Showing posts with label inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label inspiration. Show all posts
Wednesday, June 14, 2017

'Marriage isn’t about how compatible couples are but how they deal with their incompatibility... Your Loyal Mugu' - Charley boy as he celebrates wife on her birthday

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Grand Father, AreaFada also known as Charlyboy has penned down some very inspirational words as he celebrates his wife Lady Diane. He shared the photos below and wrote:
“My Wife,
I trust that our
Monday, May 22, 2017

Diary Of A Pastor's Wife

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DIARY OF A PASTOR'S WIFE (EPISODE 1)
That morning, my husband David came to pick me at the airport. He was dry faced and tensed, very unusual. Other times, David would be so excited to come pick me, he would kiss and hug me passionately; but today, everything is different. "You kept me waiting for hours in there." I said, gazing angrily at him. "Don't tell me it's traffic honey, today is Saturday." 

"I'm sorry, I had to pick the kids from summer lessons and then rush to church to counsel a few couples." He said soothingly. 
"You now prepare the kids for school? What happened to Ifeoma? She is the kids' nanny." 
"And you are the Kids mom!", he screamed suddenly. "You've been away from your family for 5 months, Ekom; the kids don't even talk about you anymore." David deliberately slowed his breathing in a bid to calm himself down. 
I was silent for a while. My lips quivered, but David ignored that he saw tears glistening in my eyes. Catching his eyes as he tried to look at me, I sensed a shiver of unease go through him. He was right, I was away from my family for four months or more. I had women's conference and hundreds of women to mentor in Houston. It was a moment I didn't want to miss. Then I broke the silence; "what of Ifeoma?"
David looked uncertain. "She fell ill, so I asked her to go see Doctor Dennis", he said.
We were both quiet until we got home. I sat on my bed now, slipped off my slippers and sank my feet into the rug and decided to keep them sunk in so that my toes would feel cushioned, so that a part of me would feel safe. 
"Mummy!" my daughter screamed, breathing deeply. She snuggled into my arms and I grabbed her tight to myself. "Where is your sister?" I whispered into her ears. "She is sleeping", was her response. 
Not long I heard tiny foots running along the corridor that led to my room. "Mummy, mummy..." She jumped on me and kissed me on my cheeks, leaving me in the sweet comfort of motherhood. They looked so healthy and chubby." 
What has aunty Ifeoma and Daddy been feeding you with?"
"Golden morn and banana porridge!" they chorused shrilly. 
"Mummy, Church people said that you are no longer daddy's wife"; my first daughter, Teye, said. And her eyes became sad. Deep and sad. "Aunty Ifeoma now sleeps in our daddy's room." Mfon the youngest said. 
My heart jumped, I knew at that moment, that there were stories in their eyes that I was yet to know.

EPISODE 2:
I was still devastated with the thoughts of Ifeoma and my husband David. After I watched the kids sleep, I strolled into the kitchen to make myself a cup of tea. Just after I poured the milk in a mug, I felt someone was in the kitchen too. I looked back quickly, surprised. "Welcome madam", she said; almost stuttering. 

I slowly poured the hot water from the flask into the mug, stirred it a bit and sipped. Then I noticed a protruded stomach, she had tried to cover it with her handbag. "Are you pregnant, Ifeoma?... you look it"; I asked in a soft tone. Her expression was in earnest. "Yes madam, didn't pastor tell you? I am pregnant for him, we are expecting a child." Her voice had a tremor in it, even though her face was bold and firm. 
Her words were like the score of a sharpened blade across my heart. I sensed the wound gape open even before she'd finished speaking. "You were sleeping with my husband while I was away?" 
"I am sorry madam, I think pastor is in the best place to answer that question. It was an agreement", she said calmly and walked out of the kitchen, making a flappy sound with her shoes. 
I stood there for moments like a mannequin, the tea cup in my hands, and then my eyes right at the door. The sound of my ringing tone, brought me back from the shock I had. "Hello Ekom?" "Yes Lizzy", I responded with a sigh of relieve. "Thank God I have been able to reach you, I have been dialing your American lines but not going through." She sounded a bit terrified. 
"Well, I am back in Nigeria now. I came in this morning. Is everything fine?" I asked.
"Not at all. Pastor brought your girl for maternity scan at my clinic last weekend. What's that her name again?" 
"Ifeoma?" 
"Iyaaa, Ifeoma." I was shocked to see her all over him like they were lovers. What is happening?"
Tears rolled down my eyes as Lizzy went on talking about things that went on while I was away. Something flared deep in my eyes, but my lips remained sealed. I was stricken silent, but the thud of my heartbeat sounded like cannon fire in my ears...
Monday, May 15, 2017

Who is actually Robbing God? The Sheep OR The Nigerian Shepherd?

