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Thursday, December 31, 2015

The Other Mans Wife Called And Warned My Wife To Keep Away From Her Husband

I Saw wives connection page open on a colleagues system during work break, checked it out and got super glued since then. I enjoy reading advice here because people are so sincere and forward.  Here is my problem. Almost a year ago, my wife fell in love with another man. I don't know where or how they met but It started out with texting and flirting. This escalated to texting daily even while I am home. I remember a rainy day in July, she asked me to stay home with our two children while she

Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Confused Two-Time-Bride To Be

If I say that this platform has not made me an intercontinental cook in my husband's house,know you that am the worst liar on earth, this blog has made me the best cook in my home,in fact ,other wives and sisters in-law can't even see my brakes light,all thanks to wives connection oo, Aunty Eya please am writing this on behalf of my cousin sister,she got married in 2011 and left the marriage in early 2013 with a baby girl due to domestic

Tuesday, December 29, 2015

You Think You Look Younger Than People Your Age? No You Do

Have you ever been guilty of looking at others your own age and thinking, "surely I can't look that old.". Well . . . you'll love this one.

My name is Meena. I was sitting in the waiting room for my first appointment with a new dentist.

I noticed his BDS degree on the wall, which bore his full name.

Suddenly, I remembered a tall , handsome, dark-haired boy

How Long Should Couples Mourn Before Remarrying?

Hello  Aunty Eya, my uncle lost his wife in 2013 and up till this moment he still talks about her. We expected him to have moved on by now but each time we bring up the

So, China Had No Law Against Domestic Violence?

China passes its first law against domestic violence

Everywhere one enters, their is something, a product made in China. Who would have thunk that up till 2015, Almighty China had no law against domestic violence. I know how company workers live like dormitory students and work like slaves but NEver thought China had no law in place to stop domestic violence. This picture just spoiled my morning. 

So Many Dumb Ways To Die; Reckless Mum dangles two babies and a toddler on a motorbike

Reckless mum dangles two babies and toddler on a motorbike

Frightening footage that has been shared several times showed a reckless mum dangling her three young children off a motorbike while travelling along a busy road in Colombia.
The mother holds a youngster in each arm while the other child is sat squashed between its

How Does A Married Man Manage To Sleep Overnight At A Different Place Atleast Once Every Week?

Merry Christmas Aunty Eya, I just found  wives connection and I have a question for you wives on there, please take out my details before posting. I am a 22 year old student in one of the best Unis in Nigeria. Ok, I met and fell in love with this rich generous guy before discovering he is married. I can't leave him now but will definitely do so after my studies, I'm in my 300 levels. I am not here to

Sunday, December 27, 2015

Top 30 Blog Posts Of 2015 - Most Read


Wives connection most read posts of 2015 all have something in common.  Can you see it? I'll add links so we
check them out again. The shea butter and baby skin post is number one, it is the most read post on wives connection this 2015. It receives  heavy hits everyday from January right till December.  There was no day the she a butter post was not read by many mums I guess.  Ok, so I'll start linking from the highest to the high.
1. Is shea butter good for baby skin?

2. Pictures: How to Prepare Soya Beans Powder  For Infants By Peach
3. Can a pregnant woman take moringa?
4. Nigerian food recipes 
5. Why you desperately need moringa tea
6. Nigerian meals suited for a pregnant palate
7. How to cook nutritious afang okazi vegetable soup
8. Excessive farting after giving birth to my baby
9. How to cook Nigerian white soup

Yoruba Introduction Ceremony How To


Hi Eya, I  am a Yoruba properly married woman. I read an old wives connection post where the poster asked how Yoruba Marriage Introduction is carried out, but could not post my comment. In the Yoruba culture, an introduction is held so both families can meet officially. 
Yoruba Introduction Ceremony used to be an affair of just close

Happy Sunday. Hope You Had A Joyous Tiring Christmas?

 So, I see THIS on Facebook and I'm wondering,  what do I need to do so

Why I Don't Like Christmas

Good morning Aunty Eya, my family is so broken I could not travel home for Christmas because it's more fun just staying here all alone. My fellow corpers all travelled to meet with families for Christmas. Why would I  go home

Saturday, December 26, 2015

I Want To Be A Donor To Help Single Parents

Hello ma, can you please help me, I want to be sperm donor by helping single moms, and other couples become parent by putting joy on their faces. Am a tall dark young man and am in my early

Male Prostitute 27, Charged With Murder For Strangling Married Father-Of-Two In A Hotel Room

 
Manuel Baez, 27, is being charged with the murder of Dr. Howard Baker, 75, who was found killed inside his room at the Rodeway Inn on Monday afternoon, police said.
Baker, who was married with two adult sons, was found naked on the floor with a belt

I Almost Want to Tell His Wife

Hello  Aunty  Eya, please help me post this anonymously. I am the other woman but honestly I didn't know he was married.We ended things. I am completely devastated. I'm so

Friday, December 25, 2015

Merry Christmas From My Family To Wives Connection Family

Merry Christmas From Us. 
 May this season bring joy to you and your family as you

Thursday, December 24, 2015

Sharing My Best Christmas Memories

Merry Christmas Aunty Eya, I am very happy this Christmas and would like if you can do a post where we get to share our most memorable Christmas experiences this season. I go first: Christmas was always a big thing for us. When I was about five, our parents started putting the tree up in mine and my sister's room. We'd keep the lights on for hours or until my parents went to bed. When we first moved into our own house, I was only three and my parents still had my toys for some reason. My dad would fill our rooms with balloons on Christmas Eve and on Christmas Day me and My sister would spend the morning playing with the balloons.
 Christmas lunch and  dinner was always a mix of South African and traditional Christmas food. Still

Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Promoting Tolerance In The World, Shouldn't Both Sides Adjust?

