Showing posts with label marriage tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage tips. Show all posts
Saturday, July 15, 2017

My name is Barrister Aliyu Ahmed and I would like to share my marriage woes with you

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My name is Barrister Aliyu Ahmed and I would like to share my #DivorceDiaries with you

1. I'm a lawyer from Jigawa State. I am the chief Legal Officer of a new generation bank. I am
Thursday, July 13, 2017

Happy Nigerian wife asking the public for how to appreciate her husband after seeing these chats between him and a female staff

Have you seen this viral Whatsapp chat between a man and his female staff who while vying for a side-chic position, insulted his boss’ wife!
The chat screenshots  have gone viral online after it was reportedly shared by the Man’s wife  who is asking for a way to appreciate her husband for being such a “faithful man”!
As seen in the chat, the female staff was making efforts to show she cared, even insulting the Boss’ wife in the process! But she got a sack from the man who found her care a little faulty! Read Chats below!
Monday, July 10, 2017

Things to do, to make your marriage work - Tips by Relationship expert Joro Olumofin

There are a million things a woman is asked to do just to keep her man, but there is no list of things a man is asked to do to keep his woman. We Men make it seem like women want to get married more than us and we're doing them a favor by committing or being in a relationship. Most Men act like they are the only ones who are granted free PASS to cheat or it is their right to cheat. Women can cheat as well but they choose to be loyal in relationships for Love, peace sake and to keep their homes.
Letter to Husbands - " you should have
Sunday, July 02, 2017

Nigerian wives out there,please tell me the truth If I'm a terrible wife like my husband says...

I have been married for 4 years now and blessed with two kids. My husband nags a lot. If am sick he will nag that I'm the cause of it and won't take me to the hospital, all he would say is I won't spend my money in the hospital. As clean as my house is, it's not clean enough for him. If he comes back from work and I ask how his day was he will respond like am disturbing him. But if I go out and
Wednesday, June 07, 2017

Nigerian man refuses to use condom with wife after she found out he is HIV positive!

This disturbing story about a Nigerian man who has refused to use a condom with his wife after he lied and she found out he was HIV positive just one year after their wedding was shared by Amanda Chisom. 
What would you do if you were this lady? She needs advice.
Good evening, please hide my ID. I saw my hubby taking some drugs last month, I asked what does the drugs work for, he said he
Sunday, June 04, 2017

'I handed all my cheque books to my wife' - Singer Panam Percy Paul

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Renowned Gospel musician, Panam Percy Paul and his beautiful wife of 36 years, Teena, share some of their marital experiences with TOFARATI IGE @Punchng
Can you recall how you met your spouse?
Panam: Our relationship is unique in the sense that we had always known each other but I never thought that she would end up as my wife. I used to see her as a little sister. At a time during the Nigerian civil war, she and her elder brother, who was my classmate, even lived with us. With the passage of time, we all went our separate ways to school and to pursue other endeavours so we didn’t see each other for a while. But on one fateful day in 1979, I went to visit my parents and she was just leaving the
Sunday, May 14, 2017

Heartbroken Wife shares conversation between 'anal-loving' husband and his mistress (See Photos)

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A distressed lady has cried out to relationship expert, Joro Olumofin, over her husband's infidelity and feels she might have been infected by him as she is sure he doesn't use protection, according to her its just a year into her marriage. The husband cheated because he wanted anal something from her, but she refused, so he went in search of one..

She came back from church and found the hubby asleep in the living room, went through his chats and found out he was cheating, she went ahead to share the chats...Read Below...
Wednesday, May 03, 2017

But why? Nigerian man scams & dumps American wife after obtaining Green Card (photos)


An African-American woman named Deborah Hendrickson has accused her Nigerian husband, Inyang Obaten Ettah, aka Tony Ettah of scamming and dumping her after using her to get a Green card. According to Deborah Hendrickson, she filed (online) a fraud case immediately against Tony after he admitted using her and told her she caused it. That he absconded because she kept telling him she senses he was using her and her words 'caused' it to happen.

Deborah is now threatening to report Tony to Donald Trump so she'll get justice. Read her life story below:
I don't know where to start . . . I guess I'll start with meeting Inyang Obaten Ettah, AKA Tony Ettah back in June 2010, we met through a friend of mine named, Charles.  I've 

Must Read: Woman narrates on Social Media how her marriage ended just after introduction, Hubby leaves a comment on her post giving more reasons why the wedding cannot hold

Below is her story and Reply from husband as shared on Instagram... Seeing her kiss another man on their Introduction night must have been the last straw that broke the camel's heart. Using up butter is not enough reason for such aggression if he didn't have other issues bottled up and disturbing him. There is no wisdom in Kissing an ex boyfriend a goodbye kiss at the backyard on the day of your traditional marriage. Ahn ahn, you nor fear?

Now she has gone public calling on everyone to help her beg the man, what does she want him to do in this circumstance. They have both said very bad things to each other even insulting their families. See what anger and 'the tongue' can cause?
Read on...
Friday, April 07, 2017

In a relationship with an Urhobo man who is into traditional worship

I would wish my post to be anonymous and would love to get responses concerning this issue that has been bothering me for sometime.

I have been in a relationship with an Urhobo man for three years and was invited to his family house as at last year, only to realize on my own that they are still into traditional worship.