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BOWEN UNIVERSITY *N650,000 per semester

COVENANT UNIVERSITY *N640,000 per semester

BENSON IDAHOSA *N500,000 per semester

BABCOCK UNIVERSITY *N450,000 per semester

REDEEMERS UNIVERSITY
*N450,000 per semester

AJAYI CROWTHER UNIVERSITY
*N350,000 per semester

MADONNA UNIVERSITY *N350,000 per semester

All  these UNIVERSITIES were built from TITHES and OFFERINGS of the common people who now can't afford to send their children to these schools today.

Where is the morals and responsibilities of the churches as CHARITY in Nigeria?


What is the difference between
Sunday, May 14, 2017

Beautiful baby shower photos from a young couple in Warri



The lady has since been delivered of her bundle of joy. The bouncing baby boy arrived on May 5.
see more lovely photos...
Monday, May 01, 2017

Man rapes 6-month-old baby, hires 10 lawyers to defend him



The singulat act of hiring Lawyers to defend after such heinous crime could just mean that there's no regret  over what the devil used him to do. There are 'sins' one commits and the best thing to do is own up, take responsibility and bear whatever consequences o. Hiring 10 lawyers, is it to intimidate the poor parents of the child who can't even afford one lawyer? Is it to oppress them and prove that with money one can get away with almost anything? 
A little girl whose name was given as Khadijah Bashir, was allegedly raped when she was just 6-months-old by her mother's male friend and left traumatized by the act. She might not be getting justice after all as the man who committed the said act reportedly hired 10 lawyers to defend him in court.
Khadijah who is now 8-months-old, is currently being treated at a hospital in Kano after undergoing surgery, as her parents are
Wednesday, April 26, 2017

Nigerian Student decides to spend the holiday with her friends' family then this happened...

A confused student has cried out for help after her friend's father pays in so much money into her account. Confused as to what to do with that kind of money and how to stop the man from making advances at her, she sends a mail to relationship blogger Joro and shares the chat she has with her best friend's dad. Read the chat below and please say what you think she should do in this situation?

  


Continue below to see all their chat...
Tuesday, April 25, 2017

NEVER STRUGGLE: SEE HOW TO ESCAPE RAPE

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1. After the first try to see if you can escape and yet you couldn't, do NOT struggle anymore....
2. Pretend you are weak, this will prevent him from beating you or further harming you.
3. Beg him to treat you well... Lie to him that you have succumbed....
4. If you can, help him pull your under panties and try romancing him.... This is to make him relaxed, with thoughts that you are horny, crazy or want it too.....
5. When his penis is out
Wednesday, April 12, 2017

While we were praying and fasting, they went to work



This article is a MUST READ for every Nigerian because honestly what is mostly practiced here is what you may call "Religion without Morals " With the number of churches and mosques in this country,  there is no reason Nigeria should be where we find ourselves, if only religious Nigerians spiced it with good morals. Read below:

"After independence, in order to build a great nation, each country went to work. But in Nigeria, after independence, our people went to pray and fast.

So, while we were praying, Malaysia came here and took our palm seedlings and built a great factory of it.

While we were praying, Singapore went into investment in technology.
While we were praying, India went into ICT.

While we were praying, China went to massive industrialisation.

While we were  praying,  UAE went into massive infrastructural development.

While we were binding and casting Lucifer, Japan went into technological development.

While we were speaking in tongues, Denmark went into education of her citizens.

While we were mounting big speakers in our places of worship, USA was
Saturday, March 25, 2017

Love yourself in your own skin

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Love your body. Its the only one you've got. I've noticed that as women we put a lot of pressure on ourselves to look perfect. But what is perfection anyway? Perfection is you. Perfection is me. Perfection is that kind smile and caring heart. Perfection is subjective.

Don't let society or anybody put their standards of perfection on you. Find your happy,and glow in it.

You don't like trousers? Skirts do it for you? Then ditch trousers.You can't handle natural hair? Abeg get that relaxer and relax that hair mehn.

You prefer natural hair? Then go natural sistah!

Forget the need to be anything or anyone in particular and recognise the perfection in imperfection.

Don't date anyone who doesn't like your body..a partner who is constantly nitpicking at your
Friday, March 17, 2017

Weep Not For Apostle Suleman Or Fatoyinbo Or, Weep For The Church In Nigeria

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The allegations of serial adultery swirling around Mr Suleman, a self-styled apostle, have provided much drama and comic relief in the recession-fuelled tension that has gripped our dear nation. It is important to note that, till date, the allegations are still unfolding. And until they are conclusively proven one way or the other, decency demands that Mr Suleman should be given the benefit of doubt – at least, to all reasonable extent.

But in the unfolding drama, the joke is not on Mr Suleman. The REAL JOKE is on the entire
Tuesday, March 14, 2017

SLAP YOURSELF: So, Tonto Dikeh invested all that money, time and energy to make us believe she had...