MAYOR REFUSES TO REMOVE PORK FROM SCHOOL CANTEEN MENU... EXPLAINS WHY
Muslim parents demanded the abolition of pork in all the school canteens of a Montreal suburb. The mayor of the Montreal suburb of Dorval, has refused, and the town clerk sent a note to all parents to explain why...

Tuesday, December 22, 2015

35 Nigerian Christmas Recipes To Try This Christmas And New Year 2016


You can find your favourite Christmas and new year recipes on these food collages.  What's your favourite Nigerian Christmas Recipes?  If it's not here, let me know and I'll give you a link to find it. From these images,  I'll
link only the ones that I  think Nigerians love to serve and enjoy at Christmas and New  Year. Try any recipe here and watch your guests luck fingers and plates.
1. Jollof rice and beans with carrots 
2. Pan grilled fish dinner with rice
3. King prawn fried rice by Lizzy Obaze
4. Rice and baked beans stew
5.  Fried rice by Sisi Yemmie
6. Vegetable fish sauce with rice

7. Titus fish stew
8. Fried rice mix in the making.
To follow step by step cooking of all these rice delicacies, from number one to 8, click on all rice recipes and some more rice recipes  and much more rice recipes 

Can A Pregnant Woman Eat Nigerian pepper soup, Bitter leaf, Ugu and Hot Leaf?

Good morning Aunty Eya. God bless you for this forum. Please ma, this is my first pregnancy and I don't want to make mistakes eating the wrong foods.  I crave pepper soup daily  and now am scared the hot pepper in there

My Story. The Circle Is Repeating Itself

Hello Aunty Eya, I came across your blog while I was in a desperate chat. I'm 24rs old. I have a 3yr old baby from years back. The man flew immediately he knew I was pregnant, I

Monday, December 21, 2015

Buy Toyota Cheap With Jiji.ng


The Japanese corporation has earned the status of one of the best car manufacturers in the world, and it isn’t surprising. Toyota produces cars people dream of. They offer the highest quality of materials used for production and the highest level of service. Every model is thoroughly (and globally) tested. The company is always working on the development of new technologies and finding new solutions, as they take care not only of drivers and clients but of the environment as well.
Buying a Toyota car isn’t different – you can find it

I Cheated On My Wife, She Has Moved Out But I Desperately Need Her Back ,Please Help

Good evening Madam Eya, I'm a male reader of wives connection that needs urgent help to save my marriage. I know I have sinned against God Almighty and my dear wife. 8 months after I met my wife, we got married and had the sweetest relationship ever...however, when our baby arrived, she became the most attentive and amazing mother even forgetting me sometimes and i acted like a spoilt

Saturday, December 19, 2015

He Said He Was Going To Leave His Wife For Me

Ok Aunty Eya, this may be a long story, but because it's anonoymous I have to tell sum1. I was raped when I was 14yrs old. After that I got into a relationship with a female. I'm 22 yrs old now & 2 yrs ago I met a man that  fell in love with. He told me that he loved me & that he was going to leave his wife. He helped me forget about my ex-girlfriend who had jus broken up with me. I really didnt mean to sleep with him.
I just got caught up in the moment. At the time I knew he was married, but as I mentioned he said he

I Have Not Been In Love With My Husband For At Least 8 Years

Hello Aunty Eya, how are you, your family and your cute Chairman. I found this blog in 2014 and became extremely addicted. Now it's something I can pass the day without doing. I love all the comments I have not been in love with my husband for at least 8 years (since about our 2nd year in marriage). I love him, but the love has morphed into a more brotherly-type love. I'm not attracted or connected to him anymore. And we've been in financial crisis for a few years, so that hasn't helped matters. Especially when he is largely responsible for it.
Things have just been really bad for the past few weeks. I've gotten to where I don't even want to be around him. And of course he asked me what was wrong with me. So I told him. I told him that I

Friday, December 18, 2015

An Argumentative Husband; I use the silent Attitude to Avoid Getting More Angry

Madam Eya.I read in your blog about a South African lady in a 3years relationship with a Nigerian guy.Her question about the guys silent attitude whenever his angry brought me to this.Please am a silent type when am angry too.I have a husband who will get me angry and in the midst of the anger,for us to talk about it,he will start arguing,telling you why what he did is right,that he did

Another Method Of Wrapping agidi jollof, Who Knows?

