Showing posts with label marriage tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage tips. Show all posts
Tuesday, July 19, 2016

DOES IKOYI REGISTRY ISSUE BETTER MARRIAGE CERTIFICATES THAN OTHER LOCAL GOVERNMENT AREAS?



Good day madam,

Please I got your email address online. I actually saw it on a forum you were addressing people's questions on marriage certificate registration.

Please i will appreciate if you can guide me on marriage certificate registration. I want to know if there are any difference between the marriage registration done at Federal registry
Thursday, July 14, 2016

WHEN YOU LEAVE DOMESTIC DISAGREEMENT FOR TOO LONG



A couple had a misunderstanding and as a result drove in separate cars to church. When they got to church, they sat down together smiling, as people complimented them but, all they did was  put up a face so people do not get to know that they are at 'war' with each other. At the end of the service, the husband drove home while the wife waited to attend the women's meeting. The husband was home already, when he checked his phone, his wife had called him thrice. He disregarded calling her back out of malice. The wife drove in some forty minutes later. He saw Usman opening the gate for her as his phone went on ringing. He checked it. It was his wife. She was in her car at the garage already.

"What is she calling me for? Foolish and stubborn wife!" He said and ignored her calls. The call went
Friday, July 08, 2016

YOUR HUSBAND'S 6 BASIC NEEDS, ARE YOU MEETING THEM?



Every man's needs are different but most men have some common basic needs that we wives have to meet for the good of our marriages. The key to a successful marriage is selflessness/unselfishness. If you can put your spouse's needs before yours? You are on the right track and your marriage will bloom like this beautiful flower in my small garden.
If you truly love your husband, you'll want to make him very happy and these six things truly make men happy, I know because I have been married for over a decade with 5 kids by God's grace. Doing these things is easier in some marriages than it is in others, but we just have to keep our marriages intact and create the "happy family" we want to see, God helping.

1. AN ATTRACTIVE SPOUSE
As a wife of 16 years and counting, I know how comfortable wives get around their husbands with time and that is a good thing. As a mother of five, I know how easy it is to stay in pyjamas all day especially on weekends, I know how easy it is to wear a black hair net from evening to noon, I know how easy it is to that that that. Some days are like that, it's difficult and you can't help it but don't let that become a habit. Put an effort, try harder, work hard at making yourself attractive to your spouse. There is no natural beauty, you may have those good features but if you do not put an effort, the beauty won't show. You may feel you are naturally good looking but that's not all, consciously do something extra, make yourself look attractive and sweet even at home. That doesn't mean we go shopping for beautiful clothes and cosmetics every other week, it means waking up in the morning, taking care of yourself first. As I type on this laptop right now, my husband ate his breakfast talking with me looking natural but wearing light makeup. I don't plan on going out today but first thing this morning, I brushed and took care of especially my face even before packing lunchboxes and his breakfast. While he ate, we talked about the Dallas shooting watching CNN breaking News and just generally talking about all the shootings in the Unites States. At a point, he carried his breakfast from the dining and joined me in front of the TV and I don't know if my smooth looking fresh face is the attraction or the News, whatever.
My daughter saw me putting on some foundation and she was like "mummy have you had your bath
Friday, July 01, 2016

RE: CAN THE HUSBAND OF THIS BEAUTIFUL LADY EVER CHEAT ON HER?

Hi Eya,
 please help me share this in your forum
I came across the above topic and wanted to share my story letting you know that the rich also cry.
its not by beauty oh .I have a wife as beautiful as this. Even though I don't want to cheat on her but, she is not helping matters and there by pushing me into temptation.
 She has a good character she is really not

I SECRETLY INSTALLED AUTO VOICE RECORDER IN MY HUSBAND'S PHONE, HOW DO I OVERCOME THE PAIN FROM THOSE DISCOVERIES?

Hello bloggers, hubby cheated on me with a lady we buy food stuffs from. I have been suspecting him for a long time but he keep on denying, deletes every calls he makes. I had to install auto voice call recoder in his phone without his knowledge. As usual, he deleted all his calls and I went to the file, and read all the calls and discovered what was going on.confronted him with the fact and he did all he could do in order to collect the piece of evidence that I have but did not succeed. finally he confessed cos he had no other option cos I threatened to expose him to some people that are looking
Wednesday, June 29, 2016

SINCE MY BROTHER-INLAW CAME OVER TO DUBAI, HUBBY HAS CHANGED

Hello Wives Connection. My husband's family did not want their brother to marry me because they want him to be sending them money, except their mother but she died before our wedding , after our wedding I spend one year in the village with their father but it was hell for me but I endured it. my husband was not happy about what I was passing through then,so one of his brother almost threw me out of their house that I did not know how they built the house, he almost beat me up but I treating him that he will spend the least of his life in prison, he became Afraid . 

