Showing posts with label marriage tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage tips. Show all posts
Tuesday, March 28, 2017

See Major reasons why Side-chicks are Winning & some wives are Losing

Relationship expert and blogger, Joro Olumofin, has outlined the Major reasons why Mistresses / Side-chicks are Winning & some wives are Losing. 
Read the 8 reasons after the cut...
Monday, March 20, 2017

Read this Conversation between a wife & her husband's arrogant mistress

This was posted by relationship expert Joro Olumofin on his page and it got me thinking ...Can a side chic be this bold? Where?
"I wokeup to a message from my boyfriends wife, he lied to me..common gas boiler she can not buy, the whole kitchen roof will be black, she has dirty underwear, I'm so irked, if she inflicts Harm on me her husband will beat her up mercilessly.. "
Chat continues after the cut...

Monday, March 13, 2017

Any Business I can start with Three Hundred Thousand Naira? Suggestions Please

I am the lady that wrote about my husband cheating and have not slept with me for four years, I had a job before we got married up on till 2015 when I lost the job . We bought some Landed property in the early stages of the marriage, on the day he went to pay for the land I was not there due to his own making, on getting there he put only his name on the document and said because I was not there there could not put my name due to signature till today he has refuse to put my name on them and anytime I ask him let go so I can add my name he said not necessary, he make reference to the land as my land not ours.

 He was cheating way before I lost my job . Yesterday he told me if I continue to stay he will
Monday, February 20, 2017

Can a wife give viagra to poor performing husband without his knowledge?


Hello Aunty Eya, kindly help me post on the wives blog. I needs readers comments and help please. My husband and I have been married for 5 years now with 3 kids but I have never enjoyed him in me. I still have memories if my University days and how it used to be so much fun and climax with my then fiance although things didn't work out between us. I graduated, got married and I do truly love my husband but not in the bedroom. The 3 kids we have is just by the grace of God. He has never lasted even 2 minutes in me and that makes me wonder how I get pregnant in the first place. Most of the time, By the time I begin to think of relaxing and enjoying him, he has already ejaculated and will soon fall into a deep sleep. I complained to him that I suspect he is suffering from quick ejaculation but he countered and explains that not every man can go more than 2 minutes. 

Anty Eya pls help. I don't want to live the rest of my life in a man's house never experiencing pleasure. There were times I hissed at him after everything. If things continue this way, I fear may never enjoy orgasm with him and God forbid that I even think of
Saturday, February 18, 2017

Re: My Husband's irresponsibility has no part 2. Hubby replies separated wife and those who left comments

If you didn't read that post in 2016, read it here. A Nigerian wife sent a mail for posting, she was tired of her hubby's ways and wanted to know the next right step to take. Many blog readers left comments and right now we do not know if the poster is still married to her husband or divorced. So, this morning, I opened the blog and saw messages from her husband. He has replied and insists that his wife's post was  not the whole truth and also replied some comments left there. 
See his replies below:

Wednesday, February 15, 2017

Stubborn Tonto Dikeh deletes all photos of estranged husband on Instagram

Actress and mum of one, Tonto Dikeh has deleted all memories of her estranged husband on her Instagram page. I'm so disappointed and pissed already. A pity how some women cannot even try their minimum best to keep the family together. Marriage is hard work and whoever is entering that door should be prepared to work hard and to look the other way a times. As an actress and make-believe-expert, I hope Tonto didn't think that the scripts she acts in movies are what marriage is all about? Is it that most actresses go into marriage expecting things to be the exact way we see on the large screen? I am so very disappointed in you Tonto, every marriage gets to that wilderness period of dryness, lack of affection, trials and patience and tolerance. This marriage sure brought you so much joy, having your own family and settling down into a more responsible woman gave you more fans but you won't keep
Thursday, February 09, 2017


I need your help and the readers. I wrote to you last year how my husband slept with two sisters for seven years We have been married for eight out of it he has spent seven sleeping around until that faithful day He was embarrassed by the first one he started sleeping with first . he confessed to the crime and I forgave him not to do it again . 

Now, He told me he was going on an official trip, upon his return
Friday, January 27, 2017

Don't marry anyone who puts secret password on their phone - Marriage counselor warns

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A Ghanaian marriage counselor has warned intending couples to avoiding marrying anyone who puts passwords on their phones.
Counselor Adofoli wrote thus:
If you are single and thinking of marriage then please don't marry anyone who puts passwords or locks on their phone as a form of security to prevent you from accessing their conversations.
They can surely do this for other security measures, but you must not be the reason for this action. I am very much aware that passwords or lock are for security purposes but one thing I don't approve of is when a spouse becomes the reason for that security measure.
There is nothing like secrecy or privacy in marriage, let no one deceive you there is, and let no one tell you he or she is doing that to
Saturday, January 21, 2017

For Men Only: Ditch the husband mentality



1. Your wife is not beneath you and she is not above you. She is a team member. Consult her in all you do. She has been designed with helpmate resources and techniques to improve your life. If you are not letting her help you because you think you know it all, you are not wise.