Agidi Jollof With Coconut Cream Powder And Biscuit Bones, wrapped with broad leaves


Agidi jollof with coconut cream powder and biscuit bones

please ma i have been going through your recipes.Waoooh! your just wonderful.I discovered it few minutes ago while searching for Okrika way of cooking unripe plantain porridge.Am in my trimester thats just making

Thursday, December 17, 2015

My Husband Wants To End Our Marriage

Hello Eya,  please hide my email. I lov ur blog. I found it while searching for sumthin in google. My stories goes like this, i married 3yrs ago and i ve been experiencing problems in my marriage. My hubby told he was still in sch a month to my wedding, we dated for one yr and he hid it from me. He was doing bisness wen i met him. My hubby took ill and he spent so much on d illness hence there was no money to renew the rent. My hubby moved me to his parents house. He claimed his parents want to monitor his health. I looked for sumthin small to do while i was wit d parents. I had two miscarriages. I kept praying for my husband health bcos new sickness kept coming up caused by the previous ones. I was determined and believed he wont die. I got pregnant d third time and my hubby told his parents wen i was 3months, everyone was happy bcos dis pregnancy advanced. Buh one day i had sleepless night that caused some mental misbehaviours.

 My inlaws became worried.This sleepless night also made my

12 Delicious Finger Licking Nigerian Recipes To Cook, pick one

This collage of Nigerian recipes is so full of yummy, delicious, nutritious Nigerian recipes. If you try one each week, you'd have completed cooking

While In Labour, He Is Breaking Up With Me At The Hospital

Good evening  Aunty Eya,  I want to ask for advise on the blog but am not a good writer. I just found this story on bossip and there a so many similar things about my case, any advise given by blog visitors will help me too but I  Kw you might not post it because I read a comment last week where you warned a poster that she or he copied a story and shouldn't do that again. I  am not a copier and not a good writer too. Please help me, pity me by posting this story. I need advise please Aunty Eya. I am 22 years old with a one year old son with a man, or should I say boy, who’s betrayed me in every way.
We’ve been neighbors all our lives, even had sleepovers in my house when we were kids. We didn’t speak to each other besides a “Hi,” and head nod for years because our mothers HATED each other. But, more than 2 years ago, because of my brothers, we started to hang out with each other. I was in another relationship at the time with someone who was cheating on me, so I cheated on him. But, I know now

Why Am I Pregnant While Still A Virgin?

These mails from young, Pregnant virgin ladies asking me if it's possible to get pregnant without being disvirgined. I've always sent private replies without posting but I'm getting a bit worried and just thought to post this because they are becoming a bit more frequent. I always replied that fertilisation can take place if seen gets to the egg even without penetrative something. There was one lady that won't believe and kept asking more questions and finally I told her that if there was any foreplay around the veejayjay, even around the stomach, navel or thigh area, it's possible to get pregnant because semen is like liquid and can flow down without notice,  and once it touches the uvula, a little can escape in there and fertilise the baby to be egg and voila you are pregnant as a virgin.
Here is the short mail below :

He Controls Me Like A Toy, Says Will Poison Me If I Cheat On Him

Good morning aunty Eya. God bless u for this wonderful blog, u 've
really helped lives. please I need to knw if I'm doing the right thing
with this guy. I met him last two yrs nd things was quiet well but we
agreed on one particular thing, No Sex. He tried to rape me once but
didn't succeed nd said he was sorry, dat he didn't mean to, it
happened cos of the way I kissed him or something like dat then he

Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Love Your New Mom Even More Than You Love Me

Mummy’s boy, you are now a man. Tomorrow you will have a new mother, a new cook and a new person to share all your secrets with. It will no longer be me but her. Love your new mum even more than you love me. Before you walk into her arms forever, let me give you some words to guide you.
There was a day I was arguing with your father. We were

Third Mainland Bridge Death Trap: Lagosians be careful

THIRD MAINLAND BRIDE DEATH TRAP . True life story by  IFEYINWA Okafor-Mbah

NO MATTER HOW HECTIC THE TRAFFIC MAYBE ...PLEASE DON'T ALLOW THE DRIVERS TAKE ANY "SHORTCUT"


I have always noticed a portion of land at the right hand side of the road with two big gates imme   diately you descend the THIRD MAINLAND BRIDGE going towards Adekunle but I have never really  thought it could be a hide out for the MEN of the UNDERWORLD but  last week Friday I came in direct contact with them.

On my way home from work I took a bus from Obalende to

Monday, December 14, 2015

The 10 Most Common Causes Of Divorce And How You Can Prevent It

      The most common reasons people give for their divorce are:
      1. Infidelity: Can be forgiven and fixed
      2. Abuse: can be fixed
      3. Lack of commitment: can be fixed 
      4. Too much argument: can be fixed
      5. Inability to resolve conflict: can be fixed when a couple listens to each other and not just one doing

      Sunday, December 13, 2015

      I Discovered Am Pregnant 2 Months After My Husband's Passing, Now His Friend Wants To Date, Should I tell Him About The Pregnancy?

