Monday, May 20, 2013

What Can I do To Tighten My Vagina, Hubby Is Complaining

Good morning WC family, hope you all enjoyed your weekend? I need advice ASAP so I'll just go straight to the point.

My best friend  has always liked guys with big organs in her university days. Now she is married & according to her, her husband is just average in size (which is ok).

The major problem she is having now is that her husband doesn't get that

extreme pleasure  because her body is so loose, it even gets worse (looser) when she gets wet. I must add here that she also can't enjoy herself because of her loose female organ.

Yes, d husband complains about it, he keeps saying he wonders how the place will be when she starts making babies.

It's so embarrassing, she has tried most of the vagina tightening soap but it doesn't seem to help. We've even Googled it and seen that many women around the world go thru same problem of loose vagina. But we couldn't take their advice because it came from mostly foreigners & some of the product they mentioned can hardly be found in Nigeria.

But we heard that Alum (used to wash snail) can be soaked in water and used to douch ( method to wash out the vagina, usually with a mixture of water)  but we don't know how safe it is.

I just thought I should bring the issue here because I believe most WC ladies especially the married ones might be going through such challenge.

My question is what can she do to help tighten her Vagina so she can enjoy sex with her husband?.

Aunty Eya please don't disclose my email address.

Thank you.



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156 comments:

  1. Bad Girl Turned GOOD9:37 AM

    Thanks Eya for posting this. I think I have dis problem too even though my hubby hasn't complained.

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    1. Anonymous9:55 PM

      I understand honey applied to the vagina works pretty good.

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    2. Girl I understand exactly what you're saying I've given birth to five children, and I did what I did when I was younger, but honestly when it comes to sex it's just not the way use to be I feel the same exact way the inside not the way should be because of that problem I actually let my husband go through a different way which it was a little painful at first but I tend to like it:) I'm looking into some kind of a surgical work I could have done at a affordable price California has so many operations theres gotta be something to help what we need done, keep your head up and don't worry things will get better for both of us

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    3. The only and best way to tighten ANY vagina,is to ACTUALLY keep the muffin busy 24/7! And I mean it...One time I disconnected from a young blonde girl,and it sounded like disconnecting from an air hose.

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    4. Anonymous11:01 PM

      I'm sorry to hear about your friend and her problem, This happens to most women. My Nana has a old island remedy that makes my husband scream! Of excitement! especially after passing twins and having such a high sex drive you can do vaginal squeeze exercises , you can do this while you're at work sitting down at a desk or dinner table and usually after every menstrual I douche with pure vinegar and spring water on some days just to feel fresh I use vinegar on a rag and just refresh the vag area also try to eat lots of yogurt and use smaller tampons to none I hope this helps good luck

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    5. Anonymous4:04 PM

      i haven't been loose before, but, i don't have any kids due to my ovaries shutting down from taking birth control when i was 14. If you want to get extremely tight to where u struggle to get your pinky in then do keegles! i do 10 reps a day ten times a day and they work great!! good luck!

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  2. Anonymous9:38 AM

    I heard alum works but please gurl be careful.

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  3. Solomon9:41 AM

    Na person send u. Mtcheew. Go and meet d person dat stretched it to undo d havoc. After messing up urself wit different men now anoda man will suffer wit ur ocean pussy. I pity una husband

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    1. Anonymous3:09 PM

      hahhahahhahahahhhaa tell them jare afi ocean pussy naa swimming pool nko..

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    2. Anonymous7:04 PM

      solomon must you be harsh? and must you be negative. she asked for advice and not for insults. be civilized

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    3. Anonymous11:23 AM

      Solomon u r so stupid she has given birth to 5 children were they passing in the mouth. u think ur mother had a good one stupid.

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    4. Solo if u have no solution to offer why not stay quite?
      No one is above this things.

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    5. am sure he looks as daft as he sound because he didnt read the part where she said she had five kids. solomos was a wise man, you should get your name changed to f.....l

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  4. Anonymous9:42 AM

    Some people can form story sha. Rather than say I have a problem, they will say my friend has a problem. Anyway I will advise you don't use all those Indian vagina tightening herbs I see being sold by chalatans.

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    1. Anonymous9:58 AM

      I'm tellin u! Ur friend ko, ur aburo ni. God don catch u. There is nothing u can do. If u seriously need to tighten it, consider reconstructive vagina surgery.

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    2. Otiooooo, reconstructive ke? Please where is it done in Nigeria?

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    3. Anonymous10:24 AM

      Not done in nig. Fly to L.A baby!!!

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    4. Anonymous1:59 PM

      reconstructive vagina surgery is very expensive

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    5. Anonymous1:18 AM

      See a sangoma.....S/he will know the answer to wet & wide vaginas!!!

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  5. POSTER9:44 AM

    @ Anon: 9.38: what is the best way to use the Alum and does it ve any side effect?