Piece written by Ima Obong Uboh. Read and let's know if you agree with her: 
SLAP YOUR SELF! 
So, Tonto Dikeh invested all that money, time and energy to make us believe she had the best husband and life?  
The luxury cars, jewelries, vacation, birthday parties and clothes.  
Only to tell us they were all lies? That he never bought her anything, that she was just putting up a show to upgrade him? 

I can't stop imagining how many people felt less of themselves watching the euphoria. How many marriages and relationships were wrecked because, some of us got mad that our partners were not doing enough. If you were one of them, take a minute and SLAP YOUR SELF! 
Some girl you know, just had a flamboyant wedding and while she is feeling miserable that it was all her money, with little or no support from her husband, you're also feeling miserable because your wedding was nothing compared to
Tuesday, February 21, 2017

Thin Tall Tony The Traitor? This is how I feel as a woman and wife #BBNaija

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Thinking about other Seasons of Big Brother. I remember vividly, that Big Brother Africa Season that shook the whole of Africa. "The Richiana" Season. We couldn't stop watching because everyone was anticipating, waiting to be the first to catch that moment when Richard and Tatiana would kiss on live TV. The day Richard won a task and chose Tatiana as the housemate to spend the night with at the Pent house, emotions raged high, Africa stayed awake the whole night to see if they'd be strong enough to resist the temptation and they did. The final day came, Who won all that money? Richard did.
 Africa fell in love with Richard and tatiana until the last day when Richard's wife appeared on stage dancing, celebrating her husband's win, walking majestically to take her darling husband home with their money. 

Thin Tall Tony is a strong contestant just like Richard. However, NOT as strong  because Tatiana knew that Richard was married, he told her about his family back home. Knowing his marital status actually helped her restrain herself from all that. Even though on the first day they clicked while discussing in the garden, he had bared his mind to a very understanding Tatiana and actually confessed to her that no one ever listened to him the way Tatiana did.  Moving forward, he let all the housemates know that he is a married man and that helped Tatiana to be strong and not fall too deep. Honestly people, Richard wore his wedding band while at Big Brother's house. He never took off his ring!

For our own Naija Thin Tall Tony in Big Brother Naija house, he just continues to drag the Intelligent Bisola along with lies. Honestly, having watched Bisola this past four weeks, she is very smart and nothing would have made her suck a married man's HOTDOG on National TV unless on a movie set. She is falling for Tony, perhaps hoping that the feeling is mutual, maybe, looking forward to a relationship outside the house, unaware that she is hurting herself, her votes, Tony's family and the whole of Africa. I pray Thin Tall Tony doesn't drag her out of The Big Brother House because she is doing great aside that relationship with him.

Oh, yes! We know his wife permitted him to go play for 25 Million Naira. We do not know if
Tuesday, January 31, 2017

What it means when YOU are being taken for granted

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When you are taken for granted, it means your value is being underestimated. You are expected to always be available, to serve without needing a 'thank you', an appreciation. In short you are being taken for granted when people or someone expects you to serve without needing recognition/acknowledgement. When try as you may, give until you have nothing more to give yet, you are seen as ''after-all you are doing what you should be doing" You go all out of your way to render some services yet that recognition is not given you and you are wondering why? Just know that YOU ARE BEING TAKEN FOR GRANTED.  Your value is not appreciated or, you are not even valued by whoever it is you are serving.

To be honest, so many people feel they are being taken for granted but are not really sure. Now, here are signs to prove that you are truly not valued either by an individual; husband, wife, In-laws, friends, family and the list goes on.


HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE BEING TAKEN FOR GRANTED...
Tuesday, December 06, 2016

Lagos Boy posts a woman's very private parts on social media



Be careful! When you give a man everything like this to keep in his phone, better remain his slave for life oh, the day you hurt him, you never know how bitter the revenge will taste. Those nudes you take today may become your downfall tomorrow. Things may not always be like this. The tune might change tomorrow and you cannot take back those nudes. See this one, even opening for the boy to grab her intestines. Where is the sense in this? If any lady thinks that giving a man your nudes will prevent him from cheating on you, SORRY DEAR. The 'highs' from your nudes will soon fade and he will look for fresh ones to obssess on.

