12 Marriage Tips for wives of stingy husband in Nigeria

Aunty Eya, I need you to help me share this marriage tips with other wives please ma.

Marriage tips are not for women who use family budget money to sew aso-ebi. If the reason your husband is writing shopping list with price tag and calculating the total with his phone calculator before giving you the money is because you use family money to sew dresses for committee of friends, aso-ebi then please don’t read our tips for now.

Your husband is caring and generous, these tips are not for you. That your husband is struggling financially, these tips are not for you.

These 12 marriage tips are for women who are married to husbands who can afford to give their wives a comfortable life but are withholding it from them. These my marriage tips are for wives of stingy husbands. If you have a stingy rich husband, learn these tips and help yourself.

MARRIAGE TIPS FOR WIVES OF STINGY HUSBAND IN NIGERIA

1. 1. 1. If your husband can afford to give you good money for daily, monthly, weekly or yearly upkeep of the family but decides to be stingy because he can or because you have a little.When he writes the shopping list and let’s say writes quantity of items to shop. When you get to the market, do not buy exact quantity he wrote. If he calculates 20 cups of rice, buy 15 cups and save the change for rainy day when you need and he won’t give.
      2. If your husband writes the shopping list with price tags, what to do is shop first the items he doesn’t really need and leave out one or two items that will affect him directly. Save the money and when you get home, tell him that prices changed.With a serious worried face, explain to him that price hike in some items prevented you from buying everything on the list. Don’t talk too much before you give away yourself. Because you left out the items that affect him directly, he won’t waste time shopping them or giving you money to get the remaining items. QED!
      3. If your husband doesn’t really care about you after he asked you to stop working and look after the kids. Don’t worry. One day, like once in a long while, just misplace the money plus your old purse and return home with tears in your eyes. If you don’t know how to cry fake cry, learn from Nollywood movies.Wear a tired face and remove makeup before you get home. Explain that the purse was snatched from you as soon as you stepped out of the car at the market. Case closed. What will he do?Flog you? Make sure he never sees you with that purse again. Throw it far far away from home and forget it. Before you do this, be sure that that day you went shopping with enough money that you can save for yourself not peanuts.
      4. Some stingy husbands prefer to do the shopping themselves and these can cause problems in marriage because when they shop the items. The wives too will refuse to do the cooking. You know what? When he shops for you to cook.
      5. Don’t make noise, but cook the food with no taste and tell him that it’s the things he bought. Cook the beans a bit less tasty than you always did and tell him that it’s the type he bought that’s not good.  If it’s vegetable, make sure they are not well preserved and when they begin to rot quickly, tell him that those were not very fresh. He’ll think twice about shopping himself.
      6. After the stingy Nigerian husband has written the market shopping list. Tell him to do the shopping that you cannot shop with a list written by another.
      7. For marriage tip 6, be careful because there are some men who will quickly do the shopping if you suggest it to them.
      8. If he is the type that will run and do the shopping for the family, threaten him that after shopping he’ll enter the kitchen and do the cooking.
      9. When you ask for money for the kids or to shop things for the children, double the price of items and save the extra money.
      10. When you are pregnant and go for antenatals, use that opportunity to get more money than needed. If Antenatal care registration is free, don’t let him know. When you begin to shop baby items, write every unnecessary baby item you can think of and collect the money. When you go to buy, you know what you really need and save the money. You and baby will need it.
      11. The list of items to bring to the hospital for delivery, rewrite it with many more items added, get it typed and printed out with the hospital name written boldly on top, Show him the list and you alone knows the items the hospital asked you to bring for delivery. Save money for the future when he won’t give you.
2. If you are a new mum with immunizations for the baby, get more than is needed. Keep the excess. You may not even have any excess money to keep because by the time you buy food and drinks while out with the baby, When you pay for other unnecessary sudden expenses, what will be left?
3. Be wise. Many housewives wives are dying of depression and most time it’s money related. Not that they cannot work. Why don’t the men stop work to look after the kids. No! It’s always the wife that’s asked to stay home with the growing kids.  While staying home, the husband’s harfly treat the money like it belongs to the family.

The stingy husbands. They do what they want and turn the women into beggars. who will have to speak politely and beg when they need a little change.  Hope with these few points of mine, I have been able to convince you that You can successfully get money out of a stingy Nigerian husband?