      Hi Aunty Eya, your blog has been a blessing to my family even before my husband passed on. I have learnt to cook some nice meals from your blog. Thank you. To the blog visitors too who have taught me so much with  their words of advice, thanks a zillion. My husband passed a few months back, he was ill. Two months after, I discovered pregnancy. Now am six months gone but not showing at all. I

      He Keeps Throwing Money At Me When All I Want Is A Cuddle

      Hello wives connection, I have been with my partner for 3 years and i decided i have had enough of the endless begging and pleading for scraps of affection. i am 34 female and not bad looking. he is such a cold person! i

      Men In Heels, Did You Meet These? If Not, You Are A Small Pikin

      If men were to wear heels like ladies,  they'll  just beat us to it. Don't you just live the confidence and attitude.  Walking

      I Love My Wife But Still Dream Of My Long Gone Ex Girlfriend Who Is Now Married With Children

      Happy weekend Aunty Eya, thanks and God bless you for the things we learn daily in wives  connection blog. I thought by now, things would have naturally resolved themselves but these thoughts and dreams keep coming against my wish.
      I've been married for 6 years and with my wife for a total of 8 years but on and off throughout our relationship. I keep

      She Is ONE Of My Favourite Authors


      Maya Angelou is one of my favourite authors. I enjoy reading her books, I enjoy listening to her voice. Her whole life from childhood to adulthood to death is so inspirational. Her voice to me is heavenly especially when she reads her poems. I have read some of her books and can trade my lunch and dinner for a Maya Angelou book. 

      I saw my daughter reading "a song flung up to heaven " after a

      Saturday, December 12, 2015

      Celebrating My 16th Wedding Anniversary With Sadness

      Hi Sis, thanks so much for your blog. I read it everyday. And am so inspired and refreshed at all times.
      Today is supposedly my 16 yrs marriage anniversary but am Sad. So so sad. I got  married at age 18 and 11 months, to a guy dats 20yrs older than me not because I was forced to but it was my destiny. I gave all into my marriage, friends, School, my youth, my thoughts, emotions etc. everything to make sure my marriage work.
      Am a born again Christian, love God with all my heart  and do my best to serve him in Truth and Spirit. Love my hub so much that I could die for him.
      Am d type dat can manage no matter d situation, am not into flashy thing but don't mind having d

      Friday, December 11, 2015

      His Libido Has Disappeared? Does That Happen?

      Hello Aunty Eya, I am an ardent reader of wives connection that needs you to post  a little something for me. I need other people's opinion about what to do after four years of hot water in my veejay. Yes I splash in some warm water to calm the urges and it works temporarily. I have been married 6 years but we've been a couple nearly 8 years. Sex was always fine but since marrying it has fizzled out and last time we made love was nearly 4 years ago. The difference is it's my husband whose sex drive has completely disappeared. (I am tempted to have an affair) I am consumed with frustration, anger, self-

      Thursday, December 10, 2015

      Christmas Giveaway By Regal Touch Jewellery

       Would you like to own any of these beautiful jewellery items these Christmas?  Would you like to  celebrate the merry season in one of these gorgeous pieces of jewellery?

      Recipe To Cook This Weekend Is Nigerian Fried Rice By Iyabo Lawani

       A colourful nutritious servino of fried rice.
      If you didn't watch Maggi family menu, back then in our days, then you are still a small pikin oh. Remember Iyabo Lawani that cooked those meals

      Giving Birth In America, Any Blog Reader With Experience Or Tips Please?

      Travelling To Give Birth In The USA.

      Good morning Aunty Eya, thank you for this wonderful platform that helps us share info f learn right from our bedrooms.  I am an ardent reader who started following wives connection right from inception.  This is my first post on the blog however.  Can you do me a favour?  I need info about giving birth in America. See Aunty Eya, my family has done the American green card lottery thing for over 10

      Wednesday, December 09, 2015

      A Northern Sister Shares Bdroom Tips To Help Revive Ailing Marriages

      So, after reading the post and several posts on married women cheating in their homes, i pondered so much on it and it's glaring that this trend may keep increasing, one of the major factors is lack of sexual satisfaction. Many married women are suffering from this both those that are cheating and those that are not cheating, moreover the single ladies can also learn from this so as to get ready for their marital bed when the time comes. For the purpose of easy understanding i will divide this post into 3 sections, f you have any question about anything or contribution you can drop it in the

      Another Pregnancy 4 Months After CS, Please Help

      Aunty Eya please help me. I don't know what to do. Don't even know how to inform hubby because he insisted I go for family planning but fear and stubbornness won't let me. After birth, the Doctors advised that I wait at least one year before getting pregnant again. I don't know how this happened. I

      My Baby Cannot Pass Stool Easily, Her Stool Is Hard. Any Tips Please?

      GOD BLESS U MA. PLS I WANT U TO HELP ME ON THIS... MY BABY IS ALMOST
      5MTHS OLD AND SHE HAS BEING HAVING HARD STOOL SINCE I STOP GIVING HER
      BREAST BECAUSE OF HEALTH CHALLENGES. SHE TAKE NAN 1 BUT PRESENTLY SHE

      How Do I Control Pregnancy Weight Gain?