2. Stop using “women are weaker vessels” as an excuse to look down on your wife. Yes, the vessel might be weak but the content is strong, very strong. And what the weaker vessels analogy connotes is for you to cherish the vessel not to look down on the vessel. Be wise my brother.

3. “Women have chicken brains and their reasoning faculty is low.” Bros, with the learning and exposure in this 21st century if you still believe this trash, then shame on you!

4. Improve your wife. Don’t carry somebody’s daughter into your house and leave her the way you met her. For example, if her father gave her first degree, when you marry her add Masters and even PhD. Don’t kill her dreams because she married you. Are you a dream killer?

5. Calling women feminists is now a new trick of men to manipulate women to
Friday, December 30, 2016

Your marriage wasn't based on love - Journalist writes open letter to Lilian Esoro & alleged Ex hubby Ubi Franklin

Outspoken Nigerian journalist, Chris Ayo Joseph has written an open letter to actress Lilian Esoro and Triplemg Boss, Ubi Franklin.
Read below:

Honestly, I really don't want to believe Ubi Franklin's marriage to Lilian Esoro is over, seeing he still got his wedding ring on, and despite Lilian yanking off "Franklin" from her Instagram profile name and deleting all Ubi's picture. Obviously, there's a message she's trying to pass across to the public. But honestly the public don't care. WE DON'T CARE.
Lillian, can you be matured for a minute and stop letting the public into your matrimonial issues?
Apparently, so much has been said online about Ubi Franklin & Lilian Esoro's marriage hitting the rock; some blaming the wife while others pointing fingers at the husband. But
Wednesday, December 21, 2016

My husband's cousin secretly sexting him yet his family insists that she travels with us for Christmas

Last year I saw messages between someone I totally know as hubby's cousin and they were sexting each other, I was even here excited she was going to come for 2015 Christmas when I saw the texts of her telling hubby she will teach him how to go more than one round. This girl comes to their family house, even while we were dating I have met her there severally everyone says she is their cousin BT when I asked my husband he said he can't even remember how they are related BT that it is his father's side of the family? 
So I banned her from coming to my house since they were sexting and I rebuked my hubby. He didn't feel remorseful his family and mother inclusive all supported him and claim it was just a game the girl.was playing. I was hurt BT moved on.

Now the main reason I am seeking advice is cos we were supposed to travel for Christmas and last week the mother called me to say hope I won't mind that that their"cousin" must
Sunday, October 16, 2016

My husband is begging to watch another man sleep with me, he used to be jealous before this sudden change. I need advice

Hi Aunty Eya, Am in my late twenties, married with 2 kids.
 My hubby want me to sleep around
I can't discuss this with my siblings
 He say it's turns him on. Am a Christian I can't do it.
 Pls I  need your advice
He want me to go out and look for and he want to also watch another man sleep with me
Sunday, October 09, 2016

Do You Change Your Married Name When Your Husband Dies?

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Hello Admin, please I need answers from blog readers and people who understand these things. ...After a divorce, people understand why you'd change your name. But after being widowed (God forbid o)? It feels like you're expected to keep your husband's name alive, to keep everything — your name, your memories — just where they left them, forever. For a woman like me who does not plan to remarry even if am
Tuesday, September 13, 2016

Nigerian husband ran away from home after their 3 kids tested positive to Sickle Cell anemia. Here's her story!

 This is exclusively from Laila's blog. the heartbroken lady called her on phone with the story you are going to read below.
 Good Evening please hide my Identity to avoid been ridiculed. I want to appreciate you for your love and care you have showed me now. 
 I am in deep pain and don't even know who to talk to about this to avoid been ridiculed but I know God is the God of all flesh he alone can do this,  but I am as well loosing my mind. 
I got married years back like 10years ago which produced 3 lovely destinies, vivacious,
and God's images in my life ages 8,6 and 3. 
We had a genotype text, I and DH (darling husband) before wedding and it was a good to go result till after our second child. 
The children were falling sick often and on, so we decided to go to the hospital for test and there two them were tested SS. It was very disheartening moment of our lives,  we did our own test I and DH this time it was As+As=SS which was a mistake from the first laboratory before marriage.   
We had wanted to sue the laboratory but will that correct the lives of our children, we then faced God and have been praying for God's healing using Jeremiah 30:17, Psalm 107:20, Exodus 23:25 giving them anointing oil and communion, after some times the crises stopped for almost a year,   
We went to the same laboratory for test and they were AA, we went to church and shared our testimony. I later conceived my last child which now a girl,  I told
Friday, September 02, 2016

After 5 Years, I just discovered we are both AS genotype; Am Praying for a miracle...