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    1. Anonymous4:24 AM

      The best way to use it to wash your Private with it at least one hour before sex...

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  6. Anonymous9:49 AM

    Dear poster pls don't douche(wateva d spelling) but ist so unhealthy. U can follow dis handle on twitter, they follow bak... Ask dem any question and I'm sure dey will help. @naija_medic247
    #thankmelata#

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    1. Advert tinz. I seriously think u r the owner of that twitter handle. What makes you think she cannot get helpful answers here? Mtcheew for deperado ads.
      Aunty Eya, pls do something about dis. #RunningAway

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  7. POSTER9:56 AM

    @ Anon 9:49: thank you. I'll follow d handle asap. But pls wats wrong with douching? Pls kindly explain better.thx

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    1. Anonymous12:59 PM

      @Kim sorry o, i don't advertise stuffs here. They once helped me and a friend and they could also help the poster.
      Infact POSTER, try also @freeman4all44 he is also a medical doctor and always ready to help. The guy can throw more light on douching... He is learned like dat

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  8. Anonymous9:59 AM

    Google darling

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    1. What is wrong with you?? Din't you hear her say she tried Google? If you don't have anything to say keep muted.

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    2. Anonymous10:29 AM

      Ru high on cheap drugs? Was i referring to u? ru d poster??? She tried google on douching??? Where? Trouble dey sleep...

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    3. Anonymous1:33 AM

      Sister maria ansa nau, people like u jst be looking for any little opportunity to bully others. Mitscheeewww

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  9. Anonymous10:05 AM

    You cannot eat your cake and have it. You would have looked for a man with a very big, long rod before you marry him. This one you married with a small third leg is suffer. At the long run he will be getting his satisfaction outside same as you. Sorry, your past is hurting you now.

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    1. @Ace, way to go Darl. But you didn't indicate number of times to apply. Is it 10 times per day?
      2. Should we apply on the surface or right inside?

      3. Can you help me do the application of the SHEABUTTER?

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    2. Anonymous3:23 PM

      Lol...Dnt mind ace...he s either mocking d poster or d jack of al trade(shea butter)

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    3. Anonymous8:41 PM

      ROTFLMAO!!! Crazy dude... :)

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    4. Anonymous6:58 PM

      My bf has a 14 inch peice so i always take a cold bath then place ice cubes inside be fore starting

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  11. Anonymous10:14 AM

    Women & wahala. I'm proud to be a man n my woman's private must be tight bcos I don't want to swim in wide deep ocean.

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    1. Anonymous3:12 PM

      buhahahahahhahahhaa..why you no like ocean you go like manage lake abi river? dam nko?? go and sleep joor with ur small sometin hahahahahahahaha..

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    2. @ small something ahahahahaha! what people don't know about Alum is that it only tightens the entrance and not the inside,sure entering will be difficult but inside remains intact,one of the best way is to stay off for a longer period which makes it automatically heal it self and sends it to a proper size then after that going for a big mortal to open it again is trouble so i'll advise one to go for tiny carrot. This one is for the singles yet to be married. For the married met the Alum and after washing use the meted alum to rub inside 3time every week pls don't try it at your anus oo cos it will close and bet me u'll wish it was virginal only. Then if u wanna be a virgin again you can do reconstruction in Nigeria here i'll through Modupe Ozolua is the Chief Executive Officer of Body Enhancement limited in Nigeria. the office address are ABUJA OFFICE:
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      (01) 7730416, (01) 8139305
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      E-mail: info@bodyenhancement-africa.com
      Hope have being of great help to you Eya please help me collect my service charge from her,$500 for this and 10% of what modupe changes you.. Good luck

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    3. melt?melted sorry for the typo error, sha follow instructions...

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    4. Anonymous4:20 PM

      Hi I am using kegel excersie ball but I find it not working .I hv one kid and I ain't married as yet wat can I use.

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  12. Mz Tee10:14 AM

    U can do vaginal exercises. Where u sit on hard floor and tighten ur vagina. Do it at least 10* a day. Don't sit loosely. Sit and always tighten ur vagina. If for one month u don't see considerable changes, then the es no other option than a reconstructive surgery. All d best dear! For d sake of your friend and marriage.

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  13. Mz Tee10:18 AM

    *there's no other option'. (sorry for d typo error).

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  14. Mz Tee10:19 AM

    *there's no other option'. (sorry for d typo error).

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  15. Hello , good morning. I just published your mail on the blog. I think your friend needs to see a Doctor for reconstructive Surgery or other treatments.

    There is something else, you can do. Kegel exercises. Google kegel exercises and you will see how she can help tighten her vaginal muscles.
    May you find help.

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    1. Use of Alum is dangerous.
      It causes dryness.
      There is nothing wrong with the large V size. What matters is her skillls. Some Pple prefer the large size for easy penetration and lasting on top..

      Agai, avoid usig any usin any chemical or surgery. Kegel is better

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  16. *just passing*

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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    1. PLease don't go Bona, tell us something too naa.

