Good morning ma,pls help me post this.
Hello WC readers,pls I need to advise a good friend of mine latest this weekend to get this burden off my chest. And yes I am happily married that's why its difficult cos although I know her so well I also dnt want it to come off as if am not happy 4 her. I am very very happy 4 her,and actually want the best 4 her. I don't want her to make any mistake concerning this and probably live to regret it later on(God forbid).
Ehen,now the story in details! She just got engaged to a guy shez been dating 4 over 2years. Prior to that,my dear friend has not been very much happy with d way d relationship was going.. Lemme just call d guy an introvert and my friend the extrovert! She practically have initiated evry move/step in their relationship starting from dating to 1st kiss,to lovemaking(eehm preachers, abeg dnt judge,no be evrybody sabi hold body). So back to my story,infact d only thing she didn't initiate was the proposal. the girl complains they don't talk, just very random stuffs,she can't even laugh at his jokes cos most tyms they seem off or somehow childish.. They've never even talked about marriage or should I say the fantasies they have about it( I hope someone understands me sha) but d main tin is there communication is poor like she says. They both live in different cities so I actually thought the communication shuld be very much ok.
The main issue is that she is confused,and I don't want her to continue trying to manage or mend the relationship cos I believe in marriage communication is key. I don't know how long she is gonna do that without getting frustrated. Marriage is a sweet thing with d right person and I know no one is perfect. If she has an issue,she can't think of calling him 1st or evn discussing with him...
Please how do I tell her to handle this before she makes a mistake and we both will regret it(cos I definitely will if I dnt play my part as her friend).
NB; As always if u have nothing good to say,pls move to the next post...Thank u!!