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A Happy Marriage/Relationship Is Just GoodLuck

So many good women and even men find themselves in sour marriages while those you think should never get married are seen flourishing and living the "happily ever after" Who says getting a good husband or wife is all about being good? Vigilant, being a virgin or being overtly submissive? Luck is involved in the happenings of events and situations in this life. Haven't you seen very good girls who read all the great books on marriage while still single, get all the counselling that is needed, even teach other singles what to do to get good husbands, however, when their time comes, they make the gravest mistakes. Or have you not seen very rough runz girls who sleep with every lecturer at college, jump from one guy to the other, visit all the night clubs in town and live like there is no tomorrow having the best and sweetest marriages? Good children and comfort all round?

Luck is one ingredient that is necessary in life. Without it, all your hard work may just yield very poor harvest. Without it, the one you feel is the best man on earth will begin to change into a stranger just one year after marriage and the woman you married a virgin just becomes the greatest cheat having affairs with  colleagues at work.

The lucky do not have to pray
too much to get what they want. The lucky do not search  for too long before they find; The lucky ones just pick anybody they see for marriage and that anybody turns out to be their perfect match. The lucky do not try too hard to make in-laws like them, they are loved the very first day of introduction, when they err, people make excuses for them but when the unlucky makes a common mistake, it is magnified and blown beyond proportion.

Yes, we all need to pray at all times and try our best to be good if we want good relationships but let us not forget that sometimes time and chance happeneth to them all. A bit of luck makes things easier for the lucky. Some are actually more lucky than others whether we agree or not. Some are truly very unlucky in life whether we say it out or not. Some do not get anything without working hard to earn it while some just see good things coming to them even without an effort from them. Some people find so much good fortune in life that they begin to wonder if they deserve all these good things while others strive so hard and suffer so much they begin to wonder "what is wrong with me?"

The lucky arrives late for an interview but gain access in because the panel is not yet ready and at the end of it all becomes the chosen one for the job. The unlucky arrives early but cannot gain access because there is no more room or even displays the best CV for the job yet one excuse pops up and viammmmmm.

Some came to this life luckier than others and what will be, will be. That is Life!

28 comments:

  1. Anonymous9:51 AM

    Kind of confused now,but one thing i no you can't be lucky in all aspect of life. You can't have it all. Some are lucky in marriage,some in their career,some with their children,etc.But one thing the bible says "all things work together for good to them that love God,to them who are the called according to His purpose"

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  2. Angel9:53 AM

    I concur without holding back jare. I feel like am a very lucky person because somethings that I get even my very good friends that are better behaved cannot smell. I don't think this lazy me deserves the kind of good life I have. To God be the glory for this luck.

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  3. In asmuch as I agree that luck plays a role in happy marriage/relationship, I wish to also highlight the effect of nature's balancing power. That principle of "you can't eat your cake and have it,that law of you reaping what you sow,that promise to the righteous that though mourning endureth in the night but joy comes in the morning. Before the girl that had many abortions start rejoicing and believing in luck, let her be reminded that oneday demand will be made of her maybe by her hubby or motherinlaw for children.
    Lastly as we pray and wish for goodluck let us be reminded that "Fortes fortuna adiuaat" (fortune favours the prepared)

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  4. Anonymous11:44 AM

    @poster most times it is not luck you get prepared for it..so of this pple u mentioned earlier that do all de bad tins and get te best they must have gone tru one bitter experience or the oda it could also be that pple av diff perpective about them they could actually be nice from within...the oda so called good ones might had some hidden bad atitudes .So you see its not all about luck . you dont jugde pple from a far go close and hear them out.

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    1. Anonymous2:04 PM

      Yes u r ryt, some pple u think dat are good myt have dis very bad things they are doing codedly dat pple dnt know..

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  5. Anonymous11:45 AM

    plz sorry abt my typo error.

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  6. Gbam@Bonario!u culdnt have said it any beta

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  7. Anonymous12:12 PM

    sorry abt my typo error...

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  8. I really don't know if luck has anything to do with a good marriage! Marriage is serious hardwork, I don't know if you can rely on luck and then refuse to be submissive ur marriage will work. As Bonario said there are rewards for being righteous and what you sow you must reap. When King David complained to God and asked why the wicked prosper and the Righteous suffer, God showed him their end and he understood that there is a way that seems right but the end is destruction. So your Analogy between the virgin and runs girls to me doesn't show the true light. Finally I don't have the word luck or lucky in my life, I just have Gods favour and grace.

