Sunday, June 30, 2013

The Real Odunayo Is Still Married:)

aunty eya..good evening. i just checked WC now and was surprised to see this mail and a person claiming to be me sent this mail. that is not me oooo!! I know some of you guys wanted to hear from me and I decided to wait cos of certain things happening now. So am so shocked and sad to see this fake mail. Am still with my husband. I don't know anybody in PH.
Please publish this ASAP.
Odunayo

WARNING:

Happy Sunday And Bye To First Half

JJ Okocha's son in motion like Father

Be the best that you'd expect from your kids cos they will surely take after you.  Be a bully, bash people and watch your kids grow up to do same. Blood is thicker than water o.

Yes, man can't live without woman. We run the world!!!
Happy
Saturday, June 29, 2013

RE: Should I Tell The Doctor My Husband Raped Me? Thank You All

Thank You From The Poster

Thank you for your swift response yesterday.

I took your advice and did not leave my house, I am still not talking or relating to my husband in any way for now though.

I'm living in the visitors' room temporarily too.

He has been trying to apologize but I'm not ready to face him yet.

I don't doubt

Iyanya Learn To Respect Women

Iyanya and Yvonne Nelson having a good time pic courtesy: Romance Meets Life
Iyanya, You may not be married but you have women in your life;  sister in-laws, you have sisters, you have a mother and grandmother, you have female fans, you were born of a woman, you will have kids with a woman maybe females inclusive. How would you feel if your celebrity  daughter gets disgraced this much of a man she claims to love?
 How dare you say you "rode Yvonne like a jangalova?" If you
 "wanted just her waist" must we know? Have you ever been in love Iyanya?  This lady is a celebrity like you and you just tried to pull her down in public?

 Are you

Stop Apologizing For Me

Good morning  all,

I'm concerned about this Ezewanyi and tangerine beef,am kinda roped in it cos some people Might think am tangerine,please am not. If there's anybody's comment I kinda look out for is Ahdaisy's. 

Ever since I started reading this blog(like 10months now) I've always love her person and "voltronises"(pardon my English) for her too whenever I agree with her idea,if I don't I just move to the next  infact there was a post Ahdaisy commented on where Sister

Some Avoidable Accidents

Looking at the  Chinese couple that fell to their death brought tears to my eyes. Making love while leaning on a window? I don't blame them for what happened. I put all the blame on the poor window structures that couldn't carry the weight of two adults leaning there while working.

I know some accidents are avoidable but not this one. How could they have known that the window will give way. I feel so sorry for them and their families.
This story makes me flash back to what I witnessed a few years back. A child fell out of a moving car on an expressway. 

It was early in the morning, while kids were being dropped off at schools. This baby girl fell with her school uniform, so it's obvious she
Friday, June 28, 2013

Veggie Noodles with Pan fried Mackerel (Titus fish) By Dressed


A serving of noodles with pan fried mackerel
I easily get bored with food so to counter this I would always look for ways to

What Is Longer Throat?

Hi Eya, I am a reader of your blog and came across one phrase I don't understand. It is on The assorted meat post and I remember seeing that phrase on older posts some weeks back.  I think other readers understand, except me of course.

Can you

My Fiancee Loses Control, How Do I Tame Her

Hello Eya, I am a male WC  blog reader who enjoys your blog.  I have a little issue I know women and guy there can help me sort. My fiancee, I love her so much and she knows. Her attitude sometimes makes me wonder if she loves me the same way. I tried twice to break up with her but it isn't working, we always find ourselves back together again.

She is gorgeous and very hot, when we go out, I enjoy showing her around but she flirts a little. I don't mean cheating because

How To Cook My Assorted Meat Gravy With Sauteed Vegetables

Assorted meat gravy cooked with vegetables to be served with boiled rice. Delicious.