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    2. missroyal051:15 PM

      O boy u r on every blog,I tot it was only LIB ooo...interesting!

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    3. thats true sef this bonario must be a feminist, hes on evry ladies' blog

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    4. Anonymous1:34 PM

      this bonario is on every single blog, next thing we would see prince charming here too

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  17. Barbie10:32 AM

    Sorry to ask, I have a question for Aunty Ahdaisy and other advocates of no sex before marriage:

    If a man does not test before marriage, how does he get to know if she is too loose? Or should an innocent man bear the cross he did not carve, for the rest of his life?

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    1. Anonymous2:00 PM

      help me ask god dat question cos na im first start no sex befor marriage

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  18. Anonymous10:36 AM

    Ahdaisy said then u shld trust God. I tried challenging that, but they said it was insultive. Sitting back to see d reply.

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  19. Go to youtube and search for kegel exercise, it will help tighten the muscles in d vagina. That's d only solution I know.

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  20. Cyndrella10:38 AM

    i will not advice u use Alum though no side effect but it will only thigthen at that given time once u are wet again it will relax the muscle.i think the best thing is the surgery.

    sorry.

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  21. Anonymous11:04 AM

    Like other posters have said, try kegel exercises. Once you get used to it, it'll be your default mode when walking. I decided to stop having sex till marriage, its been a little over a year now, I know I'm tight but I still do kegel. I want to be as tigh as possible for the D-day. I suggest you try it
    Then again, during intercourse, ensure you tighten your vaginal muscles, a groan or grunt from hubby should indicate you're doing it right. All d best

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    1. Anonymous11:13 AM

      LWKMD!!!!!!!

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  22. Anonymous11:15 AM

    Madam, u sabi pass us o wey been dey do am sef. U decided to wait till d day but sha u r experienced already... I dey trowey cap for una oo

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    1. Anonymous12:02 PM

      I'll admit that I'm not a novice when it comes to sex, and it won't cost me anything to continue doing it. I decided to put a stop to it and wait till I get married, I don't need validation from you or anyone else. I brought d issue up to buttress my point for the poster. So laugh all you want. Good day.

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  23. Anonymous11:35 AM

    It actually tightens after childbirth and episiotomy. Esp. if you sit on wooden chair & obey all those traditional postnatal dos & don'ts.

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    1. Anonymous12:00 PM

      Can u pls tell us some of those dos and don'ts?

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  24. I can't believe am learning so much on this post!!!! Thank you

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  25. Anonymous11:46 AM

    Kegel exercises help alot after child delivery. After using very hot water on the vagina, you do the exercise. This exercise should start when tears and episiotomy have completely healed.

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  26. Points to pick from this post thus far:
    1. Try alum but not too effective.
    2. Try kegel exercise.
    3. Let your "lock" tighten around the "key" during intimacy.
    4. Practise tightening exercise when sitting on a hard surface to tighten the vaginal wall.
    5. Try using shea butter(ori/okwuma)Man ka 'danya).
    6. If all fail, try reconstructive surgery!

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  27. Anonymous12:16 PM

    Aunty try Kegel and pls be consistant! Do it for like two months n see d outcome. If after that no improvement then am afraid u have to manage it like dat cos dat sugery own I no understand am especially for someone that has not given birth.

    Sorry!

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  28. Anonymous12:33 PM

    Kegel exercise is the only solution I know,n I won't advice you to use alum pls... Practice holding your urine whenever you pee by releasing it bit by bit until you empty your bladder. Continue doing this anywhere, anytime even if there seem to be no result, a change will occur. To me, going for surgery now that you've not had any child yet is totally a NO... Also try not to get so wet before intercourse and clean up frequently to keep you somewhat dry.
    Goodluck!
    Me

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  29. Learn to apply this routine every morning b4 bathing,it is called Steaming. Boil a kettle or water, pour into a bucket that's strong enough to carry ur weight, sit on top of the bucket in such a way that ur bum covers everywia to prevent heat frm escaping. Let the steam seep into ur vagina and work its magic. No matter hw painful it gets, sit there for 10mins or until the steam becomes lukewarm. U will see changes my dear. Ur man won't recognise u down there again. This also helps wit keeping the vagina odour-free.
    Yes, do kegel until it becomes a habit.

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    1. ****Mufasa Said1:24 PM

      Nelly have u had a baby b4? if not u will not type this thing just like that! u will type it with tears in u eyes as u indicate the extreme pain it takes to seat on a bucket of hot water!

      need i remind u dat that water is hotter than the one used to remove chicken feathers!

      Dear poster, with tears in my eyes, i will advice u to try wat she said but please, like i said, if ure doing it right, u will cry, shout. wail, jump and then ask God to forgive u for mistreating ur V jay jay!