He made me understand that marrying him would not force me into the religion but that I
Sunday, April 02, 2017

What to do when in an abusive relationship –Joke Silva

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Ageless beauty and mother of three, Joke Silva has come a long way. For the past 32 years, she has been married to veteran actor, Olu Jacobs and their marriage stands as one of the most successful in an industry where marriages crash regularly. 

Entertainer caught up with the founder of Lufodo Acting Academy during the press conference to unveil Light in The Dark, a movie which addresses domestic violence last week in Lagos, and the actress opened up on her current project as well as how to handle an abusive relationship among others.
Read her responses and advice below...
Saturday, April 01, 2017

Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. Never allow your friends to be close to your husband...

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Read below and tell us if you agree or not...

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret
them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's
Tuesday, March 28, 2017

See Major reasons why Side-chicks are Winning & some wives are Losing

Relationship expert and blogger, Joro Olumofin, has outlined the Major reasons why Mistresses / Side-chicks are Winning & some wives are Losing. 
Read the 8 reasons after the cut...
Monday, March 20, 2017

Read this Conversation between a wife & her husband's arrogant mistress

This was posted by relationship expert Joro Olumofin on his page and it got me thinking ...Can a side chic be this bold? Where?
"I wokeup to a message from my boyfriends wife, he lied to me..common gas boiler she can not buy, the whole kitchen roof will be black, she has dirty underwear, I'm so irked, if she inflicts Harm on me her husband will beat her up mercilessly.. "
Chat continues after the cut...

Monday, March 13, 2017

Any Business I can start with Three Hundred Thousand Naira? Suggestions Please

I am the lady that wrote about my husband cheating and have not slept with me for four years, I had a job before we got married up on till 2015 when I lost the job . We bought some Landed property in the early stages of the marriage, on the day he went to pay for the land I was not there due to his own making, on getting there he put only his name on the document and said because I was not there there could not put my name due to signature till today he has refuse to put my name on them and anytime I ask him let go so I can add my name he said not necessary, he make reference to the land as my land not ours.

 He was cheating way before I lost my job . Yesterday he told me if I continue to stay he will
Monday, February 20, 2017

Can a wife give viagra to poor performing husband without his knowledge?


Hello Aunty Eya, kindly help me post on the wives blog. I needs readers comments and help please. My husband and I have been married for 5 years now with 3 kids but I have never enjoyed him in me. I still have memories if my University days and how it used to be so much fun and climax with my then fiance although things didn't work out between us. I graduated, got married and I do truly love my husband but not in the bedroom. The 3 kids we have is just by the grace of God. He has never lasted even 2 minutes in me and that makes me wonder how I get pregnant in the first place. Most of the time, By the time I begin to think of relaxing and enjoying him, he has already ejaculated and will soon fall into a deep sleep. I complained to him that I suspect he is suffering from quick ejaculation but he countered and explains that not every man can go more than 2 minutes. 

Anty Eya pls help. I don't want to live the rest of my life in a man's house never experiencing pleasure. There were times I hissed at him after everything. If things continue this way, I fear may never enjoy orgasm with him and God forbid that I even think of
Saturday, February 18, 2017

Re: My Husband's irresponsibility has no part 2. Hubby replies separated wife and those who left comments

If you didn't read that post in 2016, read it here. A Nigerian wife sent a mail for posting, she was tired of her hubby's ways and wanted to know the next right step to take. Many blog readers left comments and right now we do not know if the poster is still married to her husband or divorced. So, this morning, I opened the blog and saw messages from her husband. He has replied and insists that his wife's post was  not the whole truth and also replied some comments left there. 
See his replies below:

Wednesday, February 15, 2017

Stubborn Tonto Dikeh deletes all photos of estranged husband on Instagram

Actress and mum of one, Tonto Dikeh has deleted all memories of her estranged husband on her Instagram page. I'm so disappointed and pissed already. A pity how some women cannot even try their minimum best to keep the family together. Marriage is hard work and whoever is entering that door should be prepared to work hard and to look the other way a times. As an actress and make-believe-expert, I hope Tonto didn't think that the scripts she acts in movies are what marriage is all about? Is it that most actresses go into marriage expecting things to be the exact way we see on the large screen? I am so very disappointed in you Tonto, every marriage gets to that wilderness period of dryness, lack of affection, trials and patience and tolerance. This marriage sure brought you so much joy, having your own family and settling down into a more responsible woman gave you more fans but you won't keep
Thursday, February 09, 2017


I need your help and the readers. I wrote to you last year how my husband slept with two sisters for seven years We have been married for eight out of it he has spent seven sleeping around until that faithful day He was embarrassed by the first one he started sleeping with first . he confessed to the crime and I forgave him not to do it again . 

Now, He told me he was going on an official trip, upon his return
Friday, January 27, 2017

Don't marry anyone who puts secret password on their phone - Marriage counselor warns

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A Ghanaian marriage counselor has warned intending couples to avoiding marrying anyone who puts passwords on their phones.
Counselor Adofoli wrote thus:
If you are single and thinking of marriage then please don't marry anyone who puts passwords or locks on their phone as a form of security to prevent you from accessing their conversations.
They can surely do this for other security measures, but you must not be the reason for this action. I am very much aware that passwords or lock are for security purposes but one thing I don't approve of is when a spouse becomes the reason for that security measure.
There is nothing like secrecy or privacy in marriage, let no one deceive you there is, and let no one tell you he or she is doing that to

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