Showing posts with label marriage tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage tips. Show all posts
Thursday, June 23, 2016

TWO DAYS LATER THE GIRL SENT MY HUSBAND A MESSAGE AND HE STARTED HIDING HIS PHONE AGAIN; WHAT SHOULD I DO?

My husband had an affair for years with a lady I know too well, with all my instinct he kept denying it until he was caught red handed. After I decided to leave, he begged me and family members stepped in to settle us . In all those seven years he hide his phone like crazy. But in one of the conditions of staying in the marriage he promised never to hide the phone again, that the only reason
Tuesday, June 21, 2016

DO I HAVE TO WALK ON EGG SHELLS AROUND MY HUSBAND?

Hello Aunty Eya, please help me ask blog readers and you too for advise concerning the situation of my marriage. I think that I feel freer and happier when hubby isn't around. He travels, returns and there's that feeling in me like he should have stayed longer but it wasn't like this in the beginning. My husband and I have been having a really hard time.  We have been married for only three years but I feel like I have to walk on eggshells just to please him. He gets mad if I say I don't want to sleep with him because we had gotten into a small argument earlier and he told me to just shut the f**k up and go to bed , how can I then be in the mood for fun, am I a robot or remote controlled emotions. Now, in this argument we had. I have to say it like it happened so I can get help...... we were watching TV and honestly I told him that I just want to feel loved and appreciated and happy. Like for
Saturday, June 18, 2016

I DON'T WATCH MY HUSBAND'S MOVIES BECAUSE I'M JEALOUS - PEACE

I DON'T GET CLOSE TO HIS PHONES...

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Nollywood director cum actor, Ugezu Jideofor Ugezu, aka Mr Surplus, is the best thing that ever happened to his wife, Peace. In their 10 years of marriage, the couple have come to understand that they cannot live without each other. In this encounter,  Peace explains to Vanguard why she fell in love with him. Read Interview after the cut.

WILL MY HUSBAND CHANGE FOR THE BETTER?

Hello Anty and wives Connection family, I've been married for three years and in those three years  been separated for 3 times and in those 3 times my husband has insulted me, name calling, insulted my parents and i do not mean him telling me stuff about them, he insulting my parents in person, telling me to pack out of his house and so on. it has got to the point that the last two times he slapped me, scratched me leaving a red scar on my arm. 


Every time that he does this to me, after some days he tries to call me, text me and get in

Thursday, June 16, 2016

Re: MY HUSBAND IS SO IRRESPONSIBLE THERE'S NO PART 2

Sincerely I don't know where to start from ..... Please u can also refer to my old message about my husband's irresponsible behavior does not have part 2 so as to get a better knowledge of my story 
This is another phase of my life I've tried begging my husband just to make things work out so I won't like I'm the one that's being adamant 
Begged with sex, gifts and service but it's
Friday, June 10, 2016

SEXUAL SIN CONTINUES TO HURT MY MARRIAGE AGAINST MY WISH. HELP

Hello Aunty Eya, help me reach out to blog readers with my problem. Please delete out my Email address. Sexual sin is destroyng my marriage badly and I don't know what to do again. Can't take my eyes off fine ladies like it's a curse. I have fasted, prayed, done everything a man should do,  but I keep falling back into masturbation, porn and women. I have failed my wifes too many times in
Tuesday, June 07, 2016

HOW TO COPE WITH A SUPER SPORTS; AFRICA MAGIC LOVING HUSBAND

Hello my able wives connecion tribe and Aunty Eya, I feel like the whole world is collapsing, coming right down on me. When I met my husband, I knew he was the one. I married him after two years and promised him I would stay with him as long as he never cheated or hit me, this I said to him because I was in an abusive relationship before I met him. I knew he was lazy when I married him but I never thought it would get this bad. We have two beautiful daughters  who I love with every bit of my being, and I am now seven months pregnant. This pregnancy was a surprise. I was not happy when I found out and it took me a long time to get used to the fact that I was going to have another baby again in this tough, no tomatoes, no fuel economy. My husband has never helped with either child. Since he got fired from his job, He is too busy searching for another job in all the wrong places or sleeping on the couch with Super sports or Africa Magic Yoruba.
 l work 5 days a week, cook, clean, laundry, do the grocery shopping, Saturday
Saturday, June 04, 2016

Choosing Between My Lover And My Wife

Hello Madam Eya, kudos to you and members of the wives connection family for all the work and lessons delivered daily. I am a male reader of wives connection blog. Have been married for 6 years with 2 kids but deeply in love where you won't expect. My marriage has been turbulent and everything but romantic. I won't say that my wife drove me into the hands of my lover because she didn't. Initially it was normal friendship and conversations. I never for once thought I'll find myself neck deep in love with her but that's my present situation. Wifey
Friday, June 03, 2016

How Getting Married, Becoming a mum has made me lose friends

Good day aunty, I'm a new reader who got introduced to wives connection this year by my cousin. please I need help from wives connection. I need to know how wives and mothers manage to keep their friendships alive. I got married almost immediately after graduation in 2014. My family got blessed with twin boys in 2015 and life has been kind of "it is well" Joggling wifey duties, babies, my job etc, it  has not been easy. No one told me it's this hard, not even my mother. I am not complaining but this phase of my life is really hard.
Where I need help is with keeping my friends around. I am fast losing friends. I can't find time to visit even those in the same town with me, I can't find time to just chat and relax with those far away.
Tuesday, May 31, 2016

The worst part is that the man married two wives

Hi Ma'am Eya and my fellow wives connection readers,I'm just a concern friend who may have been my friends cause of present situation. Here is the story, my childhood friend whom we discuss every thing 2geda ask me for an advice which I told her what I thought was right i.e did I think she needs a house help with 3kids with the first kid just 4+ then cos she is a stay at home mom,I asked  her what exactly she want and she told me she is confused cos her husband is

We Enjoy a healthy marriage with no major issues but one thing...