      Good morning Aunty Eya, please help me post this question for blog visitors. I don't feel good about myself because my husband doesn't like fat women and my weight is almost double now in my

      Can You Spot The Deer?

        
      This is the infuriating image leaving people at a loss to where a deer is hiding in plain sight.
      At first glance the picture shows a remote rocky outcrop in rural South Africa. 
      But when you look closer you might just make out the

      My Favourite Things This Christmas; NHN COUTURE Is One

      What would you do if you received a Christmas hamper including all the these? I hear her prices are very

      My Wife Reports My Bedwetting To Mother, Gives Me Adult Pampers For Birthday Present

      Hello Eya, kindly take out my details before posting on the blog. I just got married in 2014, I am 24 and my wife is 23, we are from same tribe. My wife, has become close friends with my mother. This has resulted in sharing her concerns with my occasional bed wetting. It is actually just a little spotting when I don't wake up on time, not what I would call bedwetting. My mother was quick to tell her how she dealt with bed wetting when I was a child. To my total embarrassment, my mother recounted how she had made me wear nappies and plastic baby pants when I wet the bed. This happened frequently up until I was a teenager. I never went to a boarding school  because of this challenge. 

      Wetting my bed resulted in having to wear napkin  until I could keep my nyash dry for a week. I had to earn the right to not

      Tuesday, December 08, 2015

      Blogger Meets Blogger: Eya Ayambem Meets Sisi Yemmie

      Ok, I got it. Watch this video, before you get to the end you see us laughing loudly and shining 32.
      You  know,  when I see blogger meets blogger posts, I rush to read,  wondering what bloggers do when they meet.  Do they sit in front of a laptop and start blogging?  Do they share blogging tips? What exactly do they talk about?

      So, Sisi Yemmie was live in Abuja last week, she was a speaker at the Female Business Sessions. We met LIVE. What we read on her blog is small compared to the

      No Sugar, No Carb Dinner For Slimmers

      A serving of grilled fish vegetable salad. 
       To prevent weight gain this jollof rice season

      My elder brother's wife

      Good morning Aunty Eya, please post anonymously.  I need advice from wives connection blog. I think my brother's wife is trying to drag me on mud. I haven't got a job yet and still squatting with my elder brother pending when I get a job and move out. My brother is married to his beautiful wife who is about my age, it's been three years and I know they are praying for a child and sometimes I pray with them too. The Doctor says they perfectly fine but they are  so impatient.

      We had a family party and I feel guilty of my personal events

      Without Her, Man Is Nothing

      A woman : without her, man is nothing. How I would punctuate this? 

      Monday, December 07, 2015

      35 Awesome Christmas Presents For A Nigerian Mother, And Nigerian Mother-Inlaw

       This Christmas, Please remember the woman that gave birth to you, your wife, and your husband.our your children's grandmas, your mother in laws.  I gave the title mother in law but these are Christmas gifts fit for even our own mums too,  even fit for oga madam sef. From this extensive list, we can pick for our mothers,  pick for mom in laws and friends.  Make someone smile this Christmas.  Create fun memories with these gifts:
      African prints: Vlisco wax, High target wax, Ghana Wax or any cloth material good for sewing wrapper and blouse.

      Best Cereal For Nigerian Babies To Eat From 6 Months On

      Hello wives connection, please my baby is six months and refusing all the cereals I introduced to him. I have tried cerelac, nutrend, golden morn blended indomie and even blended quaker

      My Wife Is Too Bossy To Change, Feels Superior to me

      Hello Madam Eya, God bless you for what you are doing on this platform.  I found your blog, introduced my wife to it but she is not that kind of person. All she likes is just watching Mexican soap operas on TV.  It's a strange  thing to be married for sixteen years and yet still feel tired of being alone. I guess only somebody in an abusive marriage would understand such a thing. Well, let me put it this way:
          I have long given up discussing anything with my wife, because one of two things will happen: she will

      Sweetness Is Getting Me No Where. Am I Swimming In the wrong pond?

      Hello Mrs Eya, please help post my story on wives connection blog. 
      I have been told all my life that I am a nice person and sweet. Well sweetness gets me nowhere. I have tried dating with no luck. I have been played more times than I can count. Just the other day I was on a job and

      Am I With The Right Man? Will He Change?

      Thanks a lot aunty Eya for this wonderful blog and also thanks to all
      the lovers of this blog. Ur advices and suggestions have been helpful,
      pls hide my details . I'm not sure if I'm with the right guy. growing
      up i knew what I wanted a man, how I want him to look like, think,
      make decisions and so on but the man I Hv now in my life is not

      I Never Imagined Women Breastfeeding Animals

       Some husbands might just love watching their

      Sunday, December 06, 2015

      Sunday Lunch Shredded Beef Jollof Noodles

      A serving of indomie noodles. 
      Sunday service was long today. We got home at 1:30 PM and I  couldn’t think of any quick lunch so I brought out 5 packs of noodles. By 1:45 we were eating lunch. Thank God, Sunday rice and stew

      Saturday, December 05, 2015

      I Feel So alone , I know that I am Toxic

      Hello Aunt Eya, please help me post this on the blog.  I'm so pathetic.... This I am well aware.
      Always pushing people away until I'm completely alone, because I want to test those to see who will remain loyal and true.... But it seems in my broken insanities, I am too complicated for any man to love. 


