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Monday, November 30, 2015

You May Kiss The Bride

Our Vegetable Ogbono Soup Gets 3000 Facebook Likes and 900 Facebook Comments, With Hundreds Of Shares

Nigerian Soup Gets 3000 Facebook Likes
Goodmorning guys, you know I think Nigerian food is great. Do you know that I posted this soup on wives connection Facebook page and as of today, it has gotten over 3000 Likes, hundreds of shares and about 900

Chattered Accountant Job

Please Do you know any young Chartered Accountant between the ages of 26 - 33 looking for a job?
There are job opportunities  for a Finance and Admin Managers in Victoria Island and Ikeja - Lagos. The package

Getting A Divorce, After 35 Years!

An elderly man in Mumbai calls his son in New York and says,

‘I hate to ruin your day son, but I have to tell you that your mother and I are getting a divorce; 35 years of marriage… and that much misery is enough!’

‘Dad, what are you talking about?’ the son screams.

Mind boggling excerpts from an interview with a Jewish leader about Blacks.

 INTERVIEWER: Why are blacks so behind Economically?
JEWISH LEADER:The only aspect blacks understand is Consumption. Blacks don't understand the importance of

Addicted To Eating. Any Idea What To Do?

Gud day ma,  Hope u had a splendid weekend?  ma my stomach is about to burst. I don't know what to do to help myself.
Am addicted to eating even when am not hungry
Ma, my stomach is about bursting. Please any idea of what to do or how to stop this?

The Festive Season , Personal Security

Dear All,

The festive season is usually characterized by increased criminal activities. Please be guided by the following tips:

1.       Personal Security
·         Keep a low profile, blend in and be alert to developments in your environment.
·         Avoid known crime-prone areas and black spots.
·         Avoid routine pattern of movements and late night outings. The more predictable your movements and

Sunday, November 29, 2015

Abuja Residents, Have You Seen This?

It Reads:
Intelligence reaching this office reveals that insurgents are planning to attack the Federal Capital Territory. Their main

What Manner Of Husband Are You? Pick One Below

Please read and share your honest thoughts. (Ladies, you can also participate by answering the same question, that is, “What manner of a husband do you have?”) Here’s wishing every woman “Kingdom Husbands.”

Ladies, incase your husband or fiance doesn't read wives connection,  send to him as a mail oh.

How can your wife describe you? Below are a few categories of husband:

(1). Autocratic Husband- He is a self-knowledge, self-involved, unbending, unyielding husband. Nobody can correct him, nobody can counsel him. To him, he knows everything. He is very arrogant and stubborn. He has no mentor. He does not fear, honour or respect anybody. He doesn’t want anybody to advise him and he can not be influenced by anybody especially his wife, who hardly knows his plan or what he may do next. He is a difficult man to live with.

(2). Corrosive Husband- He is abusive; hot tempered and a

I Have Done All The Begging And Trying That I Can With My Husband Over The Past 12 Years

Hello, wives connection bvs and my dear Eya, please help. My husband and I have been together for 13 years, we have two children. Ages 12 and 10. He also has a daughter from a previous marriage who is 14, who he really does not have a relationship with. (That is a whole different heartbreaking story).
So anytime we have the slightest disagreement he demands

My Husband, My E-mails And My Many Lies. How Do I Save My Marriage?

Hello,  Good morning lovely Wives Connection family-friendly helpers. First of all let me say thank you. I discovered wives Connection blog this year 2015 and with all that Learnt from the wise counseling, I regret that I didn't know about this family earlier.

I have been a terrible liar to my husband, it's

Saturday, November 28, 2015

We Broke Up, I Met Someone, Now We Are Back Together And I Do Not Know What To Tell The Other Guy

Hello Aunty Eya, thank you so much for everything that I have learnt from your blog. I completed my NYSC not long ago and this life, I have read and learnt so many things from other readers' stories, I never thought that a day like this will come when I'll need Online help too. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 5 months now. The majority of that

What's That?

