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Saturday, July 02, 2016

MY FIANCEE DISCLOSED TO MY FRIEND THAT SHE GAVE ME MONEY TO START A BUSINESS, SHOULD I RETURN HER MONEY AND MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE?

I am 36yrs in a relationship with a girl of 24yrs old, we having been dating for 3yrs now she is very

nice and she helped me become the man i am today. Anytime i feel like breaking up with her she

always endS up begging me to stay with her. Her problem is she's insultive and proud. Since 2014,

she borrowed me 500,000 to start a business, she feels she owns me and she is very jealous. We had a

lil quarrel last month and i ask my friend to beg her, she ended up disclosing to him how she borrow me money and made me, please i don't know if its right to pay her money and move on with my new

woman.thanks

13 comments:

  1. Mr Poster, that your girlfriend, will she be able to keep family secrets in future? When she gave you the five hundred thousand naira, did she state when you are supposed to return the money?

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  2. Search your conscience man, all these faults you see in her now, have you found another babe and trying to dump her. am thinking that when you two had that misunderstanding, why send your friend to beg her when you have a mouth?
    If you don't mind, can you let us in on what caused the lil misunderstanding, so that we know how to render some advice?

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  3. AnonymousJuly 02, 2016

    You are asking us if you should move on "with your new woman". Your girlfriend is not the problem. You, the ashawo man are the problem. You have shackled another woman and you are now looking for an excuse to dump your other girlfriend. Get out of here with this nonsense.

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  4. AnonymousJuly 02, 2016

    So... there is already a new woman?

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  5. Hello poster, I think that with the age difference between you two, that generational gap will always be there. What she did is wrong but again aside the talking, you say she's insultive and proud. I am thinking, if she were to be asked about you, won't she have something negative too to say about you? There is no perfect human and what if she thinks you cheat and lie? Or some other thing?

    Were there plans for marriage before she gave you all that money? If no, then it's hard to find girls like that in this generation.

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  6. If you believe that there is no perfect human then you can work this out unless someone has come in between. Talking about moving on with your new woman just spoilt your case. Have there always been new women. If the reason your friend went to beg her is infidelity, then maybe she snapped and spilled without thinking.
    You two need to have a serious talk. Let her know that if she doesn't change you are ready to pay back her money and move on.

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  7. See, that lady truly loves you, she was there when there was nothing and not only that she stayed, she brought a ladder and helped push you up. If you have been cheating on her, just know you treated her very badly and no one can take that without fighting back. There are fights and there are fights, I am thinking that for just a lil misunderstanding and, if another woman isn't involved, she won't feel so bad as to remind you that she made you. Search your conscience and be careful so that life doesn't treat you

    Search yourself, have THAT conversation and whatever you decide, make sure you not paying a woman evil for good. Good Luck.

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  8. You have a new woman?She stood by you and now you are cheating without remorse,where were those new women when she was encouraging & pushing you to succeed?please pay her back her money and move on,she deserves better.@36,you are a player๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”

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  9. You r a very shameless man. U collected 500k 4rm a 22 yrs old girl. Even if she asked u not 2 pay back a self respecting man wld once he is able to. Abeg pay her d money and take a walk. U don't deserve her.

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  10. AnonymousJuly 12, 2016

    Foolish man

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  11. This is one of the reasons why alot of women don't like supporting men financially. I think one of the greatest gifts any individual can have is someone who is supportive and ready to go the whole 9 yards with the one they say they love. Your woman has and still is standing by you. No one is perfect, she has her flaws, why not return the favor and be supportive and possibly encourage change? Unless of course you are just plain bored and tired of the relationship. In that case, please don't do her any favours.

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  12. This is one of the reasons why alot of women don't like supporting men financially. I think one of the greatest gifts any individual can have is someone who is supportive and ready to go the whole 9 yards with the one they say they love. Your woman has and still is standing by you. No one is perfect, she has her flaws, why not return the favor and be supportive and possibly encourage change? Unless of course you are just plain bored and tired of the relationship. In that case, please don't do her any favours.

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