Thursday, October 13, 2016

My Christian Background makes me want to save this marriage against my personal wish

Hello Auntie Eya, I need advise from the wives connection people. As a Christian who is against divorce, I'm so confused....
Married for 8 years, with 3 beautiful children. My husband has always been somewhat controlling, but in the past 3 years controlling has turned into severe emotional abuse, name calling and use of pornography but no physical abuse yet. 
My Christian background keeps me thinking, "Fight to save your marriage" Stay by his side no matter what. Support his hopes and dreams, even if they compromise the 10 commandments of God. I said even if they compromise because his business is in the liquor line and the commandments of God don't support it.

He goes to church with me every Sunday but doesn't join in the morning prayer. I pray that he will realize what he is doing is wrong and that he must ask for forgiveness...but he doesn't feel that he's doing anything wrong. 

I'm tired of the marriage honestly, but I just can't help but think that God would want me to stand by him in his troubled time. 
Any and all advice is appreciated.

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