      I've driven everyone who has even dared to faintly care for

      My Sunday Breakfast, If Only I Knew All The Fruits In There

      This nutritious glass is what I'mgoing to make for myself tomorrow morning. looks so sophisticated, exotic,  nutritious and good for my body and longer throat.  At first I thought it's not a kind of drink one can get in Nigeria but on a closer look, those things in there are all fruits that one can easily get at Wuse market or any supermarket. 
      I  can see strawberries in there, kiwi fruit, blackberries, apples, passion fruit and and I don't need to put the flower on top. But again, these fruits are expensive o. Maybe I just

      Friday, December 04, 2015

      Must Read: Meet My Husband

      My name is Dayo. I’m a typical Nigerian guy and
      I cherish my Fridays a lot; I get to hang out with
      the sickest guys every Friday night and secondly,

      Where To Buy Affordable Maternity Wears In Lagos. Anyone Knows?

      Hello aunty Eya,
      I've been a silent ‎reader of your blog for a while now and I must say that you are doing a great job helping others. Go bless you real good. Please, I need some ideas on maternity styles one

      Is This Wendy Williams Real Skin?

       Can't  be. With all her bad mouthing other people? When you watch Wendy finish other women on her

      My food presentation before and now

      White rice with catfish pepper soup and some very ripe pineapple. This used to be my best presentation, when I take the pics, I look at them

      These Are The Two People I Care About, I Am Afraid To Be Betrayed

      Good morning Mrs Eya, I need your advice and that of other blog visitors concerning my case. A long time good friend of mine of 12 years, has become infatuated with my GF I think, he texts her everyday saying good morning/night, and even jokingly flirts. Although my fiancee  does not reciprocate the flirting, but doesn't think he's crossing the line. We have been together for over a year, and now they are BFFs, he even spoils her with gifts. I trust both of them, but for some reason all this really bothers me. Its one thing to

      Pregnant? Classic Baby Girl Name Suggestions For 2016

      Being a mother of mostly girls, My choice of names has always been classical. Not many families will name their only son Joseph in 2015, when there are so many funky, modern sounding names. If I named my Chairman Joseph, then you should just know that my girls' names include the "old school" Margaret. All baby names are cute, however,  I think I prefer classical baby names  for my kids to funky fresh names. I’ll admit that I’m a bit of a classicist when it comes to baby names, so, if you are for unique one in town names, then, maybe I'm not the right person to ask, lol.. I prefer names like Katharine and Margaret my own daughter's name, to Funkimine and Gadgetstar or Compunerry. But there’s plenty of room to choose something cute for your daughter without going too far into oddball territory. If you’re looking for cute girls’ names, check out one of these options:
      Adelaide It was the name of a popular British monarch and an Australian city, but now this name with a “noble” meaning is fresh and fun for a little girl.

      Thursday, December 03, 2015

      Zaron Foundation Versus Tara Foundation, Which Is Better

      Good evening Aunty Eya. The question you posted about shea butter and baby skin is how I discovered wives connection and have been forever glued like uhu gum. Now I have something

      Can The Husband Of This Kind beauty Ever Cheat? E nor fit abeg

      Gorgeous mother and daughter. Life is beautiful. 
      #stephannbeauty 

      My Husband Takes Sides With A Stranger Against Me, Still Wants Me To Apologize

      Gud evening ma
      Well done for d good work U have been doing
       Please I need ur candid advice n if U R going to paste dis,let it be anonymous
        I snoop on my hubby's phone around August not d first time I snoop
       I saw this number he always calls n decide to call d number back with my phone,d person picked n didn't talk n so tomorrow she called back saying I called her hubby

      We Have A Problem


      A newly married man arrived home from work looking down cast. His wife asked him, honey what is the problem?
      Husband : I have a problem.

      Layered Fruit Drink To Try Making This Weekend



      For something to try this weekend, let's  step outside and visit Dobby' s Signature. That her layered fruit juice is something I  always crave for at parties. layered (or "stacked") drink, sometimes called a pousse-cafĂ©, is a kind

      Me, When I Started Blogging And Now. Growing Younger Under Stress

       Heading for a bazaar thanksgiving. Hubby took this pictures andI kept quiet oh, if anyone else was

      Good morning. Happy Parenting :)

      Kids can drive you up China wall and make your head spin

      What Is Wild Yam? Anyone Knows? Please Help

      Aunty Eya good evening ma'am.I am one of your ardent follower on wives connection blog even before u went off for a while.please do hide my identity. I need to be sure what is

      Wednesday, December 02, 2015

      Shop Beautiful Regal Touch Jewelry

       Buy Regal touch jewelries online at wholesale prices. Buy for you or as a gift to a great friend.
      Products are very affordable and

      Free On The Spot Eye Test. What Do You See?

      What number do you see? Look well. 

