Sunday, March 31, 2013

My Nigerian Spaghetti Bolognese By Ahdaisy Jayde


Nigerian Spaghetti Bolognese served with the sauce on top
I just wanted to send this in as an Easter Special recipe.

Remember when I said
I Googled the hell out of spaghetti Bolognese? Yeah, I finally came up with a recipe that will work for the normal Nigerian. The basic ingredients for the real Bolognese sauce is a lot of meat, Tomatoes, Spices and Parmesan Cheese. I skipped the cheese and brought out all the spices I have hope that one of them will contain the 'oregano' I kept seeing in all the recipes. 

I'm sorry that there is no specific measurements or timing, I 'used eye' to measure them.

 

To make your ground meat yourself.

Cut the meat into cubes and put in the freezer for about 30 minutes or just enough for the sides of the meat to harden. Separate the meat cubes so that they don't freeze together.

Beef cubes in a food processor
When it is ready, put in your meat grinder (I used the one in my food processor), you can add some pepper and seasoning into the meat and continue grinding. And there you have it, your own homemade ground meat with ingredients you are sure of.
Grinding beef with a food processor
Ground beef
Ingredients for my Nigerian Spaghetti Bolognese-ish

Ingredients:

3 cups Olive oil or vegetable oil
1 medium Onion
1 clove Garlic
1kg Ground beef (You need a lot but I used little cos I am cutting down on my beef intake)
3 cups Chopped Fresh tomatoes (I had blended ones so I used it like that)
1 can Tomato paste (tin tomato)
2 teaspoons Curry
1 teaspoon Thyme
1 teaspoon Nutmeg
1 Bay leaf (little)
A handful scent leaves (little)
2 cups Carrots (diced)
Beef stock (I had chicken stock so I used it like that)
2 Knorr cubes (or any other one)
1 teaspoon fresh Pepper
Salt to taste
1 pack Spaghetti

Heat oil in a saucepan
Saute onions and garlic until soft
Add ground beef and stir to brown
Add ground beef, tomatoes, spices, seasoning and stock, AND wine for those who cook with wine. Plus carrots and water


Procedure:

1. Heat oil in a saucepan. Saute the onions and garlic until soft and a little charred.

2. Add the ground beef and stir till continually to break it up and brown it.

3. Add

HAPPY EASTER! An Easter Prayer

Easter egg
Happy Easter
Wishing you a Happy Easter. May this Easter season bring newness to your life.  Whatever thorn there is in your flesh that pricks at the wrong time and place, may it wither because he is risen. Whatever is there right now that was not from the beginning, whatever is not planted by the almighty, may it be uprooted.

Because he is risen and
Saturday, March 30, 2013

Rivers State Meal, Onunu And Fish Pepper Soup By Young Awesome Mum

A serving of Onunu and fish pepper soup
Onunu and fish pepper soup is a meal enjoyed mostly by the kalabari and okrika people of
Rivers state, Nigeria. It can also pass for this month's challenge since plantain is one of the ingredient :D
   
INGREDIENTS
* Yam
* plantain
*palm oil
*fish
*onion
*seasoning cubes
*salt
*pepper
 Mint leaves

 I didn't put an asterisk on the last ingredient because i had all others at home except that so didn't bother going out to get some :)

   PROCEDURE
Boil your yam as usual, you can boil d yam and plantain 2geda but you'll have to let d yam boil a little before adding d plantain because the plantain doesn't need to be cooked too much because it's already soft (overripe)

 When that's done, you put d yam in a mortar and start pounding (just like you're making pounded yam). When the yam's soft you can then add the plantain and continue pounding so the plantain would mix well with the yam, when that's done add a little palm oil then pound a lil more ( like 3mins more) and your ONUNU is set to be served with pepper soup!

