Thursday, December 5, 2013

This Is A Forwarded Message From My Husband's Mobile Phone

Hello Aunty Eya,
I am a fan on wives connection. I read and leave comments on other people's stories never realizing that one day I will have a story to tell.
This here is a forwarded text from my Darling husband's phone: Please post on the blog cos am still in shock as I don't know what to do...

DIS IS MADNESS, THAT U SWITCHED OFF YOUR PHONE SINCE 4pm BECOS YOU DON'T WANT TO COME HOME. I HAVE SUGGESTED TO YOU THAT WE GO OUR SEPARATE WAYS BCOS DIS MARRIAGE IS
NOT WORKING.

I CAN'T STAND YOUR OBSESSION 4 UR WIFE., IT'S GETTIN WORSE BY THE DAY.
I KNEW YOU LIED TO ME THIS MORNING AND YOU WERE NOT COMING. I will end all dis soon!!!

38 comments:

  1. My dear this is a tough one,but first things first you need to talk to your husband. So that he can REALLY explain to you the meaning of the text and what EXACTLY is going on. Only then can you be able to take a decision or decide what to do. its well God will see you through.

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    1. Why do I have this feeling its a text mistakenly sent to ur husband phone. Just ask him about it, b4 jumping to a wrong conclusion. I pray n hope its all a mistake.

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    2. Anonymous6:46 AM

      I feel is a text sent mistakenly to ur huby's phone.

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    3. •Omalicha•7:55 AM

      Have you discussed it with your husband yet?

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    4. Anonymous2:53 PM

      bring urself together and ask him, with a cool voice not fight

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  3. Well you have nothing much to worry about because is not working for them, and you are the reason why its has not being working for them unknown to you God has been working invisible for you , now that u know no need to panic or cry , just pray to God to direct your lips to the rightful words that will bring peace and end to this before you talk to your husband , Prayers works just try it .

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  4. Anonymous12:07 PM

    Its obvious darling, he's having an affair. But u can still talk to him and work things out..the lord is ur strength

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  5. Anonymous12:50 PM

    Does it mean that he is married to someone else since it says 'this marriage is not working'. I'm assuming the text is from another woman.

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  6. Anonymous12:59 PM

    The letter sound gay to me ooo

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    1. Anonymous1:03 PM

      *Sounds*

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  7. Anonymous1:30 PM

    He probably will tell u it's from a wrong number and deny everything if he's actually having an affair. I think its best u get more proof before confronting him that way you can get to the bottom of things. Stay strong

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  8. Anonymous1:58 PM

    Lol...@Anon 12:59 u might be right though, with d rate at which ppl engange in homo relationships this days u never can tell

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  9. Johnson2:14 PM

    There could be different versions to your story... We, however, would need you to clearify some points:
    1. Who forwarded the text (You or hubby)?
    1a. If you, have you spoken with hubby & what explanation did he give?
    1b. If him, why did he send it?
    As someone said, there's the possibility that the sms is from a man... and can you tell what marriage is being talk about here? There are no rooms for assumptions - this situation have to be made clearer, else the advice you get make not really cut it.
    You might need to do some ground work before the confrontation...

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    1. I think she is the one that forwarded the text to Eya. The husband doesn't know she has seen the text on his phone.

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    2. Johnson4:12 PM

      Mama Ijebu - my personal person. E bi like sey u sabi the person? Anyway, the Poster should do some under G work and confront her fears prayerfully.
      It's also possible hubby is playing some tricks on her knowing she's very nosy with his phone... habi wetin I go talk?

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    3. Oga John,I no sabi d person o.. From d mail I want to believe she is trying to say she forwarded the mail from her husband's phone..
      I no think say d husband dey play trick o.. I will just advise her to do personal investigation then ask her husband about this whole thing.. May God give her the wisdom to make d perfect decision.

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  10. Anonymous2:51 PM

    D̶̲̥̅̊Į̸̸̨Ƨ̷ Ȋ̝̊̅§ a hard one Oo°˚˚˚°! But all †ђξ same if U̶̲̥̅̊ are suspecting anything U̶̲̥̅̊ need to investigate thoroughly before confronting him. Ąπϑ don't forget to pray.Ȋ̝̊†̥ works.All the best dear.IPHY

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  11. Anonymous3:00 PM

    My dear my frnd hs bin in such situation b4 n she cald d no wt d hubby's fone (her hbby. Didn't knw ) n lied she ws d sister n saw d text n she asked who she ws n she confessd she ws datin d hubby, so don't jus confront him, av solid evidence... #hugs#

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  12. Anonymous5:59 PM

    men and deceit! God hlp us o. Dear poster pls confront ur hubby cos u nid an explanation. Wat is this na?