 There are many gravy recipes on this blog; shredded chicken gravy, shredded beef gravy, shredded goat gravy, fresh fish gravy and all sorts. For gravy lovers, there is more than enough here for you. I made this one with assorted beef parts including
Thursday, June 27, 2013

Eya Ayambem, For You Angry Blog Reader, Wives Connection Family

Eya Ayambem the Nigerian food blogger, Relationship, Marriage tips blogger here. 
Good Evening Aunty Eya, Sorry but I have to say this. Am so disappointed in you. How many times should we beg before you take  that your black and white photo off of our wives connection blog. I have begged you severally to change your profile pic but you snubbed me. 

Why I am even sending you this mail is because I want to tell you that you are so cunning. Imagine a blogger writing 70 truths about herself without including her photograph? ( That's you). I kept checking that post to see if you will update with
your photograph but no up till this moment. You can't fool me. An Essay about yourself is incomplete without your image. Since you are too big to show us your recent pic, you can

My Husband Grants Permission, What Should I Do?

Hello Aunty Eya and wives connection blog readers. I joined you al just one month ago but have learnt a lot. Thank you all. We had a little argument with my husband yesterday about the way he passwords his phone and Ipad and his increasing late night texting on the phone. It was ugly and we said hurtful words to each other (I'm sorry).

While talking,

Baby Girl Abandoned Inside Public Waste Tank In Lagos

Lagos waste tank with the lifeless baby girl
Wonders shall never seize to happen in our dear Nigeria. As a blogger and news aficionado i wont see a crowd gathered without trying to know WHY?

Moving closer to the scene, only to get reports that it was a case of a abandoned baby. Quickly i brought out my iPhone hoping to get first hand images of a live baby, then i realized the baby was shot-putted into the huge road side public waste tank.

I saw people climbing up the summit  of the waste tank to take pictures, so i passed my phone to someone already up the tank to help me take these picture i'm sharing with you. Lo and behold the baby was already gone. Pics after the cut....
Viewer discretion advised

Pregnant Mom In Need Of Bedroom Advice

Nothing good to say? Move to next post...

Good morning Aunty Eya,how are you today?  Kindly post this on your blog as I would love to hear other views from women on how to handle this.

Am pregnant and in my third trimester(my first), God has been faithful so far cos @least I can say I have been well just little/normal pregnancy symptoms and all. Most of all, am glad I married the best hubby in the world(for all those that believe,there are still good men in the world just be who u want to be with) he's been very very very supportive,loving, caring and everything I ever wanted in a husband...

Well, what bothers me

Is Something Wrong With Me?

Hello Aunty,  Aunty Eya, sorry to sound this smelly. I am an ardent reader and commentary here on wives connection blog but please do not link to any of my previous stuff.

When my husband farts, it has no smell whatsoever. I only hear the sound and clap for him. However Aunty, every single time I fart, we'll need an airfreshner. The reason I started to
Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Their Husband's Always Ask Me Out. What Can I Do? I Need Advice

Good day madam eya,how are you and how is everything?I sincerely hope fine.you have a wonderful blog here,God will definately take u places.pls do not publish my mail.

   I am a 26 year old girl,I am single and I have a 4 year old daughter.I live with a distant relative,and my daughter.from all standards I am comfortable.my daughter has been a blessing to my life,since I had her,doors have been opening for me.

that brings me back to why I am writing this.4 years back I got introduced

Wedding Anniversary Gift For My Husband

Hi Aunty Eya, please i need your help and that of the WC family members. My 3rd wedding anniversary is coming up next month and am really confused as to what to buy or do for hubby  as a  wedding anniversary gift.

Kindly post it for me so that your blog readers will help me with wonderful suggestions. Thank you.

On a side note,

Nigerian Emergency Stew With Corned Beef, Fish And Chicken

Emergency tomato stew served with boiled rice
 This emergency stew is thick again dedicated to our thick stew lovers, me I still like mine watery. This stew came up at a time when I didn't have my preserved tomatoes at home, I had to cook with canned ingredients from my emergency kitchen. The Reason I call it emergency stew. It turned out better and tastier than most tomato stews I had eaten and everyone said

Are We Passionate Enough?

In our country Nigeria, hardly you see a roadside cleaner, a school cleaner, plumber, manual bricklayer, servant etc, or even most civil servants looking cheerful in their jobs. There are more angry, unhappy and bitter ones than cheerful, grateful ones.  