  We

Scent Leaves Vegetable Egg Sauce With Boiled Plantain By Dortiye

Scent leaves vegetable egg sauce with boiled unripe plantain
This was how I made my birthday breakfast... And it
Friday, March 29, 2013

How To Make Vegetable Pancake Rolls At Home

vegetable pancake roll
Pancakes are very easy to make. Today I decided to add a little twist to my pancakes by rolling

Pictorials Part 2: More! Banana And Vanilla Ice Cream By Ahdaisy Jayde

A bowl of vanilla ice cream
This is also my first attempt but I did not have the patience to test with a little. I went all out!
So my husband

Spaghetti And Plantain Stir Fry By Lizzy Obaze


Cooking spaghetti and plantain stir fry
Here is something I prepared for the plantain challenge however I've used little plantain so I hope it meets the criteria of the challenge.

I prepared
Thursday, March 28, 2013

If Only Men And Husbands Were Taught This Much

A Nigerian woman demonstrates her daily use of...
A Nigerian woman  (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Form when a girl starts growing up, she is taught to be respectful, well behaved and courteous. A girl is taught how to be hospitable, especially if she comes from a Christian family, Proverbs 31 is made her memory verse. She understands what is expected of a virtuous wife while her older and younger brothers are only taught to read their books, work hard and pass examinations.

In many families, especially my Nigerian families, the boys are served by their sisters in preparation for

Pictorials: Chocolate And Strawberry Ice Cream By Ahdaisy Jayde

Mixing strawberry Ice cream
This ice cream making process and the pictorials have so simplified it. With this, anybody can make ice cream at home.
Ahdaisy just made my ice cream post look like

Pictorials: How To Make My Vanilla And Chocolatey Ice Cream At Home

A bowl of my home made ice cream with  some chocolates for that chocolatey taste
Making Ice cream at home with kids is so much fun. My only fear is,
Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Plantain Porridge With Turkey, Amaranth, Scent Leaves And Tomatoes By Chinazor Eze

A serving of plantain porridge
 Errrrrm,  i don't know what to call this dish, but i think "Plantain Porridge" will

What Is The Right Age For Marriage?

Good morning aunty Eya. I wrote this to know your advice and other women too. I am 24 presently and I
Tuesday, March 26, 2013

My Humble Self, He Keeps Thinking I'm Cheating

Hiya Aunty,
How are you? Thanks for having this wonderful blog whereby pple can express themselves openly.
I remain anonymous please and I am writing this to let my fellow blog followers understand what some pple/ladies actually go thru in their marriage.
I got married @ the age of 27 and am blessed with 2 kids, a boy and a girl.
When I got married to my hubby, I actually thought he was the best I can ever get but another part of me knew I didn't love him enough to get

Boiled Plantain With Mint Leaves In Tomato Egg Sauce

Boiled unripe plantain with mint leaves in egg sauce
Cooking tomato egg sauce with mint leaves is the best meal I have cooked this year. I think I should have done this earlier. Thanks to the struggle to create a dish with plantain. I wanted the plantain unripe and boiled, but wasn't sure of what to serve it with. Now, to the glory of the Almighty, and the enjoyment and good health of man,

Mother-In-Law Wahala, Please Help Before I make The Wrong Decision


Dear Aunty Eya,
I am a constant reader of your blog. God will continue to give you Wisdom for the great work you are doing in the life of married women and singles. Please help me to post this in your blog for advise and also advise me with a reply. Thanks.

There is this guy that proposed to me sometime in 2011. I started praying about it and asked God for two signs, either in a dream or in a prophecy. I didn’t see anything in
Monday, March 25, 2013

Holidaying With Ex One Week Before Our Wedding

Leather briefcase
Leather briefcase (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Good Morning Aunty Eya, 
Atlast, I am also writing my story after reading from other ladies on your blog. I need to share mine too. I am not writing because I need advise, I am not depressed at all and I won't let my feeble self be. I am writing because I can't trust any of my friends. Can't confide in them, they might betray me. After reading
Sunday, March 24, 2013

Fried Rice With Akara, Soy sauce And Coated Chicken

fried rice with akara and coated chicken
There are many methods of cooking fried rice,

How To Make Ice Cream At Home

Hello, this time around I want to sit down and learn from the best. Abuja is too hot oooo. For those
Saturday, March 23, 2013

How Do I Get My Husband To Accept Friendship Request?