      ****Mufasa Said

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    2. Anonymous2:53 PM

      Hahahahahahhahahaah

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    3. Anonymous10:23 PM

      If u have not had a baby before, then chances are dat with kegel exercises at least 15mins each ten times a day for a period of 2mnths shld tighten u back! Also doing a Sitz bath, ie. hot water, but nt too hoT to burn ur skin, will also help! However kegels r still d best! A lot of women even after 3 deliveries dat do kegels still remain tight! Kegels may seem difficult to remember to perform, but once u can consciously train ur mind fr d first 2 days it becomes a habit. Good luck!!!

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  30. Anonymous12:53 PM

    Goodday my wonderful people on WC,ur words and advice keeps me going,and makes me laugh and Happy everyday.my own issue is my vagina is tight even after having a baby,My hubby complains about it,if am not very wet and he goes inside,he always come out with sore and I always have pains and sore too.could it be that the Doctor dat sewed my VJ after avin a tear during childbear overdid it?

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  31. Anonymous1:16 PM

    Yup mostly likely.. If you had an episiotomy, he may have over zealously sewed it... Ironys of life

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  32. Anonymous1:45 PM

    My Own problem is that am so tight that I have to be very wet before my husband can penetrate,after 3 kids though with c-section,it's still the same wanted to do a pap smear test,they couldn't because I was so tight they had to postpone it,but enjoy sex with my husband a lot.

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  33. Lizzy1:52 PM

    From other comments I've read It seems like sheabutter solves all body problems o.
    Try pelvic wall exercise, kegel exercise- search google on how to do these exercises and when u are peeing stop d wee half way and use ur vagina muscles to squeeze ur vag.
    Lastly to all single ladies please use ur vagina wisely, don't test too many 'huge tinz' that'll expand ur vag size n later give u and ur hubby problems when u get married.

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    1. I also heard sheabutter can conquer poverty

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    2. Just reading the comments and chuckling to myself until...lurvemj! Sheabutter can conquer poverty? #rotfl

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    3. Anonymous5:06 PM

      am a very silent reading until i saw this comment,i practical laughed with tears rolling down my eyes and practically almost weeing on myself... and still rolling on d floor with laughter while typing. Sheabutter can conquer poverty abeg who b lurvemj....

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    4. Anonymous3:57 PM

      HAHAHAHAH! That is so funny! Best comment ever. "Shea Butter can cure poverty"

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    5. *rolling* Lmaoooo... Highly hilarious i bet sheabutter can raise d dead

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  34. Hmmmm, you must be a very good friend to go to this lenght for your friend. Me i think it would have been easier to say that you need help instead . Good luck with trying all the solutions proposed here!

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  35. Anonymous2:18 PM

    Do not use alum,not good for ur vagina.. Try kegel everyday,atleaset 10*a a day,doit when u weeing,when u driving,working,sitting,lying,all the time

    Then I heard oneof the herbal places in ikeja do that,they have for those who have giving birth and those whohavent.. Those who have tried it said its goods but I don't know

    But I'm sure of kegel,cos I'm so fucking tight,that when hubby is going back for the second round,he finds it hard going in....

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  36. Anonymous2:47 PM

    Alum at first seems like a probable solution,but once the penis penetrates,the vagina go be like Benin Express road o!
    On the other hand,a surgery will do d trick.
    My husband is a medical doctor and there are cases where even women who have had episiotomy comes back to d hospital to either tighten or reduce the tightness.cos either way,its no good.
    Goodluck!

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  37. Anonymous4:06 PM

    Try to eat alot of watermelon,honey,dates,cucumbers nd tıgernut.u can even drınk tıgernut juıce.ı assure u dat 1 works lyk a magıc.u can also wash d place wıt a vry hot salty water

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  38. Anonymous4:09 PM

    My dear try Modupe ozolua she Sure can help dat is if u gat d cash.

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  39. POSTER4:10 PM

    Thank you all for d advice. She has been doing the Kegel exercise but noticed no improvement. I guess she'll ve to resume d exercise. Thx again.

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    1. Anonymous12:25 PM

      Sometimes, the woman isn't the problem. I don't want to sound insulting but her husband probably has a tiny peanuts. She Shld try complaining abt his peanut size once or suggest he gets an enlargement done.

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  41. hmmmmm, maybe the problem is not the wife but the husband, its a shame she never thought of that.

    Perhaps he is not very endowed and feels insecure and woefully inadequate and instead of owning it and learning how to satisfy his wife and himself he turns it on her as if she is the problem so that he does not have to look at or deal with his "short comings".

    Sometimes the best defense is an offense. Its a shame it would seem based on the wife's feedback that he is not open enough to learning new techniques or else he wouldn't be "complaining" he'd reveling and enjoying his wife's vagina and the many ways he can indulge and explore the endless possibilities.

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    1. Anonymous12:27 PM

      You are so on Point! It's all defence mechanism

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  42. Na wah, i thank God dat am naturally tight. I don't need to spend my kudi on tightening. I wished i cud make an exchange and say bye , bye to lubricants.