Gud evening
 I came across your blog
 ‬Just dat am having emotional problem
 ‬I get to knwo that my fiancee has same genotype with me
 ‬AS andAS
 ‬As it stands now his own family are aware and they're not in support of it anymore.
 ‬And this is a guy that so much luv me, we luv each other so much and've plans for our future
 ‬I even took d risk of getting pregnant and thought everything will change but I was surprised when his brothers were against it and asked me to go for an abortion😢
Wednesday, August 31, 2016


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He walked in the house only to find his wife angry, deflated, moody, irritable, frowning and with a long face.

"Hey love" he greeted her as he placed the newspaper on the table.

"Hey" she said with a dull tone. She was struggling to remove her shoes.

"You've just arrived?" He asked her as he went to the kitchen to drink a glass of water.

"Yes" she answered.

"The kids?" he asked.

"They are upstairs. Changing clothes and taking a bath" she answered as she stood up dragging her feet to place her shoes at the corner near the door.

"Are you OK?" He asked her.
Sunday, August 28, 2016

How do I forgive a husband who has not even accepted his wrong?

Warning: If you are below 18, oya read the next post and ask your mum what's on this post.
Good morning Aunt

Pls hide my ID... Am a 27yr old lady married for almost 2yrs now, I have a daughter and am pregnant for another one.
I have a problem that I want to share with u concerning my husband... He's the type that's always with phone chatting mostly with ladies he's so addicted with it and I have told him that I don't like Several times that's why his phone has password.. On several occasions I have seen suspicious chat that indicates he's having extra marital affair but when I confront him he denies it..
2 days ago I was reading an article on his phone and he slept off then a whatsapp message came in and lo and behold my eyes could not believe what I saw.. Pls permit to share it "baby it's been a while
Wednesday, August 17, 2016

Feeling of guilt after stopping my husband from seeing my neighbour

Good morning wives connection family. I need advise with the way my husband and our neighbour's daughter were carrying on. My husband had an emotional affair with this girl who is like half my age, I'm 38 this month. She came over to my house EVERYDAY when he was on his annual  and even sick leave. He spent a significant amount of time alone with her. Time he never seemed to have for me for years now. He always told me he was tired. He would come home from work, go to his room, eat dinner there while watching tv and then go to sleep, even when the food is served on the dining room, he carries it to the room and eats like he is too exhausted from work.  Fast forward to when he is home, even if am around too, she would come over in her daisy daisy dresses and low cut shirts and sometimes shorts and sit real close to my husband while gisting with us. If I have to do errands and was gone 10 mins, she would be at my house, if I ran to the bank and was gone 20 min,  she was at my house, if I was gone 2 hours with the kids, she was at my house, if I was gone 10 hours at work, when I 

Tuesday, August 09, 2016


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Tuesday, August 02, 2016


Pastor Adeboye advises men not to marry a woman that cannot pray for one hour straight, cannot cook. Nigerians took to Twitter to express themselves with all kinds of videos, funny pictures and argument. Well, he is a man of God and we aught to show respect but I'm seriously thinking about praying for one hour straight daily and I know it's very good but not praying that long, can it make you a terrible wife? I pray but sometimes like in church when prayer requests are read, I often see that my prayer is ended and my eyes open even before the co-ordinator shouts the final "IN JESUS NAME"
At home, it depends on the occasion and prayer points but honestly there are times I have written a long list of prayer points and still finished praying on them all before it's 1 hour.

For the cooking, a woman should try her best to learn to cook well for her family, very important! many men's hearts can be penetrated through their stomach but no be all oh. ok, I read this anonymous comment today and would love to share it with you....
Advice to young men: When I decided to marry, if i had wanted a cook as a wife, i would have gone to calabar kitchen and got myself a nice cook. But I decided I wanted to marry someone i d love to be with and to match my type of person. She cannot cook, she is lazy and cannot wash clothes and i knew these but I love so many other qualities in her especially her honesty which was the most important virtue for me. We have been together for 10 years and I still love her and will marry her over and over again. Follow your heart and whispering of God's direction
- Anonymous 
Cooking well and praying long without physical attraction might not sustain a marriage but again physical attraction fades quickly for most men if a wife cannot cook well.

Watch the Pastor Adeboye's video that everyone is talking about below and see some tweets of how Nigerians are reacting to the video:

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