It is not the job, it is our attitude. A young teacher once told me that the reason he resumes late to work and is nonchalant is because there is no job satisfaction. He says that once he gets "a great job offer," he will do it better and then I smiled and told him that attitude has already been formed and growing so, he cannot perform better anywhere. I tried to explain to him that the habits and attitude he puts up now is the foundation that will carry him all through life.

A little

Summer Holiday In Abuja

Hello Aunty Eya and WCB'ers,
I was on summer holiday from Uni and I'm planning to spend it with one of my aunts in Abuja (I live in one of the south-south states).


I would like to know if you or any of your readers would know of a good fashion and design school/workshop or any fashion

Natural Or Spiritual Love?

Hello Aunty Eya. Something happened to me recently and it had me asking a different kind of question. A majority of marital problems posted on your blog are about cheating spouses, the majority being Men cheating on their wives. I once posted about a possible cheating husband also, but please do not link back to my previous post.

After taking the advice I got from your blog and absolutely dedicating

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Wheat Pancake And Fruit Smoothie By Lahmow

Weight Watcher Pancake

Wheat pancake and fruit smoothie
Here's the wheat pancake and fruit smoothie I promised.

Wheat Pancake plus Smoothie:

Wheat flour

My Qualifications Might Drive Away Any Potential Suitors?

Hello Aunty ojay, 
        I came about your blog two months back and have been an adherent reader. Therefore I would like to table my issues here so all WC readers can advice me on what to do. Am 29 years old studying in the UK and just completed my MBA program a month ago and I graduated with merit.


 I wish

Types Of Nigerian Husband By Duchess

1: BACHELOR HUSBAND
Still lives like a bachelor even though he won't accept it. Does things on his own without consulting wife. Hangs out a lot with
Friends more than wife. Not serious about marriage life. Thinks that marriage is like eating peanuts with drinking garri.

2: ACIDIC HUSBAND
Just like corrosive acid, Is always

Please Donate To Singer OJB JEZREEL

OJB JEZREEL before
I saw this on Linda Ikeji's and if I tell you guys the way that I enjoy OJB's music eh, you may not believe. He is one of my best and it's only fair that I put this here too. His music makes sense. When you listen to his lyrics, you just get to wipe your tears and move on. Very inspirational songs.

He is

Issues With Adding Blogs I Read To My Blogroll

All Thanks to a few of us who sent mails requesting to know why you couldn't find my blogroll on wives connection and I explained what happened to you. Right now, fortunately, I am able to put it up again but some blogs are missing. For blogs I followed with Google friend connect, it was easy to click and add. 
However,

What Should I Do With This Baby?

Hello WC and Aunty Eya, I have a big issue and please please need urgent repliess am stuck in my room and can't go out.I have never been pregnant. I am a student but live off campus. My boyfriend and I broke up about six months ago I wasn't pregnant. I can swear that up till this morning I wasn't pregnant.

Yesterday
Monday, June 24, 2013

Appreciation From CreamBerry Plus Shawarma, Puff Puff, Peppered Chicken

CreamBerry's beautiful  Birthday Cake
Hello Aunty Eya and my WC family,I want to say a very big thank you to everyone for all your wishes and prayers on Saturday,saturday. it made my day,although I didn't see them until yesterday morning (no thanks to the network)you need to

I Need Urgent Advice Please

Good evening aunty Eya,I have this urgent matter that needs urgent advice o. Am presently a corper, the chairman board of directors where am serving decided to help christian corpers with job. He askd only christian in the organisation to come see him so he will discuss with them. 

The problem now is that he prefers to hold that meeting with them in his hotel room,cz he says whatever he wants to do is confidential cz am serving in a muslim state and he doesn't want other corp members to know he is interested in helping only the christians

We had the first meeting with him today in his hotel room we were

RE: What Do I Do About My Wife? Thank You Everyone

Hello everyone, I'm the original poster. Thank you all for your messages and opinions. I like to see other perspectives on things. 

