Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Wednesday, January 18, 2017


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A Nigerian lady shared conversations she had with her boyfriend whom she just found out has been married for 4 years to a lady who lives in another city, while they have been dating for 7 years! He blocked her on Facebook and then told her he isn't on Facebook, so, she wouldn't see his wedding or  photos with his wife. A friend saw his married profile and showed her then the conversation below ensued: 

Judge dissolves 5 year old marriage because husband planned with Doctors, removed wife's womb without her consent

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The five-year-old marriage of a couple, the Musilius, came to an end on Thursday when his wife found out that her husband had her womb removed without her consent.
A despaired housewife on Thursday asked an Ibadan Customary Court to dissolve her marriage because her husband rendered her barren by conniving with doctors to remove her womb without her consent, P.M news gathered.

“My lord, Musiliu has systematically rendered me barren, because I can no longer conceive due to the removal of my womb during a caesarean surgery when I was trying to deliver my first child.

“While in the hospital, he should have informed any of my relatives that for me to have a
Wednesday, December 21, 2016

My husband's cousin secretly sexting him yet his family insists that she travels with us for Christmas

Last year I saw messages between someone I totally know as hubby's cousin and they were sexting each other, I was even here excited she was going to come for 2015 Christmas when I saw the texts of her telling hubby she will teach him how to go more than one round. This girl comes to their family house, even while we were dating I have met her there severally everyone says she is their cousin BT when I asked my husband he said he can't even remember how they are related BT that it is his father's side of the family? 
So I banned her from coming to my house since they were sexting and I rebuked my hubby. He didn't feel remorseful his family and mother inclusive all supported him and claim it was just a game the girl.was playing. I was hurt BT moved on.

Now the main reason I am seeking advice is cos we were supposed to travel for Christmas and last week the mother called me to say hope I won't mind that that their"cousin" must
Monday, December 05, 2016

Read This Interesting Conversation Between A Mistress & Wife

This interesting conversation between an accidental side mistress/side chick and a wife was sent to Relationship Blogger & Consultant, Joro Olumofin so other ladies can see and learn.
Sunday, December 04, 2016

Surprised to discover that I no longer find my wife attractive after paying her in her own coin

Years back When I married my wife, we were in love or so I thought. However, I was always the one initiating intimacy in the bedroom. A little more than a year ago I started to give up. I started to withdraw from my wife a bit more and focus on myself. About nine months ago I stopped any attempts at initiating sex, intimacy or touching. More recently, I was surprised to discover that I no longer found my wife attractive. For the first time since I met her, I couldn't think of her in a sexual way. Yes, technically she was still attractive. All her attributes were the same, physically nothing had changed, but I just couldn't see her as "attractive" anymore.

Now it's easy to go without sex with her because I no longer find her attractive. I broke the habit. Then in a moment of clarity, I realized I was now as detached and uninterested in her sexually as she'd behaved for our whole marriage. Wow. I finally found out why she hasn't been interested in me all these years, I finally know how she feels. This has been a HUGE turning point for me. She really never loved me the way I loved her, the way I needed to be
Tuesday, July 19, 2016


Good day madam,

Please I got your email address online. I actually saw it on a forum you were addressing people's questions on marriage certificate registration.

Please i will appreciate if you can guide me on marriage certificate registration. I want to know if there are any difference between the marriage registration done at Federal registry
Friday, July 15, 2016


Hello ma and fellow blog readers in the house, What would you do in my situation? I am the eldest of 4 siblings. My parents have been married for 20 years but I am 24 now because apparently they got wedded a few years after I was born even though the traditional marriage rites were performed earlier. All my life my dad has been abusive towards us and my mum. Physically, emotionally and mentally. I am grateful he did the bare minimum and fed us, plus provide a roof over our heads, we only had clothes during Christmas that we have to manage for the whole year until another Christmas. As for birthday parties no way, my mum would try her best and buy a few bottles of coca cola and sweets and sometimes a small  cake.

From two years old I was sent to live my Uncle and his wife, I suffered from his wife to the point where some of them abused and neglected me. If it wasn't for the neighbours telling my parents to get me out of there, who knows what would have happened to me.

  At the age of about 9 my dad decided my mum would stop working and and stay home to take care of the family.
Growing up we would regularly see and hear my dad beating her up and
Thursday, July 14, 2016


  • I got a new job, had just gone to work on my first day, and noticed this tall, muscular, calm, good looking guy. Being rather short and plump, I didn't think he'd notice me. A few weeks later, I was discussing my weekend plans with a few co-workers and he came up to me and asked me where WE were going on Saturday night...I told him my plans and then sort of ignored him. He repeated "where are WE going on Saturday night"? Well...slow me finally caught on the point he is trying to make! We went out that Saturday night and have been together ever since. That was about 10 years ago. We'll be married 8 years in a few months.

  • My wife and I met at the University. I came home from work to an apartment full of one of my roommate's friends. One of them, a girl,  walked up to me when I walked in the door and gave me a big hug - as if
Saturday, July 02, 2016


Pastor Ogidigbo of Holly Hill Church, Abuja, shared a photo of his parents at their reconciliation traditional ceremony. The couple came back together after their divorce 31 years ago.
See his post below...
Tuesday, June 28, 2016


Good morning Aunty Eya and wives connection, please I need some  advice on how to carry on from here. I am a mother of one, still very young in my 20s who left school to marry my husband but now I hate him, I feel he is ugly. I was still a 200 level student at the University when I got pregnant and we had to hurriedly get married to avoid the shame. There was no proposal and all that kind of stuff, I agreed to the marriage because of the pregnancy.