Hello ma'am, I wanted to reach out to this wonderful wives connection family and get some advice on if my situation is a perfectly normal one or I am the one who is over-reacting like she said. 
I am not really sure what I should be doing. Would appreciate any advice from the blog...


This is my second time asking for help from the blog family and I trust . My wife and I just celebrated our first wedding anniversary last weekend. We enjoy a fairly healthy marriage with no major issues so far, But one thing that has been
Sunday, May 29, 2016

READ THIS ANNIVERSARY STORY AND TELL US WHO WON

Surprise!
It was a very sunny Saturday morning, and our wedding anniversary. I looked at my wife as she got ready to leave the house for work. She is a doctor and had been on call today. It seemed like yesterday she walked down the aisle to me. Wow! We are twenty-three years in marriage today.
Friday, May 27, 2016

MY WIFE WANTS TO GET PAID FOR HOUSEWORK

Hello wives connection and Madame Eya, I started following the blog in 2014 and have benefitted immensely. Please advise me on how to go about this new drama from my wife. We have been married for 8 years and live in a 4 bedroom here in Lagos  with 2 kids. We are not rich but comfortable enough to thank God. I am a  business owner and I pay for everything, children School fees, food, cars, insurances, groceries, maintenance, medical bills, building a home at my village and all expenses which is well over say ten thousand Naira straight.  I also pay for my wife's part time schooling. She became a teacher after our second child was born, to enable her create more time for the kids while earning a little something for herself.  My wife doesn't really work that much at home and does only a few dishes sometimes, laundry pretty much most of the chores for
Wednesday, May 25, 2016

When My Husband Think's I'm not around; Annoying

Hello Aunty Eya and wives connection fam. This is really just a rant but over the past few weeks, my husband and I have been talking about having kids after just 5 months of marriage. We've been together for 2 years as fiance and fiancee hustling to gather money for wedding, but married only five months back. We are both only 27. 
I snoop on him and know quite a few blogs and forums he reads. I noticed him making stupid remarks on a forum he visits. It's an open forum, predominantly male users. He's been talking about how Beyonce is the only true hourglass female and how Rihanna makes him wanna diggggg. I don't think he knows I can see that stuff but I think he's being an idiot. And, frankly, I'm disappointed that he's like that when he thinks I'm not around. I thought of confronting him but won't he think I've been spying on him?

It's making me feel weird. I don't know if I want to be all gigantic and pregnant while

SAUSAGE IN A CONDOM: HOME MADE HELP FOR NIGERIAN WIVES IN SEXLESS MARRIAGES

Do It Yourself (DIY) TOYS FOR STARVED WIVES WHO CANNOT ACCESS,  AFFORD STORE TOYS.

How to make sex toys at home for sexless marriages in remote areas
 Easy Home made toy.
Cucumber in a condom by wives connection
 cucumber in a condom.


Singles, check the next post!
Hello Eya, There have been blog posts and questions on the blog from African wives suffering in sexless marriages and unable to leave. They never asked for
Monday, May 23, 2016

MY WIFE HAS NEVER SAID "I AM SORRY" TO ME, WHAT DO I DO?

Good evening madam Eya, please I am a male reader on this your blog , help me post my case so that I could get help from you ladies, I am a father of four kids,I've always taken care of my family but my wife attitudes have changed that as the economy of the country is high and she is doing well in her business,
Friday, May 20, 2016

Self Help For Your Libido

Thanks Julia, I had to bring this comment to front page so everyone can see. She responded on the post HOW OFTEN SHOULD YOU HAVE SEX
I HOPE THERE'S NOT GOING TO BE SCARCITY OF TIGER NUTS AND DATES AFTER TODAY?
You can also read how to make Tigernut drink (kunun aya) by Sadiya.

Read the comment below:
Wednesday, May 18, 2016

My Wife Says I'm Blowing Things Out of proportion, Is she right?

Hello Madam, I'm a reader of wives connection blog based outside the shores of Nigeria. Haven't set my foot in the country in over a decade but making plans to visit... This will be my first time posting, even though I have been reading for quite some time. Here is a little background before I get to the questions I have for you guys. Please bear with my long story. My wife and I have been married for 14 years, and have 4 kids. We met and married right out of high school, and were each other’s first loves. We both grew up here and met here. My wife growing up, was a straight laced girl. She always got super good grades, and was very responsible. Because of this, I have always believed and trusted everything she says. I could not even imagine her lying to me. She has the type of personality, that she is not afraid to tell you exactly what she is thinking. She can be very blunt, which is one of the things I have always admired about her. I have always trusted her for that reason.

Well, a couple years after getting married, she got a part time job, and not long after

I've cheated on my husband and need help


Hello Aunty Eya, Please take away all details before posting. My husband is 16 years older than I am and we have been married for 3 years. He is in his fifties. He is oftentimes kind, gentle and sweet. But we have always have our differences that caused major fights among us. I have felt neglected often times although he's there. His job is extremely demanding and stress filled and often times he takes out that frustration on me by yelling and complaining over
Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Do I Always Have To Say Yes For A Successful Marriage?

Please post my mail anonymously Anty. I came across wives connection while searching for info on courtship matters. I have since that 2015 been hooked like glue. God bless everyone on the blog cuz I have learnt so much. I'm newly married and we had a celibate courtship because we are both Christians. My husband and I saw ourselves the very first time on our wedding night and I have a little problem. His libido is much much higher and it's not funny, There was a day I felt so sore I

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