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  43. gloexcel10:21 PM

    Dear poster ask any woman frm Borno or any part of d far north 4 help. They use wat is called Hayaki in hausa languge.I ve nt use it b4 bt i heard it can tighten a VJ dat will mak it luks lik dat of a virgin wt even blood stain. Most hausa girls use dat bcos dey need 2keep dat place tight4 their hubby or face mate wahala.

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    1. Lik d one dey call kayan-mata...(Womens things/goods) very effective...*wink*

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  44. Brandy10:25 AM

    Hi People, Kegel Exercise gives me orgasms. What can I do? Is it advisable to stop?

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    1. Anonymous10:29 AM

      You want to stop?
      If that happens to mua,
      I'll do more kegels than ever. #ShameOnMe

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  45. Pls dear,don't ever hold ur breath when u pee,its very dangerous to ur bladder,it could damage it. I would advise u do the kegels when ure not peeing,and remember to breath when holding it,try tightening ur vagina without holding ur breath,start from 10 seconds,20secs then upwards till u master it and also do it when having sex with ur hubby

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  46. POSTER12:37 PM

    Thank u all. Blessing of the most highest God be with u all.

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  47. Anonymous3:53 PM

    I tink it also depends on ones body type. For me am a mother of two and it does not feel like a baby has passed through there. Kegel exercise might help though. Besides her hubby can adopt new techniques.

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  48. Anonymous8:54 AM

    Definitely try the kegal exercises! I am having my 6th child and yet remain very tight. I have been doing kegal exercises for years and they do work. This is truth

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  49. Anonymous11:17 PM

    Have checked google for steps to doin kegel but stil dnt undstd, I can't locate my vagina muscles...pls Eya n WC commenters give me a practical run down on ow to do kegel

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    1. Anonymous8:11 PM

      If you can not locate it, then look for it. Abi you want make Ace and Bona come help you find am?

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    2. Anonymous10:27 PM

      How to locate it first is to stop your pee midway, an release it in bits till you finish. While doing this observe what muscles you are using and be sure the you are not merely sucking in your abdominal muscles cos that would not have any effect. Once you have mastered it this way, you can start doing it allday and stop the pee-holding system, as it has disadvantages in the long term. I was told to do this for another problem -post partum incontinence- but I believe it should solve urs too. Best wishes.

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  50. Anonymous6:21 AM

    Take a soak in your bathtub, hopefully you have one. Use warm water that feels comfortable and sprinkle baking soda in the warm water and make sure it dissolves, then immerse yourself in the tub and soak in there for about 30 minutes, open you legs so the baking soda water can go in. If you want to pull some of the water in you that is fine, just make sure you expel it.

    The reason I know this is that I took it upon myself one evening to take a soak and I decided to sprinkle baking soda in the bathtub because I did not have any epsom salts. I was simply taking a soak to relax my muscles, I got more than I bargained for. I had a doctor's appointment about 2 days after this bath that included a pap smear. Well, I got up on the table like usual, spread my legs and the doctor lubricated the speculum and inserted it as normal. I was not prepared for the intense pain, I literally screamed out in the office, and I am far from being a virgin. I have never had an experience like that! she was there doing her thing and something that normally takes 2-3 minutes felt like hours, I could not wait until she took that speculum out of me. So, try the baking soda bath and see if it works for you, plus baking soda is dirt cheap. I am usually heavy handed, so I think I used about half a cup of baking soda in the bath. I am celibate and I am not sure how things are down there, so I have no sexual situation to reference for you. Good luck!

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    1. Anonymous6:04 AM

      Pls what is baking soda n how can I get it?

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  51. Anonymous5:36 PM

    What an interesting blog! I've laughed and learnt a lot as well!

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  52. Wow...there is a lot of misconception flying around this blog. First of all, Kegel can only do so much and that so much is NOTHING. After being sexually active for a long period of time; childbirth; or just age, things down there will never be the same no matter how many different ways you figure out to try and tighten things down there by squeezing your butt cheeks...it won't work. Alum on the other hand has been used by women all over the world for centuries. I sell it on my site with full instructions plus I've been using it for over a year, approx. 3 times per week and have nothing but good things to say and the results are just WOW!!! Alum is a great alternative to Kegel that doesn't work; herbs, etc. that can be dangerous; or smoke an mirror creams that just steal your money.

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    1. Anonymous4:38 PM

      Hello brenda can you link me up with the alum is it power or crystal form there can I get it to buy help me plz

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    2. Nocturne1:55 PM

      Your vaginal walls are held tight by the PC muscles. You can make those muscles strong by exercising them, so it is a fact, not an old wives tale. When doing kegels properly you are NOT squeezing your butt muscles, you are isolating and exercising your PC muscles. When these muscles are strong your vagina will be able to flex tightly, your orgasms will be amazing, and you will have zero bladder control issues.

