How To Be A Good Wife To Your Husband, The African Wife

In marriage, what you sow is exactly what you reap. This may not be true all the time, and may not be true for all marriages. In African marriages, the husband remains the head of the family. The wife and children are his. Every husband prays to have  a good wife by his side, some of us women do not know the qualities of a good wife. Many of us do not even realize that we are created with these qualities inside of us, we do not need to download or install them from anywhere. All we need do is activate that part of our being and see our marriages being rejuvenated.

In African Marriage, during the marriage ceremony, elderly women, friends and family of the bride are called in to

How To Discipline, Not Punish The Children

There is a big difference between discipline and punishment, as parents and guardians, we sometimes punish while trying to discipline kids. We also punish unconsciously because we do not know where to draw the line, and do not realize when discipline has taken the form of punishment.

Discipline is the means by which we correct faulty behavior in kids and them them correct and acceptable behavior. When we discipline children, we teach self-control and obedience, we try to shape the child's behavior away from what is not desired towards what is desired.

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DISCIPLINE AND PUNISHMENT

1. Discipline considers the level of maturity and capacity of the child, whereas punishment is what
   

Tips For Emotional Separation In Marriage

 Emotional Separation can come in even when partners are still living under one room. It is to be physically present but emotionally absent. Emotional Separation is Physical divorce waiting to happen! It is a situation where a couple are no longer friends but "frienemies "or competitors or permit me to say " room mates."

Emotional Separation is a situation in a family where a husband and his wife only try to get close and talk just because the children are around, once the kids, guests or other family members depart, the couple coil back into their individual lives waiting patiently

10 Most Common Relationship Problems

1. Money Issues: Too much or lack of it, one partner has and is not ready to share, one takes decisions that do not favor the other partner when it comes to spending money.
2. Excessive use of Social Media like Facebook, Twitter and other sites at the expense of your relationship. Ignoring your partner because you are too carried away by your 'Social networking activities.'

How You Can Build Confidence In Children (1)

 My Four year old tells me that to be confident is to be bold, believe in yourself and be sure of yourself. I laugh and give her a hug. I have not explained it this way to her, and I know that there is no way she could have said it this well without her teachers' effort. Kudos!

When you feel really good about yourself, you will find it much easier to get along with others. At any point in time, when you don't feel good, getting along with others becomes a difficult task to perform. A child who does not feel good about him/herself, finds it difficult to get along with other kids in the neighborhood, at school and even siblings and extended family members.

5 WAYS TO BUILD CONFIDENCE IN A CHILD

My Secret For True Beauty

 "The beauty of a woman isn't only in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes; because that's the doorway to her heart, The place where love resides. The beauty of a woman isn't in a facial mole; but true beauty in a woman is reflected by her soul. It's the caring that she cares to give,
the passion that she shows; and the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows."   

Maya Angelou et al.

Inferiority complex can make a woman hide her potentials and lose her happiness. We should not look for others to affirm our beauty because

Is Your Child Moody?

Children have become easily angered, stress makes kids to pick offence and get agitated at things that ordinarily should not make them unhappy.

How is it possible for a child to be happy and bubbly when the stress level on children has increased drastically.Life has become so fast paced in recent times, as a result, our children are beginning to get, to face and to experience too much too soon. They are faced with competitions at home, at school and