Showing posts with label relationship story. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationship story. Show all posts

I'm In Love With And Loved By A Divorcee, CONFUSED

I am a silent reader who has been visiting your blog for 2years now. And it has been an eye opener to married life even before venturing. 

Even scared of getting married because of so many bad and failed marriages but God will see me through.


Am dating this man, a divorcee with 3 kids for close to 2 years now and I have fallen completely in love with him regardless of his complicated life and I believe he is in love too. Whenever we are together I feel so happy and different (the feeling is natural). We rarely argue or quarrel.  Now he is very serious about settling down with me but am not certain this is what I want. Am scared and afraid. I have turned down his proposal about marriage before but he never gives up.

He is a very handsome, humble, caring, hardworking, very rich, romantic, very domesticated, funny, intelligent and a religious man who respects me and treats me like a queen. One of my problems are, he labelled his ex wife evil, wicked,not a good cook and she hated his family etc.


He told me he tried teaching her how to cook but she didn't learn. Of course the story is one sided and he said he has never laid his hands on her ever (domestic violence).

At the moment, the wife is tormenting him with the kids and its weighing him down. I haven't met any of his cute children at all.


A friend's friend told me he was constantly cheating on his ex wife with this particular girl. Even to the

He Is Insisting I Keep This Pregnancy

Before I narrate my plight please I want reasonable responses and no insults.thanks.
I am a 26 year old lady, I met this guy in 2010 in my final year and we dated for 18 mths then I got pregnant for him toward the end of my nysc. it was really tough cos my then he was just bout going for his nysc. we did a hushed introduction 2 months before i gave birth and i was shuffling between my parents house and his mums house. cos i was spending a lot of time with my family outside lagos with the baby , issues started coming up with him and his mom so i had to move to his mums house in lagos. cause of the baby nd no one to really help out it wasnt easy getting a job.Last year the issues with his mum was plenty so we had to move outside of lagos to stay on our own.
Now the problem is everytime i bring up the issue of marriage he is always saying he isnt ready cos he hasnt got a job yet,i dont av one too buh i do makeup and learning beads.i am so frustrated and i told him see if a job isnt coming learn smtin too, the look on his face was pure hatred as if i sed smtin bad. my kid is 2year plus now nd i just found out am pregnant again. i want to get married before having another baby but hea insisting i keep d baby nd its not like we are

Too Scared To Tell Him My Admission Is Fake

Am 22yrs old in a relationship for 4yrs now I got admission at the age of 17 in my 19yrs I find out my Admission was fake my boy frnd was still behind me and I got another admission in that same school now yr3 I discover is also fake and am already engaged to him now am scared of telling him.

 I told

My Present Situation, Just Imagine It's You

I am going to start from the very beginning, and this will be the first time I will ever open my mouth to explain at length the actual gist behind the whole thing.. I am 27 years old. Im currently working with a radio station as an OAP. i am earning enough money to take care of me, my son and other expenses so I bless God for the provisions he made for me. I started visiting this blog early this year when i googled how to make a certain dish..this is a wonderful blog. So that I don't start boring you, here is my story. 11 years ago, I was in Asaba. I was done with secondary school but not yet in the University. My uncle came home from spain after 8 years, and he came to build houses and establish some businesses in Nigeria, he planned to stay for a minimum of 3months and came with his spanish-American wife whom we had never met. We are four children and adding my parents that made us six and lived in a 3 bedroom apartment so my uncle could not
stay with us. He decided to get a flat in a more developed part of asaba while construction was going on his new house.

Due to the fact that my uncles wife was not Nigerian, they needed someone to show her around, help with the chores and also keep her company since she didn't have friends and my uncle was always in the site with my dad . coming back very late at night. She was and is a very nice woman and I enjoyed her company and gists a lot but after a month,I started searching for friends around the

Should I Attend His Wedding?

Good morning Aunty Eya, My name is ************ and my number is *************. Pls do not include my details not even the first digits of my number.

Something has been bothering me for a while now. My ex is getting married next month and he said he doesn't want to look for me at his wedding.

Our break up wasn't bad @ all so we remained friends afterwards. We talk on the phone once in a while and he said one time and I quote 'by God's grace when you and my wife start talking.......'.

I still have

Marriage Was Not My Priority Then, What Should I Do Now?