      You are merely trying to sell a product and are perhaps ignorant of the science behind the PC muscles. Kegels are also beneficial for men because it can help men control their orgasms which allows them to last longer, also it helps make the erection harder and the orgasm more intense. It's simple science and many men/women have had great results.

      I can't speak on weather Alum works or not because I have zero knowledge on it, but I can say that kegels do work if you do them properly and don't give up.

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    3. Anonymous5:11 PM

      please how is the alum used, is it dissolved or used raw

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  53. I would like to draw your attention to a product that tightens the vagina without alum or irritants and is manufacturered in the US in an FDA regulated laboratory and safety tested.
    Let tightenz suppositories save your marriage by tightening the vagina in minutes!

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  54. Anonymous2:55 AM

    Hi wat is the name of it and where cani get is to buy does it sell in Trinidad. .

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  55. Anonymous3:32 AM

    does of u raining insults stop it, she only asked for what to do, having lose totoo does not mean that she slept with the whole world.

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  56. I feel like this to but i ain't saying I'm a saint i have two kids and my Bd was really big and the other was small i didn't get any complaints from the small one and haven't had any complaint so on but i just don't feel comfortable with it i want it so tight that a needle can be held lol hey if he's not complaining i shouldnt be but he cheats so what do y'all think its not tight enough our what

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  57. My Bd cheats is it because my vj is loose or what I'm confused but he doesn't complain about it but i feel insecure after having 2 kids what should i do

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    1. Anonymous4:19 PM

      Sweetie honestly u need to question your self.its ok to want to please your bd, unfortunately that's all he will ever be, he isn't committed to you because you lack something internal you allow him to treat u this way. He knows you don't mind and knows u wont require more. Ask yourself what do u deserve, sex isn't the total package. your relationship is a reflection of who u are.hope this helps

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  58. Anonymous12:33 AM

    After 3 kids, my Vj is no longer tight and my hussy is complaining, am also so worried cos he is now comparing to his ex-girlfriends, but the funny thing is that he disvirgined me

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    1. Anonymous6:00 PM

      My dear, do not feel inadequate and don't you dare question your self worth! Your husband should be grateful for having you, and he should be ashamed for comparing you to other women. After vaginal child birth, it is only natural that you may not be as tight as pre childbirth. Kegel exercises are a great way of tightening up your vaginal muscles. Make it a daily habit and you'll surely notice a difference. Do not be shy to talk to your GP about your concerns as they may have alternative less invasive healthy solutions. Try to talk with your husband about it as well. Some men are not educated on these kind of issues, and proper understanding between the both of you will enable you both work together on the best solutions to your problem. Remember you were specially and uniquely made, do not be ashamed.. There is always a solution to every problem. Good luck.

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    2. Anonymous1:35 PM

      the guy is just immature... ao on earth will he be comparing you with his ex, he should have married his ex who is a tight pussy babe na... yeye man

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  59. The best solution is for you ladies t stop sleeping around. Your friend used to love a big DK and that's why she got so lose. she should have gotten married to one of her big DK fellas. I'm sure she married the one with the small DK because he has a big pocket. You can' eat your cake and have it. It's too late for your friend. Let her husband go out and find a tighter one , she can be the extra tire at home.

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  60. Anonymous11:37 PM

    Tips for best sex forever to keep husband from wandering?

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  61. Notin jst felt lyk calling ur name.... Oooouch... And d vagina became an ocean! Earobics and abstainance in a while can do d magic. Else get a better d**k.

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  62. na uoo cos ham . Y u dey open ya legs for boys then?

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  63. Wash ur vagina with indian gooseberry boiled in water.. Try kegel exercise, and also wash ur vagina with cold water in equal intervals.. Also practice yoga.. All these things would work..

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  64. Wash ur vagina with indian gooseberry boiled in water.. Try kegel exercise, and also wash ur vagina with cold water in equal intervals.. Also practice yoga.. All these things would work..

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    1. Alright I read all yal response but I have to say this to those woman who is facing problem with their vagina whole and it's too slac/loose. After having sex with your hubby always sit on hot boiling water. Cook some boiling water on the stove and whenever it cook up a little bit I mean boiling let it cool out for a minute. And trow it into a bedpan or comode or a big bowl which you don't really use trow the water in it and sit over it. Let the hot steam that thing that look like smoke that the boiling water is giving you...let the steam go up in your vagina by stooping down over the bowl with hot water, after you don't see anymore steam/smoke wait until the water cools off and wash your pussy with the hot water. It works for me and I am sure it will work for you. Any question feel free to e-mail me candymvs@gmail.com (Susanne)

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  65. Anonymous5:17 PM

    This used to be my problem, so I search for products that are safe to use. I have been using tightening capsule and gel at the same time and it did good results to me which makes me and my husband happy ;) I purchased them online and it has free shipping! It's from tightvaginashop.com. Hope it helps