Honest Truth is, I knew my husband's family long before we dated and have always admired my husband's younger brother, I liked his charisma, the way he treats other people and always felt like he was more intelligent than my now husband. I think I had a crush on him back then but how things turned and I started dating the elder brother I didn't really like, can't tell. Somehow, not long after, I
Tuesday, June 21, 2016


Hello Aunty Eya, please help me ask blog readers and you too for advise concerning the situation of my marriage. I think that I feel freer and happier when hubby isn't around. He travels, returns and there's that feeling in me like he should have stayed longer but it wasn't like this in the beginning. My husband and I have been having a really hard time.  We have been married for only three years but I feel like I have to walk on eggshells just to please him. He gets mad if I say I don't want to sleep with him because we had gotten into a small argument earlier and he told me to just shut the f**k up and go to bed , how can I then be in the mood for fun, am I a robot or remote controlled emotions. Now, in this argument we had. I have to say it like it happened so I can get help...... we were watching TV and honestly I told him that I just want to feel loved and appreciated and happy. Like for
Saturday, June 18, 2016


Hello Anty and wives Connection family, I've been married for three years and in those three years  been separated for 3 times and in those 3 times my husband has insulted me, name calling, insulted my parents and i do not mean him telling me stuff about them, he insulting my parents in person, telling me to pack out of his house and so on. it has got to the point that the last two times he slapped me, scratched me leaving a red scar on my arm. 

Every time that he does this to me, after some days he tries to call me, text me and get in

Wednesday, June 08, 2016


 Wow, well rested wife.
See caring husband.  Oga, where have you been all my life?Lucky wife! If your husband can cook, helps you rest during the day, why won't you help him rest too at the
Tuesday, June 07, 2016


Hello my able wives connecion tribe and Aunty Eya, I feel like the whole world is collapsing, coming right down on me. When I met my husband, I knew he was the one. I married him after two years and promised him I would stay with him as long as he never cheated or hit me, this I said to him because I was in an abusive relationship before I met him. I knew he was lazy when I married him but I never thought it would get this bad. We have two beautiful daughters  who I love with every bit of my being, and I am now seven months pregnant. This pregnancy was a surprise. I was not happy when I found out and it took me a long time to get used to the fact that I was going to have another baby again in this tough, no tomatoes, no fuel economy. My husband has never helped with either child. Since he got fired from his job, He is too busy searching for another job in all the wrong places or sleeping on the couch with Super sports or Africa Magic Yoruba.
 l work 5 days a week, cook, clean, laundry, do the grocery shopping, Saturday
Saturday, June 04, 2016

I Need A Financially Independent Lady For Wife

Hello, my name is Isaiah. I am a 33 years old young man working, honest and romantic. Am looking for a financially independent lady either working class or a business person who can
Thursday, May 26, 2016

I want My Wife To Be Exactly Like My Mother

Twitter user Chuma wants his wife to be exactly like his mother. I say
That's NOT POSSIBLE. Who will then be like his wife or does getting married to Chuma mean that her own personality is lost forever?

See some replies below:
Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Do I Always Have To Say Yes For A Successful Marriage?

Please post my mail anonymously Anty. I came across wives connection while searching for info on courtship matters. I have since that 2015 been hooked like glue. God bless everyone on the blog cuz I have learnt so much. I'm newly married and we had a celibate courtship because we are both Christians. My husband and I saw ourselves the very first time on our wedding night and I have a little problem. His libido is much much higher and it's not funny, There was a day I felt so sore I

How We Met

Cute couple, he shares this inspirational story on IG, how he met his wife. After waiting patiently for years, the rest is history. Read Below:

It all started in the mid-year of 2003, when I had just graduated from High School and was trying to get into the University.
One sweet evening, I was on my way to the video rental store when I noticed a fair, young, pretty girl coming home from school. Being the shy person I was back then, I did not say anything to her that day. However, I followed her to know exactly where she lived. As soon as she vanished into a black gate on a popular street, I felt my mission for that day was accomplished.

The next day, I went back to the street where I saw her the previous day with the hope that she would
Saturday, May 14, 2016

My Husband Announced He Has A New Girlfriend And

About 2 weeks ago I asked my husband of 14 years ( married with 2 boys both in Secondary School)  what was going on between him and a female former coworker he has known (and I have met several times) for 3 years. He said that they were just friendly coworkers but that he is now interested in her romantically.  

We took a whole week on this matter going back and forth and up and down and I stated clearly that my desire was to reconcile whatever the situation, even though I know we had no fight or misunderstanding prior to this revelation,  he initially said he was thinking it through, but has now firmly decided against
Monday, May 09, 2016

10 Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating

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Writing about signs a spouse is cheating doesn't mean that you become suspicious in your relationship. What this post aims to do is put you on prayer alert, guide you to put on your whole armour knowing that the weapons of your warfare are not carnal but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds even of cheating and deception. If you see these signs in your marriage, what does it mean? Watch and pray. Know where to target your prayer bullets. Better to be aware, fix before it's too late. Enter your war room and charge the atmosphere.

  1. When your spouse begins to frequently change their passwords on the phone, computer, social media and even Emails, that doesn't seem ok to me. Chances are, they are trying to hide something.

  2. Unless s/he is planning a surprise birthday party for you, if not why move