      Am I Truly A Controlling Husband?

      Hello Eya, thank you so much for your blog. Wives connection has brought my family closer home with her easy to cook Nigerian recipes. I live outside the country and reading Nigerian blog gives the feeling of home. Since I discovered wives connection in January, have been glued reading old publications. I need to hear what other readers think about my situation please. 

      My wife of 14 years pointed me out to some controlling article she read on the internet. We are both Nigerians and have been together for 15 years total and married for 14. For the last

      25 Best Christmas Gift Suggestions For A Nigerian Husband

      A black or brown wallet 
      The perfect Christmas gift for your husband, son, Fiance, brother or friend.  You know what he does,
      what he likes. There’s no crime in giving more than one if you can afford to. Remember to give yourself a Christmas present too. While each year

      Must Read: Thank You For All Your Help

      Good morning said a woman as she walked up to the man sitting on the ground.

      The man slowly looked up.

      This was a woman clearly accustomed to the finer things of life. Her coat was new.. She looked like she had never

      Funny Photos: Why is Your Child Crying?

      Can you see the reasons these kids are crying so hard? 
      Their parents explain why they are crying.More pics after the cut

      Tuesday, December 01, 2015

      It's A Daughter For Mark Zuckerberg And Priscilla, Welcome To The World Baby Girl

      Cute diamond spoon baby.  
      Their birth announcement reads :

      This here! Is What Parenting Looks Like

      Sweet parenting, awwww. So many experiences to share. What about baby peeing in your food while trying to

      Woman Could Face Jail Term For Giving Pigs Water On A Hot Day

       

        A Canadian animal rights activist could face up to 10 years in prison for giving water to pigs heading to the slaughter

      Meet African Blogger Series 3: Storytelling Blogger Adaeze Ibechukwu




      1.  .Hi Adaeze, can we meet you?  Briefly tell us about yourself and your blog.

      My name is Adaeze Ibechukwu, I am a writer who has a strong penchant for telling stories and I am the blogger behind www.adaezewrites.com. My blog, Adaeze Writes is

      Can I Pray Against My Husband Taking A Second Wife?

      Hello Aunty Eya, good morning. I sent you a mail last week but didn't get any response. I have since then been refreshing the page Incase it's posted but can't find it. I am resending it,please Aunty Eya, don't ignore this email. Help me post this question for blog readers. I need answers immediately.

      Meet First Black Woman To Own An Airline

         
       South African businesswoman, Sizakele Petunia

      Best Instagram Hello cover Goes To

      @mamaj_88 is the over all winner mbok!  Before you disagree,  first go to her Instagram page, scroll down, listen and if your ribs don't explode with laughter, you can then

      Welcome To December 2015, Happy New Month


      Wow, just like yesterday we celebrated Christmas 2014,with my children asking what they are doing in the village when their class mates and friends are off to

      Monday, November 30, 2015

      You May Kiss The Bride


      Our Vegetable Ogbono Soup Gets 3000 Facebook Likes and 900 Facebook Comments, With Hundreds Of Shares

      Nigerian Soup Gets 3000 Facebook Likes
      Goodmorning guys, you know I think Nigerian food is great. Do you know that I posted this soup on wives connection Facebook page and as of today, it has gotten over 3000 Likes, hundreds of shares and about 900

      Chattered Accountant Job

      Please Do you know any young Chartered Accountant between the ages of 26 - 33 looking for a job?
      There are job opportunities  for a Finance and Admin Managers in Victoria Island and Ikeja - Lagos. The package

      Getting A Divorce, After 35 Years!

      An elderly man in Mumbai calls his son in New York and says,

      ‘I hate to ruin your day son, but I have to tell you that your mother and I are getting a divorce; 35 years of marriage… and that much misery is enough!’

      ‘Dad, what are you talking about?’ the son screams.

      Mind boggling excerpts from an interview with a Jewish leader about Blacks.

       INTERVIEWER: Why are blacks so behind Economically?
                 
      JEWISH LEADER:The only aspect blacks understand is Consumption. Blacks don't understand the importance of

      Addicted To Eating. Any Idea What To Do?

      Gud day ma,  Hope u had a splendid weekend?  ma my stomach is about to burst. I don't know what to do to help myself.
      Am addicted to eating even when am not hungry
      Ma, my stomach is about bursting. Please any idea of what to do or how to stop this?

      The Festive Season , Personal Security

      Dear All,

      The festive season is usually characterized by increased criminal activities. Please be guided by the following tips:

      1.       Personal Security
      ·         Keep a low profile, blend in and be alert to developments in your environment.
      ·         Avoid known crime-prone areas and black spots.
      ·         Avoid routine pattern of movements and late night outings. The more predictable your movements and

      Sunday, November 29, 2015

      Abuja Residents, Have You Seen This?

      It Reads:
      Intelligence reaching this office reveals that insurgents are planning to attack the Federal Capital Territory. Their main

      What Manner Of Husband Are You? Pick One Below

      Please read and share your honest thoughts. (Ladies, you can also participate by answering the same question, that is, “What manner of a husband do you have?”) Here’s wishing every woman “Kingdom Husbands.”