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  66. Anonymous11:18 AM

    I cant laugh , c as i dey roll for ground here ,am a naturally tight I hope dis will not happen to me as well

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  67. Hello dear i understand with you. dont mind those silly boys that laugh at your post, they should get bigger members to satisfy girls not the other way round. But joke apart, this is a problem not only for girls but for guys too. Guys have the (i don't want to come in time problem) i read somewhere, that you can do exercises and tighten some of the muscles around the male organ, that anytime you want to cum you can just tighten it and you can hold the cum for as long as you want. Well i tried the exercises Meeeeeen i still blow. i think a man will be the best lover if you can do that.
    i see that it is a similar problem, a woman will have with wider vagina's, i read also about exercises that you can tighten the muscles and milk your mans shaft.
    I also felt its one of those gimmicks, like the male stuff. but meeen i met this woman (am married cant tell my wife, but i wish she could be like her) This woman is a prostitute with children receiving all kinds of dicks am sure. but when i entered her i couldn't but marvel, am also average in dick side 5.8. she could tighten her vagina and squeeze me like like i have never seen before. i have gone through a lot of girls before i got married but never saw anything nearly similar to that. she had absolute control of her vagina muscles from any direction i put it in.I went to her after a fight with my wife (over my wife never asking for sex and just lying there like wood when i want to make love) it was supposed to be one night and not cheating (weelll) since it was with a prostitute. But after that night i couldnt stop but visit this woman. she wasn't youngooo and not really beautiful not ugly too, but i will choose her any day for all the young and beautiful girls in the world, for sex.
    Bottom line the exercises work. cause there is no way on earth she can do what she is doing with Alum, or whatever.
    i think you can do it too. just patience and exercises daily, you have to find the type of Kegels.
    wish you luck hoping my true story will inspire. believe me if you can do what this woman is doing, you can be sure no matter where your husband run too he will come back because he cant find any like you. i have seen only this woman in my lifetime of over 60 women. imagine me a man of my wealth and status sneaking into one (washing and setting) to get happy. police come there to arrest menoo but meeeen i cant stop. and the woman doesnt want to leave the comfort of that thier jagajaga hotel.

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    1. Anonymous5:52 PM

      why dont u invite the prostitute to a classy hotel instead of sneaking. wish u spoke to ur wife about this and share some advice and teach her how to please you. hope you use protection sha oh, make you no go give madam sickness.

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  68. I have had 4 children and felt like my vagina was loose, I could barely feel my husband during sex and kegels just did nothing for it. I found out from watching a show on surgery that you can have this fixed and retightened with surgery. I found an amazing doctor, her name is Dr. Erhard and she is in Minnesota. I met her and fell in love, she just “gets me”, has 4 children of her own so she understands and is a gynecologist so I trusted her. I had the surgery 6 months ago and my husband and I are having better sex then before the children!!! I didn’t even know you could tighten it, she retightened it and fixed the botched job they did when I tore with my biggest boy. I would go back and recommend anyone to her. Her website is http://www.mngaclinic.com/VaginalRejuvenation.aspx

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  69. Anonymous2:07 PM

    I learnt alot. But couldnt help it......... I laughed my heart out cos some pple are really stupid with their coments (i mean guys).

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  70. Hi everyone, ok my wife has given birth to 6 children and we had the same problem and tried everything until we found the KEGEL MASTER (800-326-3604) www.kegelmaster.com it works great. Now ur going to have to do ur part every day for 30 minutes but if u do I promise u will get really tight again. Before we found this I cld hardly feel it inside my wife (after her giving birth) now she damm near rips it off :) just like when we were young. Hope this helps :) :) :)

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  71. Anonymous9:37 AM

    are all the men in africa virgins till marriage? god bless america because this is some of the most ignorant tripe ive ever come across. if all the men of africa dont wait till marriage then there's a good chance theyve done their own "damage" to some other poor girls vagina before marriage. is that the womans fault too lol? in america that complaint would just mean a guy has a small penis. the myth about black men having large penises has just been disproven by this sites comments lol.

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  72. Anonymous8:31 PM

    O my I could not belive so many people have the same pussy problem has me I think I was alone God bless internet

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  73. Diamond Pat8:07 PM

    I luv dis

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  74. Anonymous1:20 PM

    So Sorry sister, This is my advice and the way out.
    First its important to preserve yourself until marriage to do sex, you remain pure, but when you fuck allover before marriage, that's prostitution. Any man who breaks your vaginity, will bare any consequences which may follow latter and live without any complain.

    If situation is like yours the remedy will be squizz exercises every time, when you go to pi don't release at once, sqiizz in between until you are done. next do some exercise tighten your lower muscles. this should be able to help.....Try this and share

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    1. Anonymous1:45 PM

      seems like you didn't read the comment from a lady here that says she is experiencing this same thing and that her man is complaining. meanwhile it was this same guy who disvirgined her... so what will you call her crime?

