Help! Should I Continue With My Priest? Should I Abandon Studies?

Good day Aunty Eya,how is work and life? I have to start by really thanking you for providing this type of avenue in Nigeria where confused people like me are allowed to talk about things we cannot freely discuss with other people. 

please am so confused and I need your help,I have commented so many times trying to advice people but I can't tap into the advice becos my problem is different. please I need your help and that of your wise bloggers.

BACKGROUND OF MY STORY
My name is Nonye, am a 24yr old undergraduate and am from a not so rich  home,my dad married my mom as his second wife when

Guess There's Improvement On Recipe Images

Boiled Rice With Chicken Breast  and vegetables

 Today, is what Linda Ikeji will call a Slow News Day:
In July 2012, when I decided  to keep an online kitchen diary. I thought about my daughters. I felt like leaving something for my girls. Something like a guide kind

Here's Announcing The Birth Of Our New Fry Pan

 The new Monix Fry Pan

If a fry pan were as big as a "posh car" or "a mansion in Aso Rock," May be, somebody somewhere would have felt like "show off." The good thing is that a fry pan is just an ordinary "kitchen ware" that

Re: Your Marriage Can Work, If You Make It Happen

Nigerian wedding picture image courtesy: In Love Naija.

After reading her story, It felt like the Sophia here has done what we should be doing to let the single ladies know that marriage is a Union that requires hard work. There are no two marriages that are the same. There is so much talk about divorce these days. Many singles have become scared of  commitments. Some go into marriage with BIG expectations, and when it is not what they envisaged, they rush out almost immediately. 

There is so much about woman empowerment and equality before the law. I am a believer in these, but I do not think that a "modern marriage"  is one where the woman goes into power struggle, or shows no  respect  at all for her husband, or where the woman talks to her husband like a no body. Whether we like it or not, In Africa, the man is still the head of his family and he deserves that respect. I am a believer in *any marriage can work if you make it happen.*

I have been married for over twelve years and the truth is my marriage is more peaceful now than when we got married initially. I remember times I practically
packed

Eya, Learn A Second Language!

French homework (Photo credit: eefeewahfah)

Learning a foreign language has become very necessary for me. Kids bring homework for supervision, I do it successfully in all other subjects except French Language. Every time there is home work in French Language, I keep my head straight,  put a little frown on,  before giving the response " Leave that one for Daddy or go check Online" If I do not put that little frown that makes me very serious, I will have to answer too many questions for not knowing  the answers to "that simple French Homework"

The kids are learning French in School. Hubby can speak English, French and  German fluently and even a bit of Japanese, so, why can't I just try to speak at least one foreign language. Am I that dull?  I announce to them on Sunday evening that before this year ends, I will not only be learning but speaking French Language in this house. They ask how and I refuse to say.  Why should I?  when all I want is shock them with speaking. 

There was no time to start yesterday as planned,