Aunty Eya, my name is xxxxxxxx and my phone no is xxxxxxxxx but plssssss do not publish any of my information.
Am a silent and an addicted reader who has learnt so much from wives connection and am grateful for everything. I need advice please and not insults from readers of wives connection. pls lets all remember that no one is perfect.
sometime last year in November i met a guy on Facebook, we got chatting and from there it led to a long distance relationship. we were doing good with the chats and every other means of communication, he was really a nice guy and later he started talking about marriage which he told me to wait until he comes back this year august. but before the month of august everything went wrong when i gave him my email and password and he saw my nude pictures i once sent to a guy i once dated. i felt bad told a couple of friends and a very close cousin of mine who called to plead with him on my behalf.
finally, aunty eya he came back to Nigeria he called me and we met a couple of times until we stopped communicating. but he decided to move to my cousin who once called him to plead on my behalf. he didn't seat me down to talk about what happened or to tell me he couldn't continue with me cause of the things he saw but went ahead to tell my cousin. why did he have to tell my cousin? for him to gain access to her or what? am talking about a girl of 24yrs
she didn't even tell me that they have been talking, pinging, he added her on Facebook but she said she declined etc. I got to know from my sister in Lagos , I confronted my cousin and she opened up to me that yes they have been talking but she thought I knew about it and that he only wanted her to work on a project for him. I was really crazy about all this not until last week Sunday my cousin told me that he called her with a private number and when she asked him why he had to call her with a private number he replied "that he didn't know who would pick the call"( cos my cousin currently stays with me) but that she told him that the communication btw them had to stop. how do i know is true??
Aunty eya and every other friend on this blog pls how do i handle this issue, how do i advice my cousin and what do i tell the guy in question. if my sister hadn't told me will my cousin have told me that she has been communicating with him.
your advices are all appreciated