fiance Relocated To Abuja; Should I Move On With My Life?

Guys I need your advice, because am tired and confused at the same time. Am 24yrs being dating these amazing guy for 5yrs now and the relationship has be OK even talking about settling down. Late last year he relocated to Abuja and since then things has changed. He got a new job and all the things he does like calling, texting etc stopped. I complained because the whole thing was annoying, We had issues ‎and for 1month to 2months we didn't talk, his best friend called for a meeting and we saw after. After the meeting I kept asking him what's in between us and if he still loves me like he used to, I got the
Friday, June 03, 2016

How Getting Married, Becoming a mum has made me lose friends

Good day aunty, I'm a new reader who got introduced to wives connection this year by my cousin. please I need help from wives connection. I need to know how wives and mothers manage to keep their friendships alive. I got married almost immediately after graduation in 2014. My family got blessed with twin boys in 2015 and life has been kind of "it is well" Joggling wifey duties, babies, my job etc, it  has not been easy. No one told me it's this hard, not even my mother. I am not complaining but this phase of my life is really hard.
Where I need help is with keeping my friends around. I am fast losing friends. I can't find time to visit even those in the same town with me, I can't find time to just chat and relax with those far away.
Saturday, May 28, 2016

My Fiance Says He Used To Masturbate, That Ok For A Christian?

Hello, good day auntie Eya,I'm a Christian and so is my fiance. We're both adults, and are both waiting till marriage before we share a bed. Now, we all have urges. we're human. I'm physically attracted to my fiance and he is the same towards me. Yet we of course won't and can't do anything about it and just try our best to ignore the urges.

Well, the thing is he just confessed to me that he used to masturbate, and this would ease
Monday, May 23, 2016


Good evening madam Eya, please I am a male reader on this your blog , help me post my case so that I could get help from you ladies, I am a father of four kids,I've always taken care of my family but my wife attitudes have changed that as the economy of the country is high and she is doing well in her business,
Sunday, May 22, 2016


Hello ma, I had an abortion four years ago and thought I had gotten over it. I was 24 years old, we were planning our wedding and I didn't want to be seen as a pregnant bride. Although my husband (then fiance) tried to convince me to leave it, I couldn't stand what other church members will think of me when I give birth earlier than 9 months after the wedding. "I'm in the church choir, what would they think of me" how will they start treating me afterwards?". Our courtship was seemingly very strict as my church has rules about all these things, what would they say if 6, 7 months after the wedding they receive news I gave birth to a baby that doesn't even look premature? 
I went ahead and secretly did it. 

Let me not lie, I was haunted after the wedding, I never thought another
Saturday, May 14, 2016

Someone Help Me Know The Kind Of Person My Fiance Is

Hi ladies. I really do enjoy. This blog because I've learnt a lot from people's experiences,yet I have my own unique issues with my man.
This is how it all goes. We have been dating for a year And 3 months now and he
Tuesday, May 10, 2016

A Man With These 10 Traits Will Stick With You

For singles in relationships or confused, if your man has these traits, don't think too much about physical looks, he'll make a good life partner. He'll make you happy and flourishing. A husband with these traits too is worth celebrating and dying for.
  • He knows love is not an emotion, it's a choice and he is not shy to show
Sunday, May 08, 2016

How Often Should You Have Sex?

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This Phrase; "The More the sex, the better'" is not completely true oh.  A recent study found some interesting discoveries. Couples who have it often are happier than others sha. But, what does often mean? how often is often?  Psychologists at the University of Toronto discovered that couples who have sex once a week
Saturday, April 30, 2016

Should I Move On Or Wait For The Love Of My Life To Become Single?

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Hello Mrs Eya, I need honest advice from the wives connection on the blog, kindly help me post this anonymously. My fiancee broke up with me because of a very small mistake I made on campus of which I promised her it won't happen again but she won't listen. We did not say a word to each other for three months, then suddenly she started begging again that she believes it was a mistake that I'm not wayward and all that. At that time she came begging, I
Monday, April 25, 2016

My Husband Says Complaining About Me To My friend Was A Joke

Goodmorning  Mrs Eya, I need help from wives connection blog. My husband and I met and got married after a brief courtship which was mostly long distance because we work in different cities. Before the wedding, I tried my best to get a transfer to join him but perhaps because I work in a private firm, that wasn't possible. We then decided that after the wedding we'll reschedule and ensure all weekends are spent together.
To make that possible,  it was his idea that we buy a house in the town where I live, and that I spend my money  on our wedding but that he'll surely refund when the bulk
Sunday, April 24, 2016

There Are Things I Can Do To Get Closer Hubby's Friend But I'm Scared Of The Consequences

Hello  Aunty Eya and the loving wives connection family.  I have been an ardent reader of the blog for only three months but have learnt so much more than I could imagine. I am female, 36 years old, and have been married 10 years. Lately, I have felt very ignored and restless in our marriage which has remained sexless for the past two years and counting. I don't think my husband is aware of these feelings because I try to talk about them but he doesn't seem quite interested in talking about sex life and that kind of stuff , but the urge and feelings? they are  alive in my heart. He buys me beautiful gifts and tries to give me his love and support in other ways,  still relates with me without problems and kept enjoying my blow down there for almost 2 years without reciprocating with at least a one time penetration or something. When  I got tired of satisfying him one sidedly, l stopped and that has been it. He acts
Tuesday, April 19, 2016

My Wife's Menopause, Mood Swings, How Do I Handle Them?

Hi Mrs Eya, good evening and remain blessed for the awesome platform on wives connection. I need help from the forum please. I loved my wife many years ago when I found her and still do,  but her moods are getting me down. This her mood swing s is not a recent development and I have been able to cope all these years but it's getting to me now.
Years ago, she would go into moods with little reason and would not talk to me
Monday, April 18, 2016

I've Fallen Trap To Being The Other Woman I Didn't Intend To

If it's more important for ou to keep the other woman's friendship, well...
Read the story below and please advise
Thursday, April 14, 2016

I Am Her Sponsor, Why Did She Choose Another As Next Of Kin

Hello Aunty Eya, good evening and thank you for wives connection blog and all the good lessons I have learnt from the time I was introduced by a friend. I never knew that a day will come when I will ask for advise, today I need help with my thinking faculty. I hope am not stupid?

My mother remarried after my father passed a very long time ago and she has three kids for my step dad, we all grew up together and God has been helping me. Although my step dad didn't sponsor me in any school, God saw me through. My mother struggled so much to see me through Secondary school and at a point, I became known as the last student to pay school fee every term. All in all I passed WAEC and God sent Scholarship my way, that was how I got  a degree.

I am married now with 2 beautiful daughters and why I write this mail is because something is bugging me a bit. After my marriage, my step dad passed on and hubby and I tried our best with my 3

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