Na wa for oyibo 

My Favourite Nigerian Things: Beautiful Necklaces

 Give me any of these let's see if I won't take and ask for more

My Husband's Irresponsible Behavior Has No Part Two, Can Other Women Please Help A Sister

Hi Eya, I don't know where to start from but pls hide my identity thanks will also try to make it brief as possible.... I'm a new subscriber to this platform. I can't say I have a smooth past or that I'm perfect. I met my

Friday, November 27, 2015

Sugabelly Rape Tweets :Private Emails, Chats Released

When I read sugabelly's tweets yesterday, I felt bad that she is rejoicing a human being died,until I reached where she tweets that she was brutally raped by the deceased' son, I didn't know what to think or say anymore.
So, the wife of the accused rapist took to Twitter to say she will release some private contents. Bellanaija has done a great job blocking names. In case you didn't see those mean tweets, visit sugabelly's Twitter handle.
See more after the cut. Very long o...

Delicious Photo: The Obamas Celebrate Thanksgiving

Delicious First Table 

Nigerian Black Friday Sales A Scam Or Real? Who Buy?

 Some people are saying that most of those online ads and promos promising 50 % 60% 70% and

I Suspect My Wife Is Jealous Of My Daughter, What Can I Do?

Hi wives connection,  I have been married for two years, but been with my wife for a total of five years.
Very long story cut short and could do with honest or brutal advice please.
Split from my Ex ( my daughters mother) 5 years ago, we were never married.
My daughter has just turned 7
Been together with my now wife and step son (10)  for two years.
 My family travelled for easter holiday this year the 4 of us. There was a

My Favourite Things: Nigerian Gele Headgear

 Nigerian women are the best dressed in the whole wide world, take it or leave it. My favourite gele on here, the one I'd like to wear when I learn to

Adele: 'I Do Have Body Image Problems, But I Don't Let Them Rule My Life '

Even  celebrities have issues with the way they are. I'm yet to see a woman that truly feels like she has a perfect body. 
Adele   has never been one to mince her words.
Now, the star has spoken candidly about body image, saying that

This Woman Says She Doesn't Want To Have Any kids, Then, The Backlash

A Nigerian woman that goes to post online that she doesn't want to have any kids might face more backlash than Brockwell.  

Thursday, November 26, 2015

I Learnt Blow Job From My Husband's Side Chicken, Now He Won't Respond Plus He Moved Out When My Insults Became Too Much, How Do I Bring Him Back Home?

God bless you and your family Aunty Eya, I have learnt

Should I Accept This Cheating As punishment For My Bad Behaviour? Is He Lying To Me?

Dear Aunty Eya and blog visitors,
I need to get married and settle down as sokn as possible but a

Failed Past Relationships Preventing Me From Trusting My Fiance, How Do I Change?

Hello Aunty Eya, God bless you for all that I am learning from wives connection even though I'm not married yet. I need mature advice from other readers and you too please.

In My past 3 relationships I had been cheated on. One I walked in on,the other 2 I caught shady stuff in their social media and

18 Nigerian Food Recipes To Cook This Weekend

18 Nigeran Recipes for you to try cooking this

Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Do People Give Up After Just Two Fights? We Started On Friendzone To Close friends, Now He Left Me

Hello people of wives connection and my lovely Aunty Eya, please look my way and help with advice. Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend and want to take the relationship further?

I  was close to a guy first as a friend. Being a friend, I used to be very carefree and honestly never cared so much as much as he used to for me. Then things changed between us, we started

If I Don't Ask For Money, We Enjoy Peace. The Moment I Ask My Husband For Money, He Gets Angry. What Do I do?

I  must commend the admin for what she is doing, in order to help us learn and gain experience in this blog
Here is my story: I am a mother of 5 kids,i got married at a very

New Born Baby Abandoned In A Manger At Holy Child Jesus Church

Reverend Father Christopher Ryan said he is pleased that the custodian found the church. 
newborn with his umbilical cord still attached was

Pope Francis Arrives Africa, I Wish He Came To Nigeria, Would Have Backed My Baby To Go Stare

    When I watch Pope Francis on TV kissing babies and hugging the sick and abandoned, I get goose bumps. He is a rare human. If he came to any part of Naija, I tell you guys would have tied my baby safely on my back and ran off to just stand in the crowd and observe. I love him so much. Did you See the small car he drove when he visited America?