Dear Mrs Eya,
Thank you for giving people like me the opportunity to share and learn from your blog. I have learnt a lot from your blog and the wonderful counselors that God has put there. I have a problem, if you can advise me, please do not bother posting to the blog. But if you can't, you are free to post. I need help. This thing is really eating me up and making my love for him to reduce drastically.

In January 2011 my husband signed up for Facebook. He initially

Re: Marriage Is My Worst Nightmare, Thank You

I want to say thank you to aunty Eya and everyone of you who gave me
advice. All i wanted was to be sure that am not doing the wrong thing
if i

Friday, March 22, 2013

Now I know My Case Is Different In Marriage

Hello Eya, I have been following your blog for about three months. Reading that blog makes me happy I don't know why. God is using that blog to bless our homes. I like the way women open up on your blog. People say things freely like they are talking with close family members. One reason I commend you for that blog is because many Nigerian wives want to talk but do not know where to go. We don't want third parties in our marriages. We need people like Marriage counsellors but don't know where to find them. I live in Lagos and do not know any office where I can just walk in and get marriage counselling except talk with my pastor. Church leaders are trying, but sometimes, it feels like meeting a professional or talking to and listening to other women's experiences. Your blog provides that atmosphere where we get to hear from different people with different views and learn something. I have learnt so much since I started visiting wives connected.
May your family continue to experience God's divine peace.

The way our men treat women is really depressing and because of the stories and counsels I have read on your blog, I am writing this as  dedication

Basmati Rice With Gravy By Deborah Bala

a serving of Basmati Rice with Gravy
Hi ladies, i decided to get inspiration from lizzy obaze and i made my own version of basmati rice with gravy. first of

How To Cook Walkie Talkie Pepper soup

a serving of walkie talkie pepper soup
 Walkie Talkie Pepper soup is cooked with the walking and talking parts of birds. In the past,
Thursday, March 21, 2013

Please I need Advice, Marriage Has Been My Worst Nightmare


Am a fan of your blog and i will love if you help me post this on your blog because i need advice before i lose my mind.
I got married at the age of nineteen because i got pregnant and didn't

Second Attempt At Puff Puff Making, What Went Wrong?

Frying puff puff in hot oil
My first attempt at making puff puff was a comedy show in my house. Anyone that wanted to laugh and relax but didn't know how would just look at my flat puff puff in the basket and burst into heavy flames of laughter. This second time,

Re: Should I Give Him A Second Chance And Still Trust Him, Thank You Note From Kate

The wonderful ladies in d house, Bonario, and Aunty Eya, I'm so much
relieved with your pieces of advice, you guys have done something that I can't
forget in a hurry! Saving my home, Saving my kids from

Help! My Husband Is Too Nice

Good Evening aunty Eya,
The way other people offer truths on your blog has encouraged me to write to you.

 I am a 30 year old woman with 2 kids & the problem I have is my husband is too nice..

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Basmati Fried Rice And Chicken By Lizzy Obaze

mixed veg of carrots, peas and sweetcorn, king prawns and sliced onion and pepper.  
 I cooked this today and thought

Should I Give Him A 2nd Chance And Still Trust Him Again?

Hello, Aunty Eya I would like u to help me wit ur advice and the
ladies and women in d house. I'm a lady of 31yrs married wit two
beautiful girls, somemtimes last year my husby walked up to me and told
me he's got something to confess to me, I asked abt it, he told me he
did sleep with a girl and ever since then he's been having sleepless
nights, that each time he

Appreciation From Shade To All Who Commented

Aunty! God bless U̶̲̥̅̊ 4 me, A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ everyone. I really appreciate U̶̲̥̅̊я advice & also am saying a big thank U̶̲̥̅̊ 2 other women who commented on it. thank

Nigerian Palm Oil Rice And Beans With Fish

palm oil rice and beans with fish
Palm oil rice and beans is one dish I really enjoyed growing up. I never left it. Once in a while I prepare it. This dish is very filling. I recommend it to

My Husband I s Giving Me Problems

Aunty Eya.!!!I really appreciate all d gud work  U̶̲̥̅̊ are doing on most women  A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ ladies out der.I say God bless  U̶̲̥̅̊  A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ may  U̶̲̥̅̊ live long 2 reap d fruit of U̶̲̥̅̊я labour. I need U̶̲̥̅̊я advice on an issue,also will lyk it if  U̶̲̥̅̊ could post it 4 other women 2 read  A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ 2 advice me. am a lady of 29years,married last year, A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ wit a lovely baby girl of 11mnths. I havƺ a lovely husband who cares & loves his family. he set up a business for me which am managing. buh d only problem

Chips And Eggs Breakfast By Ahdaisy


a serving of eggs and chips with a glass of juice
For those of you who do not have time to eat well during the day because of work or whatever reason, this is an easy very filling breakfast. It is mainly a Saturday breakfast for me, so that I can sleeeep and forget myself.