I would like to clarify that I am not wholly blaming my wife or seeking to vilify her. Off course not, she is my wife and I married her out of Love. I respect her as a person and don't have unreasonable expectations from her. In fact she can be very supportive and giving as a person. 

I don't look at petty silly things (even though the food can do with a bit of spice). I had a professional

RE: I Want To Change, I Need Advice.

Thank you Everyone For Your Advice

Hi Ladies and Gentlemen, it's me, Eya. Thank you all for your advice. You helped me gain back my friend. To everyone that gave advice on that post, may God bless you abundantly. Like I said before, we learn everyday and there are so many things I'm still learning as an adult. 

Now I know it's always better to confront with love. I won't make

Everything Is Just Not Right

Good morning, Hope you and your family are great. Please I need some advice from you asap if u don't mind. Please do not publish on your blog even though I read other peoples story. I'm getting married this weekend, everyone thinks I'm ok but

I Need A Samosa Recipe Please

Hi Eya,please I need a samosa recipe,and also any snack I can prepare and preserve for my kids to be taking to school.
Thanks

Should I Ignore And Just Be The Quiet Wife He Wants?

Hi Aunt Eya, 
How is everything. Well there is this issue that has been disturbing me for a while.


I just went through hubby's phone and I realized that every little argument

Dear God, Should I Give Her My Kidney?

Hello Madam Eya, this is a prayer I said and wrote out because my heart is broken. I know it's not meant for everyone but  chose to share with fellow wives connection blog readers and hope they do not condemn me, especially as they are mostly women and wives. Please put it on the blog:

Dear God, I am a sinner who needs your forgiveness. I have sinned and always do. Everytime I confess you show mercy and I know this won't be different. Lord it's my wife. I loved her
Sunday, June 23, 2013

Do Blackberry Phones Encourage Cheating?

Hello everyone and Aunty Eya,I am sick and tired of my local husband who didn't allow the western Education to pass through him.I never cheated on this man even though he was caught red handed once and I still forgave him.

Ever since I discovered how to use my BB well, my husband hasn't

Exercising Without Weight Loss

Good day Madam Eya, please help me ask your readers what we can do about my husband's body. Exercising and workouts are meant to make one lose weight but we

I Love You, Is It Necessary?

Hello Aunty Eya and everyone on wives connection blog. Thank you all for all the advice you give, even when the posts are not from me, I benefit a lot from the advice. My little confusion is in the area of love. Please I want to know what is in a man's mind, concerning vocalizing their love, how they reason when it comes to love. 

I am worried about my husband and myself. We have no issue, just normal challenges like every relationship and at the end of the day we pull through. I jokingly try to make him know
Saturday, June 22, 2013

Beef Coconut Rice Cooked With Coconut Milk Powder

Beef coconut rice with a side of jollof rice
 Coconut rice can be cooked as beach coconut rice, or cooked with beef, chicken or any meat of your choice. It can be

Our Helpers: Are They Truly Happy? :(

Hi dear, welcome to my house. We haven't seen in a long while, sorry no time to come to visit. How is your family? Thank you for stopping by. There's something I want to say to you. This is unlike me o but my blog readers advised that I start learning how to confront people.

It's strange you came with your house help. Thanks for taking her

Re: Characteristics Of A Nagging Wife

Hello Mrs. Eya. Honestly, I've read so many articles about marital problem and most of all are truly "Unfair". Unfair in the sense they will always put the blame to the husband. But then, the moment I found your blog, well, justice speaks for all. 
Based on my terrible experience as a husband, I truly found out that there's

Kiss For The Last Time And Go Home?

Hello Madam,
  I have been reading your blog for over 5 months now and I must say, you are doing a good job and I learn things whenever I visit the blog. 

   I am going to be done with my first degree in a few months and have also been dating this guy right from first year, so we've been dating for more than 3 years straight no breaks.. I do love him because

Would You Name Your Baby After Your Parent?

Hello Aunty Eya, we are expecting and my husband wants to name our child after his late father. I never be met him but from the stories I hear, he was very mean and wicked to other people. I want a good name for our child. I don't want my child acting like the one whose name he inherited. Please I need advice.