I envy the people of Kenya at this moment. Below are photos of his
Pope Francis arrived Kenya for his state visit this afternoon and was received by Kenyan president Uhuru Kenyatta, his wife, Reverend Fathers and other top government functionaries. Chai Lucky Kenyans, why not Nigeria? See more

How To Cook Nigerian Steak On A Stove

 My delicious beef steak cooked indoors. 
This steak cooked well on a cooker in a griddle pan. I call it Nigerian steak because we like to cook our meat done, not pink. I

I Get Turned On By Sniffing My Wife's Undies. Is Something Not Right With Me

Hello Eya, Hello fellow readers. You guys forgive me for getting addicted to this wonderful wives connection blog. I need opinions for what is happening to me ever since I met my wife . I thought it would stop with time but it's been two

Re: Baby Burned In Oven, Mother And Boyfriend Who Went To Buy Pizza Have Been Charged

Remember the oven burns post that made me remember to share my testimony? Well, Mother and her boyfriend are already in soup. Thinking to myself, I'm wondering like, if that toddler was his biological child, will they both abandon him at home to go buy pizza? I just pray they didn't use the pizza story to go get some alone time somewhere.
Here is the story:


Racqual Thompson, 25, and Cornell Malone, 21, were arrested Tuesday morning and held on bonds totaling $36,000 apiece.

Smile, God Is Still In Control

 Aren't they adorable?

Can Anyone Here Help Me Get my love Back?

Good afternoon Mrs Eya, I have been a silent reader of wives connection and it is my first time posting on this blog asking for help.
My love and I were together for two and half years. a little history on it; we are always happy together, loving, having fun, and in each other's presence a lot. (we are a couple that just loves spending time together) the problems we've had are

My Fiancée Or The New Girl? I Have To Choose By End Of This Month

Hello Eya, thank you so much for this forum.  I am a man but I swear I enjoy your blog even more than the women on there. I need a little advice from you and other blog visitors. 

I don't share what I'm feeling or thinking with most people. I try sharing with my Fiance but she can be too judgmental or aggressive. She usually doesn’t get my point. We've been

Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Instagram To Take Down Epic Penis Pictures

  I  saw these pictures a few days back in Instagram, ran away shouting "the blood". On second thoughts, I returned, took a screenshot to share on a Goodmorning post but on second thoughts I just changed my mind like what is good about this nudity. I thought of a suitable caption but couldn't find any so I left the pics alone. Then I bumped into the second pic below and git so confused I wanted 5 ask if that was real or prosthetic? The Games's penis had a good run on Instagram, but all good things must come to an end ... and the popular photo sharing app has put the kibosh on his package. 
The pics -- which showcase Game in his underwear -- were posted

I Agree Completely, White Women Know How To Care And Show Love, They Are Not Troublesome And Stubborn

 Pregnant Coco T. The oyibo wife of Ice T.

 I know that many of us black women won't agree with this points but I kinda agree.I'm not kidding, I've always thought that white Women make better wives than blacks. You know they give their men so much peace of mind. No unnecessarily snooping and making life a living hell for the man. I think they are very understanding and can always go an extra mile to make their men very happy. They don't put onthat aggressive nature you see in most black girls, they won't grab your collar for anything, and won't say "yeye man or stupid man to their husbands"
Talking back can be very annoying and don't we all know that black women talk back a lot? Before a husban says five words, his wife has vomitted 25. Read all the recent mails I'm getting and you'll know that most of these issues are caused by us black women who can't mind our businesses and let our men just live in a men's world. Sometimes, I want to give advice that might not be kinda praises to the wife but change my mind because I haven't forgotten people blaming me for not telling wives to flee at every little marital challenge. White women know how to be submissive to their men nor be small.

Below is what Ice T said. He is married to a white woman Coco his beautiful wife and is talking from experience.
Read the 10 reasons why he prefers white girls to black even though he is black:

10. White girls can get their hair wet. It’s summertime. Who wants to be at the pool with a girl who’ only concern is not getting her weave wet. White girls just jump in the pool without any care.

How To Become A Successful Blogger Like Linda Ikeji

Linda Ikeji Made The List Of 100 Most Influential People in Africa.

Hate her or  love her, Linda Ikeji is number 1. She is the queen of bloggers. Getting there is very obvious but difficult you know. It's possible to become a brand like Linda Ikeji but, are you ready to pay the price?

Here Is How To Build A Blog Like Linda:
  1. Start blogging as early as 5 am and do not bother about breakfast or 3 square meals. 
  2. Eat your first meal by 12 noon or later 
  3. Blog in your pyjamas till 3 PM or later 
  4. Be honest with your blog readers 
  5. Give that blog 100% commitment. Not blog today, go for owambe tomorrow. 
  6. Subscribe to all Networks in Nigeria so you don't get stuck when one is misbehaving. 
  7. Get your family involved, you don't need that cooking or washing break. If you are good to mum,she'll do all that while you just face the screen. 
  8. Let blog readers know you even if they have never met you. Tell them who you are, be very sincere o,not cock and bull stories of being born in Lagos or Abuja when you know that you were born in your village. 
  9. Do not let your readers refresh without finding new posts as that can be disappointing. 

