Is It Right For My Husband To Invite A Lady To The House Without My Knowledge?

Hi Aunty Eya!  I'd like to remain anonymous if you choose to post this.  I have a question for you.  Is it right for a man to invite a female friend over to his house and entertain said friend in said house without his wife's knowledge?  I'm bothered because said friend is a woman I've never met before. 

 She supposedly came into town from Abuja on a leisure trip and my hubby

Advice Please: Should I be Worried?

Dear Eya,
I am an avid reader of your blog, I love this family! I need your advice and the advice of pple in the house ASAP.
Before I got married, some months ago, there is this friend of my husband, a female, they are very close. 

Always

Marriage Counselor In Lagos

Good morning Eya Ayambem,

Please I need your help. I live in Lagos and I have some issues. My husband and I want to meet with a Marriage counselor. I don't want to discuss it with my pastor and don't

I Need Advice: What Would You Do?

Good morning Aunty Ojay and other good people on WC. I have a serious headache, I have a big problem and couldn't think of anywhere else to go than come meet you  and other people in the house. I don't know where to start.

Aunty Eya, please and please I need sincere answers because they go a long way to help me know where to start and what to do. 

What would you do if one morning, your husband of 9 years wakes you up to confess that he thinks he is

Are We Compatible?

Hi Aunty  Eya, I am in a relationship, we are talking marriage but I'm not sure we are really compatible. I thought of sharing our traits with WC readers to see how others feel about us as a couple.

• No one has ever told me they

Why You Desperately Need Quail Eggs

Boiled quail eggs cooling in cold water.

Quail eggs are a delicacy and they are very healthy. They are an enriched source of anti-oxidants. The high level of anti-oxidants in quail eggs help in preventing age-related muscular degeneration.

 Quail eggs strengthen the immune system and give relief from inflammatory diseases. Eating them with other foods contribute to brain development. For those who complain of higher libidos than their spouses, feed your spouse with

Is It Ungodly To Use A Toy?

Hello Eya and fellow blog addicts and readers,
My wife and I read the story of the woman whose husband caught using a toy.

 I then suggested to her that we include toy play in our marriage but

Hope This Isn't Wrong?

Hello Aunty Eya,  and I hope you are doing well?

Thank you for this family WC it has really helped my cooking skills. Please I need advice from other women like me here. i got married 3yrs ago, am really enjoying my marriage and I have the best husband in the world. I married my husband a virgin and though

My Husband Caught Me With A Toy

Hello Aunty Eya,
I've been trying to reach you for two days now. I am in trouble with my husband. Our marriage is 7 years old and we have two kids. Hubby and I had no problems at all in the past. He is a very good, loving husband and father. For the seven years we've been together, he hasn't given me any reason not to trust him.

The only little problem in our marriage is that

Wifey Not Financially Prudent What Can I Do?

Hi Aunty Eya… I’ve enjoyed every bit of the issues / contributions raised on this blog. My dilemma would require intervention from the family. Please don’t publish my name & email address.

I’ve been married for almost 20years and have an issue with my lovely wifey… She is not good with money and needs to be helped. I give her a pass mark in every other area.

I am a salary earner and had always wanted a woman that also works to support the family – especially for her to be financially independent. With the challenge in getting paid employment, we have had to set up series of businesses for her hoping that

Should I Reconcile My Parents?

Good Morning Eya,

Please I have an issue that has been bothering me for a long while. My parents have been separated since I was 12. Now I'm 26 and they are still separated and both of them are not married. My mum left because my dad was always hitting her. She left 3 times before and my dad will beg her then she will return before she left the final one. Even then, we as the kids usually pray that they separate because my mum is the one suffering from the beatings ,we could barely do anything  to stop the beatings and it was also embarrassing as it was

I Live In My Wife's Apartment And Drive Her Car

Hello Eya,
I am an ardent reader of your blog and today I have a little thing bothering me, and would look to know how/what women think concerning some things. I have been married to my beautiful wife for 5 years. All these years we live in her house and drive her car. It is a cause for

My Husband Does Not Call, Am I Thinking Too Much?

God bless you aunty Eya .I'm regular reader of your blog n I admire u a lot n also d bloggers .they ve such a great wisdom n I wish to benefit from those wisdom... I recently got married ..my hubby is d last in

Should I Marry Him?

Hello Madam Eya,
Thank God for the job God is using you to do. I'll prefer you hide my ID.
 Please before I start this story, I'll like to let your readers know
that as it is now, I don't want to go ahead and

The Best Age Difference Between Husband And Wife

Hi Madam Eya,
How are you? I am a silent male reader of your fun and Educative blog. I have a little thing bothering me right now. Can you and other wonderful users please help out?

Iam 29 and my fiancee is 30. The difference is just in months actually.

Question Concerning The Illicit Affair Post

Hello.

Good afternoon. 

I read the post about the woman having an illicit affair and was surprised but I believe these things do happen. I have a question actually. For unmarried people who are taking a stand of

This Illicit Affair Is Killing Me, I desperately Need Advice

Hello Aunty Eya,
I have been following your blog and I never shared my problems before but now my problem is burying me alive. Please keep my identity hidden

I am married ( will be 2 years in a few months) and I have a one year old son. My husband and I rarely have sex and the issue I think is I'm not sexually attracted to him. When he touches me, I hardly feel excited and so

Is My Marriage Dying Slowly?

Hi Eya,
I don't know how to say this without sounding offensive and vulgar to you and other readers. I will try my best here. In case you see anything offensive about what I am going to say, please edit it out before you post o. I'm too scared of those who derive pleasure in cussing, may they not find this mail please.

I am prompted to write you because of the stories I read on the blog. Recently, someone wrote that she and husband get to meet every other day. She is not the first, there

This post no longer exists

Dear bloggers, ever since I started receiving mails and posting to help us get other peoples' opinions, no mail has left me this uncomfortable. I know the sender answered my questions and all BUT, I couldn't even bring myself to advise him cos I don't really feel convinced. 

I am sorry I have to take it down because

Re: Ikorodu Lady Emergency

Hi Aunt. Eya,I would like to reply to this post through a direct mail to you because at first I wanted to ignore it, but I've been thinking about this lady's situation so much that