08 February 2016


 Organic shea butter freshly made.


100% Pure & Shea Butter is an all-natural vitamin A cream. Shea Butter has shown to be a superb moisturizer, with exceptional healing properties for the skin.
We now have a growing list of skin conditions where 100% Premium Shea Butter has been shown to be effective.
Shea Butter has many useful properties and has been traditionally used as a decongestant, an anti inflammatory for sprains and arthritis, a healing salve for babies’ umbilical cords, a lotion for hair and skin care, as cooking oil, and for lamp fuel.
However, the protective and emollient properties of shea butter are most valued for skin care.
In Nigeria, Shea Butter is applied to the skin and hair as a moisturizer and is also a main ingredient in traditional black soaps.
Vitamin A in Shea Butter is important for improving a number of

Blog Giveaway For Readers With The Most Comments In 2016 (Season 1)

Good morning dear fam! So, I woke up this morning with this thought in my head to do a small giveaway for at least 2 readers with the most comments on wives connection this year, and, I'm thinking to myself, how do we count comments now to pick the two readers? Is there a widget that can help us do this? Ok, sha, 2016 is just about 2 months old so, that shouldn't be too difficult. 

You guys please let's help out. Do the voting and if we all respond, then this type of Giveaway should continue till eternity. You know what? whoever reads a blog and begins to type a comment is actually helping the blog and other readers who gain from those comments. You can imagine if everyone reads and leaves without a comment, the blog will feel so empty. For instance, there is no time I check this blog without getting statics of so many people reading different posts. if all the many readers take a minute or two to leave a comment, do you know  

Over The Years We've Been Arguing More And More, My Husband Becoming Less Affectionate

Good Morning Eya, please kindly help put up my post on wives connection, I don't know how to do it myself.I have been married for 21 years, we have an 18 year old son. Over the years we've been arguing more and more and my husband has been getting less affectionate. We now haven't had sex in 4 years, mostly because he has erectile dysfunction and low libido because of health problems. The only affection between us are occasional hugs and quick pecks on the mouth. He doesn't even want to talk about me

07 February 2016

I Left Him

Ok so that's it my dear wives connection and Aunty Eya, I have posted here twice before over the past one year to get advice about the type of relationship I was in and have been given the best advice to be patient and prayerful and good looking and all that but ... the man has refused to change. I wanted us to see the pastor, he was invited, he refused to show up.... So much wahala in my young marriage of just 3 yrs, though I dated my husband for six years .. He had become very controlling of me, always questioned where I was at, how long I would be, and if I was longer than I said I'd be then he would be very red in anger when I got home (this would be after simple visits to my parents/a friends) He was insecure.

 He was also verbally abusive towards me, he would name call (this happened in front of my children a couple of times too) he always said I needed to get in the real world and that I was the stupid one for thinking the way he behaved wasn't normal, I constantly questioned myself thinking I was overreacting, looking at friend relationships wondering if they had the same going on behind closed doors. Every time I mentioned the word respect, he would be

Scared To Try For A Third Child, Please Help

Heĺlo Eya, I don't know how to start a new post but please help me start this message as a new post

Subject: I want a third child, scared to try again

Hello house, I will love a third baby but hubby says no more kids. I think it's because

05 February 2016

My Husband Puts Up A Front When Family, Friends Are Around, Then Returns To Real Self When We Are Alone, I Left Him And Now Cannot Trust Again

Hi Sister Eya, Please help me post on the wives connection blog anonymously. I need some advice in my life and relationship. I married when I was 22. My first husband was 11 years older, he was 33 when we got married, and he died after we were married 10 years leaving me with two little boys to raise. I met my 2nd husband a year later and we married after a 1 year courtship. He drank a lot when we met but I naively thought I could "help" him. He did eventually become sober during that 2 years. After we were married I realized too late I had married a difficult individual. He made it his mission to control me from the way I dressed and talked to what I should do even with my own money. He was a control freak. He had no problem spending money on his personal needs and interests but berated me for investing

Check Out These Yam Recipes On The Blog

 A serving of boiled yam with egg sauce.

 This yam and egg sauce is just to remind us, in case you haven 't cooked this in a while. No need for step by step cooking pics. I'll just link to our old yam recipes on the blog. Short procedure here; boil yam and fry eggs with onions and tomatoes na. That's all.

This yam and vegetable egg sauce recipe here

Why Did He Agree To Another Child If He Has Been So Miserable In The Marriage, I Never Even Got A Chance To Apologize Because He Never Told Me He Was Hurting

Hello, my good wives Town Hall connection family,Three weeks ago my husband told me he's been unhappy in our marriage for 9 years and that he didn't know what the actual problem is. Well, we've been married for 9 years. We have two beautiful girls, one is just 8 months and he dropped this bomb. He agreed to go see the church counseling unit or our Senior pastor. He went alone on a Saturday, and then asked that we go together the next week.  At our first appointment together, he brought a 7 page, back to back, typed sheet of "grievances." He handed a copy to our  counselling Unit Leader and kept one for himself. Then he proceeded to tell us everything he's had a problem with for our entire marriage. I had a chance to read it once we got home after the meeting, and honestly, I couldn't get up to go to church the next day , I was too physically weak as a result of the revelations.

 He's never mentioned any of these things to me. Some of them never happened, some of them were assumptions on his part, some of them were scenarios where we had made
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