My Testimony; Oven Death Reminds Me Of The August Experience

 The miracle baby, our new car wash, working so hard,  this is his favourite part of the day, every day . lol.

I promised to share my testimony after the oven death post. My prayers are with the family of that cute baby. About 3 months back, In August, then my 10 year old daughter who is now in boarding school was still at home. One evening after they got back home from school, she and

Oven Death And My Testimony

19 month old baby burned to death in oven by her siblings as her mother went out for pizza.

Chai God! Reading this story,  something tells me "Eya why not share your testimony with your blog readers too" but, I cant bring myself to share my testimony on this post, I'll publish after this. . .  May the soul of this innocent baby Rest In Perfect Peace.
 A baby was baked to death in an oven by her toddler brother and sister after they were left alone at home.
The twin three-year-olds watched as 19-month-old J’zyra Thompson kicked the

How To Cook Edible Maggots

 Edible worms, a great source of protein. 

The edibLe worm is a delicacy of the Southern people of Nigeria. Also known as the palm tree

Monday, November 23, 2015

I Followed My Husband's Side Chick On Instagram, She Screenshots Me And Sent To Him

Hello Aunty Eya, kindly help me post this cos I need answers. I have always suspected this my husband's junior colleague, we've never met but I know her from the official group photos my

How To Quick Cook Beans porridge In A Pressure Cooker

A serving of beans porridge cooked in a pressure cooker. You can add smoked fish and crayfish for variety. 
 Cooking beans in a pressure cooker is the fastest method. To pressure cook beans porridge,  don't

Good morning, Have A Fun Monday

2+2 = m?  Imagine you are his teacher, what would you do to

We Can't Have A Conversation Without Argueing, What Can I Do?

Hello Eya, kindly help me adk for help on WC. My husband  and I have been together for 8 years and have 4 children together, two boys and a set of twins who are still below one year. Over the past 4 years we have gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sleeping

Sunday, November 22, 2015

Having An Affair Too, If I End My Marriage, Will He Keep To His Words And Marry Me?

Hello wives connection, please please please, someonehelp ke out. Aunty Eya I need your help too. This post I'm sending you was meant to be a comment on that other post that got wives making confessions. I tried severally to post it there but keep getting a message that my comment cannot post because it's too long. Kindly hide my details before posting this please 
I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, around

My Husband Called Me Names For Attempting To Email His Facebook Girlfriend, Am I Wrong?

Good morning my dear Aunty Eya and fellow blog readers. I once sent a mail concerning my husband's irritating habit, your advice helped me so much. After the comments, I was able to take a stand and fight positively. Thank God our relationship improved tremendously. 
There's another problem again, my friend and his Facebook girlfriend. I tried my best not to ask for help,  I thought I could

Saturday, November 21, 2015

Sharing: The Most Important Life Lesson I Have Learnt So Far

  Life has taught me so many lessons that can never be taught in any school :

All Women Deserve This Push Present After Delivery. Kim Kardashian asks Kanye West for a $1 million 'push present' for her current pregnancy

This time, me, I  completely agree with Kim Kardashian. Every mom deserves a "push the baby out present" cos it's not easy. God takes the glory for every successful child birth, the mother too deserves a little well done present for the nine months journey and the delivery room. It mustn't be a $1 million dollar present, any thing a husband can afford just to show appreciation to his dear wife. 
This happens in Nigeria but most times the "push present" is given only when a

I Agree That A Ban On I Better Pass My Neighbour Generator Will Only Bring Hardship. Many Small Businesses In Nigeria Thrive On These Generators

 The decision to ban ‘I-pass-my neighbour’ generators will only bring more hardship, It Is A Wrrong Move. 


Dear President Buhari, I will like to extend an invitation to you for a tour of down town, so that you can have a clear view of what the people who voted you into office feel about certain decisions your government has taken so far, especially

Church Wedding And Marriage Blessing, Who Knows The Difference Please?