Now my husband brought him to Dubai where we are staying, I also approved his coming not even
Tuesday, June 28, 2016

I LEFT SCHOOL TO MARRY MY HUSBAND, NOW I FEEL DIFFERENTLY ABOUT HIM

Good morning Aunty Eya and wives connection, please I need some  advice on how to carry on from here. I am a mother of one, still very young in my 20s who left school to marry my husband but now I hate him, I feel he is ugly. I was still a 200 level student at the University when I got pregnant and we had to hurriedly get married to avoid the shame. There was no proposal and all that kind of stuff, I agreed to the marriage because of the pregnancy.

Honest Truth is, I knew my husband's family long before we dated and have always admired my husband's younger brother, I liked his charisma, the way he treats other people and always felt like he was more intelligent than my now husband. I think I had a crush on him back then but how things turned and I started dating the elder brother I didn't really like, can't tell. Somehow, not long after, I
Monday, June 27, 2016

DOES MY HUSBAND WANT ME TO BEG HIM TO EAT?

I don't usually do this but i am genuinely confused about this whole thing. I just got married about 3 months ago nd I noticed something about my husband. Whenever we have a little misunderstanding, he won't eat my food and he stretches it longer by not sleeping in the room and this confuses me because he is just suffering himself, looking miserable and eating junk. Does he expect me to be angry cos he isn't eating my food? Because it honestly doesn't bother me. First time he did it i was

The Situation of things in my marriage to a pastor

So, yesterday I  got a call, the caller was really really down,  not a regular wives connection reader.  Says she was just searching for some answers online when she bumped into the blog, read some topics and had to call me because she needed to talk and couldn't find who to trust.  She got involved in a domestimated  accident that got people rushing to show sympathy,  she fell on the staircase,  it was really serious with blood gushing out of her knee but hubby showed no sympathy, but instead was asking why she let herself fall like that. Things have happened,  where she expects that he makes her feel loved and appreciated but he shows no feelings and it's so bad she had to visit Google to seek solutions and see if there are other women in marriages like hers.We got talking and then Network became poor, we couldn't hear ourselves anymore and had to continue on WhatsApp.
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Thursday, June 23, 2016

TWO DAYS LATER THE GIRL SENT MY HUSBAND A MESSAGE AND HE STARTED HIDING HIS PHONE AGAIN; WHAT SHOULD I DO?

My husband had an affair for years with a lady I know too well, with all my instinct he kept denying it until he was caught red handed. After I decided to leave, he begged me and family members stepped in to settle us . In all those seven years he hide his phone like crazy. But in one of the conditions of staying in the marriage he promised never to hide the phone again, that the only reason
Tuesday, June 21, 2016

DO I HAVE TO WALK ON EGG SHELLS AROUND MY HUSBAND?

Hello Aunty Eya, please help me ask blog readers and you too for advise concerning the situation of my marriage. I think that I feel freer and happier when hubby isn't around. He travels, returns and there's that feeling in me like he should have stayed longer but it wasn't like this in the beginning. My husband and I have been having a really hard time.  We have been married for only three years but I feel like I have to walk on eggshells just to please him. He gets mad if I say I don't want to sleep with him because we had gotten into a small argument earlier and he told me to just shut the f**k up and go to bed , how can I then be in the mood for fun, am I a robot or remote controlled emotions. Now, in this argument we had. I have to say it like it happened so I can get help...... we were watching TV and honestly I told him that I just want to feel loved and appreciated and happy. Like for
Saturday, June 18, 2016

I DON'T WATCH MY HUSBAND'S MOVIES BECAUSE I'M JEALOUS - PEACE

I DON'T GET CLOSE TO HIS PHONES...

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Nollywood director cum actor, Ugezu Jideofor Ugezu, aka Mr Surplus, is the best thing that ever happened to his wife, Peace. In their 10 years of marriage, the couple have come to understand that they cannot live without each other. In this encounter,  Peace explains to Vanguard why she fell in love with him. Read Interview after the cut.

WILL MY HUSBAND CHANGE FOR THE BETTER?