I read your blog a lot, I noticed you  from Those Days you always invite people to your blog on Linda Ikeji blog. 
I am in my late twenties, I am Presently in Germany studying .
 -Now in 2007 I met this guy, he did not ask for friendship or anything, he just asked straight for marriage, marriage wasn’t my priority then and my idea of marriage has always been to marry my friend, I mean let friendship grow into marriage not just straight off marriage also I was so absorbed in my career and felt I wasn’t mature enough for marriage (a girl can be 21yrs and matured for marriage while a girl can be 26yr and still not matured).
-         We met again in 2010 and he still asked me to marry him, and I refused, I wanted us to be friends first so I accepted to visit him and spent the weekend, but nothing happened between us, not even kissing or touching. I refused and he respected my wishes. 

-         Finally, I was ready to travel to Germany to further my studies  late 2011  and I met this guy again and he

Am I Right Or Wrong?

My closest girlfriend went behind me to ask my husband for money. My husband just told me and I got really angry because I feel she should have come through me first. Please I would like to know if am right or wrong?

In fact I told my husband not to give her, hoping

Should I Try To Get A Child Out Of Wedlock Or Press For Marriage?

I Need To Make Babies Fast

Good evening Aunty Eya................., I live in ................., i'm a 24 year old law student awaiting law school, i'm not married but in a relationship of almost 7years, my boyfriend is 30.

 Let me apologize before hand for the long epistle, just trying to paint a better picture for you guys.
I had a lumpectomy on my left breast 2years ago, sometime last year I noticed a colourless discharged came out from my nipple whenever a little pressure was applied on my breast, I went to my gynae who diagnosed me with hormonal imbalance and gave me some drugs for it, then I noticed I was having

Getting Comfortable By Celise

When you first start dating a new Le Boo you are very careful to present yourself in the best light possible. You constantly make sure you brush your teeth, be in your best clothes and always look on point anytime you are meeting. This is the new period in a relationship where each person is worried about the impression they are presenting to the other person.
I remember that when I started dating my boyfriend, I could

Should I Go In Search Of My Dad?

Hello Aunty Eya,
I am a reader of your blog with some family issues I know the sound minds on that blog can help me straighten. I am just getting to know that my Biological Father is not the one I call Father. I grew up all my life knowing him as my father.

Last week I eavesdropped on a conversation between my mum and a

RE: Should I cut all Ties...? A Friend's Reply

Good morning aunty and my fellow blog readers. I have really learnt a lot from this wonderful blog and am happy and blessed to be among this great family. Please bare with my lengthy post. Aunty please don't post my email I'd. Thx

I really don't know where to start but I guess I have to start from somewhere. So i woke up yesterday morning to a strange ping from my friend and after

He Threw Away My Engagement Ring, Help Urgently

English: Three stone engagement ring - in yell...
 Three stone engagement ring - in yellow gold - 1791 Diamonds (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Aunty Eya, pls it is with the trust and respect I have in you that I write this mail, pardon my manners,how is your husband and family.
Am a young lady, just graduated from the university months
back, am afraid am a bit confused now and also having a failed relationship, am hurt deep within me, but eveN my family and friends don't seem to get what am goin through.

I dated my fiancĂ© for 14months, then he proposed me, we started marriage plans, started marriage counselling in church as well, did d formal family introduction of both families January, and every other tin in progress, now my fiancĂ© is acting strange, shouts so much @ me(though that is not new) he gives me frequent slaps and pushes me so hard, this can equate to battering. He says the am the cause of our quarrel, I take frequent calls from opposite sex, aunts Eya I broke my sim  just so peace would reign. yet he doesn't see it as been enough. I try not to return his insults an just keep calm like zombie, he said he was fed up and have had it up to here..........in pains I told him I was too, he collected my diamond ring and threw it away, I left for my family house since I was only visiting as usual, it's been 2weeks now and he hasn't called yet.

Aunty what

Hubby Selects My Obituary Pictures

How do I read my husband's thoughts? I need help!

 people tell me that I look like some one they can trust. I don't know.
But one thing is sure, friends love to confide in me. I am not trying to brag here, it's true.

My former neighbor tried to seek my opinion concerning a matter, I refused to say anything then. That was Just a week before I started typing on my browser and publishing.*wink*

Jemilah was looking at her photo album in her sitting room,
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