Good morning Aunty Eya, please help me post this anonymously on wives connection blog. I need clarification on these two terms. I've always thought they are one and

Lazy Man Fried Rice With Grilled Chicken And Green Fruits

Lazy man fried rice with grilled chicken. 
If you have never cooked lazy man fried ricebefore, then kudos o. I can't count how many times sef but can say how

Should Divorce Settlements Like This Happen In Naija? There'll Be No One Marriage Standing, Aside Very Religious Couples :Actress Morena Baccarin ordered to pay estranged husband $23k a month

Morena Silva de Vaz Setta Baccarin is a Brazilian-American actress, best known for portraying Inara Serra in the series Firefly and the follow-up film Serenity and according to TMZ, she's been ordered to pay her estranged husband $23k a

PHOTOS: Former President Goodluck Jonathan Marks 58th Birthday With A Get Together

Happy Birthday to The former president who turned a year older today. His former spokesperson, Reuben Abati, shared these photos online.

After -11 Years Of Marriage, No Point Leaving:Kate Beckingsale & husband Lens Wiseman separate after 11 years of marriage

Whatever you have tolerated for eleven years can be tolerated.

Holliwood Marriages; If couples know they cannot take for better or worse, if they dont really believe in their vows, why wait this long before separation and divorce. A man you have lived with for 11 years, is a man you can live with for 111 years.
Actress Kate Beckinsale and her director husband, Lens Wiseman, have called it quits after 11 years of marriage. According to People magazine, the couple separated a few months ago and have been living separate lives.
“There has been no drama” between them. “They are still friendly and spend

Friday, November 20, 2015

Is It Only About The Nipples? What About The Whole Paw paw Fruit?

Here is how Jana Pinkett attended the Latin Version Of Grammy's with her husband. I actually zoomed in and

Kylie Jenner Started Quite Early, Now It's Time To Date Freely And They Break Up? Never Hurry In Life, All Things Good Will Come

TMZ reports that Kylie Jenner broke up with Tyga

 Well, MTO reported earlier,  TMZ  just confirmed the story.

Taking My Husband's Best Friend Was My Little Revenge

Hello Aunty Eya, after reading the recent confessions you posted on the blog, I feel compelled to share my story too. My confession is not to ask for advice or tips but just to be able to  

How To Spot A Married Bachelor

The change of marriage shouldn't just affect the lady alone; she changes her name to yours, you pretty much get an indoor restaurant and free "bad thing" whenever you like... I hate when a man gets married and still wants all the perks of bachelorhood, I feel when we get married we are both changed, you cannot act like it is only your spouse that has to be responsible while you pretty much ball alone, we can either ball together and be responsible or don't ball at all.
There are some things some married men do and get away with that is just so wrong and to me it is bachelor behaviour, you haff  marry stop acting single puleaseeeeeeee.
How To Spot A Married Bachelor
Alone with my thought: He always wants to be alone, He wants to have his own time, all the time. He may provide school fees and a lot of other stuff but doesn't want to hear the noise,doesn't want to get a bit messy and runs away from every chance to bond with the family.

Thursday, November 19, 2015

I Feel Insecure And Unsure About My Marriage As My Husband Posts Half Dressed Pictures On His Web Page

Good morning Aunty Eya. I am an old reader who discovered your blog as a single lady , before I got married, around the time when I was

Hurry Now, Shop Authentic Elubo: Healthy Amala Flour

Authentic Unadulterated Yam Flour
Elubó : healthy amala flour.

A well cooked pot of soup should be


Okra soup cooked with lamb knuckles and mushrooms, served with tiny portion garri. 
  Okra soup is best cooked without

Good Morning, Have A Fun-filled, Smile-Filled Thursday

Family portrait including every family member. 7

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

My Husband Is Addicted To Prostitution, I Need Help

Hi Aunty Eya and everyone. This is my first time writing and asking for blog help, so here it goes.

I'm 28 and have been married for 3 years. I have a beautiful daughter and is due for the second one very soon. My problem started last July

My Wife Is Having An Emotional Affair With Her Colleague, Is It Wise To Give Her Another Chance?

Hello Mummy Eya and wives  connection bloggers, I feel very confused and very depressed.. My wife has an emotional affair with her colleague recently and I found out.. Confronted her and

4 Months After I Moved To My parents House, My Husband Has not Called

Hello Aunty Eya,  Sometimes I take actions thatI feel are to the best interests of our families, the people I love and care about  but then, things just turn like I am dreaming,  from

Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Meet African Blogger Series 3: The Beautiful Lifestyle Blogger Sisi Yemmie

1. Hi Sisiyemmie, can we meet you? Tell us briefly about yourself. 
My real name is Yemisi Sophie Odusanya nee Aiyedun, I am a new mom and

My Fiance Got Me A Job In His Father's Company, He Travels And Dad Wants Me, Should I Resign My Appointment?


