Good Day Aunty Eya
My name is..........; I am 28 Years of age. I fell pregnant some years ago , when I told the man responsible , he told me to abort as he was not ready for the responsibility and couldn’t marry me .
I decided to keep the baby ,he wasn’t happy with my decision,he refused to meet any of my family members and eventually dumped me .
After my son was born he apologised and promise to take responsibility, but itwas just a struggle for him to love the boy, he never had any interest on his child , he would go for months without seeing or providing for him, he would rather spend his time and money on woman rather than on his son and he eventually disappeared,
by God’s grace I had a good job and I was able to provide for my boy who is now 4 years old and the best thing that has ever happened to me ,and the last time he saw his dad was when he was just a year old .
I got married to an amazing man who accepted my son as his own and has been a wonderful father to my son ,most people don’t know that he is not his biological father, but now baby daddy has recently started disturbing me , demanding that his son should come and stay with him.
I personally want nothing to do with my son’s dad, I cannot even imagine giving him custody of our son and I don’t think that being a biological father gives him the right to walk in and out of our son’s life whenever it suits him I have pretended that he doesn’t exist all this while. I have a wonderful marriage and I wouldn’t want this man to come and mess it up for me ,
Pls Aunty Eya I need advice on the matter, would I be a terrible mother if I kept my son away from his biological father?