How To Show Signs, How To Give Subtle Hints

I want to learn how to give subtle hints to get a crush to notice me

How to make a man notice you is what I want right now.

Good morning Aunty Eya, what I’m going to tell you may look bad and stupid but please hear me out and help in whatever way you can. I need prayers and advise too.

There is a family that’s like family friends with my family. My
late Dad and their Father who is still living used to be the best of friends.
After my Dad passed, their father took over the Education of two of my younger siblings. He cared so much for us without expecting anything in return. When my devilish uncles stole everything from us, he was there.
 
This family has three men, two are already settled in their jobs while the last boy is still an undergraduate. Sometimes, the way their parents send them on errands to us makes me wonder if he is not looking for ways to hook us up. 
 

I have a big crush on the second boy who is in his twenties

 I am also in my early twenties. When   around him, it feels like  have met my husband, I like everything about him. He is so charming and good looking, he is also the most intelligent of the three.
 
He doesn’t seem to know that I want him, we relate well like family friends and it ends there. Meanwhile, the elder brother is the one making moves, trying to get to know me more and making me feel like he is interested in me. He is my least favorite among the three. I don’t want him and  don’t want his younger brother to ever suspect that his elder is interested in me.  
 
How to give him subtle hints that I like him is a big problem, I have no clue how to make a man notice my interest in him. I am a very shy girl who can never make advances on a guy, NEVER. Will want to show him signs that I’m dying to have him but do not know how to go about it. Don’t want to make a fool of myself, neither.  Don’t want his elder brother to unconsciously block my chances.
 
Aunty Eya, I know you are a responsible married mother and that you or other ladies  can give me a few clues or guide.
Please, how do I make him understand my feelings without being too forward or embarrassing myself?  Help needed ASAP, before it gets late. Please!
Kaka.
REPLIES TO KAKA:

How to make a man notice you are interested in him without giving away your intentions

 

  • Keep building yourself to have good self esteem and confidence. Some men like shy girls, others may prefer those who know what they want.
  • Improve yourself, have some interests you can engage him in conversation with, your hobbies, news, gist, etc.
  • Don’t be shy talking about your achievements in school or at work, you say he’s intelligent, that may attract him to you.
  • Learn the art of flirting, catch his eyes briefly, smile at him, laugh at his jokes, touch him lightly, his hair, shoulder, and chat with him.
  • Don’t do what you’re not comfortable doing, and bear in mind that whatever you do, if he’s not into you, you can’t force him.

    All the best!

 

HOW TO ATTRACT A MAN BY BEING YOURSELF

I would have said you should read 48 Laws of power and Laws of Attraction but let me tell u a story.

I had a massive bombastic crush on this guy, to the extent that I started seeing him in my dreams!

All I was living for then was just to have him in my life. Since he didn’t notice all I was throwing at him, I decided to play CatWoman! I started chatting with him under a different name and to my amazement, he was perfect on the inside out! (I can bet that your crush was not as huge as mine then) when it came to time to reveal myself and I eventually did.

He was shocked and somewhat disappointed at what I did and said “May this not this time and this stage, I have actually like and honestly admired you but with what you have done, I think you have spoilt every chance we had at being friends”
Moral of the story, let him notice you for who you are and not what you want him to see because if you force it, he just might get tired of u easily.

 

HOW TO COMMUNICATE TO A GUY THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN HIM

With guys, there is nothing like subtle hint. Many problems between couple stems from the fact that, the guy just doesn’t get what she is hinting at. You have to tell him exactly what you want, HOHA what you want.

If you flirt with him, he might see it as just flirting, if you dont flirt, he will sister-zone you. If you flirt too much, he will see it as you are obsessed with him or even crazy.

Then pray that if he is the right man for you, God will remove the scales in his eyes.

That’s how to attract a man and how to get a man to notice you are interested in him.

 

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12 thoughts on “How To Show Signs, How To Give Subtle Hints”

  1. But I guess getting him to love u is much better,my dear getting just his attention or trying to let him know u feel something for him isn't enough.
    U deserve more than that, and don't look desperate,if he loves u,he'll definitely make the move just like everyother man would do. you're already close enough to be noticed.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  2. Keep it up, your comments are always on point, and at Linda's blog, I always laugh. You might be a world known counsellor one day, that's if u re interested.

    Ihotu

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  3. Hi Aunty Eya,I want to say a big thank you for the good things i've learnt from your blog,God bless you..can you pls give me some hints on how to keep a man,lately av sensed a different level of love from my BF,and am enjoying it and don't want it to stop,please how do I get it to remain this way.you could help me post it too.thank you..

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  4. @ anonymous 7:56……u tuk d words out of my mouth. The comment about Bonario.u wunt bliv I put on My pm ysterday dat Bonario is everywhere. Yeah he ll prolly make a sound and funny counsellor one of ds days. My advice to Kaka however is dt she should not flirt wiv d guy she liks @ all.dt might even send the wrong message that you are always readily available and dats a big turn-off 4 a guy. As for d guys broda…….fleeeeeeeee from him,don't let him come near u,b4 he spoils ur runz….loll! All d best!

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  5. Hmm Eya, the kain scenarios way una dey get for here be like Nollywood movie. Anyhow, I will donate my two cents…. are you sure the guy you like is not taken?

    Secondly, talk to the elder brother, start a conversation with him and find a way to drop the fact that you like some guy but don't know how to tell him and then tell him that since he, the older brother, is like a brother to you he should please suggest something for you.

    I call that killing two birds with one stone

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  6. Hello every1, lemme just add my two cents. I want u to look @ d bigger picture because sometimes who we want is not who God wants for us. I think ur 'crush' on dis guy might be blocking you from seeing d good side of his elder brother who might be right for you. He seems more mature and responsible and ready to settle down which is more than I can say for ur crush. However if it were me, cos I'm pretty blunt and straightforward sometimes, I would ask subtle plus joke filled questions like, "na wa ooo u don't want to get a girl friend, why are you delaying now". Just conversations that will draw out the answers you need

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