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    1. Anonymous9:44 PM

      God bless you!!nothing like luck!! Gods grace and favor!

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  9. Hmm I rily disagree. A good rel or marriage takes hardwrk determination and making gud decisions. Nobody has been assigned a particular spouse by God so u cannot say it is ur badluck dt d man assigned 2 u is terrible. Life is a choice. So as u lay ur bed, so u must lie on it.

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  10. Anonymous2:12 PM

    THE POSTER SAID IT ALL...LUCK!!! LUCK!!! LUCK!!

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  11. Luck is when things happen by random chance - coincidence.
    Things do seem to happen by chance sometimes. Some examples were mentioned in the write-up… God did not promise His children good luck, in fact the word luck is never mentioned in the Bible.
    There are no random or chance happenings with God in control. With God, all things are planned. Prov 16:33 (NLT) says that we may throw the dice, but the Lord determines how they fall.

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    1. Anonymous4:49 PM

      Thank you ma, that is the conclusion of the whole write up.

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  12. Anonymous6:32 PM

    Bj I like, deborah I like, bonario I like... Attitude 100% in relation with God's word! The phrase "what will be will be" is a big lie! The wicked shall not go unpunished oh, if you like preach luck, don't preach Christ you hear!
    Luck ke! Luck ni

    Patsy

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  13. Anonymous8:48 PM

    Abeg Aunty eyah dnt bring this kind of post here. Luck ko ? All d anon dat believe in luck. I weep 4 u in d future.. I believe Gods grace and favour. . It is d end dat matters.

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  14. Anonymous8:55 PM

    luck? I pray u guys shouldnt be unlucky to see d end of the year. May be ur sleepng and waking up may be luck too. Who knows....

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  15. Anonymous8:58 PM

    GOODLUCK KO, na jonathan.

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  16. Nobody has everything. Even the luckiest of them all or the one you think is lucky in your mind might be dying in silence. Don't forget that some people blow things out of proportion just to make you think they're happy. You never know and until you're in that person's shoes, you can't really tell what they're passing through. That is why I try as much as possible not to envy anyone.

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  17. And don't forget that only God has the final say. Everyone's time is different.

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  18. Anonymous9:37 PM

    @ precious . Thanx so much!

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  19. Mrs Morgan9:40 AM

    I am a covenant child of God,I dnt blv in luck,I blv in Gods favour and grace for by strength shall no man prevail.Favour all d way

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  20. Anonymous2:08 PM

    I dnt believe in luck, I'm blessed and highly favoured by d most high God.

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  21. Beauty10:41 AM

    Mine is Trusting God. When I pray I don't ask God for a particular thing cus what I might b askin ma not be what's best for me. I only ask God to use me and do whatever e wants. Trust mi, dis works for me all d tym. God never fails to embarass me with wonderful surprises all d tym.
    As for marriage I didn't date/court my husband and am havin a bliss. its all about putin your Trust n God alone.

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  22. There's nothing like luck in this life...Its all about grace.

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  23. Anonymous2:30 PM

    @ precious u jst spoke my mind, am working very hard to overcome envy, I tink my own is not even envy, I jst feel bad about my self not about d seemingly lucky peeps n I start asking God 'why', but nowadays I simply say to mysef tank God for dem, and ask pls let my own time come soon too. He said eyes hav not seen, ears hav not heard, and it has not entered into d hearts of men what he has in store for me. So my case is settled

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  24. Luck ke? Biko I live by GOD'S GRACE. I am not lucky, am justy favored.

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  25. fyngirl8:42 PM

    Luck indeed.. this is the most misleading post I've read in a while. ok Refuse to read ur books and rely on luck to pass ur exams, (I can guess ur scores) or say because there are1st class holders who still unemployed, aim 4 3rd class and wait for that luck to give u d M.D. of schlumberger, or like some1 said don't work or pray for ur good marriage, wait for luck to hand it to you, ur eye go soon clear... as my father told me, everything in life is sowing and reaping, as u make ur bed na so u go lie, the only exceptions are GODS AMAZING GRACE that can turn around circumstances and give u an unexpected turn of events from what men thought (which I believe in). In such cases u give glory to God and remain humble as u know it is not ur making. Bottom line it's not any luck, it's what Solomon said, fear God and do ur best, d rest na vanity.

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