Hello Aunty and blog visitors, I have been in this relationship for about 2 years now with my boyfriend, he proposed this year on his birthday in the presence of his family and friends. when I graduated from school and needed a job. My Fiance s father owns a large company in Lagos, so he thought it would be good for me to work there (thinking he could see me often when he comes to see his dad on his off days from his defence job).

I agreed and went to work like any young girl would, dressed in

Happy Tuesday To Us

 After all the married but having an affair confessions,

Monday, November 16, 2015

Linda Ikeji Takes Us Again Into Her Beautiful Mansion, Exotic Furnishing

 The view from Linda Ikeji's sitting room 

Yam Beans Porridge With Smoked Fish

A serving of yam beans porridge

SHOCKING: My Mum Gave Me A Bottle Of Coke Already Opened And I Felt Weak...Boy Raped By 45-Year-Old Mother

A 45-year-old woman, Mrs. Nkulumenna Owefa, over the weekend, confessed before an Asaba Grade ‘A’ Customary Court in Delta State that she seduced her son in a hotel in Abagana, Anambra State, after she offered him the sum of N50, 000.
Her husband, Mr. Owefa, who was in court with their daughter, Adlyn, prayed the court to grant

Sunday, November 15, 2015

My Wife Has Changed A Lot After The Trip, I Do Not Want To Lose Her

Hello, Iam a Nigerian and my wife is South African. We live in Lagos and planned to raise our kuds there when they begin to

Saturday, November 14, 2015

I Am Dying Slowly

Madam Eya goodmornig .thanks for your blog.please let me not waste your time , i will go straight to the point.
 i have been buiding up savings for 15 years for my

I Need To Talk About My Affair, This Is Not The First Even Though My Husband Is A Good Man

Hello  Eya,  how are you and your family?  I read your blog like a map. It is one of my references but with all that I'm

How Do I Handle The Biggest Cheat In Africa? My Husband Saves His Side Chicks Phone Numbers With Male Names To Confuse My Head, Tells Them He Didn't Pick Their Calls Because His Mom Was With Him

Goodday madam Eya... i dont know how long it will take but i will really appreciate if you post this.

Christmas Price Splash On Julie Collections, Shop Now

‎Christmas  Sales Ongoing.  The cheapest prices  you can get

Friday, November 13, 2015

She Tweeted Stuff About Me To Her Followers While Confessing Love For Me In My Presence. Should I Believe Her?

Good day Mrs Eya,  I just found your blog this week. It is my third time here and I strongly believe this is where I can get good advice from experienced people.

I don't really know how to start this off. So about 4 years ago,

How To Cook Egusi Melon Soup With Cow Tail And Tuwo Shinkafa

How to cook egusi soup with vegetables & how to make tuwo from scratch

Egusi soup
A small serving of egusi soup with tuwo shinkafa.
Well done! cooking pics are complete now, see them when you click to continue reading. ..
 I cannot even count the number of egusi soups we have on the blog already. I didn't want to share
this cos I felt there is enough already but the fluffy tuwo shinkafa won't let me be. It looked and felt so good I just have to share the recipe.  Cooking pics are so many, if they are too heavy for your browser, or if some won't open, please leave a comment let me know so I take down some pics.

Ingredients for cow tail egusi soup:

  • 1 kilo beef
  • 11/2 kilos cow tail
  • salt to taste
  • 2 knorr cubes
  • onion and 1 knorr to steam the meat
  • 1 teaspoon Pepper
  • 1 mudu egusi, that's about 5 cups or 8 milk cups
  • 1 cup ground crayfish
  • 4 medium sized smoked catfish
  • Stock fish (optional) Would have loved to add stoc kfish to this soup if I had some at home.
  • 2 table spoons palm oil
  • 1 large bunch of ugu vegetable
  • 3 cups water to start with, you can always readjust while cooking. 
  • For the fufu, I served with this tuwo shinkafa. You can buy rice, mill and keep flour for (tuwo) fufu. For how to make the rice flour (tuwo) fufu like this, GO HERE 