Young ladies ...receive brain, receive sense, receive understanding, receive discernment, receive extra perceptive sense, receive God IJN. Amen. I was about to say that this boy deserves an arrest but on a second thought, she gave him the power to do this to her. She handed over EVERYTHING including the two holes (A "blank check") to him to do as he wishes and the scripture reads   " woe to them that put their trust in man, trusting him to keep their vagina safe in his phone (Not even a husband sef). Lady, you did this to yourself, when you come back again if there is anything like reincarnation, do not let anyone take a photo of your wide open veejayjay and nyash hole like that. Nonesense girl
Tuesday, September 20, 2016

XRAY DIAGNOSIS AND WHAT HAPPENED AFTER

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A Facebooker shared this wonderful testimony. Read below:
My grandmother once had persistent cough and wheezing for around 4-5 months. I put her on medication but the condition persisted. I got her blood tests done and changed the medicines, but there wasn’t any improvement. The x-ray of her chest didn’t reveal any problems with her lungs or bronchial system. She and others at home were disturbed by the constant hacking cough and I was in a quandary.
We were praying about the matter regularly, but a healing didn’t come soon. Then one night the Lord showed me a dream. In the dream, I am examining my grandmother’s x-ray and this x-ray is different from the x-ray taken in the hospital. While examining the x-ray, certain parts of the lungs are focused upon and I can clearly visualize worms in the lungs. That was all I saw in the dream.
When I woke up, I realized that I had missed the real cause of the cough. The Lord here was showing that the cough was “allergic” because of larvae of worms that had migrated to
Monday, September 05, 2016

NEVER FORGET THIS


Biology says that after sexual intercourse, about 200 to 300 million sperms are deposited by d man, they all begin to swim upwards within the tract to meet with the ovum. Of the over 200 million that are deposited, only 300 to 500 actually reach the site( others get tired on the way because it is not a small race). And of the 300 that manage to reach the ovum(egg), only one fertilizes the egg, and in this case the Winning One was YOU. Have u ever thought about this? You ran a race without your eyes and you won, you ran without education and you won, you ran without a certificate and you won, you ran without help.....and you won. What makes you

Wednesday, August 17, 2016

ACTIVATE YOUR MENTAL WASTE BASKET; YOU NEED IT



If you were to create a mental waste basket, what activities or items would you place in there? There are activities we are engaged in that need to be reduced. There are pieces of clothing you haven't touched in years, you don't really need them. You need a mental waste basket. When was the last time you said NO to an unimportant request? What fears, what reasons prevent you from saying NO?

Look around you, there are clutter, frivolous things that steal away valuable time. You spend precious hours cleaning, repairing or paying for things that in your overall scheme of life are not that important. Place them in your activated mental waste basket.

LIGHTEN YOUR LOAD:
Ann Richards, a former Governor of Texas cared for her mother through illness. During that period of ill health, Ann saw a dramatic change in her materialistic mother who has spent a life time being
Sunday, August 07, 2016

BE CAUTIOUS AROUND LOST AND FOUND FRIENDS

  

      Happy Sunday. "Please, permit me share this true life experience shared by one of my friends. May the Lord continue to help us and let's also continue to look out for one another.
Here goes his account:

"Good morning everyone... I want to narrate my ugly experience to serve as a lesson for all. Please take time and read.
   Sometime November 2015 at UNIPORT I met my childhood friend whom we went to secondary school together and never saw each other again not until we saw at UNIPORT. You know nah long time friend, we started exchanging pleasantries. He told me that he stays at Aluu with his wife and I told him I just moved in around Rumuigbo "NTA/Apara Link Road". We exchanged contact and he said of visiting me someday and we went our ways. Around February 2016 he called me asking for assistance that his wife gave birth but still in the hospital not yet discharged, I now said he should come to the house, which he did (he drove a car and packed somewhere
Saturday, August 06, 2016

PAY ATTENTION; THE PEOPLE WE CALL HATERS, MAY JUST BE GIVING FEEDBACK



Successful people know the importance of Feedback as it helps them assess progress toward their vision and aids them in course correcting as needed.

Your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning -Bill Gates.

Pay attention to your enemies, for they are the first to discover your mistakes -Antisthenes
Wednesday, August 03, 2016

CHARACTER AND STANDING ON PRINCIPLE



My character is me. It is my personality.
"I've met leaders in the army who were very competent-but they didn't have character. And for every job they did well, they sought rewards in the form of promotions, in the form of awards and decorations, in the form of getting ahead at the expense of someone else, in the form of another piece of paper that awarded them another degree-a sure road to the top. You see, these were competent people, but they lacked character.
I've also met a lot of leaders who had superb character but who lacked competence. They weren't willing to pay the price of leadership, to go the extra mile because that's what it took to be a great leader.
And that's sort of what it's all about. To lead in the 21st Century, to take soldiers, sailors, airmen into battle-you will be required to have both character and competence." 
-GENERAL H. NORMAN SCHWARZKOPP
Nearly synonymous with integrity is character. Character is a reputation built over time, yet it can be lost in seconds... It is much easier kept than recovered... and the reputation of a thousand years ma be determined by the conduct of just one hour.

Standing on principle involveds holding firm to what you feel to be right. How firmly are your feet planted?  
In matters of principle, stand like a rock, in matters of taste, swim with the current.

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