      Ladies, incase your husband or fiance doesn't read wives connection,  send to him as a mail oh.

      How can your wife describe you? Below are a few categories of husband:

      (1). Autocratic Husband- He is a self-knowledge, self-involved, unbending, unyielding husband. Nobody can correct him, nobody can counsel him. To him, he knows everything. He is very arrogant and stubborn. He has no mentor. He does not fear, honour or respect anybody. He doesn’t want anybody to advise him and he can not be influenced by anybody especially his wife, who hardly knows his plan or what he may do next. He is a difficult man to live with.

      (2). Corrosive Husband- He is abusive; hot tempered and a

      I Have Done All The Begging And Trying That I Can With My Husband Over The Past 12 Years

      Hello, wives connection bvs and my dear Eya, please help. My husband and I have been together for 13 years, we have two children. Ages 12 and 10. He also has a daughter from a previous marriage who is 14, who he really does not have a relationship with. (That is a whole different heartbreaking story).
      So anytime we have the slightest disagreement he demands

      My Husband, My E-mails And My Many Lies. How Do I Save My Marriage?

      Hello,  Good morning lovely Wives Connection family-friendly helpers. First of all let me say thank you. I discovered wives Connection blog this year 2015 and with all that Learnt from the wise counseling, I regret that I didn't know about this family earlier.

      I have been a terrible liar to my husband, it's

      Saturday, November 28, 2015

      We Broke Up, I Met Someone, Now We Are Back Together And I Do Not Know What To Tell The Other Guy

      Hello Aunty Eya, thank you so much for everything that I have learnt from your blog. I completed my NYSC not long ago and this life, I have read and learnt so many things from other readers' stories, I never thought that a day like this will come when I'll need Online help too. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 5 months now. The majority of that

      What's That?

      Na wa for oyibo 

      My Favourite Nigerian Things: Beautiful Necklaces

       Give me any of these let's see if I won't take and ask for more

      My Husband's Irresponsible Behavior Has No Part Two, Can Other Women Please Help A Sister

      Hi Eya, I don't know where to start from but pls hide my identity thanks will also try to make it brief as possible.... I'm a new subscriber to this platform. I can't say I have a smooth past or that I'm perfect. I met my

      Friday, November 27, 2015

      Sugabelly Rape Tweets :Private Emails, Chats Released

      When I read sugabelly's tweets yesterday, I felt bad that she is rejoicing a human being died,until I reached where she tweets that she was brutally raped by the deceased' son, I didn't know what to think or say anymore.
      So, the wife of the accused rapist took to Twitter to say she will release some private contents. Bellanaija has done a great job blocking names. In case you didn't see those mean tweets, visit sugabelly's Twitter handle.
      See more after the cut. Very long o...

      Delicious Photo: The Obamas Celebrate Thanksgiving

      Delicious First Table 

      Nigerian Black Friday Sales A Scam Or Real? Who Buy?

       Some people are saying that most of those online ads and promos promising 50 % 60% 70% and

      I Suspect My Wife Is Jealous Of My Daughter, What Can I Do?

      Hi wives connection,  I have been married for two years, but been with my wife for a total of five years.
      Very long story cut short and could do with honest or brutal advice please.
      Split from my Ex ( my daughters mother) 5 years ago, we were never married.
      My daughter has just turned 7
      Been together with my now wife and step son (10)  for two years.
       My family travelled for easter holiday this year the 4 of us. There was a

      My Favourite Things: Nigerian Gele Headgear

       Nigerian women are the best dressed in the whole wide world, take it or leave it. My favourite gele on here, the one I'd like to wear when I learn to

      Adele: 'I Do Have Body Image Problems, But I Don't Let Them Rule My Life '

      Even  celebrities have issues with the way they are. I'm yet to see a woman that truly feels like she has a perfect body. 
      Adele   has never been one to mince her words.
      Now, the star has spoken candidly about body image, saying that

      This Woman Says She Doesn't Want To Have Any kids, Then, The Backlash

      A Nigerian woman that goes to post online that she doesn't want to have any kids might face more backlash than Brockwell.  

      Thursday, November 26, 2015

      I Learnt Blow Job From My Husband's Side Chicken, Now He Won't Respond Plus He Moved Out When My Insults Became Too Much, How Do I Bring Him Back Home?

      HELP ME SAVE MY MARRIAGE.
      God bless you and your family Aunty Eya, I have learnt

      Should I Accept This Cheating As punishment For My Bad Behaviour? Is He Lying To Me?

      Dear Aunty Eya and blog visitors,
      I need to get married and settle down as sokn as possible but a

      Failed Past Relationships Preventing Me From Trusting My Fiance, How Do I Change?

      Hello Aunty Eya, God bless you for all that I am learning from wives connection even though I'm not married yet. I need mature advice from other readers and you too please.

      In My past 3 relationships I had been cheated on. One I walked in on,the other 2 I caught shady stuff in their social media and

      18 Nigerian Food Recipes To Cook This Weekend

      18 Nigeran Recipes for you to try cooking this
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