We Met Online, He Said I Am Free To Go Get Married To Another Man, Yet I Dumped My Fiance And Ran Back To Him Again, Cannot Help Myself, I need Help

Good morning, I recently started following your blog and I was inspired to share mine too. Am in my late thirties and as a Nigerian my family wants me to settle down. I have been in a relationship for over 3yrs now and he keeps shifting our plans concerning settling down. We

Link Me Up With A Nigerian Man/ Woman

Poster 1. Beautiful day to you ma. How are you doing? How are your kids and hubby ma? Ma please. Can you be of help to me? Please can you link me up with a man?my name is Seyi
Olatomi.I am a lady.31 years old. Fair in complexion. A graduate. Stay and work in abuja. A Christian.If possible  Ma.a Yoruba man,between age if 32-39. Christian, Working,God fearing, ready for a serious relationship(with everything being equal )and settling down soonest.  I will be willing and available to answer any

Thursday, November 12, 2015

How To Cook Chicken Legs With Peanut Butter And Serve With Olives

 Chicken leg cooked with peanut butter and garnished with some olives. This took very short to cook.

For 5 Years Living Together, Nothing Changes, Should I Go On With This Wedding?

Dear Aunty Eya, I  need you to post a little something for

Wednesday, November 11, 2015

I Am Married And Having An Affair With My Ex Boyfriend Who Is Also Unhappily Married

Hello, Eya, I am so happy I found your site on Facebook and reading other people's experiences, and the mature advice has encouraged me to unburden my chest here.

Help Suggest A Romantic Name For My Newly Wed Husband

Good evening Aunty Eya, I am an ardent reader of wives connection blog who wedded just two

How to cook Nigerian Coconut Jollof Rice With Step By Step cooking pictures

 A serving of coconut jollof rice with my palatable mixed beans sauce and some juicy chicken for lunch.
My Nigerian coconut jollof rice is cooked same way we cooked the Nigerian party jollof rice. The only different ingredient here is
the coconut milk for coconut flavour. The green pepper and tatashe in the chicken stock were also not in the party jollof but these are optional. The major ingredient here is the coconut milk.

Good morning, How you doing today?

Good morning, How was your night rest? Thank God for

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Meet African Blogger series 2: Kenyan Food Blogger Kaluhi Adagala Of Kaluhi's Kitchen

Tell us briefly about yourself, where you come from and a bit about your family.
My name is Kaluhi Adagala. I am a 24 year old Kenyan girl who loves life, is a Christian, celebrates her femininity and spends most of her free time cooking and developing new recipes. I was born and raised in Nairobi and I thrive in positive yet challenging environments. I am a bachelor of commerce (finance major) graduate, with no culinary training and I consider my ability to develop new recipes from the top

My Wife Says Horrible Things To Me Causing Our Marital Problems Yet I Still Cannot Live Without Her.

Good evening Eya, I am a subscriber to wives connection who reads yoyr blog regularly. I love the intelligent responses by ladies on the blog and today I need their help. All my years as a man and husband, I have seen marriages crumble under the littlest issues. I see husbands walk out because their wives turned abusive. In my case, wife treats me so poorly yet I can't live without her. What could be wrong with me after all these years? My Wife Says She Hates Me And Wants Me Out Of Her Life, But I Can't Stop Loving Her Or Leave 

my wife says the most horrible things to me, can also be physically abusive. She once slapped my face at her friends

Good Morning

Did you work out today?

Monday, November 09, 2015

How Can I Spy On My Husband's Text Messages Without Touching His Phone?

Hello Eya, please help me post this question on your blog.  I need help with being able to spy a little on my husband of five years.  I am a very busy always tired mother of three kids who works her ass off to assist my husband while he doesn't care about the future. I also try my best to bed feed him every night  My husband has never talked about how and what future he wants for his family.  He makes money but cannot control spending. Until I saw this habit in him, I never believed that a man could be addicted to shopping. If he did that shopping for

Confused Wife Of 20 Years Has Exhausted Her Methods, Needs Our Advice To Make A Decision

Goodevening madam Eya,
I came across your blog this week and am very pleased to  read and come across the advises of very intelligent people. Thanks.
I do have a very pressing and urgent need which i will like to share with Wives Connection family.
Please do not condemn, I am neither foolish nor uneducated but a wife who believes in keeping her

Saturday, November 07, 2015

Four Nigerian Foods To Avoid During Pregnancy

     A pot of isi ewu cooked with potash..    
  1.  Ngwongwo:  (Not the goat meat type, I mean dog meat ngwongwo). This is a dog meat delicacy from Calabar also known as forty forty. Not all Cross Riverians eat dog meat

Friday, November 06, 2015

How To Cook Nigerian Party Jollof Rice With That Secret Ingredient

Nigerian Party Jollof rice cooked with that special secret ingredient that gives a very inviting aroma. One thing about party jollof rice is that you just want to have a taste, even those who just ate rice before leaving their houses cannot resist party jollof rice. The secret ingredient is what you see floating on that boiling pot of rice below. This jollof rice recipe is something to try this weekend.