Hello Anty and wives Connection family, I've been married for three years and in those three years  been separated for 3 times and in those 3 times my husband has insulted me, name calling, insulted my parents and i do not mean him telling me stuff about them, he insulting my parents in person, telling me to pack out of his house and so on. it has got to the point that the last two times he slapped me, scratched me leaving a red scar on my arm. 


Every time that he does this to me, after some days he tries to call me, text me and get in

Thursday, June 16, 2016

Re: MY HUSBAND IS SO IRRESPONSIBLE THERE'S NO PART 2

Sincerely I don't know where to start from ..... Please u can also refer to my old message about my husband's irresponsible behavior does not have part 2 so as to get a better knowledge of my story 
This is another phase of my life I've tried begging my husband just to make things work out so I won't like I'm the one that's being adamant 
Begged with sex, gifts and service but it's
Friday, June 10, 2016

SEXUAL SIN CONTINUES TO HURT MY MARRIAGE AGAINST MY WISH. HELP

Hello Aunty Eya, help me reach out to blog readers with my problem. Please delete out my Email address. Sexual sin is destroyng my marriage badly and I don't know what to do again. Can't take my eyes off fine ladies like it's a curse. I have fasted, prayed, done everything a man should do,  but I keep falling back into masturbation, porn and women. I have failed my wifes too many times in
Tuesday, June 07, 2016

HOW TO COPE WITH A SUPER SPORTS; AFRICA MAGIC LOVING HUSBAND

Hello my able wives connecion tribe and Aunty Eya, I feel like the whole world is collapsing, coming right down on me. When I met my husband, I knew he was the one. I married him after two years and promised him I would stay with him as long as he never cheated or hit me, this I said to him because I was in an abusive relationship before I met him. I knew he was lazy when I married him but I never thought it would get this bad. We have two beautiful daughters  who I love with every bit of my being, and I am now seven months pregnant. This pregnancy was a surprise. I was not happy when I found out and it took me a long time to get used to the fact that I was going to have another baby again in this tough, no tomatoes, no fuel economy. My husband has never helped with either child. Since he got fired from his job, He is too busy searching for another job in all the wrong places or sleeping on the couch with Super sports or Africa Magic Yoruba.
 l work 5 days a week, cook, clean, laundry, do the grocery shopping, Saturday
Saturday, June 04, 2016

Choosing Between My Lover And My Wife

Hello Madam Eya, kudos to you and members of the wives connection family for all the work and lessons delivered daily. I am a male reader of wives connection blog. Have been married for 6 years with 2 kids but deeply in love where you won't expect. My marriage has been turbulent and everything but romantic. I won't say that my wife drove me into the hands of my lover because she didn't. Initially it was normal friendship and conversations. I never for once thought I'll find myself neck deep in love with her but that's my present situation. Wifey
Friday, June 03, 2016

How Getting Married, Becoming a mum has made me lose friends

Good day aunty, I'm a new reader who got introduced to wives connection this year by my cousin. please I need help from wives connection. I need to know how wives and mothers manage to keep their friendships alive. I got married almost immediately after graduation in 2014. My family got blessed with twin boys in 2015 and life has been kind of "it is well" Joggling wifey duties, babies, my job etc, it  has not been easy. No one told me it's this hard, not even my mother. I am not complaining but this phase of my life is really hard.
Where I need help is with keeping my friends around. I am fast losing friends. I can't find time to visit even those in the same town with me, I can't find time to just chat and relax with those far away.
Tuesday, May 31, 2016

The worst part is that the man married two wives

Hi Ma'am Eya and my fellow wives connection readers,I'm just a concern friend who may have been my friends cause of present situation. Here is the story, my childhood friend whom we discuss every thing 2geda ask me for an advice which I told her what I thought was right i.e did I think she needs a house help with 3kids with the first kid just 4+ then cos she is a stay at home mom,I asked  her what exactly she want and she told me she is confused cos her husband is

We Enjoy a healthy marriage with no major issues but one thing...


Hello ma'am, I wanted to reach out to this wonderful wives connection family and get some advice on if my situation is a perfectly normal one or I am the one who is over-reacting like she said. 
I am not really sure what I should be doing. Would appreciate any advice from the blog...


This is my second time asking for help from the blog family and I trust . My wife and I just celebrated our first wedding anniversary last weekend. We enjoy a fairly healthy marriage with no major issues so far, But one thing that has been

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