I bought the bag of
Tuesday, March 19, 2013

What Do You Think Of Deborah Bala's Idea?

The secret ingredient for Iron Artist at Furth...
The secret ingredient for Iron Artist at Further Confusion 2006--Pasta. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)


deborah bala
1:14 PM (5 hours ago)
to me
Hi aunty, I watched iron chef America yesterday on food network and wow, an idea just hit me in the head. I think it's time for us to take the blog to a new level, lets be

Everyone Pray For Me, Injections Without My Husband's Knowledge


I claim my baby too, everyone pray for me. I personally took a 3month Depo injection without my Husband's knowledge because i was not ready to have a child then, we were not engaged then and i

How To Cook Egusi Balls In Vegetable Draw Soup

green vegetable draw soup with melon balls
With egusi balls in your soup, there is no way you'll eat too much carbs. The soup fills

Dodo gizzard By Jane

a serving of dodo gizzard with boiled rice
Please find attached my delicacy proudly learnt from your blogsite.
it tasted
Monday, March 18, 2013

Thank You From Tola

I want to say a very big thank you to You Ma Eya and your audience(blogreaders) am grateful Ma. May God continue to bless you all.
Ahdaisy jayde

Spaghetti Bolognese Cooked Nigerian

spaghetti bolognese served with a side of water melon, lettuce and cucumber vegetables
Spaghetti Bolognese cooked Nigerian is my way of adapting the dish to what my Nigerian Family can enjoy.
*Hello dear, before

Recipe: Nigerian Meat pie By Ope

Well baked meat pie
 Hello,
This is how I make my Meat pies

Ingredients for Nigerian meat pie

1.5kg of plain flour (About 12 cups)
500g of butter
100g of trex butter. It makes my pastry soft. (Optional)
1 teaspoon salt
little water to make the dough
5 medium sized carrots
2 teaspoons of thyme
2 teaspoons of atagungun( powdered chilli peper) sorry am bush
45 medium sized irish potatoes 
11/2kg minced meat you can use 2 kg if you love them extremely meaty.
any other seasoning of your taste, preferrably 2 knorr or maggi chicken cubes like me.
Bisto Gravy granules or flour(acts as a thickener). You can use flour or knorr gravy powder as thickener, they all work just fine.
egg white for glazing (brushing the meat pie before baking)
Sunday, March 17, 2013

Yes, Noodles Again

Noodles with vegetables, peas and boiled Eggs
Noodles, to me, are the most consumed food item in Nigeria today.Why do I say so? when I go shopping, one food item  I see being carried into almost every
Saturday, March 16, 2013

I Am Thirty Year Old Virgin, Can I Wait?


Aunty Eya, pls pardon me for writing here. I need advice ladies. Am a 30yrs old virgin, you can never know because am very open and stylish lol. I mistakenly told a friend about
Friday, March 15, 2013

Tuface And Annie Idibia's Wedding Gift, What Would You Do?

TuFace, proud first ever MTV African award winner
TuFace, proud first ever MTV African award winner (Photo credit: kaysha)
The buzz about the receipt of the car gift from The Akwa Ibom State Governor Obong Godswill Akpabio by Annie and Tuface Idibia is still very much in the air. I have not been able to convince myself in anyway,

How To Cook Crunchy Peppered Nigerian Snails

Peppered snails snack, served HOT
Snails, fondly called Congo Meat are a great delicacy to those who eat them. Give me snails any

My Recipe For Spring Rolls

Spring roll
Spring roll (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Aunty, thanks for the recipe on shawarma ,turned out lovely.but my hubby that got the bread also bought spring roll pastry and he said"
Thursday, March 14, 2013

Hilarious Saturday Night, Sunday Morning Switch

Enjoy Saturday Night, Rest on Sunday
image courtesy:Daniel Ezenwani
After laughing so loud, I said to myself that this must be shared with you. A friend shared with me on Facebook, and I'm wondering to myself... Where

Dear Aunty Eya's Readers: Please help me with meaningful advise. Thanks.