Thursday, November 05, 2015

How To Make Rice Flour Fufu Colourful, Quick And Delicious, With Some Starch, Palm Oil

How to make elastic tuwo shinkafa with palm oil

My Colourful rice Flour Fufu appears first here on wives connection blog. 
When compared with other forms of fufu like garri, semolina, semovita, poundo, wheat etc, rice flour is the

Funny Google Searches That Land On Wives Connection, How To Brush Them Up And Search The Internet More Effectively

 An Example of Google search with no keywords, unnecessary words.
There are times curiosity drives me to llook at searches that drive traffic to and land on this blog, and, I won't lie, sometimes I have a big laugh. Only Google knows how Google manages to just give the right results whether we mispell words or query with no key word. I don't know. Sometimes it's like I want to ask; "Is Google Search Engine a mind reader"? The results just come out and you find what you are looking for. Like for instance, the search queries below. I'll try my best here to to show us how I use keywords to search and get exactly what I'm looking for. It saves time when we search with keywords rather than long sentences. Some funny Google Searches and how to summarise these to keywords for better results:

1. Do not type "Please I want to know the business I can start for my wife" Rather type like below;
this search query will give you so many results you can't even read all, but, do you know that summarising that sentence to just keywords will give you the exact answers you search for while saving you space, time and energy? If I wanted to search Google for business my wife can start in Nigeria, what I'll search is something like the sentences below

  • Lucrative businesses in Nigeria
  • Best Nigerian businesses for housewives
  • How to start a business in Nigeria
  • Online businesses in Nigeria and so on.

Wednesday, November 04, 2015

Dating A Nigerian Married Man Who Wants To Take Me As Second Wife

Hi Eya, I am an ardent reader of wives connection blog from South Africa. who needs your advice and that of other women to help me make one very serious decision of my life. In 2014, I met and fell in love with a Nigerian married man here in South Africa. He is based here but his family hasn't moved to join him yet. His wife works over there in Nigeria and visits with their two kids. I met him on the saddest day of my life so to say, I had just lost my father and been jilted by my boyfriend who found a prettier woman to stalk. While I went out to meditate on my life and seek ways to move forward,and didn't realize I was in tears until he walked up to me and offered to drive me home, although I hesitated because I don't like strangers showing kindness to me, he insisted, I got convinced he was sincere and let him take me home in his car.

Eventually, we became friends as he continued to visit me and with his wedding ring on his finger, I

Tuesday, November 03, 2015

Meet African Blogger Series 1: Let's Get To Meet Lagos Based Beauty Blogger Chinazor Ezeh

Our 'Meet African Blogger' Series Starts today.  Every week, we will by God's grace get to meet and know more about at least one good African blogger, get inspired by them and also get to say hi and ask ANY question you have because they will be on stand-by to answer you satisfactorily.
Today, let's meet Lagos based Beauty Blogger and Make up Artist (MUA) Chinazor Ezeh. Some of us already met her briefly, when she posted Let's talk Beauty here on the blog and when she posted her delicious fried spaghetti

 1. Hi Chinazor, can we meet you, tell us briefly about yourself, where you come from and a bit about your family.

Hello everyone! *waves* How are you all doing? Hope great.... *takes a deep breath*‎ Ok, I'm Chinazor Ezeh, the Beauty blogger behind , but that's not all...... I own a makeup school 'Blushes 'n Dimples Makeup School', and I also own 'Blushes 'n Dimples Accessories'....that's right, I'm a Beader too *we are plenty..loool!* . I'm married and blessed with 3 munchkins and an angel.‎

I come from Anambra State... an Awka indigene precisely, and I'm married to an Achi indigene in Enugu state. *wipes brow*

2. Why did you decide to start a beauty blog instead of news and entertainment like most Nigerian bloggers?