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  75. Anonymous5:06 PM

    Please don't use alum o. It could cause obstructed labour making vaginal delivery difficult. Unless u re done with child bearing, in which case, u can try it.

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  76. Anonymous3:47 AM

    Very interesting to read all of this. Indeed I've learned some things as well. I came here bcos of the same problem. One day I started my menstural and it lasted for 3 months all day/night. I went to see 2 DRS. and all they could tell me was either hormone imbalance or miscarriage. Since that happened to me it has been loose. I've tried kegal but wasn't consistent. My dude recently told meh that he thinks I cheated becos it ddnt feel the same. I was extremely moist this time.I ddnt cheat and we don't do like rabbits. I'm tempted to try alum.

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  77. Anonymous4:36 PM

    I saw garlic on one group on fb called adorable mum. Join and ask you will get an answer. Something about sewing a thread on garlic and inserting it in your thing over night. I never try am o but they said it works

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  78. Nocturne2:26 PM

    Many of these comments are not only ignorant of science but also mean spirited towards the OP. The vaginal canal is held tight by muscles. Common sense AND facts show that you can make this muscle strong by exercise. It's called grip ladies and gents.

    When I was younger I had no ideal what this was and I didn't know I could squeeze my vaginal walls tight to grip the penis. It's what men in the U.S. call having a snapper.

    Kegels do work because I have see improvement sense I have been doing them, I also know of women who were able to regain vaginal strength after having multiple children.

    Having sex does NOT cause these muscles to get weak. It's a myth that a man with a large penis will make you loose. Atrophy of those muscles from lack of use, childbirth, and other major trauma is what causes the muscles to weaken.

    Men can benefit from kegels also. It will allow the man to have stronger orgasms and control when he ejaculates. Please do your research people. Learn how to do the kegels and STICK with them until you get results. As with any muscle, it takes time and hard work to build up.

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  79. Anonymous7:10 AM

    big hole means say him meet small dick, i have a 10 inch dick and am looking for a girl with a very big cunt else i hardly penetrate,

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  80. Anonymous4:08 AM

    I heard something called kegal? exercises help, where you exercise and tighten the vagina, but you might want to do some research on how they work

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  81. Anonymous9:56 PM

    Hi,try douching or a douche with lime juice..
    Thank me later...

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  82. Anonymous3:36 PM

    hmmm.....now am tensed up over this issue o! i just got married tho had sex before marriage but not wild. figured it was wrong and stopped till i got married. being married for barely more than a month now and already pregnant. i was thinking of how to cope with kids now am forced to worry bout tight vagina? how worse can it get?hmm....it cant be that bad right?

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  83. Really nice article and yes all the women will be worried about how to tighten Loose vagina after child birth. doing kegel exercises mixed with vagina tightening herbal supplement pills to make it more effective and permanent

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  84. hi i do know for fact that alum does work. my great grandmother told my mother who inturn told me about it. it will cause yeast infection and irritation if used alot . so use with caution and do the exsersizes

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  85. Anonymous8:49 AM

    Pls I Am a bit fat Bt ma hubby dnt like it. I nid hlp on wat 2use so I can com down. I ll appreciate any1 wit idea. Tnx

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  86. Anonymous1:48 PM

    Wash ya vaginal wit warn water always will help tighten ya pussy

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      Warm water CAN never tighten your vaginal

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  87. Anonymous4:55 PM

    Sorry to hear. Kegel exercises help a lot. There are a lot of tools in the Western world that help but may not be readily available here. I suggest your friend should improvise. She should put something the size of her vagina inside her(whatever should feel comfortable and very clean even sterilized) and try to squeeze while pulling it out making sure it does not come out. As time goes by ,she should progress to smaller objects.This is actually a modified form of kegels.

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  88. Anonymous11:22 PM

    Hmmm na wa ooo. I can't help but laugh over and over and over again. All of una with big pussy, y una dey try big something too. Una know know say big something is equal to big something? Abeg equation is balanced. I thank God that am naturally tight oooo. No worries! Pls stop unnecessary sex with unnecessary pple. It will only damage ur heavenly blessed pussy! Keep youself and let the right man appreciate u.

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  89. Anonymous10:15 AM

    Ummmmm, nice. I hav lernt a lot. Tnks all

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  90. Anonymous2:04 AM

    Alum does work, but it will wear off if you are really wet. I am using the Bedroom Kandi vaginal weights and they are working fast, I could tell a change after only a few days.

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    1. Anonymous4:04 AM

      Tear cotton wool in pieces into a pan, add water and salt, bring it to boil .for 10 min, allow to cool .pour into a container. Use it any time, it works like magic.just take a piece of the cotton wool with the salt solution it and insert into your V and wipe the inside then remove and rinse with ordinary water .

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  91. Anonymous1:01 AM

    A year late........try a yoni egg....

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