Dear Aunty Eya,
Great job you are doing with your blog. Keep the flag flying high. Please i want you to help me post this on your blog for advice and advice me with a reply too.

I have been seeing this guy for about 8 months now and on the 30th of Dec, he told me that he has another girl he's been dating for 7 years. He said

Pictorials: Cooking Slim Spaghetti With Fish, Corned Beef And Chopped Carrots

Slim spaghetti with fish and carrots
Slim spaghetti cooks very fast, it's important not to leave the kitchen while
Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Fashion Police For Couples At The Africa Magic Viewers Choice Awards

Biola Alabi and Husband at The Africa Magic Viewers Choice Awards
 Here At wives connection Blog, we not only cook Simple and Healthy Nigerian food, we also find time to do some "all work and no play

Nigerian Groundnut Soup With Ugu Vegetable


Nigerian groundnut soup with warm garri.
Groundnut soup also known as peanut soup is mostly cooked by the Northerners and some parts of Southern Nigeria. If you can cook egusi soup with vegetable, then you already know how to cook this groundnut soup because same method will give you a wonderful, delicious pot of soup. It is a delicacy to those who know it. Some people cook this soup with slices of dried unripe paw paw. This unripe paw paw acts like kpomo in the soup.  
It can be made thick or light depending on how one wants it, and
the quantity of water or vegetables added. Some great lovers of groundnut cook this without vegetables. The groundnut can be roasted a little or just ground raw and fresh.  A small portion of Locust beans (dadawa) can also be added if you like it's flavor.

This is the kind of soup that can make you eat more eba than planned, so, if you are a weight watcher, I beg you to eat only one of those foo foos in the picture. Without self control, the yummy soup can make you clear all three before realizing what you just did.
This soup can be served with any type of foo foo, semo, starch, not too soft amala, pounded yam etc.
Anyone who can cook the miyan taushe soup sent in by Deborah Bala two days back, should be able to cook this soup. There is no much difference.

It is best warmed again at night or stored in a freezer because, just like melon soup, it can go sour easily.
A trial will make you a fan of this soup, I promise.

INGREDIENTS:
1 Cup slightly roasted groundnut
1 small bunch fluted pumpkin (Ugu vegetable)
1 kg beef
3 cow skin (Kpomo)
2 medium sized smoked catfish
1/2 cup roughly ground crayfish
1 cup periwinkle (mfi) Optional
1 seasoning cube
1 pack stock fish ears
1 teaspoon pepper, you can add more
1 tablespoon palm oil
Salt to taste
Enough water or stock to cover the meat after steaming.

Before cooking groundnut soup:
Steam the beef with salt and onion until

Make A Wish For Your Sons/Daughters Compared To Your Relationship

"Women pray during Friday noonday prayer ...
"Women pray." (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Your sons are grown men now, (or just imagine that they are). They have started bringing their fiancees home for family introductions. You are in your bedroom 
Monday, March 11, 2013

Vimbai And Her Hosting Africa Magic Viewers Choice Awards (AMVCA)

Vimbai Mutinhiri Image courtesy:  Zimbeatnews
We seem to be so carried away at the moment, we are stretching our necks, flipping pages of magazines and looking for fashion blogs to read and, to  see who wore what to the Africa Magic Viewers choice award (AMVCA). We look forward to fashion police comments on blogs and laugh hard at those who didn't get to impress us. Well, we seem to forget

How To Make Moi Moi With Beans Skin And Eggs, Guide To Easy Wrapping Of Leaves


moi moi made with beans skin and egg
Cooking moi moi without peeling beans skin is a great saver. It helps one finish with the preparation and cooking of moi moi in minutes. For those who cannot preserve ground

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