Isn't it better
Friday, June 21, 2013

How To Manage A Man Under Pressure(:

Sorry to deviate from this topic, but how does a lady manage a man who is under pressure? because its month end, and I have seriously budgeted for this month pocket money, don't want any pinch of quarrel at this time at all. Though he's not telling me what has being on ground,but i can understand he can be very and extremely busy.

 I simply told him i was pissed with his

T-i-m-e Time By Ace Bentley


Time, For all who have it will sure loose it. Tell the moment he has only a second to prove it... Just as the rose know's when to express, the "queen of the night" arose at her perfect time to impress!

The people are famished... Tell the

How To Preserve Uma Broad Moi Moi Leaves By Debbie

Refrigerated uma moi moi leaves
 Hello Ma Eya.
I stumbled on a trick and decided to share its goodness with you.
I've been craving and eating moi-moi since the day I took in,followed by Igba Oka(Corn pudding or corn moi-moi) and believe me this things taste like bottom pot when wrapped/cooked with uma leaves.

Two weeks ago while removing my leaves from the fridge to make Igba-oka, I suddenly realized it's been like two months since I bought it in bulk and

What Do I Do About My Wife?

I'm a husband and came across this after another session of nagging! It is so bad and so draining. I've lost my job due to it. Not that my job was ever good enough..nor were my social skills..or the way I eat..or the way my family (parents n siblings) are overly informal..I compared all the time and labelled.

I have isolated myself. I have no one to to talk to. After 5 years marriage I feel broken. I love being alone now and can't wait to go to my garage and work on my sculpture. So many times I've wanted to end it..but the love is still there between us. She shows her

I Want To Change, I Need Advice

Dear esteemed readers, this one is from me Eya. I need you guys advice cos I have tried unsuccessfully to help myself out. I have a bad habit that needs to change, have prayed about it and I feel still need you guys' wise counsel.

This thing has been with me and I know it's wrong but can't change. I always say here that I don't like confrontations but haven't really explained myself. I grew up like this kind of person
Thursday, June 20, 2013

Re:How To Survive A Heart Attack When Alone

Let’s say it’s 6.15pm and you’re going home (alone of course), after an unusually hard day on the job.
You’re really tired, upset and frustrated.


Suddenly you start experiencing severe pain in your chest that starts to drag out into your arm and up into your jaw. You are only about five miles from the hospital nearest your home. Unfortunately you don’t know if you’ll be able to make it that far. You have been trained in CPR, but the guy that taught the course did not tell you how to perform it on yourself.


HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE:
Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart attack, without help,the person whose heart is beating improperly and who begins to feel faint, has only about 10 seconds left before losing consciousness. However,these victims can help themselves by coughing

Necessary Blogging Tips For New Blogger

Hello Eya, my name is. and I operate an Islamic family blog,  it's something I just created and I have been having a lot of rave reviews. I do not know much about monetizing the blog, a friend just told me that since the Ramadan fast is coming I should try to get adverts... 

I do not know the first thing about this. Even if I secure some, how will I get the adverts to display in banners on the blog? I really don't know, please come to my aid, another thing is how do I do this ' click to read more thing' that most blogs have in their Web version? I think it's better having such clause to enable more clicks on articles. I await your kind response. 

By the way, I am an ardent reader of your blog.. I remember a post on how you spent your Christmas holiday or something like that, and where you also uploaded the holiday experience of one of your readers, your blog has come a long way. We thank God. I await your response ma

Thank you in anticipation. 

My Blogging Tips: To monetize your blog, you need to apply for Adsence. When your application is approved, Google will direct you on what to do to see  adverts showing on your blog. To get your application approved, there are a few things you really need to do and observe:
  1. No copyright content. From the first post you publish on your blog make sure that everything is original content. Don't copy information or content from other websites into your blog. Google is highly against intellectual property theft. Do not put copyrighted content on your blog.
  2. Let your blog start getting some good

Things To Observe Before You Sleep By Creamberry

Hi Aunty Eya,
I saw this on Facebook and felt i should share it with you,you might also want to share with other people on the blog.

Have a great day!

Five things to

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