From Odun, Fomer ikorodu Lady (Lolzzz)
Happy new year... may 2014 bring in so much joy and peace into your heart and home.I am sure you are surprised to hear from me... i am still a follower of the WC.. but i just read and learn from the posts and the comments. Sometimes i still find myself wondering why i dont see Ahdaisy, Jay, etc on WC anymore.
Two days later , my company management decided that since they have a house just recently renovated in Yaba, the company should move there. Not only that they decided to give me a 2012 Brand new Kia Picanto as an official car, also with a small increase. My boss is a lady, and i had never met the director. So it was just a case of hard work and God's favour. I also met new friends who constantly encourage me whenever i feel i failed as a wife who couldnt hold down a marriage. My hubby started talking to me again and i communicated because of my son, but when he wanted to start his usual abusive ways of talking down on me when i sometimes pick his calls late. I told myself i will not go down that lane again. I told him his and he stopped talking to me. I have sent him messages and tried calling him that he is free to see his son and that i will never stop him bonding with his son ..if he so wants , but he never responded. So there is no contact and he doesnt know how his son is doing and he is not responsible for his child's upkeep and schooling.
This is a long long piece, no doubt but it wont be complete if i dont tell you how positive i am feeling now. Yes.. i do have challenges, i sometimes dont have enough money especially when am trying to bring up my son in a qualitative style and with nothing except my salary to fall back on. But Aunty Eya.. i am glowing.. am no longer the downtrodden lady anymore. am even more prettier than before, you wont believe am 35. Infact, i fight off admirers as this is not my focus. And most importantly i have peace. I wake up every day full of hope, knowing that my will get better. No more tears, no more worthlessness.
Thank you Aunt Eya.. for giving me your platform to have shared my pain in the first place, and i think its only fair if i can share my peace now.
Do have a lovely day ahead.