Good day aunty, I'm a new reader who got introduced to wives connection this year by my cousin. please I need help from wives connection. I need to know how wives and mothers manage to keep their friendships alive. I got married almost immediately after graduation in 2014. My family got blessed with twin boys in 2015 and life has been kind of "it is well" Joggling wifey duties, babies, my job etc, it has not been easy. No one told me it's this hard, not even my mother. I am not complaining but this phase of my life is really hard.
Where I need help is with keeping my friends around. I am fast losing friends. I can't find time to visit even those in the same town with me, I can't find time to just chat and relax with those far away.
They call, I see missed calls but with my hectic schedule most times do not remember to call back until they call again to complain. There're times I have seen calls and refused to pick because I can sense a friend is angry at me and wants to vent. Because I can't find time for them, some have already distanced themselves from me. Ever sine my mother left after completing her omugwo, it has been rush, rush, rush from morning till night and by the time I'm set for bed, it's already midnight and I'm completely exhausted. With the way things are going, I see myself losing all my friends if care is mot taken. What do I do? How do married people manage to keep everything together and still maintain close relationships with their friends? Please advice.