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  13. Anonymous6:04 PM

    Plz, is the 2nd part a reply or still frm ur husband?

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  14. Anonymous12:09 AM

    Poster pls don't confront ur hubby yet, get more facts den go to him, have a deep one on one personal talk with him.
    Pray B4 u talk to him...God will help u..its really hard

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  15. Anonymous2:51 AM

    If you have marital problems, tackle them and watch him come home to you. Though not impossible, it's more difficult for a man who is happy at home to engage in extramarital affairs.

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    1. Anonymous3:33 PM

      Says who?
      some men just wanna eat their cake & have it @ d same time. Mtcheeew!!!

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  16. Does your husband come home after work everyday? If he dosnt come home what kind of excuses is he giving to you? And to you, I hope you are not pressurizing your husband my monitoring him all the time? Becos he can use that to get you angry for nothing

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  17. Anonymous9:55 AM

    Mtchewwww what more fact does she needs to get huh?? So she can get hurt d more? The more she ask him d more he lies#fact#

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  18. Anonymous9:14 PM

    call the number and ask her directly, tell her you are the wife. she sounds bitter and might tell u the whole story just to "end this soon". pele oo

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  19. I just pray ths was a mistake. I pray....

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  20. Anonymous7:35 PM

    hmm I am speechless ooh, anyway madam poster u ar a woman and a wife, even in a relationship u can tell if there is another woman or not. and its marriage now e be lyk teeth and tongue I mean d closeness. gather more evidence then confront your husband not the woman pls. cos u will b stooping low to even talk to da bitch, a TeX would do for her . pls handle maturedly to earn more respect from him. as for me whenever then my fiance(we are now married) send or receive any form of romantic msgs with ladies I don't even confront him all I do is pray and pray then I'll trash men with more than one woman thing in our next conversation then he gets d message. since we've been married he can't even receive a female friend call in my presence and I don't care to knw wat goes behind me. lyk seriously u should pray to scatter the strange woman. all d best.

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    1. Anonymous3:56 PM

      o boy! Your own case worry o...So your husband cant receive his female friends call in your presence? That's not a good one o..

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  21. This is a serious issue and should be handled with great caution. Get talking with someone who your husband respects in his family, then bring up the matter for discreet attention. It is not about fighting and shouting.

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  22. Anonymous6:02 PM

    This text doesn't outrightly imply your husband is married to someone else,probably a friend in some kinda shit forwarded it to him.I want to believe he would have deleted such a message from his phone if its true,well excpet he wanted you to find out.Ask yourselves few questions,does he sleep out,how long have you being married,do you have kids?poster if your husband is having an affair,am sure you will suspect even without the text.Don't ask him yet,call the number just to know if it belongs to a lady,then tell your husband abt a friend whose husband is planin on taking another wife..listen to his take on the issue and ask hm why he would take another wife personally,just gather some clues sha.

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  23. Anonymous2:44 PM

    This is nothing to worry about my dear poster. Do u kno there some ladies out there that will call ur husband even ur husband did not call them. A lady called me sometimes ago and told me that (madam, e ku ojo meta o, e si ku itoju oko wa) to cut a long story short, the lady is trying to destroy my home so she can come in. She want my husband by all means. It is only tru prayer and every time communicatn btw me and my husband that saved me. My candid advise for u is that u should take things easy wit ur hubby, dont confront him yet. U kno ur husband, try and use lies to get the truth from him. Gud luck.

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  24. Anonymous10:20 AM

    Its simple. He's gay.

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  25. Anonymous11:28 AM

    I thank u all for ur comments.I've been investigating d matter sic last year, I replied d lady concerning d text she sent to my husband nd she insulted me,last week she called dat we she want to meet wit me,my pastor kicked against it.she told me she was sorry dat she insulted me,nd dat she has known no peace,she said my husband told me on fone dat my husband said he's divorced,she got preggy 3yrs ago,my husband went to pay her dowry in d east,she said it was last November dat she discovered he's been lying to her, dats y she wanted to c me,honestly I'm still in shock

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